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post 1553312311 06-07-2018, 06:01 PM
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Originally Posted By InfiniteGaijin⏩
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Damn you're stupid.
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post 1553312461 06-07-2018, 06:03 PM
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Originally Posted By DirtyDon123⏩
Lmao it's all over for this boyo, no CCNA for him!

Hope the labs are going well homie
Same with you mane, I'm on holiday for a few days. Taking my bish to a hotel tomorrow night for some r&r and then back to the studying and everything else i need to do. Update the IT thread with where you're at with the studying when you get some time.

Anyway, off topic.

Where were we? oh that's right! Op was saying how he is a the manchurian candidate of fuc ups.

Back to you, op.
post 1553312891 06-07-2018, 06:10 PM
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l could tell you how to fix your life but youre not going to take action so why would I
post 1553313021 06-07-2018, 06:12 PM
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Originally Posted By GravityLee⏩
l could tell you how to fix your life but youre not going to take action so why would I
I know how to fix it. But I can't fix my brain unfortunately. That thing's short circuited a long time ago
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post 1553313041 06-07-2018, 06:12 PM
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Originally Posted By InfiniteGaijin⏩
Already have some goals. Save up 10k and get laid. Get gains too and maybe join the military if I can.
Strong goals (not srs)

Make some REAL goals. The military one might be a good option but the first 2 aren't real goals.
post 1553313071 06-07-2018, 06:13 PM
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Originally Posted By InfiniteGaijin⏩
I know how to fix it. But I can't fix my brain unfortunately. That thing's short circuited a long time ago
If you know how to fix it then doesn't that mean your brains fine???
post 1553313121 06-07-2018, 06:14 PM
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Originally Posted By US_Ranger⏩
Strong goals (not srs)

Make some REAL goals. The military one might be a good option but the first 2 aren't real goals.
The military would never want someone like me. That's just a silly daydream I think about sometimes
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post 1553313221 06-07-2018, 06:16 PM
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Originally Posted By InfiniteGaijin⏩
The military would never want someone like me. That's just a silly daydream I think about sometimes
You sound like a loser boyo
post 1553313261 06-07-2018, 06:16 PM
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Originally Posted By DirtyDon123⏩
If you know how to fix it then doesn't that mean your brains fine???
No, some parts of the brain can function fine like the logical part while others can be fried at same time. Didn't you do basic biology?
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post 1553313301 06-07-2018, 06:16 PM
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Originally Posted By InfiniteGaijin⏩
The military would never want someone like me. That's just a silly daydream I think about sometimes
Lol, okay dude. It's obvious what your problem is. Good luck.
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Originally Posted By InfiniteGaijin⏩
No, some parts of the brain can function fine like the logical part while others can be fried at same time. Didn't you do basic biology?
Never learnt about losers blaming their hypothalamus for their short comings
post 1553313901 06-07-2018, 06:25 PM
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Originally Posted By DirtyDon123⏩
Never learnt about losers blaming their hypothalamus for their short comings
I'm not blaming anything, I'm just simply stating the facts. One plus one will always equal two, it doesn't matter how you do it or how many different way you put it the facts never change. You can call me a loser if you want, it would effect me in the slightest because I can't even comprehend what it's like to be a winner. Winning isn't something I've ever done. So kindly leave my thread and stop bumping it with your stupid comments before I find you and destroy you.
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post 1553314061 06-07-2018, 06:26 PM
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Originally Posted By InfiniteGaijin⏩
I'm not blaming anything, I'm just simply stating the facts. One plus one will always equal two, it doesn't matter how you do it or how many different way you put it the facts never change. You can call me a loser if you want, it would effect me in the slightest because I can't even comprehend what it's like to be a winner. Winning isn't something I've ever done. So kindly leave my thread and stop bumping it with your stupid comments before I find you and destroy you.
Was hoping calling you a loser would make you mad n want to change your ways but I guess only those self motivated can change.
post 1553314411 06-07-2018, 06:32 PM
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Originally Posted By DirtyDon123⏩
Was hoping calling you a loser would make you mad n want to change your ways but I guess only those self motivated can change.
You don't think i ****ing know I'm a loser man? Believe me I know! Telling that to me isn't gonna change a god damn thing because I've already know this fact for years..it would be like telling bird it can fly it's pointless. I know damn well what I am and I'm reminded of that everyday by people around me okay? for ****sake do you think I've never heard that before being a Virgin at 25? It's not new to me brah not even close and you're coming at me like I don't know? Like it's gonna change anything, you've got to be kidding me.
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post 1553314511 06-07-2018, 06:34 PM
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Originally Posted By InfiniteGaijin⏩
You don't think i ****ing know I'm a loser man? Believe me I know! Telling that to me isn't gonna change a god damn thing because I've already know this fact for years..it would be like telling bird it can fly it's pointless. I know damn well what I am and I'm reminded of that everyday by people around me okay? for ****sake do you think I've never heard that before being a Virgin at 25? It's not new to me brah not even close and you're coming at me like I don't know? Like it's gonna change anything, you've got to be kidding me.
Okay brah, if you want any help or advice just let us know
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Ignoring women and dropping all friends is the best thing I've ever done. Money is all that matters. As long as you have money, all bad feels go poof.
post 1553315241 06-07-2018, 06:47 PM
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Originally Posted By InfiniteGaijin⏩
I can only do what I was programmed to do.
Pathetic and negged
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Originally Posted By InfiniteGaijin⏩
I'm not blaming anything, I'm just simply stating the facts. One plus one will always equal two, it doesn't matter how you do it or how many different way you put it the facts never change. You can call me a loser if you want, it would effect me in the slightest because I can't even comprehend what it's like to be a winner. Winning isn't something I've ever done. So kindly leave my thread and stop bumping it with your stupid comments before Ifind you and destroy you.
LMAOOOO you wont do chit.

You're way too lazy.

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Originally Posted By magnefico⏩
I preferred it when men suppressed their feelings, and only women went on rants
this. OP if you go on these negative mentality rants (uh I'm an incel, uh how am I ever gonna get laid, uh I wasted my life) your attitude is not right yet. nobody likes a victim. nobody likes a loser. get on dat dere positive mentality time

also stop worrying about pussy cause scoring a few times won't do chit for you unless it's a result of you improving in other areas.
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A lot of good advice ITT

If you don't do anything about it now you will hate to look at yourself in the mirror later and you will have no one to blame but yourself.

On your birthday you will look back at the past year and you will have nothing to show for it and you will cry in bed all day regretting every day you wasted your life.

Think of all the time you spend just thinking about going to the gym and getting fit. "Tomorrow I'll do it" again and again every day.

Why not just spend the time to workout and then you can enjoy your day without those negative thoughts?

“We must all suffer from one of two pains: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret. The difference is discipline weighs ounces while regret weighs tons.”

Make your friends, family, and most importantly, yourself proud.

This goes with anything not just the gym.
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your life is **** because you're pathetic OP

grow up (srs)
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At 25 I suggest you do the best out of the few years you have left considering life ends at 30, im 29 and have wasted away my life since i was like 15.....!
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I've wasted most of my 20s as well. College wasn't easy, i was depressed as fuk. girls rarely came around and when they did my social anxiety fuked things up. I'm getting a lot better know. still working a poverty retail job with a useless degree tho. at least i know that my situation sucks and need to get off my azz and make things happen. don't get stuck in your head OP, life is happening whether you join the party or not. there are people worse off than you. change your outlook boyo
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Originally Posted By InfiniteGaijin⏩
You don't think i ****ing know I'm a loser man? Believe me I know! Telling that to me isn't gonna change a god damn thing because I've already know this fact for years..it would be like telling bird it can fly it's pointless. I know damn well what I am and I'm reminded of that everyday by people around me okay? for ****sake do you think I've never heard that before being a Virgin at 25? It's not new to me brah not even close and you're coming at me like I don't know? Like it's gonna change anything, you've got to be kidding me.
This is the misc, not reddit.

We are not here to enable you and make you feel better for wasting your potential more and more as days go by.

You have the power to fix this, it’s just hard and you’ve convinced yourself it’s “too hard” because either you’re as helpless and hopeless as you claim OR you can choose to change your life but choose not to.

You want something different? Do something you’ve never done. Fake it until that confidence becomes real. People are attracted to confidence, friends, girlfriends, employers, all will come if you show some confidence and start taking risks to improve yourself.

You can either sit in your room and continue down this path and be here in 10 years or you can, right now, decide what you want to do different and make it happen?

Want to get jacked? Do what it takes. Take shortcuts.

Want a better job? See what it takes. I mean **** be a personal trainer if you want, you could be one of those douches hitting on their clients all the time.

Want friends? Talk to people. Practice talking to people. People you have no intention of ever seeing again. If it gets awkward who cares. If it doesn’t then awesome.

Make a goal, then make a plan on how you’re going to get there in the next 5 years.
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IG we've been here before. I doubt you're awake right now as it's 4:47 in the UK and I can't imagine types like you being up at 4am unless for work, but I hope you read this when you do wake up.

Posting the same thread once a week or month isn't going to change chit in your life. At most it's cathartic and all you're doing is repeating the same process and this boils down to a daily level no doubt. Why not make one thread, get your act together and bump that thread whenever you've made progress or need to vent a little. All new threads are going to do is end up making people who don't recognise your username see you as another no face FA whiner. At least with one thread everyone will become familiar with you or see that you're seriously trying to improve things instead of just coming here just to make a new thread to vent, have people give the same advice (2+ times if they don't remember you) then rinse repeat when you feel extra chit again.

Guys like us love to see progress. Not ad nauseum repetition which is why certain posters and certain threads are annoying as phuck.

Brb car salesman posting the same chit.
Brb T529 posting the same chit daily.
Brb Eod always talking about how he never relates to anyone and it's their fault for not being attractive enough
Brb skigains paying women to hang out with him
Brb all the other guys who are a broken record or used to be but smarted up (Houston, Nick, Burtle)
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Dude, you're 25. A lot of guys get this feeling at that age. If you're 35 with a crap job and no woman, then you can start to worry. Even then you'd still have plenty of time to make it.
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Originally Posted By InfiniteGaijin⏩
You don't think i ****ing know I'm a loser man? Believe me I know! Telling that to me isn't gonna change a god damn thing because I've already know this fact for years..it would be like telling bird it can fly it's pointless. I know damn well what I am and I'm reminded of that everyday by people around me okay? for ****sake do you think I've never heard that before being a Virgin at 25? It's not new to me brah not even close and you're coming at me like I don't know? Like it's gonna change anything, you've got to be kidding me.
You let others' perception of you mean far too much than it should. Just because other people are a certain way definitely doesn't mean you need to be that way.

You can always find things that will give your life more meaning. You just haven't found that yet. There is no need to be impatient, and your dwelling on it makes everything worse.
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Originally Posted By MoeBettuh⏩
OP, lots of good responses in here, I hope you realize you can get out of your funk if you take the right steps. It's not a life sentence. Don't get in your own way and don't let lack of results deter you from what you want. Start small and start stacking small wins. It will help you build your confidence and you will only go up from there. Probably the biggest thing, as mentioned earlier, is to get out and get involved in activities that will expose you to other people. Find activities that you can become legitimately interested in and get out there. We're all gonna make it.





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Bruh...25 is fine for LTR as long as it isn't some pub slore.
Bruh… 10 years difference is not fine at all if you're looking for someone to marry.

Only in your twisted, idiotic, warped mind it is, in the real world, it doesn't happen.
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