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Thread: The unthinkable happened... Wife wants divorce AMA

post 1559347121 08-21-2018, 03:33 PM
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Originally Posted By shmobin⏩
It's almost like you didn't read the thread. How did you develop such an awesome skill?

You don't even have the right state, POTATO. lol
What's with all the autism in this thread? Jesus. Since when is SOUTH Carolina NORTH Carolina?
post 1559347191 08-21-2018, 03:34 PM
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Sorry man srs

You'll learn from this and figure out how to pick em better next time.

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post 1559347251 08-21-2018, 03:34 PM
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Your soon to be ex wife is a cop? Can she take you down? Just curious. Military marriages never end well lol
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post 1559347291 08-21-2018, 03:35 PM
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Originally Posted By HMFIC_BROWSIN⏩
in b4 OP's ex has a dirty lawyer and OP gets hit with a restraining order. then it's off to family court where the judge DGAF about the woman cheating anymore and she rakes you over the coals. Divorce is brutal, you are being naive if you think you won't be paying out BIGLY for this.
are you my lawyer that I've already spoken to? do you live in nc? no? ok.
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post 1559347571 08-21-2018, 03:38 PM
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
a little bit, yes. started going to the tanning bed, buying more bras and panties. working out more. once she said she wanted a divorce then it was balls to the wal
Some solid warning signs there. When they start upping their personal appearance for no reason.

Misc is here for you *******, don't get lost chasing puss either, it'll be tempting but in the end it'll just lead to you being depressed and surrounded by hot chicks... wait wut "Clear Eyes, Full Hearts, Can't Lose!" Enjoy!
post 1559347831 08-21-2018, 03:40 PM
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Originally Posted By Uhyeahokay⏩
Some solid warning signs there. When they start upping their personal appearance for no reason.

Misc is here for you *******, don't get lost chasing puss either, it'll be tempting but in the end it'll just lead to you being depressed and surrounded by hot chicks... wait wut "Clear Eyes, Full Hearts, Can't Lose!" Enjoy!
I have never in my life been depressed being surrounded by hot chicks
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post 1559348171 08-21-2018, 03:44 PM
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
I have never in my life been depressed being surrounded by hot chicks
Even Tiger Woods said that brah, keep your head in the game. Have your fun, but keep laser focus while your ex wife tailspins. You got a long life ahead and your kid will remember who is the rock and who is the joke.
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post 1559348221 08-21-2018, 03:44 PM
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stay strong OP. Situations like this suck cows balls. Trust me on one thing, she will regret it in due time, as the saying 'cheaters never prosper" goes.

I hope you at least get the upper hand in court somehow, especially with custody of your kiddos.

You are in my prayers m8
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post 1559348261 08-21-2018, 03:46 PM
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Originally Posted By jeshelton⏩
Even Tiger Woods said that brah, keep your head in the game. Have your fun, but keep laser focus while your ex wife tailspins. You got a long life ahead and your kid will remember who is the rock and who is the joke.
Still have focus on job and kids, no worries. I don't drink/do drugs and this situation hasn't made me feel like I want to to numb the pain. I just know how to have fun with the ladies on the side of my important responsibilities.
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post 1559348401 08-21-2018, 03:47 PM
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Looking back were there any red flags? Honestly now.

I’ve heard a lot of divorced people say deep down they knew it wasnt the right time or right person.


Also that guy she is running around with is a pathetic worm.
post 1559348651 08-21-2018, 03:49 PM
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Originally Posted By Mercworx⏩
Also that guy she is running around with is a pathetic worm.
He didn't know they were actively married and it's not his job to go investigate that kind of thing.
post 1559349271 08-21-2018, 03:56 PM
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fuk this chit. Fukced up beyond belief there are so many people out there that do **** like this. Obviously there is something good going on if you've been married to the same person for a number of years, obviously some reason you stick around that long and I don't buy that she could be in denial about everything like she says. Likely just got swept up by the tingles from a new guy, which she knows will pass. Fukced up that people out there can throw away a decent relationship for someone who hasn't really done anything for them, with 0 fuks given.
post 1559349501 08-21-2018, 03:57 PM
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post 1559349811 08-21-2018, 04:01 PM
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When's the last time you had sex, and was is it a rare occurrence or do you still do it all the time?
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post 1559349891 08-21-2018, 04:02 PM
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ah yes another divorce thread. 2018 and cucks still get married thinking they found the "one". Lmaoooooo
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post 1559349901 08-21-2018, 04:03 PM
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How much of an incel do you have to be for your wife to cheat on your with an officecel? Sry though op. Feels like you guys got married way too early. I dont see myself settling until 35.
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post 1559350031 08-21-2018, 04:04 PM
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At least you can tell your son in the future that his mom was a whore if need be. I read all the pages of this thread as well.
post 1559350101 08-21-2018, 04:06 PM
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Of course it’s pretty common in today’s world but sorry to hear.

I would suggest trying to make things as amicable as possible as hard as that can be. I didn’t read the replies itt so I’ll have to go back and find the details if there are some...
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post 1559350441 08-21-2018, 04:11 PM
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Good luck with it all OP. Sounds like you have it under control as much as can be expected. Getting lawyered up with a rich dad to cover the bills if need be is about as good a way as you can go into it, once you have your mental game covered which you seem to.
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post 1559350591 08-21-2018, 04:13 PM
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Pretty chitty I know so many miscers on here that married and got cheated on which ended in a divorce.

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I'm missing the guy that proposed to his wife at an EDM concert. Fuark this gay Earth.
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post 1559350601 08-21-2018, 04:13 PM
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Be careful with the pity fuks. Maybe she can claim you also cheated if her friend sleeps with you before the divorce if finished.

Disclaimer: I am not a lawyer

Originally Posted By sword_⏩
Pretty chitty I know so many miscers on here that married and got cheated on which ended in a divorce.

I'm missing the guy that proposed to his wife at an EDM concert. Fuark this gay Earth.
lmao you can't include EDM marriage. It was too obvious from the beginning.
post 1559350711 08-21-2018, 04:14 PM
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NC divorced brah checking in.

OP is in NC.

In NC adultery is an absolute bar to receiving alimony.

Property will still get split 50/50. Child support will depend on the percentage of time each parent has the kid vs income.

It is possible that OP could collect alimony if she earned more.


As for the danger of pity fuks....technically you can do whatever you want without repercussions once you are separated.

More importantly, OP already has a lawyer, and will get better advice from him than the misc.
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post 1559351031 08-21-2018, 04:19 PM
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
We had a (kinda) big fight, which we normally get over pretty easy. This time the next day she said she wanted a divorce and did a complete 180 as far as how she treats me goes.



Fuk you, in the moment it seems unthinkable. I was blindsided and thought everything was going great.



As I have found out more over the past couple of weeks, it turns out you are more accurate than you think...



I did until I found out she was fukkin a coworker



-Not an excuse, but I was in the military and a lot of us end up marrying you (I guess we are afraid to be alone?) so early 20s
-2 years (married for 5 for a total of 7)
-She says she didn't love me anymore and realized its been like that for a while she was just "in denial" of it. Oh and turns out she caught feels for a coworker
That co-worker better need extensive dental work in the near future.
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post 1559351131 08-21-2018, 04:20 PM
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Originally Posted By MiscInformed⏩
That co-worker better need extensive dental work in the near future.
Why? He's innocent in all of this. On top of cheating, his wife is also a liar.
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sorry to hear that op, best of luck in court and your road to mental well-being recovery.

hope she chooses co-parenting over using the child as a pawn to get your money.
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Your wife is upgrading. Welcome to 2018. No loyalty.
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Damn time to live with Mom and dad for the rest of your life while she gets the house and your bank account to bring coworker Chad over for evening fun
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post 1559351741 08-21-2018, 04:31 PM
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Originally Posted By Burgerbuger⏩
Your wife is upgrading. Welcome to 2018. No loyalty.
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the hardest thing to learn about women is the way they treat you after they start dating someone else/cheating. They go from loving you to hating you at the drop of a hat
post 1559352731 08-21-2018, 04:44 PM
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Sorry to hear about this. I see it says your from nc. You can sue homeboy and be a millionaire like that one dude did if that makes you feel any better lol hopefully you got married there brah
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