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Originally Posted By Testifier⏩
disappointed you didn't use laughing tom cruise
Originally Posted By Redundanteater⏩
you are a moron and most likely not as qualified as at the lawyer I talked to.Does anyoneACTUALLY believe infidelity etc. has ANY impact on the financial consequences of divorce? If so... wow... gonna be a rude awakening!
Family law in North America is structured to transfer assets from male to female. Notice the deciding factor here? GENDER. Nothing else. Not misconduct (on either or both sides). Not the welfare of the child. Not even relative wealth. All that matters is gender. If you're a man - you're screwed! Don't believe me, look some some cases in your local jurisdiction.
Family law in North America is structured to transfer assets from male to female. Notice the deciding factor here? GENDER. Nothing else. Not misconduct (on either or both sides). Not the welfare of the child. Not even relative wealth. All that matters is gender. If you're a man - you're screwed! Don't believe me, look some some cases in your local jurisdiction.
Originally Posted By Omnivium⏩
possiblyWill you ever consider getting married again?
Originally Posted By krs128⏩
I am pretty confident. I have a lot of evidence and she already agreed to 50/50 and no moneyI hope you're right man, but ive seen some messed up cases where a guy get screwed because a girl gives the dude a blow job then spits the semen out and impregnates her self with out the guys knowledge, all while she is married to some one else.
Originally Posted By underground21⏩
I am not going to be arrogant in court you moron. don't get mad because you are wrong about something. lawyer >>> youok chief
not smart to walk into court arrogant thinking you got it in the bag when your potential ability to raise your kid is at stake + lawyers will try to milk you and keep the process going as long as they can. so you might want to tread softly.
not smart to walk into court arrogant thinking you got it in the bag when your potential ability to raise your kid is at stake + lawyers will try to milk you and keep the process going as long as they can. so you might want to tread softly.
since she conducted in marital misconduct, she is responsible for court fees if I can prove she was (which I can)
Originally Posted By shmobin⏩
it's like they choose to ignore what they don't agree withBecause OP has already discredited that notion a half dozen times in this thread. I'm much more inclined to believe the guy posting about his divorce in his thread about his state than I am some random guy trying to apply their own local laws to the situation.
Originally Posted By Redundanteater⏩
ALREADY SPOKE TO A LAWYER GODDAMMIT. I am straightUmmm good luck with that ... depending on the specifics of your case and jurisdiction there may be small hope but I wouldn't count on it. Best approach is to hope she/her lawyer doesn't take too aggressive an approach. GL!
Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
see? I told you guysdamn, not too bad, opie
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
Voice recordings of? Text messages saying? Screenshots of ?spoke to a lawyer bud, I trust his advice over yours
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spoke to a lawyer *******, that's why
voice recordings, text messages, screenshots
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I am 1/8 but really it's an inside joke between me and that crew on the misc
thanks
spoke to a lawyer *******, that's why
voice recordings, text messages, screenshots
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You are in for a rude awakening.
Unless you are going for full custody and win(no chance) , you are going to be paying 40% of your paycheck to this woman for a long time.
Doesn't surprise me you don't see it coming. You've been completely unaware of everything else up to this point.
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take out all the money from the bank accounts brah. cancel her credit cards if you have any joint accounts
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Originally Posted By RIKTER⏩
I am not in the military anymoreDo you move around a lot because of being in the military? If so, 50/50 probably not going to happen.
Originally Posted By EgoActor⏩
I did enjoy having a familycome on man having kids and a wife is the only true meaning in life. live with an endless void or keep smashing your head against the wall
Originally Posted By shmobin⏩
I will be just fine, amirite?That is bad ass actually.
Originally Posted By Redundanteater⏩
Doesn't matter anyway. Infidelity has zero relevance or bearing on divorce proceedings (except as a possible mechanism for all attorneys involved to run up their fees).
Originally Posted By RIKTER⏩
wrong you mentally challenged fun-knuckle. already spoke to a lawyer. also look up nc state lawIt wasn't advise, its something that happened in real life. Her cheating didn't mean chit.
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Originally Posted By omnip0tent⏩
lol you may be rightLmao sucks how women always set themselves up before a breakup. I know its in their biology so it doesn't upset me, just funny when I hear them whine about men being dogs.
And yea my only military buddy also got married after 2 years. Went ok I guess for a few years, he's divorced now. I feel like you bros just cant help yourselves and fall into the trap.
And yea my only military buddy also got married after 2 years. Went ok I guess for a few years, he's divorced now. I feel like you bros just cant help yourselves and fall into the trap.
Originally Posted By shmobin⏩
there are some stubborn motherfukkers in hereBro, stop. The law for Northern Carolina was literally posted ON THIS PAGE and you're wrong.
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
I'm going to have to bounce out of this thread. You've managed to attract the entire group of stupid on this forum that can't read.it's like they choose to ignore what they don't agree with
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
Sure... may not have to pay alimony. He will still have to split assets and be on hook for child support.damn, not too bad, opie
on the other hand:
on the other hand:
Just lol if you think that 3k a month doesn't go towards momma's lifestyle.
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Originally Posted By LegDayLol⏩
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Originally Posted By shmobin⏩
lol these dummiesYea, in Idaho?
Originally Posted By HayZues
recordings and screenshots and texts of her admitting to the affair you dimwit. I have already spoken to a lawyer. He has literally contradicted all your advice and I am inclined to believe the professionalVoice recordings of? Text messages saying? Screenshots of ?
You are in for a rude awakening.
Unless you are going for full custody and win(no chance) , you are going to be paying 40% of your paycheck to this woman for a long time.
Doesn't surprise me you don't see it coming. You've been completely unaware of everything else up to this point.
You are in for a rude awakening.
Unless you are going for full custody and win(no chance) , you are going to be paying 40% of your paycheck to this woman for a long time.
Doesn't surprise me you don't see it coming. You've been completely unaware of everything else up to this point.
Originally Posted By AWillis⏩
already taken care oftake out all the money from the bank accounts brah. cancel her credit cards if you have any joint accounts
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
Sure, but being younger, less experienced, naive and dumb doesn't give you any better odds. They are arguably worse because of the lack of experience in life.I am sure there are plenty of marriages that fail even when they get married later on
I'm not chitting on you, I'm only 5 years older than you, but that was a big decision made at a point in your life when you should be out having fun.
Not getting married in todays age is such a no brainer. All it is, is a contract that you have to give half of your chit to her when the very likelihood of the union being broken at some point is so high.
It's a gamble, where you stand to gain next to nothing or lose 50% of everything.
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
fu.k her sister opie-She says she didn't love me anymore and realized its been like that for a while she was just "in denial" of it. Oh and turns out she caught feels for a coworker
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Originally Posted By shmobin⏩
later brah. thanks for the supportI'm going to have to bounce out of this thread. You've managed to attract the entire group of stupid on this forum that can't read.
Originally Posted By HayZues
Look up NC state law, then talk to a NC state attorney. I did. You're wrong. Give up.Sure... may not have to pay alimony. He will still have to split assets and be on hook for child support.
Just lol if you think that 3k a month doesn't go towards momma's lifestyle.
Just lol if you think that 3k a month doesn't go towards momma's lifestyle.
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Originally Posted By FearThisjake⏩
If you want a family it's a risk you take, unfortunatelySure, but being younger, less experienced, naive and dumb doesn't give you any better odds. They are arguably worse because of the lack of experience in life.
I'm not chitting on you, I'm only 5 years older than you, but that was a big decision made at a point in your life when you should be out having fun.
Not getting married in todays age is such a no brainer. All it is, is a contract that you have to give half of your chit to her when the very likelihood of the union being broken at some point is so high.
It's a gamble, where you stand to gain next to nothing or lose 50% of everything.
I'm not chitting on you, I'm only 5 years older than you, but that was a big decision made at a point in your life when you should be out having fun.
Not getting married in todays age is such a no brainer. All it is, is a contract that you have to give half of your chit to her when the very likelihood of the union being broken at some point is so high.
It's a gamble, where you stand to gain next to nothing or lose 50% of everything.
I won't be losing anything
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they're too youngfu.k her sister opie
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Rest in pieces m8. I'm in the same situation as you before you broke up. Young son but were jot married, were common law which is basically the same iirc. Takes a special kind of person to cheat on somebody with a young child in the picture. Sorry for your loss m8
Edit - I think the divorce rate is over 50% now in Canada and the USA. That's ****ing ridiculous. Is it social media and the internet that's caused this? Finding other partners is incredibly easy with the internet now and women get infinite attention with social media now. So many thirsty dudes
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You know the guy she cheated on you with?
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
So you don't have to pay chil support. Are you going for full custody?later brah. thanks for the support
Look up NC state law, then talk to a NC state attorney. I did. You're wrong. Give up.
Look up NC state law, then talk to a NC state attorney. I did. You're wrong. Give up.
Lol @ your low IQ and your bitch ****ing her manager at the currency exchange.
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Damn. I don't have any questions, just want to say I admire how you're handling this dispite how much it obviously hurts to be betrayed by the closest person in your life.
You're a real ****ing man, srs.
Also I know you know that you have your son and he's the most important thing in your life. Even though it didn't work out in the end, he's your blessing in disguise and I want you to remember that always. You'll teach him how to be a good man and there'll be tons of good memories with him to come.
Your ex wife will regret what she did one day, but by then you'll have completely moved on with a real lady who you deserve.
OP is NOT a *******. I am proud of you brah.
You're a real ****ing man, srs.
Also I know you know that you have your son and he's the most important thing in your life. Even though it didn't work out in the end, he's your blessing in disguise and I want you to remember that always. You'll teach him how to be a good man and there'll be tons of good memories with him to come.
Your ex wife will regret what she did one day, but by then you'll have completely moved on with a real lady who you deserve.
OP is NOT a *******. I am proud of you brah.
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50% of marriages end in divorce, the other 50% end in death. So the odds of marriage ending well are...let me calculate...about 0%, which is more than you can afford pal.
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
Its really chitty that courts dont allow infidelity to come into play where you shouldnt have to pay her cheating ass chitWe had a (kinda) big fight, which we normally get over pretty easy. This time the next day she said she wanted a divorce and did a complete 180 as far as how she treats me goes.
Fuk you, in the moment it seems unthinkable. I was blindsided and thought everything was going great.
As I have found out more over the past couple of weeks, it turns out you are more accurate than you think...
I did until I found out she was fukkin a coworker
-Not an excuse, but I was in the military and a lot of us end up marrying you (I guess we are afraid to be alone?) so early 20s
-2 years (married for 5 for a total of 7)
-She says she didn't love me anymore and realized its been like that for a while she was just "in denial" of it. Oh and turns out she caught feels for a coworker
Fuk you, in the moment it seems unthinkable. I was blindsided and thought everything was going great.
As I have found out more over the past couple of weeks, it turns out you are more accurate than you think...
I did until I found out she was fukkin a coworker
-Not an excuse, but I was in the military and a lot of us end up marrying you (I guess we are afraid to be alone?) so early 20s
-2 years (married for 5 for a total of 7)
-She says she didn't love me anymore and realized its been like that for a while she was just "in denial" of it. Oh and turns out she caught feels for a coworker
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
Never met a lawyer who worked divorces pro-bono. He probably means if you pay him a retainer + fees he will also sue her for compensation, but be prepared to be in court for years and spend thousands of dollars. If she has nothing to get then you will lose many thousands.she is liable if I can proof she had an affair. spoke to a lawyer
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Originally Posted By Jibt3ch⏩
thanks for your sympathiesRest in pieces m8. I'm in the same situation as you before you broke up. Young son but were jot married, were common law which is basically the same iirc. Takes a special kind of person to cheat on somebody with a young child in the picture. Sorry for your loss m8
Edit - I think the divorce rate is over 50% now in Canada and the USA. That's ****ing ridiculous. Is it social media and the internet that's caused this? Finding other partners is incredibly easy with the internet now and women get infinite attention with social media now. So many thirsty dudes
Edit - I think the divorce rate is over 50% now in Canada and the USA. That's ****ing ridiculous. Is it social media and the internet that's caused this? Finding other partners is incredibly easy with the internet now and women get infinite attention with social media now. So many thirsty dudes
Originally Posted By Titansfan08⏩
I don't know him personally but found out who he was. she had been telling him we were legally separatedYou know the guy she cheated on you with?
Originally Posted By HayZues
50/50So you don't have to pay chil support. Are you going for full custody?
Lol @ your low IQ and your bitch ****ing her manager at the currency exchange.
Lol @ your low IQ and your bitch ****ing her manager at the currency exchange.
are you really that mad you were wrong? she ****ed a coworker, yea. not my fault, I am moving on, hooking up w/ girls that come my way out of pity
high iq crew, nuclear engineering and web development jobs prove as much. gonna have to try harder to rustle me
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I really appreciate this man, that is a meaningful post.Damn. I don't have any questions, just want to say I admire how you're handling this dispite how much it obviously hurts to be betrayed by the closest person in your life.
You're a real ****ing man, srs.
Also I know you know that you have your son and he's the most important thing in your life. Even though it didn't work out in the end, he's your blessing in disguise and I want you to remember that always. You'll teach him how to be a good man like and there'll be tons of good memories with him to come.
Your ex wife will regret what she did one day, but by then you'll have completely moved on with a real lady who you deserve.
OP is NOT a *******. I am proud of you brah.
You're a real ****ing man, srs.
Also I know you know that you have your son and he's the most important thing in your life. Even though it didn't work out in the end, he's your blessing in disguise and I want you to remember that always. You'll teach him how to be a good man like and there'll be tons of good memories with him to come.
Your ex wife will regret what she did one day, but by then you'll have completely moved on with a real lady who you deserve.
OP is NOT a *******. I am proud of you brah.
I can kind of tell she already is starting to. Has been contacting me more frequently, trying to make small talk and joke.
Originally Posted By wesleysh21⏩
50% of marriages end in divorce, the other 50% end in death. So the odds of marriage ending well are...let me calculate...about 0%, which is more than you can afford pal.
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And this OP
Division of Property
Typically, adultery won’t influence a judge’s decision about the division of property. If an extramarital affair is unrelated to the economic condition of the marriage, then the adultery is not a proper factor for consideration.
However, if the adultery affected the married couple’s finances, it may become relevant. For example, if the cheating spouse spent thousands of dollars of marital assets to buy gifts for his or her lover, or to pay for expensive hotel rooms during the affair, a judge may take this into considering when dividing assets between the spouses.
https://www.charlesullman.com/provin...olina-divorce/
Call another lawyer. A real one this time.
Division of Property
Typically, adultery won’t influence a judge’s decision about the division of property. If an extramarital affair is unrelated to the economic condition of the marriage, then the adultery is not a proper factor for consideration.
However, if the adultery affected the married couple’s finances, it may become relevant. For example, if the cheating spouse spent thousands of dollars of marital assets to buy gifts for his or her lover, or to pay for expensive hotel rooms during the affair, a judge may take this into considering when dividing assets between the spouses.
https://www.charlesullman.com/provin...olina-divorce/
Call another lawyer. A real one this time.
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I'm not married. The closest thing I've had was a 5 year relationship in which she went with my friend of like 14 years. It really hurt.
It seems like people have already told you that you married too young, so I won't bring this point up. How could you have known anyway when everyone else around you was doing the same?
I'm sorry for your situation. I can't imagine how frustrating this is, and it seems like you're handling this situation far better than most men would. It takes a lot of strength and maturity to do that.
Please let this sour your view of her, and not all women. You do more damage to yourself when you wall yourself up instead of letting others into your life who will help you grow and heal as a person.
My best advice to you is to stay off the misc for a while. The mentality on here might get to you if you have a moment of weakness, and it might cause you to do something irrational, which you don't want. Be the bigger person.
It seems like people have already told you that you married too young, so I won't bring this point up. How could you have known anyway when everyone else around you was doing the same?
I'm sorry for your situation. I can't imagine how frustrating this is, and it seems like you're handling this situation far better than most men would. It takes a lot of strength and maturity to do that.
Please let this sour your view of her, and not all women. You do more damage to yourself when you wall yourself up instead of letting others into your life who will help you grow and heal as a person.
My best advice to you is to stay off the misc for a while. The mentality on here might get to you if you have a moment of weakness, and it might cause you to do something irrational, which you don't want. Be the bigger person.
08-21-2018, 02:53 PM
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- StrongFella
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Originally Posted By seanb1979⏩
my father is a wealthy dude he will pay the up front costs that she will be responsible for afterwards. besides, it won't be going to court. she's already seen my case and knows she has no chance. she is giving me everything I wantNever met a lawyer who worked divorces pro-bono. He probably means if you pay him a retainer + fees he will also sue her for compensation, but be prepared to be in court for years and spend thousands of dollars. If she has nothing to get then you will lose many thousands.
Originally Posted By wesleysh21⏩
lol thanks50% of marriages end in divorce, the other 50% end in death. So the odds of marriage ending well are...let me calculate...about 0%, which is more than you can afford pal.
Cheer up, its all about new poosay now son! (divorced crew checking in!!!)
Cheer up, its all about new poosay now son! (divorced crew checking in!!!)
Originally Posted By hoganrulz⏩
but dinks dois it true what they say? rings dont plug holes?
Originally Posted By dhawkeye1980⏩
they do hereIts really chitty that courts dont allow infidelity to come into play where you shouldnt have to pay her cheating ass chit
Originally Posted By FFailed⏩
I can't prove he was aware we weren't separatedMaybe you should try suing the coworker like that other dude from NC
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08-21-2018, 02:53 PM
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- HayZues Christi
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
Bro I'm rooting for you, but you will be writing a check. Probably not alimony, but half your assets now and monthly child support.thanks for your sympathies
I don't know him personally but found out who he was. she had been telling him we were legally separated
50/50
are you really that mad you were wrong? she ****ed a coworker, yea. not my fault, I am moving on, hooking up w/ girls that come my way out of pity
high iq crew, nuclear engineering and web development jobs prove as much. gonna have to try harder to rustle me
I really appreciate this man, that is a meaningful post.
I can kind of tell she already is starting to. Has been contacting me more frequently, trying to make small talk and joke.
I don't know him personally but found out who he was. she had been telling him we were legally separated
50/50
are you really that mad you were wrong? she ****ed a coworker, yea. not my fault, I am moving on, hooking up w/ girls that come my way out of pity
high iq crew, nuclear engineering and web development jobs prove as much. gonna have to try harder to rustle me
I really appreciate this man, that is a meaningful post.
I can kind of tell she already is starting to. Has been contacting me more frequently, trying to make small talk and joke.
I'll wait for the update.
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08-21-2018, 02:53 PM
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- Peter Ruby
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Originally Posted By HayZues
Do you try to always be a piece of sh!t, or does it come naturally? You must be one sad and pathetic person to dog everyone at every chance you get.So you don't have to pay chil support. Are you going for full custody?
Lol @ your low IQ and your bitch ****ing her manager at the currency exchange.
Lol @ your low IQ and your bitch ****ing her manager at the currency exchange.
08-21-2018, 02:54 PM
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#120
- seanb1979
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
Rich parents make everything easier lol. I sometimes forget how common these are.my father is a wealthy dude he will pay the up front costs that she will be responsible for afterwards. besides, it won't be going to court. she's already seen my case and knows she has no chance. she is giving me everything I want
lol thanks
but dinks do
they do here
I can't prove he was aware we weren't separated
lol thanks
but dinks do
they do here
I can't prove he was aware we weren't separated
A million miles away - I don't.. feel.... anything.
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