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07-24-2018, 05:20 PM
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#271
Originally Posted By MiamiLife305⏩
I didn't realize how much height mattered to women when I was younger. There were multiple reasons I lacked success, but I do think that was one of the contributors (especially mixed with the fact I frequented bars/clubs).5'6
I don't even know where to pick up girls anymore
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I don't even know where to pick up girls anymore
Back on that virgin status
A pretty successful friend of mine once suggested that I get those 3/4 inch shoes to wear when we went out to bars, that aren't noticeable from the outside (he brought it up out of nowhere, but now I recognize why). I obviously never did, but now I'm genuinely curious what would have happened had I tried his suggestion.
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07-24-2018, 05:42 PM
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
Women are incapable of understanding this fact. That's why they invented that "fukboi" term to re-frame the problem as being one of men who won't commit. That's not it at all.You guys are going for guys above your league (Chads/Tyrones). Stay in your league.
Just to clarify for any female miscer who might be reading, men have different classifications for women. Note that there are plenty of women that can catch a dik from Chad who Chad otherwise wouldn't give the time of day to. This is why.
- Women we won't give sexors
- Women we will give sexors
- Women we will date
- Women we will marry
If Chad will text you for a booty call, but isn't interested in seeing you otherwise, you have ZERO chance of flipping that into a relationship. It's not ever going to happen.
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07-24-2018, 05:43 PM
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#273
Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
women arenโt into bodies as much as youโd think, itโs just icing on the cake more than anythingEven if OP is "unattractive" facially his avi is to die for. A lot of women would run through fire to get with a guy that has his body.
07-24-2018, 05:46 PM
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#274
I have short friends who slay, you guys are coping so much. My friend is 5โ6/5โ7 and bangs hotties all the time, stop looking for excuses srs. Itโs how you present yourself more than anything, and if you actually mention your height in your bio youโre an idiot (unless you are of good height). The average man is 5โ9 so unless you are like 5โ2 you have little to complain about
07-24-2018, 05:47 PM
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#275
Originally Posted By MiscInformed⏩
LOL, the amount of real life stories I have about stuff like this about players. Every one of these women thinks she's the special one that can turn Chad.If Chad will text you for a booty call, but isn't interested in seeing you otherwise, you have ZERO chance of flipping that into a relationship. It's not ever going to happen.
To be fair a lot of them manipulated/tricked the women into thinking they were special. Still no excuse, because the women in the cases knew that Chad had pumped and dumped all women before them. There's a weird thing though that I think women like the challenge and are attracted more to him because he's slept with and dumped so many previous women.
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07-24-2018, 05:48 PM
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#276
Originally Posted By Giggul⏩
Let's see your pics brother, AVI is missing.I have short friends who slay, you guys are coping so much. My friend is 5โ6/5โ7 and bangs hotties all the time, stop looking for excuses srs. Itโs how you present yourself more than anything, and if you actually mention your height in your bio youโre an idiot
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07-24-2018, 05:58 PM
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07-24-2018, 05:59 PM
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Originally Posted By Giggul⏩
Yeah so do i and all of them have attractive faces. They are all dating 6.5-8/10 women lol and under 5'7I have short friends who slay, you guys are coping so much. My friend is 5โ6/5โ7 and bangs hotties all the time, stop looking for excuses srs. Itโs how you present yourself more than anything, and if you actually mention your height in your bio youโre an idiot (unless you are of good height). The average man is 5โ9 so unless you are like 5โ2 you have little to complain about
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07-24-2018, 06:03 PM
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#279
Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
I guess my face just isn't attractive enough. Last 2 girls I dated were 7/8 but it's not like I can do that consistently with lots of options.Yeah so do i and all of them have attractive faces. They are all dating 6.5-8/10 women lol and under 5'7
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07-24-2018, 06:20 PM
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#280
Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Iโm not going to post myself, I get a lot of attention when I hit the club so probably a 7-8/10. Your physique is a lot better than mine but everyone can tell I lift whether in clothes or shirtless. Iโm 5โ11Let's see your pics brother, AVI is missing.
07-24-2018, 06:21 PM
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#281
Originally Posted By Giggul⏩
Does your 5'6 friend get a lot of attention in clubs? Is he very extroverted?Iโm not going to post myself, I get a lot of attention when I hit the club so probably a 7-8/10. Your physique is a lot better than mine but everyone can tell I lift whether in clothes or shirtless. Iโm 5โ11
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07-24-2018, 06:23 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
In my whatsapp group, I admit the guy who gets the most girls is tall and good looking (think Calvin Harris) but he works in an environment and lifestyle where heโs sureounded by girls and can take advantage of them (DJ/bar etc). After that itโs some balding dude who is like a 5/10, the short guy I mentioned and myself.Can confirm, I think I already posted this ITT but the biggest slayer I know is 5'3 or so. He runs through a constant stream of hot college girls.
The DJ chad guy literally bangs 10/10s damn near weekly but everyone does quite well and the thought of height has never even come up in a conversation, itโs just utter stupidity from online dweebs and it pisses me off because people buy into it
07-24-2018, 06:27 PM
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#283
Originally Posted By Giggul⏩
So what's your theory, that just chicks that use online dating are obsessed with height requirements? Because even IRL, lots of women talk about height. I reckon your friend is 8/9+ on looks and personality to make up for it.The DJ chad guy literally bangs 10/10s damn near weekly but everyone does quite well and the thought of height has never even come up in a conversation, itโs just utter stupidity from online dweebs and it pisses me off because people buy into it
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07-24-2018, 06:32 PM
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#284
Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
When I say attention, Iโm talking about girls who basically approach you (or you approach them successfully), and girls you can make out with them and get their number. Me and the DJ guy get by far the most attention, Iโm not saying that to brag Iโm saying that because itโs true But thatโs not the point Iโm makingDoes your 5'6 friend get a lot of attention in clubs? Is he very extroverted?
The shorter dude doesnโt receive the same amount of attention as we no, but he doesnโt repel women either when he goes to talk to them. He looks a bit hippyish (long hair, tattoos) but he has good game and can talk the talk, honestly it all comes down to confidence. In fact, I have another short friend who married a chick taller than him who is like a 9/10, he used to get around aswell and I have a lot of funny stories with him
Both these dudes are defo extroverted yes, the hippy guy has travelled to many countries around the world thus far and has a zesty energy to him (which entices women), heโs not flamboyant or fruity, but heโs just good with his words and has some charisma. None of these guys are good looking btw trust me, very average. Our whatsapp group is just full of girls we have fukd. He lives in Australia at the moment anyway and heโs always slaying there, but even back home he still did well
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07-24-2018, 06:33 PM
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#285
Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Im not posting pics here but Iโd PM you the dudes Iโm talking about and I personally donโt think theyโre that good looking (not ugly), just averagdYeah so do i and all of them have attractive faces. They are all dating 6.5-8/10 women lol and under 5'7
07-24-2018, 06:36 PM
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Yeah, a really handsome face can make up for a lack of height.
It's about the overall attraction.
It's about the overall attraction.
07-24-2018, 06:38 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
100% yes, a lot of girls standards Online will not reflect their standards in real life, and Iโm sure someone will back me up on this.So what's your theory, that just chicks that use online dating are obsessed with height requirements? Because even IRL, lots of women talk about height. I reckon your friend is 8/9+ on looks and personality to make up for it.
No heโs not lol, I will PM you a pic if you want and prove it to you?
Probably because youโre so jacked you probably end up looking more wide than tall. But seriously, ANY person will tell you that a man that is good with women can turn a negative in positive, whatever the case may be. Height may filter out a few, but itโs not a Fukin dealbreaker for the majority of women thatโs for sure
07-24-2018, 06:47 PM
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Originally Posted By Giggul⏩
It makes sense that he's extroverted and charismatic, I'm not. I'm reasonably social and friendly but lean introverted, and by no means have good game, or ever have. I tend to get along really well with guys, and make friends easily, but not as much with girls for some reason (in general). Obviously got along well with some women (my exes etc.), but they tend not to be super typical.Probably because youโre so jacked you probably end up looking more wide than tall. But seriously, ANY person will tell you that a man that is good with women can turn a negative in positive, whatever the case may be. Height may filter out a few, but itโs not a Fukin dealbreaker for the majority of women thatโs for sure
I believe that's because my personality is a bit more analytical/logical and not emotional/charismatic which lends itself to making the girl FEEL good and comfortable etc. but as I've gotten older my personality has changed a bit in favor of the latter, and I gained more confidence.
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07-24-2018, 06:56 PM
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Sent you a PM OP...
I personally don't know any girls that are stuck on height. With the exception of 1 girl that's 5'10, other than that most don't care.
I personally don't know any girls that are stuck on height. With the exception of 1 girl that's 5'10, other than that most don't care.
07-24-2018, 07:09 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Brah.. stop describing meIt makes sense that he's extroverted and charismatic, I'm not. I'm reasonably social and friendly but lean introverted, and by no means have good game, or ever have. I tend to get along really well with guys, and make friends easily, but not as much with girls for some reason (in general). Obviously got along well with some women (my exes etc.), but they tend not to be super typical.
I believe that's because my personality is a bit more analytical/logical and not emotional/charismatic which lends itself to making the girl FEEL good and comfortable etc. but as I've gotten older my personality has changed a bit in favor of the latter, and I gained more confidence.
I believe that's because my personality is a bit more analytical/logical and not emotional/charismatic which lends itself to making the girl FEEL good and comfortable etc. but as I've gotten older my personality has changed a bit in favor of the latter, and I gained more confidence.
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07-24-2018, 07:09 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Respect the honesty, if anything that should make you consider perhaps your height isnโt the biggest problem here?It makes sense that he's extroverted and charismatic, I'm not. I'm reasonably social and friendly but lean introverted, and by no means have good game, or ever have. I tend to get along really well with guys, and make friends easily, but not as much with girls for some reason (in general). Obviously got along well with some women (my exes etc.), but they tend not to be super typical.
I believe that's because my personality is a bit more analytical/logical and not emotional/charismatic which lends itself to making the girl FEEL good and comfortable etc. but as I've gotten older my personality has changed a bit in favor of the latter, and I gained more confidence.
I believe that's because my personality is a bit more analytical/logical and not emotional/charismatic which lends itself to making the girl FEEL good and comfortable etc. but as I've gotten older my personality has changed a bit in favor of the latter, and I gained more confidence.
Iโm introverted to a large degree but when I go out I like to go wild Iโm not gonna lie. Most people would assume Iโm extrovert by my behaviour but I need my recharge time after a while. Apparently Iโm 51% extrovert 49% introvert.
I know guys like you yeah. You can still be that same person whilst exhibiting traits like confidence aswell as others that work in your favour. Sounds like you just have to get out of your comfort zone a little and work on your relationships with women a little. Once conversing with them comes comfortable and natural to you youโll do so much better (in general) with the majority of them. You should relish the opportunity to converse with women instead of being somewhat apprehensive and reclusive. They have a type of energy that I adore.
In terms of tinder, just make sure you use the best pics and that they are actually decent, and donโt mention YOUR height but you could hint at the height range youre looking for a women on your bio. I donโt even have a bio on my tinder, however girls always (jokingly) give me chit for my Spotify playlists, that seems to be a frequent convo starter. I have chit like beiber on there
07-24-2018, 07:16 PM
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Originally Posted By Giggul⏩
Ye, not a bad idea to remove my height and then target women <5'4. A lot of the apps won't allow it - Hinge for example forces height listing.In terms of tinder, just make sure you use the best pics and that they are actually decent, and donโt mention YOUR height but you could hint at the height range youre looking for a women on your bio. I donโt even have a bio on my tinder, however girls always (jokingly) give me chit for my Spotify playlists, that seems to be a frequent convo starter. I have chit like beiber on there
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07-24-2018, 07:26 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Earlier today I liked a guy that was 5'4 that had a picture of him in a kayak. No match....Ye, not a bad idea to remove my height and then target women <5'4. A lot of the apps won't allow it - Hinge for example forces height listing.
07-24-2018, 07:31 PM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
How dare a 5'4 guy have any standards or preferencesEarlier today I liked a guy that was 5'4 that had a picture of him in a kayak. No match....
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07-24-2018, 07:34 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I'm just saying that not every female cares about height. You've seen the guys in the screenshots, they aren't Chads.How dare a 5'4 guy have any standards or preferences
07-24-2018, 08:21 PM
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07-24-2018, 08:44 PM
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07-24-2018, 08:54 PM
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Originally Posted By Rebel012⏩
i know exactly how it worksHonestly don't think you understand the 80/20 rule bro.
Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Women gone women.LOL, the amount of real life stories I have about stuff like this about players. Every one of these women thinks she's the special one that can turn Chad.
To be fair a lot of them manipulated/tricked the women into thinking they were special. Still no excuse, because the women in the cases knew that Chad had pumped and dumped all women before them. There's a weird thing though that I think women like the challenge and are attracted more to him because he's slept with and dumped so many previous women.
To be fair a lot of them manipulated/tricked the women into thinking they were special. Still no excuse, because the women in the cases knew that Chad had pumped and dumped all women before them. There's a weird thing though that I think women like the challenge and are attracted more to him because he's slept with and dumped so many previous women.
07-24-2018, 09:17 PM
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Originally Posted By otakutrevan⏩
Ye, my ex was one example of one of those women - she told me the story, of course she was "dumb" back then. Guy was a decent looking musician, played guitar, great voice, high status. He also seemed to have a FWB setup with her and who knows how many other women. Of course she thought she could lock him down lol - apparently now he's a bit of a "loser", still doing gigs in his 30's. I guess "loser" = not suitable as a stable provider.Women gone women.
Meanwhile, good old low-status me who these women wouldn't take a second look at - who worked hard, intelligent, and got a great job, family, stability, finances in order - is now a suitable candidate for these women. Somewhat bitter pill to swallow.
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07-24-2018, 10:04 PM
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It wasn't RR, it was another thread.My dude Lucifer and I were having a discussion, if a spirited one, on his relationship woes. I jokingly said I reported him for personal attacks, which would be a weird thing for me to report, seeing as I'm a moderator and why would I report someone when I can deal with chit on my own. He was banned for 24 hours, not by me, and I have no idea why. I'm sure he can chime in if he'd like.
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