Thread: Can Misc Help Me Get Laid?
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Originally Posted By TypeNirvash⏩
I'd have to politely disagree with that. If that were true, there wouldn't be as many overweight people, addicts or self-defeatists. If you don't have the personality or drive to do something, you're just going to give up. It's like leading a horse to water but not being able to make it drink. Once you give someone all the help you can all you can do is step back and wait.Just a head's up, nobody is a lost cause. Some people just need to be shown things differently for them to click.
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Originally Posted By Aestheticos⏩
Drive is created through value, not vice versa. This is why nobody is beyond help, it's about teaching somebody to shift to healthier values.I'd have to politely disagree with that. If that were true, there wouldn't be as many overweight people, addicts or self-defeatists. If you don't have the personality or drive to do something, you're just going to give up. It's like leading a horse to water but not being able to make it drink. Once you give someone all the help you can all you can do is step back and wait.
If you've believed something your whole life and that gets challenged, naturally you are going to recoil and defend. Most people assume this is because that person is "beyond help." The truth is that you're asking that person (in this case, OP), to go against his 30 years (?) worth of believing whatever negativity he currently believes.
So yeah, it's gonna take him a little longer than usual. He may have to hit rock bottom. He may not.
Let's hope we can help him before hehasto hit rock bottom to change.
07-10-2018, 07:57 PM
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Originally Posted By TypeNirvash⏩
The flaw with that argument is that hehadhis beliefs challenged before 30, multiple times. Each time nothing much came of it (he has lost weight, which is good, but only short-term progress on his end and I expect it to come to an end soon considering he still has his toxic mindset). Every thing technical (like exercise and eating habits) that you could teach him has already been taught to him. Any other knowledge and joys of personal achievement he could gain has to be by his own merit. Before every action is a drive and without a drive an action is not completed. I hope OP changes, I really think he could be an inspiration to other members on the board, but I'm pessimistic.Drive is created through value, not vice versa. This is why nobody is beyond help, it's about teaching somebody to shift to healthier values.
If you've believed something your whole life and that gets challenged, naturally you are going to recoil and defend. Most people assume this is because that person is "beyond help." The truth is that you're asking that person (in this case, OP), to go against his 30 years (?) worth of believing whatever negativity he currently believes.
So yeah, it's gonna take him a little longer than usual. He may have to hit rock bottom. He may not.
Let's hope we can help him before hehasto hit rock bottom to change.
If you've believed something your whole life and that gets challenged, naturally you are going to recoil and defend. Most people assume this is because that person is "beyond help." The truth is that you're asking that person (in this case, OP), to go against his 30 years (?) worth of believing whatever negativity he currently believes.
So yeah, it's gonna take him a little longer than usual. He may have to hit rock bottom. He may not.
Let's hope we can help him before hehasto hit rock bottom to change.
07-10-2018, 08:10 PM
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“That type of shape I think it breeds a kind of confidence which is like beyond normal… Self-Confidence. You feel like an animal you know…Your mind can only match where your body is.” -Jake Gyllenhaal in training for Southpaw
07-10-2018, 08:12 PM
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Imagine someone found the stash to Area 51 or Roswell. And there is this one singular alien life form species. Or say someone found skulls to an unicorn. Or a stamp nerd got Inverted Jenny or a numismatics dude who hit upon a million dollar penny.
Well.... think of yourself like that in your bar on Friday. You are not a weirdo.... just unique.
Well.... think of yourself like that in your bar on Friday. You are not a weirdo.... just unique.
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07-10-2018, 08:19 PM
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Originally Posted By Aestheticos⏩
You can teach somebody something 30 times, but if you're not showing it to them in a way that makes sense, it won't ever click. We've found multiple ways that don't work, that's progress to me. Now it's about finding a way to make it work.The flaw with that argument is that hehadhis beliefs challenged before 30, multiple times. Each time nothing much came of it (he has lost weight, which is good, but only short-term progress on his end and I expect it to come to an end soon considering he still has his toxic mindset). Every thing technical (like exercise and eating habits) that you could teach him has already been taught to him. Any other knowledge and joys of personal achievement he could gain has to be by his own merit. Before every action is a drive and without a drive an action is not completed. I hope OP changes, I really think he could be an inspiration to other members on the board, but I'm pessimistic.
07-10-2018, 08:24 PM
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Originally Posted By TypeNirvash⏩
you have a great attitude maneYou can teach somebody something 30 times, but if you're not showing it to them in a way that makes sense, it won't ever click. We've found multiple ways that don't work, that's progress to me. Now it's about finding a way to make it work.
07-10-2018, 08:33 PM
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Originally Posted By TypeNirvash⏩
OP knows what to do. There is no way left. It's just diet, exercise, and dedication. It's all up to him at this point. Will it be easy? Phuck no. Is it possible? Absolutely. That should be what OP is thinking about.You can teach somebody something 30 times, but if you're not showing it to them in a way that makes sense, it won't ever click. We've found multiple ways that don't work, that's progress to me. Now it's about finding a way to make it work.
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Lose weight. I am a 23-year-old virgin and I went from 167-173 lbs. to 160-164 lbs.
The 5-10lbs weight loss was well worth it, even if it meant some muscle/strength loss.
The 5-10lbs weight loss was well worth it, even if it meant some muscle/strength loss.
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
You said the only reason to live and our only purpose is to reproduce and pass on our genes and if we don't do that we are a biological failure. Nature only cares if we reproduce aka get pussy.OP, you need to focus on finding a reason to live life again. And you can't make it females. They are unreliable. You can't invest your sense of worth in them because they will leave you when you need them most. In 2018, it is stupid to invest your happiness in a person. Actually, it was always stupid. But it's even more stupid now. You have to find your reason for existence and focus on that. Find something that makes life worth living.
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07-10-2018, 09:39 PM
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Originally Posted By DirtyDon123⏩
lmao how many pounds is Tobias?Tobias you know what to do
Offer up your ass
Let him lose his virginity to you
Pretend to be a woman
This will give him great confidence
Offer up your ass
Let him lose his virginity to you
Pretend to be a woman
This will give him great confidence
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07-10-2018, 09:44 PM
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Originally Posted By Aestheticos⏩
The purpose of this thread is I wanted to get yucky with some miscers and I figured if I hung out with some miscers in real life they would help me get laid like they were going to help wincel out lol.I think your problem is that you don't really want to change. You want the benefits of eating healthier, practicing social skills, and getting a good job but don't want to put in the effort, aka the whole changing process. You have excuse after excuse of why you can't do something. If you actually wanted to change, you wouldn't post half-assed threads where you already know what the responses will be. This whole thread is probably just for you to whine for attention or get some magic answer. You want the easy way out but guess what? It doesn't exist. You'll have to take the long way and possibly wait years for results after you decide to change. But I'm guessing you won't, because that'd be too hard for your wittle heart. Shame on you for wasting these people's time on a probably lost cause.
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07-10-2018, 09:49 PM
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Originally Posted By Aestheticos⏩
If I do all that and I still can't get any pussy imagine how that would make me feel. Lose a bunch of weight, exercise, diet, etc and in the end no woman still wants me.OP knows what to do. There is no way left. It's just diet, exercise, and dedication. It's all up to him at this point. Will it be easy? Phuck no. Is it possible? Absolutely. That should be what OP is thinking about.
Am I going to be happier if I lose weight, exercise, and diet? I honestly don't think I will feel better about myself if I do those things. That's why I don't know if I will ever stick through to it to the end. I honestly hate myself.
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Originally Posted By JtotheIzzo⏩
Well whatever you're doing now obviously isn't working and better habits increase your chances greatly. There's really no downside to it, plus you'll feel better physically and probably get an ego boost from gains. You'll never know unless you try and 99% of people feel better about themselves after they get in shape. All up to you at this point.If I do all that and I still can't get any pussy imagine how that would make me feel. Lose a bunch of weight, exercise, diet, etc and in the end no woman still wants me.
Am I going to be happier if I lose weight, exercise, and diet? I honestly don't think I will feel better about myself if I do those things. That's why I don't know if I will ever stick through to it to the end. I honestly hate myself.
Am I going to be happier if I lose weight, exercise, and diet? I honestly don't think I will feel better about myself if I do those things. That's why I don't know if I will ever stick through to it to the end. I honestly hate myself.
07-10-2018, 10:43 PM
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Originally Posted By Aestheticos⏩
Yeah I was thinking that point of view as well. I might as well see what happens since I have nothing to lose. Thanks for the advice you have given man.Well whatever you're doing now obviously isn't working and better habits increase your chances greatly. There's really no downside to it, plus you'll feel better physically and probably get an ego boost from gains. You'll never know unless you try and 99% of people feel better about themselves after they get in shape. All up to you at this point.
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07-10-2018, 11:08 PM
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Originally Posted By JtotheIzzo⏩
This is the purpose of life in general. However, each individual can find other reasons to live. It really boils down to choosing experience over inexperience. Some of our lives may be deemed failures by nature, and may be genetically meaningless. But there is still meaning in your own life because it is the only one you have. It has extraordinary value to you in that sense. Think about the best food you ever ate, game you ever played, music you ever heard, etc. These are all experiences you got to live through. If you were dead, none of those things would happen. Sure, for some,at some point, life is no longer worth living. But at under 40, I would say it is still probably too young to throw it all away. Maybe at 60 or 70. I think about it everyday brah, but deep down, I still want to see tomorrow. Because things change. Some things get better even if a lot of things get worse.You said the only reason to live and our only purpose is to reproduce and pass on our genes and if we don't do that we are a biological failure. Nature only cares if we reproduce aka get pussy.
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Originally Posted By JtotheIzzo⏩
Everyone should lose weight, exercise and follow a good diet even if they're bloody asexual or lost their private parts in an accident. The fact that people base their health on sexual options is why so many people are obese - There are people still willing to sleep with them. I've never based my health on sexual options, I've been single for 6 years while athletically built and I've had sex with 10 women in the space of 2 years while being athletically built. I just think it's important that regardless of what place I'm at in life if I can run quick and long, jump and climb high, than at least I have something going for me in my life.If I do all that and I still can't get any pussy imagine how that would make me feel. Lose a bunch of weight, exercise, diet, etc and in the end no woman still wants me.
Am I going to be happier if I lose weight, exercise, and diet? I honestly don't think I will feel better about myself if I do those things. That's why I don't know if I will ever stick through to it to the end. I honestly hate myself.
Am I going to be happier if I lose weight, exercise, and diet? I honestly don't think I will feel better about myself if I do those things. That's why I don't know if I will ever stick through to it to the end. I honestly hate myself.
What do you have?
Hell I even look at my 30 year old peers who have more sex than me but are slovenly, have no aspirations and need 9 hours sleep a day and 2 cups of coffee or they can't function, and I think they're kinda sad. You're 30, not 50 you should still be able to run 5km at a moments notice and go up a 2,000m mountain without collapsing.
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
Thanks for that perceptive wincel. I just saw Kormo's video of him singing lmao that was inspirational to me, one day I might post one on the misc as well. What do you think?This is the purpose of life in general. However, each individual can find other reasons to live. It really boils down to choosing experience over inexperience. Some of our lives may be deemed failures by nature, and may be genetically meaningless. But there is still meaning in your own life because it is the only one you have. It has extraordinary value to you in that sense. Think about the best food you ever ate, game you ever played, music you ever heard, etc. These are all experiences you got to live through. If you were dead, none of those things would happen. Sure, for some,at some point, life is no longer worth living. But at under 40, I would say it is still probably too young to throw it all away. Maybe at 60 or 70. I think about it everyday brah, but deep down, I still want to see tomorrow. Because things change. Some things get better even if a lot of things get worse.
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Originally Posted By WhirlwindTobias⏩
Have you been in any relationships since you and Justyna broke up? Yeah, that's cool you have that perspective on fitness and being consistent with it regardless if you have a sex life or not.Everyone should lose weight, exercise and follow a good diet even if they're bloody asexual or lost their private parts in an accident. The fact that people base their health on sexual options is why so many people are obese - There are people still willing to sleep with them. I've never based my health on sexual options, I've been single for 6 years while athletically built and I've had sex with 10 women in the space of 2 years while being athletically built. I just think it's important that regardless of what place I'm at in life if I can run quick and long, jump and climb high, than at least I have something going for me in my life.
What do you have?
Hell I even look at my 30 year old peers who have more sex than me but are slovenly, have no aspirations and need 9 hours sleep a day and 2 cups of coffee or they can't function, and I think they're kinda sad. You're 30, not 50 you should still be able to run 5km at a moments notice and go up a 2,000m mountain without collapsing.
What do you have?
Hell I even look at my 30 year old peers who have more sex than me but are slovenly, have no aspirations and need 9 hours sleep a day and 2 cups of coffee or they can't function, and I think they're kinda sad. You're 30, not 50 you should still be able to run 5km at a moments notice and go up a 2,000m mountain without collapsing.
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Originally Posted By JtotheIzzo⏩
If it makes you happy man. Look at Kormo. He says he's asexual. But he finds joy in his creations and his frogs lol. Gotta find something that brings you joy.Thanks for that perceptive wincel. I just saw Kormo's video of him singing lmao that was inspirational to me, one day I might post one on the misc as well. What do you think?
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Originally Posted By JtotheIzzo⏩
No problem at all, glad I might've gotten through to you. 32 is still a pretty young age to give up and you still have a lot of your life ahead of you. Yeah, you're a little late, but who gives a chit. Just focus on the potentially bright future. Good luck!Yeah I was thinking that point of view as well. I might as well see what happens since I have nothing to lose. Thanks for the advice you have given man.
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
What brings you happiness and joy?If it makes you happy man. Look at Kormo. He says he's asexual. But he finds joy in his creations and his frogs lol. Gotta find something that brings you joy.
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Originally Posted By WhirlwindTobias⏩
This loser has been whinging on the misc for 10 years and has nothing to improve his life. He is a lost cause.Everyone should lose weight, exercise and follow a good diet even if they're bloody asexual or lost their private parts in an accident. The fact that people base their health on sexual options is why so many people are obese - There are people still willing to sleep with them. I've never based my health on sexual options, I've been single for 6 years while athletically built and I've had sex with 10 women in the space of 2 years while being athletically built. I just think it's important that regardless of what place I'm at in life if I can run quick and long, jump and climb high, than at least I have something going for me in my life.
What do you have?
Hell I even look at my 30 year old peers who have more sex than me but are slovenly, have no aspirations and need 9 hours sleep a day and 2 cups of coffee or they can't function, and I think they're kinda sad. You're 30, not 50 you should still be able to run 5km at a moments notice and go up a 2,000m mountain without collapsing.
What do you have?
Hell I even look at my 30 year old peers who have more sex than me but are slovenly, have no aspirations and need 9 hours sleep a day and 2 cups of coffee or they can't function, and I think they're kinda sad. You're 30, not 50 you should still be able to run 5km at a moments notice and go up a 2,000m mountain without collapsing.
Why are you washing your time trying to help this guy after all this time?
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misc, gaming sometimes, lifting, eating good food, laughing at inappropriate or racist jokes, gmiscer threads, learning math or science, new movies, orgasms, music, watching for the next ridiculous thing like Trump becoming presidentWhat brings you happiness and joy?
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Originally Posted By TheCreature55⏩
I'm not a lost cause.This loser has been whinging on the misc for 10 years and has nothing to improve his life. He is a lost cause.
Why are you washing your time trying to help this guy after all this time?
Why are you washing your time trying to help this guy after all this time?
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
This 1000%.This is the purpose of life in general. However, each individual can find other reasons to live. It really boils down to choosing experience over inexperience. Some of our lives may be deemed failures by nature, and may be genetically meaningless. But there is still meaning in your own life because it is the only one you have. It has extraordinary value to you in that sense. Think about the best food you ever ate, game you ever played, music you ever heard, etc. These are all experiences you got to live through. If you were dead, none of those things would happen. Sure, for some,at some point, life is no longer worth living. But at under 40, I would say it is still probably too young to throw it all away. Maybe at 60 or 70. I think about it everyday brah, but deep down, I still want to see tomorrow. Because things change. Some things get better even if a lot of things get worse.
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