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Thread: Married brahs, I am jelly of you for only one reason srs

post 1558798881 08-14-2018, 06:08 PM
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Originally Posted By ashin1⏩
Honestly feel bad for army brahs
Not an army brah but an offshore brah and it works for a while but then the "when are you going to be home so we can have a family" "how many years are you going to do this for" "we can't have a family if you are gone for months at a time" "I'm so lonely"

And then comes the "I'm starting to resent you for working and I don't want to but I can't help it"

Then it's time to GTFO while you can still do it with all of your chit.
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tfw my wife and i are both lazy and messy
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My wife doesn't work therefore she knows she has to keep the house clean and spotless and always makes dinner (srs)

helps that she's a natural born clean freak
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post 1558799291 08-14-2018, 06:13 PM
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Originally Posted By S0Jack3d⏩
My wife doesn't work therefore she knows she has to keep the house clean and spotless and always makes dinner (srs)

helps that she's a natural born clean freak
What do you mean shehasto? You mean she wants to right.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Indeed, that's why I'm not even going on second dates with women that clearly don't meet that criteria. They can go have their fantastic careers and shove their child into daycare and hire a maid to clean and cook.
You have it all wrong. A good daycare will do much more than a woman staying at home could. BRB socializing with 20-30 other kids, BRB many good daycares teach kids a secondary language, BRB teaching kids to be independent because mommy and daddy won't always be there. The only issue could be the cost.
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Originally Posted By MrAWatts⏩
Imcook a lot too. We both do depending on the circumstances if any given day. No interest in old school style relationship where girl is expected to not work and run the hiuse. Would rather her work too for more money and we both chip in on that kind of stuff.


Lol at weak willed and weak minded super submissive low iq bible thumping femakes anyways. His unattractive. I want a woman that can be an equal, have cinversation with me and pursue goals with me.
the joys of having little debt, multiple streams of passive income = less time being away from loved one more time making memories.
The idea of a traditional relationship won't ever happen unless money and income is sorted first. Maybe for you its important for your partner to make her own income because you can't afford everything you want. For me what i want is more non refundable time to enjoy my life and share it with the ones i love.

end of the day time is still being wasted when no one is home to have meals ready and chores already done.
Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
You have it all wrong. A good daycare will do much more than a woman staying at home could. BRB socializing with 20-30 other kids, BRB many good daycares teach kids a secondary language, BRB teaching kids to be independent because mommy and daddy won't always be there. The only issue could be the cost.
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post 1558799461 08-14-2018, 06:16 PM
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Idk why some miscers are so against relationships. The challenge is just finding a female I am attracted to both mentally and physically, that is also willing to cook for me. She doesn't even have to clean, just cook dinner for me!
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
You have it all wrong. A good daycare will do much more than a woman staying at home could. BRB socializing with 20-30 other kids, BRB many good daycares teach kids a secondary language, BRB teaching kids to be independent because mommy and daddy won't always be there. The only issue could be the cost.
I never said zero socialization. That is important too, but the hours should be very limited, especially during attachment age. I'm talking the first few years.
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Originally Posted By Tanerian⏩
Who said anything about raising a human or writing reports.

Complementary roles can be equality, sure. But so can 50/50 on task/duty chit. I don't need someone cleaning up after me and cooking for me.

Again, not a fan of the cliche housewife ****. Woman staying home raising a child doing all the house work while the man works. I want nothing to do with a woman who wants that. Not my type. It's fine if that's what you are after.

We can both cook, both clean, both raise our kid, and both go to work.
Lol, when you and your wife's cars are snowed in with 10" do you clear yours out and leave your wife to fend for herself?
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post 1558800121 08-14-2018, 06:22 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
What do you mean shehasto? You mean she wants to right.
Thats how she contributes. No she doesn't have too but she chooses to.
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Originally Posted By CanuckGame⏩
I probably do 75% of the cooking in my house, but I enjoy it.

My wife is a workhorse when it comes to cleaning the house though. She probably does 90% of the housework.
Originally Posted By MrBourbon⏩
This. I cook, she cleans. Nice a.f. to go into any room of the house and it's spotless.
These are good partnerships. It's nice hearing from men who don't act like neanderthals.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
These are good partnerships. It's nice hearing from men who don't act like neanderthals.
very sexist comment madam
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
These are good partnerships. It's nice hearing from men who don't act like neanderthals.
didn't realize making sure your family is fed and sheltered and clothed were the requirements of being a neanderthal.
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Wait, there are guys who want a woman who doesn't work? You guys pulling in half a mil a year or something? I want a dual Income household as long as I am not wealthy. If anyone is hanging out with their feet up all day acting like taking care of the house is a real job it's gonna be me, lol. My girl cooks, cleans, etc all while working and brining home a nice check. Not sure why so many people ITT are talking like it's one or the other, upgrade your women.
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Originally Posted By dimassive⏩
very sexist comment madam
Oh hey stranger!
Originally Posted By ashin1⏩
didn't realize making sure your family is fed and sheltered and clothed were the requirements of being a neanderthal.
lol That in itself is not. But how is it fair for someone to work 5 days a week 8 -10 hours a day, yet the wife is expected to work 24/7? I don't see that as a partnership.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Oh hey stranger!



lol That in itself is not. But how is it fair for someone to work 5 days a week 8 -10 hours a day, yet the wife is expected to work 24/7? I don't see that as a partnership.
what do you think parent hood in general is(at least until the kids are adults)?

24/7 commitment to being the care taker of the home is less stressful but more time consuming than being the sole bread winner of the family. it evens out, like i said plenty of women who dream about being a stay at home mom because in this day and age they know how much it sucks ass working in the real world.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Oh hey stranger!

lol That in itself is not. But how is it fair for someone to work 5 days a week 8 -10 hours a day, yet the wife is expected to work 24/7? I don't see that as a partnership.
I think the answer is: it depends. Should be roughly a fair split of work, but itโ€™s never gonna be perfect.

I could see situations where the man works 2 jobs while the woman is looking after 1 kid and watching Jerry Springer half the day. I could also envision a situation where the man has a piss easy job, and the woman is stressing after 3 kids and doing a great job maintaining the household.

It depends. So really you gotta find a reasonable and fair partner who carries those equitable values. And right now it doesnโ€™t sound like you are with broad judgements. <3
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Originally Posted By devin45k⏩
I make my own food and she makes her own food. She does a fukk ton of laundry throughout the day cuz she works from home though.
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
The issue with only cleaning house, cooking and catering for others is the damn repetitiveness of it. Even when I did it (for years) my time was also spent socialising with other mothers, taking courses and volunteering.

If youโ€™re not careful you can lose yourself as an adult and a sexual being, wrapping all your zest for life up in a man who has outside interests, becoming dull and unattractive. Bored and boring.

It is inevitably quietly depressing just being a housewife, after the first toddler and preschool years once those children are in school what then?

If your job is the home when do you get off work? Where do you rest and recuperate?
you see, my coworker who takes the role of being a home keeper doesn't get bored, infact she is border line over whelmed with tasks. not that she complains, but some tasks are brought on to by herself like maintaining a big garden every summer, and baking every winter.

productivity, and purpose is key, and having the luxury of staying home all day provides that. good luck finding purpose when you have to file TPS reports all day, I'd rather be home if was trying to figure a good healthy hobbie to pass time, and make most use of it.

Also the luxery of being home keep allows you to take breaks whenever you want as long as you are caught up. If the house is empty most days shouldnt be that hard.
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Having read the thread, I think that the mistake some people make is looking at roles in marriage as very rigid, like provider vs homemaker.

If and when my wife have kids we both agree that it would be good for her to stay at home significantly longer than maternity leave allows for. But this isn't to say that both of us shouldn't be working at other times. And in those other times chores should be shared.

If you marry a woman with a lucrative and demanding career who is happy to suspend that at times to build a family with you, is it really so hard to imagine that YOU cook dinner, help clean up, etc, considering that you might not actually be the primary breadwinner?

Or even more simply...so that you don't always treat your wife as some kind of maid?

Inb4 "lol if your wife out earns you"
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Originally Posted By NiteShade⏩
Repped. Seriously, it's like 80% of miscers just want to take as much from the relationship as possible while giving as little as possible.
Yeah what wankers eh.
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any women reading this thread should take heed of this:

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can confirm. I work from home and soon to be wife cooks me breakfast, lunch and dinner everyday (unless I treat her and cook for her - maybe once a week). Also does all the gardening (big house) + most of the housework.

And I work from home and she works 4 days a week.

Feels unfair mayn
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I actually do the cooking in our house.

But only because I enjoy it and consider myself a Michelin-tier cook.

Wife does everything else.

I literally have no idea how to even open the door on the washing machine srs.
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Would never get married unless the woman could cook, clean, laundry, sex anytime, didn't talk back or complain too much and signed a pre-nup.

Would protect/provide for her
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Originally Posted By guest89⏩
My mom used to wake up before my dad and cook breakfast. Cook lunch and bring it to him at work. Cook supper and have it ready for him when he got home. He never even had to serve his own plate of food or get his own drink. Just go have a seat at the table. And if he needed a refill on a drink during the meal he never had to get up for that either.


All that + managed to do laundry, clean the house, wash the dishes, do laundry, grocery shop, run errands and pay bills.
Hnnnng, cant wait to have this in my future.
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Because as 2 adults it is
Meh, we have gardeners that come in too and cleaners. And whatever she wants, I buy - e.g. cosmetic maintenance, clothes, holidays. We eat out 3 times a week or so. All household bills are paid for. All holidays are paid for. Regular spa/hotel/weekend breaks away places. She's still got it good.

I tried to get her to stop working, but she basically works with all her best mates and its a fun job (working with animals) which she enjoys.
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