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08-06-2018, 03:04 PM
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Originally Posted By Rebel012⏩
They aren't strict dealbreakers though, just to be clear. They simply expose possible incompatibly in worldviews. Examples:Just curious, is it an automatic deal breaker for you if a girl has ever had a ONS at some point in her past, even if she doesn't do it anymore, or tried it when she was young? Not gonna rehash our disagreement on this, but you honestly may have better luck if you relax some of these stringent requirements you have.
- Woman has had a ONS = not a problem given context, age, regret/growth, etc. If it's recent, she's proud/'empowered' by it etc. then it's a dealbreaker.
- Woman has debt = not a problem given context, personal responsibility and plan to pay it off (or financially sound rationale for keeping it).
It's all contextual. Her apparent incompatibilities needs explanation and context, so do mine (I'm not completely innocent or perfect myself and have regrets). I hold myself to the same standard.
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08-06-2018, 03:35 PM
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I honestly think your standards are pretty high. Cause honestly Iโve found so many women that were relationship material on tinder itโs crazy.
Yes Iโve met more sluts. But still Iโve run into so many women who wanted a LTR and didnโt sleep around like that (at least from what they tell me). Willing to come to my house, cook, clean, funny, hardworking. The works.
Iโm not chad but Iโm decent looking. Great personality. But I just think itโs ridiculous to think there are no eligible women on tinder. Trust they are on there.
Yes Iโve met more sluts. But still Iโve run into so many women who wanted a LTR and didnโt sleep around like that (at least from what they tell me). Willing to come to my house, cook, clean, funny, hardworking. The works.
Iโm not chad but Iโm decent looking. Great personality. But I just think itโs ridiculous to think there are no eligible women on tinder. Trust they are on there.
08-06-2018, 04:06 PM
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#543
Originally Posted By HotlineBling⏩
I don't need Tinder anyway, I'm already fully booked on time I want to devote to this with 2/3 other apps. I can never get through the queue as it is, even on a single app. If I ran out of a list to swipe from, then I may consider it.I honestly think your standards are pretty high. Cause honestly Iโve found so many women that were relationship material on tinder itโs crazy.
Yes Iโve met more sluts. But still Iโve run into so many women who wanted a LTR and didnโt sleep around like that (at least from what they tell me). Willing to come to my house, cook, clean, funny, hardworking. The works.
Iโm not chad but Iโm decent looking. Great personality. But I just think itโs ridiculous to think there are no eligible women on tinder. Trust they are on there.
Yes Iโve met more sluts. But still Iโve run into so many women who wanted a LTR and didnโt sleep around like that (at least from what they tell me). Willing to come to my house, cook, clean, funny, hardworking. The works.
Iโm not chad but Iโm decent looking. Great personality. But I just think itโs ridiculous to think there are no eligible women on tinder. Trust they are on there.
I'm also not claiming there aren't eligible women on Tinder, I'm working on probabilities. Regardless of what you say, thebrandrepresents a hookup app, and I'm trying to avoid women that condone or enjoy 'hook ups'.
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08-06-2018, 05:31 PM
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#544
Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
ah I know not to go overboard it just feels nice to know you can find somebody else and be attracted to them personality wise.. I only been single for 4 months and this feels nice .. guess I am slowly getting over my ex breaking up with me.. Iโm going with the flow.. Iโm a police officer who works midnights a lot of girls get turned off by that or donโt accept my profession.You got lucky, assuming she's being completely honest. Sounds like a similar case to my initial experience - both of us on the dating site for 1-2 days, met up and deleted the apps. It's possible to get really lucky I think, but generally it's a massive grind.
BTW, don't get ahead of yourself. You don't know her yet. Plenty of women are smart enough to reserve sex when looking for a serious relationship, yet they have had ONS and been sluts in the past.
I dated a girl that seemed really classy, and was withholding sex for multiple dates. Turned out she had been a serious slut, I detectived her all over sex forums etc. and hooking up with "bad boys". One of the reasons I dropped Tinder, just full of sluts. A self respecting woman does not use an app known as a hookup app.
BTW, don't get ahead of yourself. You don't know her yet. Plenty of women are smart enough to reserve sex when looking for a serious relationship, yet they have had ONS and been sluts in the past.
I dated a girl that seemed really classy, and was withholding sex for multiple dates. Turned out she had been a serious slut, I detectived her all over sex forums etc. and hooking up with "bad boys". One of the reasons I dropped Tinder, just full of sluts. A self respecting woman does not use an app known as a hookup app.
08-06-2018, 05:44 PM
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#545
Originally Posted By pauly215⏩
Definitely, jealous you at least found that. I still haven't, not even close - the women I dated have comically incompatible personalities.ah I know not to go overboard it just feels nice to know you can find somebody else and be attracted to them personality wise..
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08-06-2018, 05:48 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Pretty much this. There are no educated, classy, 9/10 women on Tinder. Tinder is for woman who can't find a decent guy irl or want to sloot it up/ get free meals/ get attention. Also OP how old are you?I dated a girl that seemed really classy, and was withholding sex for multiple dates. Turned out she had been a serious slut, I detectived her all over sex forums etc. and hooking up with "bad boys". One of the reasons I dropped Tinder, just full of sluts.A self respecting woman does not use an app known as a hookup app.
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08-06-2018, 05:52 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I get what youโre saying OP but ppl also call ******** the โOld people appโ. Snapchat the โNude appโ. But are you sending nudes on snap? Probably not.I don't need Tinder anyway, I'm already fully booked on time I want to devote to this with 2/3 other apps. I can never get through the queue as it is, even on a single app. If I ran out of a list to swipe from, then I may consider it.
I'm also not claiming there aren't eligible women on Tinder, I'm working on probabilities. Regardless of what you say, thebrandrepresents a hookup app, and I'm trying to avoid women that condone or enjoy 'hook ups'.
I'm also not claiming there aren't eligible women on Tinder, I'm working on probabilities. Regardless of what you say, thebrandrepresents a hookup app, and I'm trying to avoid women that condone or enjoy 'hook ups'.
My thing is. Donโt believe the hype on everything. Learn from mistakes and move forward. If itโs not working. Try changing what youโre doing or your approach.
08-06-2018, 05:57 PM
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#548
Originally Posted By HotlineBling⏩
Second sentence:https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tinder_(app)I get what youโre saying OP but ppl also call ******** the โOld people appโ. Snapchat the โNude appโ. But are you sending nudes on snap? Probably not.
My thing is. Donโt believe the hype on everything. Learn from mistakes and move forward. If itโs not working. Try changing what youโre doing or your approach.
My thing is. Donโt believe the hype on everything. Learn from mistakes and move forward. If itโs not working. Try changing what youโre doing or your approach.
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08-06-2018, 06:57 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
If thatโs the case. So is bumble. Cause they have the same pplSecond sentence:https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tinder_(app)
08-06-2018, 07:16 PM
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#550
Originally Posted By HotlineBling⏩
Different branding attached though. Are you being obtuse on purpose?If thatโs the case. So is bumble. Cause they have the same ppl
I'm talking about the branding, and the type of mindset a woman would have to use an app with that branding.
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08-06-2018, 07:51 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Thatโs not their branding though. Thatโs a stigma they have from a few girls that got pumped and dumped by chad. Plus youโre reading from Wikipedia lol.Different branding attached though. Are you being obtuse on purpose?
I'm talking about the branding, and the type of mindset a woman would have to use an app with that branding.
I'm talking about the branding, and the type of mindset a woman would have to use an app with that branding.
80% of the women I met on there are not even looking for a hookup. Even if they might let you smash early. Theyโre still looking for someone to date and bring to the parents.
Also just like there are guys/women on there looking to hook up. There are guys/women on there looking for a relationship.
08-06-2018, 08:22 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
itโs weird for our second date we had a church date followed by dinner . Never done that .Definitely, jealous you at least found that. I still haven't, not even close - the women I dated have comically incompatible personalities.
08-06-2018, 09:03 PM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
Exactly. Go for fun and see how it goes. If you do end up meeting your husband at this chess club, I get an invite to the wedding.Ehhh I see what you mean, but I'm going for fun. Plus I'd imagine those guys would be uber weird and full of odd balls.
08-06-2018, 09:42 PM
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08-07-2018, 02:17 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Exactly. Nowadays when ppl want to online date. Itโs not Match or Eharmony. Itโs Tinder. But of course youโre going to have your good apples and bad. Itโs a numbers game anywhere you go.That's what I keep telling op. Tinder has become really mainstream. Most people who try online dating go on tinder. Lots of girls on there are looking for dating and a relationship.
And chances are any girls you meet irl at yoga class or the library etc are on tinder anyway.
And chances are any girls you meet irl at yoga class or the library etc are on tinder anyway.
08-07-2018, 07:38 PM
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Woah went to the gym at a different time, thereโs a bunch of hot chicks in the gym ~5-6pm. I usually always avoid this time period due to business.
God damn I shouldโve known all the sheep women would be here within the same cookie cutter timeframe.
God damn I shouldโve known all the sheep women would be here within the same cookie cutter timeframe.
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08-07-2018, 07:52 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Yeah but then it's hard to workout because it's crowded. I went to the gym at 5 pm today, said fck it and left. Wall to wall people. It doesn't matter if hot women are in there when you can't even get to the water fountain.Woah went to the gym at a different time, thereโs a bunch of hot chicks in the gym ~5-6pm. I usually always avoid this time period due to business.
God damn I shouldโve known all the sheep women would be here within the same cookie cutter timeframe.
God damn I shouldโve known all the sheep women would be here within the same cookie cutter timeframe.
08-07-2018, 08:01 PM
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08-07-2018, 08:08 PM
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Itโs just weird that by 7.30pm it can still be reasonably busy but itโs 90% guys by that point. Every single gym Iโve ever been in, same thing.Yeah but then it's hard to workout because it's crowded. I went to the gym at 5 pm today, said fck it and left. Wall to wall people. It doesn't matter if hot women are in there when you can't even get to the water fountain.
Iโve theorized on this in another thread before, as I do.
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08-08-2018, 12:25 AM
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Seems like I've suddenly had a bunch of women open. Two of them were fat, so I deleted them, but two seem reasonably attractive and are engaging with some enthusiasm. Not as attractive as my ex, but I'll give this a shot and see if I can get a meet with either of them before being ghosted.
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08-08-2018, 01:12 AM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
The hottest women at any gym I have ever been to go there before work. I've had flexibility in my work hours so my time generalizations look like this:God damn I shouldโve known all the sheep women would be here within the same cookie cutter timeframe.
(i) Morning crew - ambitious types, in there at 0630 or earlier. Silent, no talking, pure focus on the workouts;
(ii) Lunch crew - more chatty - some service industry people putting in a workout before their evening shifts, some lucky people (like me) who can take long lunch breaks and work out then;
(iii) Evening crew - packed, not how I like to work out.
Hottest women are always there in the morning - far less likely for them to be stared/gawked at while they train. You a morning person, Luc1fer?

08-08-2018, 01:24 AM
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Originally Posted By Aristotelian⏩
I noticed that too. It being packed is also one of the reasons I don't work out in the evening anymore.The hottest women at any gym I have ever been to go there before work. I've had flexibility in my work hours so my time generalizations look like this:
(i) Morning crew - ambitious types, in there at 0630 or earlier. Silent, no talking, pure focus on the workouts;
(ii) Lunch crew - more chatty - some service industry people putting in a workout before their evening shifts, some lucky people (like me) who can take long lunch breaks and work out then;
(iii) Evening crew - packed, not how I like to work out.
Hottest women are always there in the morning - far less likely for them to be stared/gawked at while they train. You a morning person, Luc1fer?
(i) Morning crew - ambitious types, in there at 0630 or earlier. Silent, no talking, pure focus on the workouts;
(ii) Lunch crew - more chatty - some service industry people putting in a workout before their evening shifts, some lucky people (like me) who can take long lunch breaks and work out then;
(iii) Evening crew - packed, not how I like to work out.
Hottest women are always there in the morning - far less likely for them to be stared/gawked at while they train. You a morning person, Luc1fer?

There seems to be equally hot women ime in both the late morning/early afternoon to evening but around 10 pm to early morning is when there starts to be barely any women especially any good looking ones.
08-08-2018, 02:33 PM
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08-08-2018, 02:38 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I saw the same chit Lucy. The exact same wording too.Updated profile, srs:


Just delete Hinge man. If you want a wife that wants to move, start going to church. Srs.
08-08-2018, 02:52 PM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
Wait, you saw a profile like mine, or you saw a lot of the adventure, outdoors stuff on guy's profiles?I saw the same chit Lucy. The exact same wording too.
Just delete Hinge man. If you want a wife that wants to move, start going to church. Srs.
Just delete Hinge man. If you want a wife that wants to move, start going to church. Srs.
Can you at least say "Luc" or "Luci" or something that isn't a girls name, lol
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08-08-2018, 03:00 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Yes profiles like yours. Word for word. Did not like those. The real guys that were "outdoorsy" had pictures to prove it.Wait, you saw a profile like mine, or you saw a lot of the adventure, outdoors stuff on guy's profiles?
Can you at least say "Luc" or "Luci" or something that isn't a girls name, lol
Can you at least say "Luc" or "Luci" or something that isn't a girls name, lol
Nahhh I like LUCY, Lucy.
08-08-2018, 03:02 PM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
Really, you saw profiles where guys had put "cookie cutter" in there? Kinda surprised, because so far I've seen everyone take the answers seriously.Yes profiles like yours. Word for word. Did not like those. The real guys that were "outdoorsy" had pictures to prove it.
Nahhh I like LUCY, Lucy.
Nahhh I like LUCY, Lucy.
If a girl had that, I'd like it btw.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I saw it on Bumble a lot. CMB was full of blank profiles. Frustrating as hell. I'm not going to waste a like on a blank or a cringey profile. Like I said delete those apps and start going to church.Really, you saw profiles where guys had put "cookie cutter" in there? Kinda surprised, because so far I've seen everyone take the answers seriously.
If a girl had that, I'd like it btw.
If a girl had that, I'd like it btw.
BTW I'm thinking about signing up for the Spartan race, have you done it before?
08-08-2018, 03:14 PM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
What's more cringey to me is all the profiles with exactly the same chit, so I like a girl that can at least recognize that.I saw it on Bumble a lot. CMB was full of blank profiles. Frustrating as hell. I'm not going to waste a like on a blank or a cringey profile. Like I said delete those apps and start going to church.
BTW I'm thinking about signing up for the Spartan race, have you done it before?
BTW I'm thinking about signing up for the Spartan race, have you done it before?
No I haven't ever done Spartan or anything like that. It's funny you say that though because I've been thinking about doing Obstacle Course Racing yesterday. I used to LOVE that stuff as a kid, so I should do it.
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Cold approach brah it will make you socially calibrated.
I was standing at a food truck downtown and next to me was a girl I noticed a few times downtown. I started chatting her up and got some info. Turns out she's interning for a law office and going back to Dallas next week.
I was going to pull the trigger and get her # but someone called her when she started smiling a lot and fanning herself. A female colleague of hers came up then and I lost my shot. Totally my type too lol but I'm glad I took the time to talk to her instead of wondering.
Sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't but it was a pleasant convo.
I was standing at a food truck downtown and next to me was a girl I noticed a few times downtown. I started chatting her up and got some info. Turns out she's interning for a law office and going back to Dallas next week.
I was going to pull the trigger and get her # but someone called her when she started smiling a lot and fanning herself. A female colleague of hers came up then and I lost my shot. Totally my type too lol but I'm glad I took the time to talk to her instead of wondering.
Sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't but it was a pleasant convo.
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