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post 1557257411 07-26-2018, 04:21 PM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩




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I put myself in position for him to ask me out at the happy hour mayneeeee.
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post 1557278271 07-26-2018, 09:15 PM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
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I put myself in position for him to ask me out at the happy hour mayneeeee.
Libertarian Happy Hour. I can't even.
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
What
You like a guy then immediately pull out your phone to see if you can meet him online instead. That's more awkward than you going up to him yourself and asking him out. Which it isn't. But creeping the internet to see if you can find a guy you like irl so you can match with him and ask him out via Tinder, is.
post 1557279351 07-26-2018, 09:31 PM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
Libertarian Happy Hour. I can't even.



You like a guy then immediately pull out your phone to see if you can meet him online instead. That's more awkward than you going up to him yourself and asking him out. Which it isn't. But creeping the internet to see if you can find a guy you like irl so you can match with him and ask him out via Tinder, is.
Itโ€™s just one of those double standards in dating where men are the ones that have to ask the woman out.
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Originally Posted By BigTimePlayer⏩
Itโ€™s just one of those double standards in dating where men are the ones that have to ask the woman out.
Well this is the same woman that is oh so insistent that the man needs to make the first move, bar none. It must be the woman's job to be a creep, stalk him online and root through his garbage. God forbid she hits him with a "So are you doing anything this weekend?"
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A few women now have randomly dropped off after a couple of messages back and forth. Is my text game terrible, or is this typical? (could be both)
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post 1557399171 07-28-2018, 12:17 PM
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Impossible to say but IME even good convos can die at any time. Way of the road bud.
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post 1557490811 07-29-2018, 06:39 PM
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Spoke with my Mom earlier; she laughed at some of my dating stories when I told her about the type of women here. She told me to just date for fun, or stay busy in the interim before making a move.

I think she's right actually, I'm asking for a lot really. Right now I'm kinda looking at women's home location and hoping it's somewhere in the South/East - like where I want to move.

Not only am I looking for a woman to have decent values, be down to earth, want a family etc., but I want her to be prepared to move too. It's just asking a lot, like a needle in a haystack. That's what makes my breakup so tough tbh, I had all that and threw it away (for good reasons, but still, frustrating).
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post 1557510641 07-30-2018, 01:50 AM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
The guys that are interesting doesn't match with me, super frustrating. Plus on hinge you only get 10 likes per day, unless you pay for unlimited likes, fcuk that!
I think we are at the bottom of the pile or our pictures suck? I can't explain it. The plus to Hinge is adding political views which could hurt me in a way, but I do like on the conservative guys profiles and nothing.
I don't know why, but this had me laughing uncontrollably ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. Repped
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post 1557517971 07-30-2018, 06:00 AM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Spoke with my Mom earlier; she laughed at some of my dating stories when I told her about the type of women here. She told me to just date for fun, or stay busy in the interim before making a move.

I think she's right actually, I'm asking for a lot really. Right now I'm kinda looking at women's home location and hoping it's somewhere in the South/East - like where I want to move.

Not only am I looking for a woman to have decent values, be down to earth, want a family etc., but I want her to be prepared to move too. It's just asking a lot, like a needle in a haystack. That's what makes my breakup so tough tbh, I had all that and threw it away (for good reasons, but still, frustrating).
Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
A few women now have randomly dropped off after a couple of messages back and forth. Is my text game terrible, or is this typical? (could be both)
You are asking for alot and we already told you its a long shot to expect someone to move. Have fun here, look to settle when you move.

Post some logs for me to see what you're chirpin to them.
post 1557525581 07-30-2018, 08:13 AM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Spoke with my Mom earlier; she laughed at some of my dating stories when I told her about the type of women here. She told me to just date for fun, or stay busy in the interim before making a move.

I think she's right actually, I'm asking for a lot really. Right now I'm kinda looking at women's home location and hoping it's somewhere in the South/East - like where I want to move.

Not only am I looking for a woman to have decent values, be down to earth, want a family etc., but I want her to be prepared to move too. It's just asking a lot, like a needle in a haystack. That's what makes my breakup so tough tbh, I had all that and threw it away (for good reasons, but still, frustrating).
No chit you're asking for a lot.
post 1557526481 07-30-2018, 08:25 AM
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You could show us some pics, help us curate a tinder profile for you, and I can almost guarantee your dating problems will be solved in 2 weeks. Assuming you drop the expectation that a girl is going to start a family and move with you after a few dates
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post 1557526801 07-30-2018, 08:29 AM
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Originally Posted By TelephoneLines⏩
You could show us some pics, help us curate a tinder profile for you, and I can almost guarantee your dating problems will be solved in 2 weeks. Assuming you drop the expectation that a girl is going to start a family and move with you after a few dates
I'm going to assume that OP has drop a lot of good women all because of his high expectations within the 1st date.
post 1557567281 07-30-2018, 04:40 PM
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You need lots of matches to get a date because so many options for women on Tinder.
post 1557567511 07-30-2018, 04:43 PM
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post 1557582801 07-30-2018, 08:15 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
A few women now have randomly dropped off after a couple of messages back and forth. Is my text game terrible, or is this typical? (could be both)
If a woman is interested enough, if your text game is not too terrible, she is still interested in you tho.
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Originally Posted By Bloodrushtiger⏩
If a woman is interested enough, if your text game is not too terrible, she is still interested in you tho.
So she wasn't that interested in the first place then. I figure they just start messaging a better looking taller guy and bail.

I'm putting in minimal effort from now. I'm gonna resort to vapid, short 'playful' responses. Normally I put in a little effort and then engage reciprocally, but I'm just putting low effort into this now unless the woman tries.
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Originally Posted By luc1fer⏩
so she wasn't that interested in the first place then. I figure they just start messaging a better looking taller guy and bail.

i'm putting in minimal effort from now. I'm gonna resort to vapid, short 'playful' responses. Normally i put in a little effort and then engage reciprocally, but i'm just putting low effort into this now unless the woman tries.
there we go boy
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post 1557591501 07-30-2018, 10:56 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
No way I would never ask him out whether on tinder or irl. I would just hope that he matches me, then hope he opens, then hope he asks me out.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yup because him missing any of those steps means he's not interested. If he liked me he would obviously match me, open, and ask me out.

Oh and FYI I talked to the gym manlet AGAIN today asking him if he was done with some machine I wanted to use. Gave him yet another opportunity for him to talk to me.
Loled at you calling him GYM manlet. So you are interested in dating a short guy? Is he taller then you?

Also gonna be hard for him to figure out that you are interested in him just because you asked him if he was done with some machine... i had plenty of guys ask me that question...so if a girl asked me that question i would never think she was interested in me.
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post 1557592421 07-30-2018, 11:24 PM
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You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Luc1fer again.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yup because him missing any of those steps means he's not interested. If he liked me he would obviously match me, open, and ask me out.

Oh and FYI I talked to the gym manlet AGAIN today asking him if he was done with some machine I wanted to use. Gave him yet another opportunity for him to talk to me.
You realize that if a miscer made a thread saying that a chick at the gym asked him if he was done with a machine and so she must be hot for him, everyone would be calling him an autist? Yet you expect any normal guy to pick up that cue? Maybe try asking him something else, give him something substantive to work with?
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
No way I would never ask him out whether on tinder or irl. I would just hope that he matches me, then hope he opens, then hope he asks me out.
lmfao I thought older women were supposed to be more direct.
Originally Posted By Rebel012⏩
You realize that if a miscer made a thread saying that a chick at the gym asked him if he was done with a machine and so she must be hot for him, everyone would be calling him an autist? Yet you expect any normal guy to pick up that cue? Maybe try asking him something else, give him something substantive to work with?
This

If a guy is not socially retarded then he's not gonna think a woman asking him if he could use a machine is an indicator of interest. You gotta do more than that.

Also you never been asked out at the gym so you probably look unapproachable so why would he approach you to talk if you don't give him much to work with.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Ok well regardless of whether I'm interested he would say something if he was interested. That's the whole point. If he was interested he would talk to me during one of the many opportunities for that.
Not if heโ€™s shy or bad at picking up your weak signals. If you notice him approaching other women to chat them up, then Iโ€™d agree.
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