Age:25

You have plenty of time to turn it around if you have the will power but also acknowledge that sometimes life just doesn't go correctly.

Getting laid aint a goal my man, it's a side effect of being comfortable with who you are - which you achieve through learning, self actualisation, working towards what's important to you (once you discover what that might be at the present time).

In for the pity party.

So what's stopping you from changing OP? I've said this in many similar threads but the only thing holding you back is you (as I'm sure you already know). Problem is you don't want it bad enough. You like the "idea" of having a swell life, but aren't willing to put in every waking moment to achieve said goal.You are lazy AF and want things handed to you without having to put in maximum effort to achieve it.

Typical weak willed 1st world problem entitled millennial *******. You get no sympathy from me.

People that excel in life do the following:

When faced with a problem: do everythinghumanly possibleto fix that problem and don't stop until the problem is fixed. Rinse and repeat.

You do not fall into the above category from the sound of your whiny ass post.

Mirin brah my rant threads usually get less than 20 replies

You're from Cambridge aren't you? I recognise you...

I don't really have any advice, sorry to hear you feel that way.

P u r g e

them feels

Gosh you’re retarted

Manlet with wide frame just ****ing lmaooo.

Rather be 6’2 and lean than be a coping manlet

Strong detective. Aware me of who you are brah?

Here, here too true - would easily echo these thoughts and feels LDL mate for sure Cuzza

Where you study - on the Moon Braw!!?

OP if your goal in life is to never feel pain then I feel really really bad for you.

Life is suffering and pain. I don't mean that in any depressing manner. But really anything you do you will never completely be 100% satisfied thats the human condition.
I don't know what's the hardest thing you have been through emotionally or the most pain you've felt but try and recall that pain.
Do you remember how you felt in that moment? Now realize that it only gets worse. You will feel that again and even worse later in your life.

I hate how people use this so often in society because it loses it's effectiveness but truly remember death man. Just take one moment and sit there look at your hands your legs your body just really soak in the moment. And then wonder how it'll feel when you'll die. Maybe you'll get into a car accident and you'll die on impact due to head injury. Maybe you'll die a slow painful death.

Maybe nothing in your life will work out and you will end up a total failure. Nobody will like you and you won't get any women or any success and your entire life will be full of happiness.

Maybe all of that can happen. But you gotta realize that the only truth in life is death. You're 25? Do you see your parents getting old? Does it not make you sad seeing your parents grow old? Dude you have to remember mortality.

You're complaining about pain in a realm where you're born to die.

Life does not play fair man. But you gotta realize no matter what kind of pain you experience you have to go anyway dude. You stay youre ****ed you move youre ****ed. So fight dude. Don't just accept this **** like some weak little bitch dude.

You can't control your circumstances but you can control your behavior dude. Someday you are going to have to realize that no matter what you achieve what you do you're still going to lose. If you waste your time or if you live out everyday fulfilling your goals you're still going to lose everything important to you. Don't avoid the pain. Look at in the eyes and fight. It's here to kill you and it'll win no matter what. You can be a little bitch and complain and run and be a coward. Or you can fight it and make sure that when it eventually takes you you can say that you stood tall like a ****ing warrior man.

Ultimately your happiness and your life is entirely up to you. God did not come down to earth and tell anyone what he wants. Everything is a man made construct dude. **** the gurus. **** the political leaders. **** your parents. **** your friends.
You gotta define your own **** dude. Anyone can watch a bunch of ****ing retarded Youtube videos about cliche **** but dude you have a brain man. Use your ****ing brain dude. Why are you literally relying on others to tell you how to live and succeed???
Have you ever considered the possibility you are smarter than others? What if your personal way to think and live ends up better than any other method people advocate for?

- Always think for yourself
- Always ask why and where the information and your beliefs come from
- Don't be so foolish to think you can avoid suffering or pain. If you're alive you have a 100% chance that the target will hit and you'll get ****ed.
- Define what kind of man you want to be. You should take time to think about what virtues are important to you and what type of person you would like to be. It's more important than any sort of money or job title. Character is mad important man. It gives you a direction and control on some level
- Be completely independent. Don't burden others man. Do your own **** make your own money live your own dreams. It's unfair to put your bull**** on others. How you feel scared and uncertain so does everyone else so don't make it harder on others carry your own weight.
-Always show compassion to others. Unless someone ****s with you treat them with kindness man.
- Work your ****ing ass off and figure out how to get out of whatever rut you feel like you are in. Life passes by faster as you get older. If you look on the bright side. If you commit to the hustle for a few years those couple of years will pass by faster than you think and if you follow through you will find more success than most people.
- Be a ****ing man and take care of your loved ones. Its your job. I don't think you ever want to feel that feeling that you can't provide what your family needs cause you're weak or a coward or didn't care enough to work.

It's never too late man. You can easily do it and I bet if you really commit you can succeed more in the next 5 years than have in the previous 25. You gotta ask yourself what exactly are you so afraid of? When you really break it down the answer will always be pain/suffering/death. You can't run from that no matter what. Your body isn't even yours you even gotta give that back. So put things into perspective and do your ****. Pursue strength and the ability to endure pain and the courage to keep standing tall and going. If you need an idol think of Goku (srs). ( don't leave your kids and wife to go train though )

take revenge on the world

We don't know each other, but when I worked in Tesco you used to come in with your sister (who I recall being decent looking) and father.

You had an "in-congruent" look that was quite memorable, which is to say you looked like a typical indian nerd crossed with a stocky lifter type.

I knew an Oxtionian once who worked in Spoirts Direct if that helps you...

They gottan any Soccer/Rugby teams?

I know these feels only too well Braw ....... agreed!

Matt brawww why was u wanting pics of me from school days wearing a tie????

U was in WR wont ya?

This isn't your personal chat thread you, know..PM's exist for a reason.

There's a lot of sense in this video but on one hand it's quite sad that it has gotten to a state where one generation is becoming responsible for saving another one that has been corrupted through an instant gratification principle.

Age: 25

We’re all gunna make it brah, find out the reasons as to why you feel like this and sort that **** out, things will work out over time if you focus on it but probably not straight away. Fuk it OP and do what the fuk YOU wanna do brah, be selfish and work on yourself before anyone else

Be a sick kunt brah, not a sad kunt.