Log In

Your email is not your username

Register

If you were a member of the old Bodybuilding.com forums and would like to reuse your previous username, you can request it below. We use your email only for registration and do not store it. For more information, please see our Privacy Policy.

Confirm your email

A registration code was sent to your email. Enter it here.

Welcome

You have successfully setup your account.

Sign in

Quick Navigation Bottom Misc
Forum
» Divorced after paying off wife's school loans
  1. Results 31 to 60 of 134
  2. First
  3. 1
  4. 2
  5. 3
  6. 4
  7. Last
post 1551440541 05-13-2018, 04:51 PM
-
#31
  1. Kiop
  2. ™gif me so i can gif you©
  1. Kiop
  2. ™gif me so i can gif you©
  3. Join Date: Nov 2015
  4. Posts: 55,724
  5. Rep Power: 222392
scares the **** out of me

post 1551441231 05-13-2018, 05:05 PM
-
#32
  1. BeardBrahhh
  2. Platinum Member
  1. BeardBrahhh
  2. Platinum Member
  3. Join Date: Nov 2006
  4. Location: United States
  5. Posts: 6,790
  6. Rep Power: 9607
what a time to be alive!
post 1551441501 05-13-2018, 05:10 PM
-
#33
  1. PowersKenny
  2. Registered User
  1. PowersKenny
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Apr 2016
  4. Age: 52
  5. Posts: 7,967
  6. Rep Power: 18951
Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
You believe that after 2 years she gets his house and pension

Are you really that dim?

Clicked on link. Skimmed it

“if you had a home before you married, for instance, you will walk away with that.

judges don’t instruct one party to pay the other alimony if they’ve been married for fewer than 10 years. There are exceptions to this rule — if there is a minor child involved, whether there’s been domestic abuse and/or whether the partner in question has a disability — but it’s unlikely that a judge will tell you to pay your wife alimony. So whatever result you do get, from a financial perspective you will be free and clear.”
This..misc fools think a woman will clean out the bank account are wrong , that doesn't happen unless you are a fool
post 1551441751 05-13-2018, 05:14 PM
-
#34
  1. SomeGuyHear
  2. Registered User
  1. SomeGuyHear
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Apr 2013
  4. Age: 30
  5. Posts: 1,961
  6. Rep Power: 2230
Mirin that hustle. But really, that's sad to hear. I was honestly shocked when I found out that one of my friend's sister and boyfriend aren't going to marry each other. They are together and have two kids too. My friend told me that they BOTH thought marriage was just a waste of money and didn't want to marry if they loved each other. They found it pointless. It was surprising to hear since marriage is so common in the US.

All these stories are making me a bit nervous. As a man, I don't really benefit financially unless my wife is loaded. I'll be down for more equality in divorces, but women would fight that endlessly, even when they want muh equality!
post 1551442131 05-13-2018, 05:22 PM
-
#35
  1. Hurricane99
  2. O.G. Bobby Johnson
  1. Hurricane99
  2. O.G. Bobby Johnson
  3. Join Date: Oct 2009
  4. Posts: 1,991
  5. Rep Power: 1361
Originally Posted By Kev1972
Fake and gay.

She can't touch his retirement from a 2 year marriage.
Bad news, buckaroo. In some states, like Louisiana for example, they get a proportionate cut of your retirement. Basically it's (years married)/(years worked) and she gets a percentage of it as long as he gets it. It's unbelievable but it's true.
Yes Man Crew
Positive Crew
No Fap May '14

NEW ORLEANS SAINTS -- LSU TIGERS -- NEW ORLEANS PELICANS
post 1551442231 05-13-2018, 05:24 PM
-
#36
  1. stevemckenna
  2. Registered User
  1. stevemckenna
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Dec 2011
  4. Posts: 23,289
  5. Rep Power: 137230
This is why you marry somebody who's at your level of attractiveness and education. Marry within your means you greedy selfish pricks.
post 1551442751 05-13-2018, 05:35 PM
-
#37
  1. IH8RICE
  2. Proud dad
  1. IH8RICE
  2. Proud dad
  3. Join Date: Apr 2013
  4. Posts: 22,922
  5. Rep Power: 306895
Originally Posted By Hurricane99
Bad news, buckaroo. In some states, like Louisiana for example, they get a proportionate cut of your retirement. Basically it's (years married)/(years worked) and she gets a percentage of it as long as he gets it. It's unbelievable but it's true.
I imagine it’s years married/years worked while married. No way she gets money from him while they weren’t married. Also, she’ll have to wait until he reaches retirement age before she gets anything. For all we know she could be dead by then.
post 1551442991 05-13-2018, 05:38 PM
-
#38
  1. QuitYourCrying
  2. Registered User
  1. QuitYourCrying
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Aug 2016
  4. Posts: 3,531
  5. Rep Power: 10765
Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
You believe that after 2 years she gets his house and pension

Are you really that dim?

Clicked on link. Skimmed it

“if you had a home before you married, for instance, you will walk away with that.

judges don’t instruct one party to pay the other alimony if they’ve been married for fewer than 10 years. There are exceptions to this rule — if there is a minor child involved, whether there’s been domestic abuse and/or whether the partner in question has a disability — but it’s unlikely that a judge will tell you to pay your wife alimony. So whatever result you do get, from a financial perspective you will be free and clear.”
In Canada, the matrimonial home belongs to both partners, regardless of who purchased it - or when they purchased it. Sure it’s the same in many states.
post 1551443231 05-13-2018, 05:43 PM
-
#39
  1. DoctorKazama
  2. Ph.D Broscience
  1. DoctorKazama
  2. Ph.D Broscience
  3. Join Date: Jul 2010
  4. Location: United States
  5. Posts: 17,312
  6. Rep Power: 41697
post 1551443711 05-13-2018, 05:50 PM
-
#40
  1. solidus2k3
  2. Registered User
  1. solidus2k3
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jun 2003
  4. Location: rofl land
  5. Age: 38
  6. Posts: 41,584
  7. Rep Power: 123781
stay safe CEO miscers ($$$)....
<HTC>
post 1551443941 05-13-2018, 05:54 PM
-
#41
  1. IH8RICE
  2. Proud dad
  1. IH8RICE
  2. Proud dad
  3. Join Date: Apr 2013
  4. Posts: 22,922
  5. Rep Power: 306895
Originally Posted By QuitYourCrying
In Canada, the matrimonial home belongs to both partners, regardless of who purchased it - or when they purchased it. Sure it’s the same in many states.
Can you name those states?
Edit- NO states in the USA do that. It’s mind boggling people even get married in Canada with a bullchit rule like that.
post 1551445051 05-13-2018, 06:12 PM
-
#42
  1. Burtle1
  2. Registered User
  1. Burtle1
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: May 2012
  4. Location: United States
  5. Posts: 6,776
  6. Rep Power: 128979
a local sloot did this to a guy in my town years ago


she dated him for 5 years. He put her through college/nursing school.

One week after she graduated nursing school and landed a job she was out

She didn't pay a dime for school. The cuck paid for all of it.

she was debt free making 50,000 a year starting out. She bought her self a nice house, new car, and two months after all that she had a new bf.
post 1551445111 05-13-2018, 06:13 PM
-
#43
  1. swolnado
  2. Registered User
  1. swolnado
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Aug 2015
  4. Age: 38
  5. Posts: 700
  6. Rep Power: 578
Originally Posted By IH8RICE
I imagine it’s years married/years worked while married. No way she gets money from him while they weren’t married. Also, she’ll have to wait until he reaches retirement age before she gets anything. For all we know she could be dead by then.
It's basically whatever was deposited into the a retirement account during the marriage half of that your spouse is entitled to on both sides.

In all honesty it's usually the partner that is the homemaker that comes out behind because the one that makes the most money can afford the better lawyer. Rarely ever is it the so called 50/50 assets divided split everybody talks about. Usually it's the spouses with lawyers mediating what assets go to who until they agree.

Source: This is what I've seen with the newly divorced clients that come into my office.
post 1551445141 05-13-2018, 06:13 PM
-
#44
  1. Lucianus
  2. Registered User
  1. Lucianus
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jul 2014
  4. Posts: 16,559
  5. Rep Power: 43586
this made me feel sick
post 1551445301 05-13-2018, 06:16 PM
-
#45
  1. Shysty021
  2. Registered User
  1. Shysty021
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Sep 2012
  4. Location: North Carolina, United States
  5. Posts: 26,058
  6. Rep Power: 209290
Originally Posted By Burtle1
a local sloot did this to a guy in my town years ago


she dated him for 5 years. He put her through college/nursing school.

One week after she graduated nursing school and landed a job she was out

She didn't pay a dime for school. The cuck paid for all of it.

she was debt free making 50,000 a year starting out. She bought her self a nice house, new car, and two months after all that she had a new bf.
Its worst than white collar crime imo

I'd prolly gone postal on that bitch
post 1551445361 05-13-2018, 06:17 PM
-
#46
  1. YUL
  2. Registered User
  1. YUL
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jul 2006
  4. Location: Philly
  5. Posts: 23,890
  6. Rep Power: 41759
Originally Posted By enzo818
Out marriage laws are fuked. I still dont understand the logic behind 'no fault' during divorces. How can a person cheat on their spouse and still have a right to their spouses assets. It makes no sense from moral point of view.
No fault is quicker, cheaper and less burden on court system
----------------------
☆ QUEBEC CREW ☆
je me souviens
post 1551445671 05-13-2018, 06:25 PM
-
#47
  1. IH8RICE
  2. Proud dad
  1. IH8RICE
  2. Proud dad
  3. Join Date: Apr 2013
  4. Posts: 22,922
  5. Rep Power: 306895
Originally Posted By Burtle1
a local sloot did this to a guy in my town years ago


she dated him for 5 years. He put her through college/nursing school.

One week after she graduated nursing school and landed a job she was out

She didn't pay a dime for school. The cuck paid for all of it.

she was debt free making 50,000 a year starting out. She bought her self a nice house, new car, and two months after all that she had a new bf.
His fault for paying for her school while they were just dating. What a moron.
post 1551445751 05-13-2018, 06:27 PM
-
#48
  1. Ashfrolicious
  2. Registered User
  1. Ashfrolicious
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: May 2011
  4. Location: The Vagina, Australia
  5. Posts: 8,895
  6. Rep Power: 15910



And cucks laugh at MGTOW
Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
You believe that after 2 years she gets his house and pension

Are you really that dim?

Clicked on link. Skimmed it

“if you had a home before you married, for instance, you will walk away with that.

judges don’t instruct one party to pay the other alimony if they’ve been married for fewer than 10 years. There are exceptions to this rule — if there is a minor child involved, whether there’s been domestic abuse and/or whether the partner in question has a disability — but it’s unlikely that a judge will tell you to pay your wife alimony. So whatever result you do get, from a financial perspective you will be free and clear.”
I'm pretty sure in Australia, with laws about "de facto" relationships where the chick is living with a guy for ~12 months... she's entitled to half his chit. And not just his, but his family's. Lmao

This isn't even marriage I'm referring to!
Positive Crew
Dentist Crew
Seen the Eiffel Tower but haven't been to France Crew

"Your thoughts become your beliefs. Your beliefs become your words. Your words become your actions. Your actions become your habits. Your habits become your values. Your values become your destiny."
post 1551445901 05-13-2018, 06:31 PM
-
#49
  1. MajorTendonitis
  1. MajorTendonitis
  2. Join Date: Jan 2016
  3. Location: East Kootenays BC
  4. Age: 65
  5. Height: 5'8"
  6. Weight: 241 lbs
  7. Posts: 42,041
  8. Subscribers: 8
  9. Rep Power: 718563
I don’t think this is anything new guys ,and I’m sure there’s more of it happening now.

The biggest red flag is when they want new tits . Two employees where I work had there wives ask for new tits, and both filed for divorce as soon as they got them .
Back with my Fam
post 1551446251 05-13-2018, 06:36 PM
-
#50
  1. TLTrooper
  2. Robopoc
  1. TLTrooper
  2. Robopoc
  3. Join Date: May 2011
  4. Posts: 12,787
  5. Rep Power: 10636
Dumb!!

Now I know, if or whenever I get married, my earned income from my job is the only thing that'll be known to my wife. My 401k or variant will be my second line of disclosed information IF she asks about it, but I will try to play it down or make it intentionally slightly above mediocre.

My self-managed investments through multiple brokerage accounts wont be known to her and I'll fight tooth and nail to hide it. Would rather see it all go red from a down market instead of handing over a single dollar in profit in divorce court.
post 1551446361 05-13-2018, 06:39 PM
-
#51
  1. IH8RICE
  2. Proud dad
  1. IH8RICE
  2. Proud dad
  3. Join Date: Apr 2013
  4. Posts: 22,922
  5. Rep Power: 306895
Originally Posted By Ashfrolicious



And cucks laugh at MGTOW



I'm pretty sure in Australia, with laws about "de facto" relationships where the chick is living with a guy for ~12 months... she's entitled to half his chit. And not just his, but his family's. Lmao

This isn't even marriage!
Wtf are you talking about? Phucking sources.
post 1551446411 05-13-2018, 06:41 PM
-
#52
  1. MajorTendonitis
  1. MajorTendonitis
  2. Join Date: Jan 2016
  3. Location: East Kootenays BC
  4. Age: 65
  5. Height: 5'8"
  6. Weight: 241 lbs
  7. Posts: 42,041
  8. Subscribers: 8
  9. Rep Power: 718563
Originally Posted By Burtle1
a local sloot did this to a guy in my town years ago


she dated him for 5 years. He put her through college/nursing school.

One week after she graduated nursing school and landed a job she was out

She didn't pay a dime for school. The cuck paid for all of it.

she was debt free making 50,000 a year starting out. She bought her self a nice house, new car, and two months after all that she had a new bf.
Brutal . I’d be kicking myself for the rest of my life after getting the shaft like that . Then the sloots get a restraining order as there afraid the ex is going to kill them
Back with my Fam
post 1551446511 05-13-2018, 06:42 PM
-
#53
  1. Beararms
  2. Registered User
  1. Beararms
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jul 2011
  4. Location: Arizona, United States
  5. Age: 38
  6. Posts: 15,877
  7. Rep Power: 82739
Originally Posted By CrookedDink
I imagine the sort of men who fall victim to this scam (money, green card etc) marry the first woman who shows them any kind of attention. I still feel bad for em for having to learn the hard way.
This, its always the successful guys that hardly ever get attention from women that always fall for stuff like this.
post 1551446851 05-13-2018, 06:50 PM
-
#54
  1. IH8RICE
  2. Proud dad
  1. IH8RICE
  2. Proud dad
  3. Join Date: Apr 2013
  4. Posts: 22,922
  5. Rep Power: 306895
Originally Posted By Beararms
This, its always the successful guys that hardly ever get attention from women that always fall for stuff like this.
They can only blame themselves. They work so hard for a great career, invest, save, etc and a chick way out of their league decides to show them attention? Years/months of dating doesn’t show a single red flag? Come on...
post 1551447511 05-13-2018, 07:04 PM
-
#55
  1. katya422
  1. katya422
  2. Join Date: Dec 2011
  3. Location: United States
  4. Posts: 34,673
  5. Rep Power: 372543
Originally Posted By nzgs
Any forced redistribution of wealth after divorce is immoral and unjustifiable. Doesn't matter how many years it is. Takes a certain type of mental midget to defend alimony in 2018.
Really?

No idea about the UK, but in the US alimony (what there is of it) has changed a lot. Much of the time there is no alimony paid (spouses with roughly equal salaries or short duration marriages) and when it is paid it is almost always for a limited period of time. It is supposed to give the lower earning spouse or homemaker time to increase their income. A lot of states it is set at something like 1 year of support for every 3 years of marriage so if you divorced after 15 years you would pay/receive alimony for 5 years. In some states you don't get any real consideration of alimony for a marriage under 10 years.
INTP Crew
Inattentive ADD Crew
Mom That Miscs Crew
post 1551447951 05-13-2018, 07:14 PM
-
#56
  1. BigBallsMcgee
  2. Registered User
  1. BigBallsMcgee
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jan 2018
  4. Age: 35
  5. Posts: 35,726
  6. Rep Power: 48512
yet mgtow/red pill are the idiots amirite?
post 1551448181 05-13-2018, 07:18 PM
-
#57
  1. Azrairc
  2. TwinkMAXXing
  1. Azrairc
  2. TwinkMAXXing
  3. Join Date: Apr 2011
  4. Posts: 18,933
  5. Rep Power: 64988
at least he didn't get her pregnant... i know this guy who got his long term girlfriend pregnant and she just brokeup with him 7 months into the pregnancy. Now he has to pay child support for 18 years and gets no pussy.
post 1551448471 05-13-2018, 07:22 PM
-
#58
  1. NuggzTheNinja
  2. Exotic Game Hunter
  1. NuggzTheNinja
  2. Exotic Game Hunter
  3. Join Date: Oct 2004
  4. Posts: 31,871
  5. Rep Power: 237953
I don't know how these chicks expect to get away with this stuff. Leave a man broke, homeless, and destitute...what could possibly go wrong? #ScottPetersen99problems
This account was created for the purpose of roleplaying and satire. All posts, messages, images, or other media produced by this Bodybuilding.com profile, including stories, names, references to characters and incidents, and views expressed, are fictitious and intended as parody. No identification or association with actual persons (living or deceased), places, buildings, or products is intended or should be inferred.
post 1551448661 05-13-2018, 07:24 PM
-
#59
  1. Ashfrolicious
  2. Registered User
  1. Ashfrolicious
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: May 2011
  4. Location: The Vagina, Australia
  5. Posts: 8,895
  6. Rep Power: 15910
Originally Posted By IH8RICE
Wtf are you talking about? Phucking sources.
https://www.australia.gov.au/informa...ships/de-facto

https://forums.whirlpool.net.au/archive/2043979

https://forums.whirlpool.net.au/archive/2458162

OK, I think my lawyer friend embellished the aspect of the woman being entitled to half your family's stuff. But the other things are largely true.
Positive Crew
Dentist Crew
Seen the Eiffel Tower but haven't been to France Crew

"Your thoughts become your beliefs. Your beliefs become your words. Your words become your actions. Your actions become your habits. Your habits become your values. Your values become your destiny."
post 1551448721 05-13-2018, 07:25 PM
-
#60
  1. OutdoorsBrah
  2. PhotoChopin' That Angus
  1. OutdoorsBrah
  2. PhotoChopin' That Angus
  3. Join Date: Mar 2014
  4. Posts: 10,527
  5. Rep Power: 182463
When I was young and dumb... i'd have been pissed at the woman.





Now that i'm older and bit more experienced... I'm mad at the guy.










Look, if your smart about things these types of women wont even bother with you because they know nothing will come of it. So this guy clearly is a f*cking idiot and the woman say that from a mile away. Sure, she let the darker side of human nature influence this move... but hey... if the guy is going to let the roost open, people will steal the chickens.
Outdoors brah is a purely fictitious persona. Any contextual or graphic creation, opinion, or post made by Outdoorsbrah is not a reflection of real life or reality in any manner, expressed nor implied.

*Photoshop / PhotoChop Crew*
*High Test Crew*
*Graphic Design Crew*
Quick Navigation Top Misc
Bookmarks
Digg.com
Digg
del.icio.us
del.icio.us
Stumbleupon.com
StumbleUpon
Google.com
Google
Facebook.com
Facebook
Posting Permissions
  1. You may not post new threads
  2. You may not post replies
  3. You may not post attachments
  4. You may not edit your posts