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post 1559980181 08-29-2018, 09:38 AM
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Can't understand for the life of me why someone with all the money in the world would be sat posting on the misc 24/7. Like, surely you would have better things to do with your time, like bang sloots on some yacht somewhere in the south of France maybe? Some serious trolling going on itt.
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Investing is effectively an offshoot of compensation. Higher compensation = more $$$ to invest = increased ability to make bigger returns on your investments

Also I don't agree that successful people are overconfident. If they're virtuosos in their field and are confident in what they do because their ability has been proven ad nauseum over the course of their lifetime/career, then their confidence is justified. If someone is full of unjustified confidence and they take on a high-risk endeavor, chances are they're going to fail


High achievers (aka the successful) tend to have a moderate risk tolerance and take on tasks that are challenging but doable. This ties back to a concept known as N-Ach, Need for Achievement:https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Need_for_achievement
People with high N-Ach are those who will grind away endlessly at something until they've mastered it. IMO part of that is rooted in having a healthy amount of insecurity about your skill/ability -- you never feel you're quite as good as other people or as good as you could be, so you continue grinding until you surpass the current masters. Even then, if you're smart, you don't think you're the best, because believing your own hype is what leads to complacency and loss of your position at the top
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Originally Posted By ChristianMR
With all due respect, you have no idea how to interpret what you're reading.

Partners at law firms receive their income through partnership distributions, which are "business income" (partners own the firm). Successful executives receive most of their income through stock options and other non-salary compensation ("business" or "investment" income). Successful physicians often own their own practice, which means they earn "business income" rather than a salary. Your citations are entirely consistent with my citation earlier ITT.
You're performing mental gymnastics to justify your views because your ego can't cope with not being right.

3 paths to wealth
- Stocks
- Business
- Real Estate

Having a high income =/= wealth which I have no doubt we both agree on, but for people with high incomes it's easier to get traction in any of the above categories, so there will no doubt be a solid concentration of already high income people making their money from a salary. But almost NOBODY in the 1% is making their wealth through their job outside of the highest paid lawyers, surgeons, etc. They are the exception by far. This accounts for a very low % of the 1%. My sources verify this as well. You're trying hard to cope by ignoring the data and interpreting it like you would a holy book - picking and choosing what you'll accept and how you accept it. The data shows the extremely low amount of 1%er income coming from employment, but you're trying to say herp derp the business income is reflective of their salary because of the way its dispersed. LMFAO, you don't think that the fukking poll info didnt take into account a drawl from an LLC as income will be salary vs "business income". What a dope.
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Originally Posted By MrAWatts
You're performing mental gymnastics to justify your views because your ego can't cope with not being right.
Why can't you be bothered to read the damn statistics? I'm absolutely baffled. Reading is now "mental gymnastics"?

I'm sitting in my office in a Big Law firm as we speak. I make over $300K. The person in the office to my right makes over $300K. The person in the office to my left makes over $300K (over $1M in his case). My clients make over $300K. I've cited studies clearly indicating that the majority of people who make over $300K are executives, lawyers, doctors (including dentists), and people in finance.

I have statistics. I have anecdotes if you prefer (although I wouldn't know why). I am quite clearly correct. And it's frankly not my problem that you don't understand how partners, executives, and successful physicians are compensated (not a salary).

Remind me not to buy my next cell phone from you.
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Originally Posted By Hammersia
It's not about salary, it's about net worth

You won't escape the rat race till you understand that, whatever you earn.
What book are you smokin?
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Originally Posted By ChristianMR
Why can't you be bothered to read the damn statistics? I'm absolutely baffled. Reading is now "mental gymnastics"?

I'm sitting in my office in a Big Law firm as we speak. I make over $300K. The person in the office to my right makes over $300K. The person in the office to my left makes over $300K (over $1M in his case). My clients make over $300K. I've cited studies clearly indicating that the majority of people who make over $300K are executives, lawyers, doctors (including dentists), and people in finance.

I have statistics. I have anecdotes if you prefer (although I wouldn't know why). I am quite clearly correct. And it's frankly not my problem that you don't understand how partners, executives, and successful physicians are compensated (not a salary).

Remind me not to buy my next cell phone from you.
The top one percent of U.S. income-earners got only about two-fifths of their 2007 incomes from wages and salaries, and obtained close to three-fifths from all kinds of capital income, including profits, dividends, interest, rent, and capital gains. But compare the sources for households within the top one percent. The very rich earned almost 70 percent of their 2007 incomes from capital income sources.
Old but still makes the point as not much is changing. You're making the huge assumption that a huge analytics firm collecting such data is not going to differentiate between the income sources appropriately and that wages earned by working as a partner, etc will not be recorded in the correct bucket. Thats a pretty large assumption on your part and your entire argument hinges on that. Just lol


Oh and you can keep mentioning phone sales all you want but it doesn't serve to make a point or further your arguments as that isn't what I do.
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Matthew 6:33
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Originally Posted By BlackJack619
Matthew 6:33
gtfo
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Originally Posted By MrAWatts
gtfo
and that kind of negativity is why you are where you are.
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Originally Posted By MrAWatts
Old but still makes the point as not much is changing. You're making the huge assumption that a huge analytics firm collecting such data is not going to differentiate between the income sources appropriately and that wages earned by working as a partner, etc will not be recorded in the correct bucket. Thats a pretty large assumption on your part and your entire argument hinges on that. Just lol.
I have no idea how to convey this simple point to you. The professionals I'm talking about don't take their income as salary. That's not a revolutionary point or mental gymnastics. It's just simple reality. If you don't understand that, fine, but you're living in an alternative reality.
Take it easy Christian
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Originally Posted By BlackJack619
and that kind of negativity is why you are where you are.
Which is?

Originally Posted By ChristianMR
I have no idea how to convey this simple point to you. The professionals I'm talking about don't take their income as salary. That's not a revolutionary point or mental gymnastics. It's just simple reality. If you don't understand that, fine, but you're living in an alternative reality.
Not sure how you’re allegedly a big shot lawyer when you aren’t very perceptive. How did my last post not make it clear that not only do I understand perfectly what you are talking about, but I’m also pointing out how that doesn’t change anything. Yes a partner will have a drawl from an s Corp, love whatever structure - but these companies that perform high level analytics and do studies don’t just look at the surface, hey examine the source of the income and even though it may be on a monthly, quarterly or annual withdrawal schedule, the source the work is still employment. Unless you can prove otherwise that isn’t how they are allocating the measurements of income into the correct buckets, then you don’t have a case.

And even then proving that top doctors/lawyers etc have a presence in the 1% does not refute the data that the vast majority are there through business/investments rather than a wage. Not sure why you’re fighting facts so hard.
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Originally Posted By BlackJack619
and that kind of negativity is why you are where you are.
Yup
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Originally Posted By MrAWatts
Not sure how you’re allegedly a big shot lawyer when you aren’t very perceptive. How did my last post not make it clear that not only do I understand perfectly what you are talking about, but I’m also pointing out how that doesn’t change anything. Yes a partner will have a drawl from an s Corp, love whatever structure - but these companies that perform high level analytics and do studies don’t just look at the surface, hey examine the source of the income and even though it may be on a monthly, quarterly or annual withdrawal schedule, the source the work is still employment. Unless you can prove otherwise that isn’t how they are allocating the measurements of income into the correct buckets, then you don’t have a case.

And even then proving that top doctors/lawyers etc have a presence in the 1% does not refute the data that the vast majority are there through business/investments rather than a wage. Not sure why you’re fighting facts so hard.
I'm not a big shot lawyer. I'm a pretty ordinary figure in Big Law. And the reason I don't agree with you is that you're objectively wrong -- not because I'm lacking in perception.

The Brookings Institute -- the source of your data -- makes the exact same point that I've made here:https://www.brookings.edu/research/m...o-do-about-it/. Specifically, they point out that non-wage salary includes proprietor income.

More to the point, the source of your data notes the following:

"So, if they’re not in Silicon Valley making awesome stuff, where are the 1 percent working?Top answer: doctor’s offices. No industry has more top earners than physicians’ offices, with 7.2 percent. Hospitals are home to 7 percent. Legal services and securities and financial investments industries account for another 7 and 6 percent, respectively"

Congratulations on being definitively wrong. Enjoy this infographic from your own source showing that I'm right.



So sorry. You lose.
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in b4 trailerbrah has legitimate financial advice for us
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Once you start making a lot of money, the name of the game changes from how to make money, to how to keep more of your money, and that is why I am starting a non profit organization.
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Originally Posted By ChristianMR
I'm not a big shot lawyer. I'm a pretty ordinary figure in Big Law. And the reason I don't agree with you is that you're objectively wrong -- not because I'm lacking in perception.

The Brookings Institute -- the source of your data -- makes the exact same point that I've made here:https://www.brookings.edu/research/m...o-do-about-it/. Specifically, they point out that non-wage salary includes proprietor income.

More to the point, the source of your data notes the following:

"So, if they’re not in Silicon Valley making awesome stuff, where are the 1 percent working?Top answer: doctor’s offices. No industry has more top earners than physicians’ offices, with 7.2 percent. Hospitals are home to 7 percent. Legal services and securities and financial investments industries account for another 7 and 6 percent, respectively"

Congratulations on being definitively wrong. Enjoy this infographic from your own source showing that I'm right.



So sorry. You lose.
Why bother dude? You keep hitting this guy with facts and he keeps coming back with strictly opinion based responses. I'm starting to think troll.
<HTC>
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mrawatts

im moving to dallas in oct.....you have connections ?

semi srs
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Originally Posted By reverse79
mrawatts

im moving to dallas in oct.....you have connections ?

semi srs
for gay stuff? yes
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[QUOTE=ChristianMR post_id=1559986341]I'm not a big shot lawyer. I'm a pretty ordinary figure in Big Law. And the reason I don't agree with you is that you're objectively wrong -- not because I'm lacking in perception.

The Brookings Institute -- the source of your data -- makes the exact same point that I've made here:[URL=https://www.brookings.edu/research/make-elites-compete-why-the-1-earn-so-much-and-what-to-do-about-it/]https://www.brookings.edu/research/m...o-do-about-it/[/URL]. Specifically, they point out that non-wage salary includes proprietor income.

More to the point, the source of your data notes the following:

"So, if they’re not in Silicon Valley making awesome stuff, where are the 1 percent working?[b]Top answer: doctor’s offices. No industry has more top earners than physicians’ offices, with 7.2 percent. Hospitals are home to 7 percent. Legal services and securities and financial investments industries account for another 7 and 6 percent, respectively[/b]"

Congratulations on being definitively wrong. Enjoy this infographic from your own source showing that I'm right.

[IMG]https://i0.wp.com/www.brookings.edu/wp-content/u

So sorry. You lose.[/QUOTE]
All that chart proves is that of the top earners, those fields have the highest concentration of said earners. Yes there are some people who earn enough to qualify from their jobs. These are the minority. My original statement still stands - the three paths to wealth are GENERALLY going to be stocks, RE or business.

[QUOTE=reverse79 post_id=1559988641]mrawatts

im moving to dallas in oct.....you have connections ?

semi srs[/QUOTE]


Depends, if you are in tech then possibly
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Originally Posted By MrAWatts
All that chart proves is that of the top earners, those fields have the highest concentration of said earners. Yes there are some people who earn enough to qualify from their jobs. These are the minority. My original statement still stands - the three paths to wealth are GENERALLY going to be stocks, RE or business.
You're hopeless. Have fun making things up and ignoring facts, including data from your own sources. I'm out.
Take it easy Christian
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Originally Posted By MrAWatts
LOL your self limiting beliefs are cute.
Anything is possible if you work for it

I just got awared via PM that lexbrah does G4P...

Not my bag but mirin his hustle LMAO
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Originally Posted By DirtyDon123
Anything is possible if you work for it

I just got awared via PM that lexbrah does G4P...

Not my bag but mirin his hustle LMAO
Ahh that would explain the “service” explanation.
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Originally Posted By LexBrah
I've said its a B2C Service like 5 times now. If anything its like business/life/therapy/consulting or some ****. I dont even really know what it is, thats why its hard to market/advertise.

Because what I'm selling is a service and I am the service provider. My business' USP is me, my image and my personality. If say an introverted black guy bought my business, theres a good chance a lot of my customers wouldnt be interested. srs. Thats just the way it is.
Originally Posted By DirtyDon123
Anything is possible if you work for it

I just got awared via PM that lexbrah does G4P...

Not my bag but mirin his hustle LMAO
Originally Posted By DrFeeIGood
Ahh that would explain the “service” explanation.
LMAO (nohomo?)
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Originally Posted By jeshelton
LMAO (nohomo?)
"If you're remotely aroused by my body, then there is literally no reason why u shouldn't be clearing off the new products I've added to my Amazon Wishlist to help contribute towards my physical development."

^^^ heavily paraphrased and synonymised to stop detectives

That is a quote from him

I've changed many, many words but the message is the same.
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Originally Posted By MrAWatts
Disagree tbh. This modern work landscape is different than it used to be. Being loyal to a company beyond a few years is going to cost you money until you get into the upper range of pay for your field/position. Making a move from one employer to another every couple of years can net a 20%+ raise whereas staying at the same place will mean 2-5% industry standard raise annually.

I leveraged this exact same technique and preach it to everyone. I tripled my pay with my last move, over a 100k raise. I have changed roles every few years to get to where I am at, extracting max value at each role to take with me to the next, and then when I had nothing left to learn and needed a new challenge with increase in pay - onto the next, with a good raise each time.
Originally Posted By MrAWatts
180k here 40 hours a week and feel the same as OP. Its never enough and until you aren't at the mercy of a corporation for your paycheck, I think that is just how some people are going to feel. Plan to escape it myself via aggressive investing.







You'd be surprised but that is incorrect. Companies have to be more aggressive with pay packages to get talent who are on the open market, vs retaining talent. Once they have you, you are on the standard progression of 2-5% a year. If you have a competitor company who is looking to acquire solid talent they could offer you 10-15k more per year so same role. I have seen it a million times and experienced it multiple times myself.

And my job now that pays 180 is the same as my last job that paid 70. They are both inside sales. The difference? Mid market/corporate customers vs SMB/resellers. Same title and responsibilities basically, but different tax bracket.
This, I doubled my hourly rate last time I switched jobs, plus I got a $15k raise after my first year at that position.

Is your position all commission? IT sales? That's what I wanna get into.
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Originally Posted By DirtyDon123
"If you're remotely aroused by my body, then there is literally no reason why u shouldn't be clearing off the new products I've added to my Amazon Wishlist to help contribute towards my physical development."

^^^ heavily paraphrased and synonymised to stop detectives

That is a quote from him

I've changed many, many words but the message is the same.
Huge if true
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Next year I am projecting where you want to be. Similar situation as you as well. 5 years I plan to be bringing in over 500k a year. Here is what it is taking.
Day job pulls a little over 100k before bonuses. Also have benefits. Bonuses typically add another 20kish. Same as you it just wasn't enough.
Started 1 side business this year in July. Projected to bump my income another 30k after expenses. Also working on getting another side business going with the plan for this to eventually take over as the main source of income.
It's taking everything to do this. Having to sort of slack at main job to focus on planning and accounting for side businesses. I have no free days. I may have a free night once every 2 weeks.
Wake up between 6-6:15. No alarm, wake up from sun or my daughter waking up.
Go get dressed, shave, maybe shower my head if I have bad bed head.
Coffee and maybe a smoothie if my wife made them (she's up at 5-530 usually)
If I have to go to regular job out the door by 6:55 (job is 2 minutes away)-work until 4 (skip lunch)
Schedule for regular job is 4 9's and a 4.
After work either go work on side business 1 or continue getting things ready for side business 2. 1 can require a 20 minute drive or going home depending one what needs to be done. 2 is strictly home right now. If I am working at home I will take a break at 530-630 for dinner and bath time for my kid. Then its back to work until about 730-830. Finally wind down for 1-2 hours.
930 shower and read
lights out by 10, though sometimes I will stay up until 11. This is more the typical day though

Weekends are just spent working on the side gigs or catching up on household chores.
Right now working time is about 80 hours a week with equal time spent between all 3 sources of income. Before I started this I had a very long conversation with my wife about what it was going to take from both of us and how long I expected this to go on. Additionally I told her there was always the possibility I could fail (doubtful but possible)

My week breaks down like this. 168 hours in a week.
56 Hours sleeping
112 Hours left
80 Hours working
32 Hours left
16 hours for family time
16 hours left
2 hours for chores
14 hours for morning and evening free time/bathing/etc.

The good part about my job though is that I do have a lot of down time and am able to kick back and misc./game occasionally.

To be successful to the point of financial non-chalance (not having to worry about getting retirement, college funds set up, housing payments, buying what you want, family vacations etc.) takes a huge amount of sacrifices, but if you're smart and plan accordingly it can be a relatively short amount of time compared to your whole life. My only regret is not getting started sooner. I turned 18 in 2008. The economy was in a prime spot for new companies to take advantage of the upswing after 2011.
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post 1560018471 08-29-2018, 05:13 PM
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Originally Posted By MrAWatts
180k here 40 hours a week and feel the same as OP. Its never enough and until you aren't at the mercy of a corporation for your paycheck, I think that is just how some people are going to feel. Plan to esc
I don't normally post chit like this, but I think you're landing in the "Profession" bucket, like myself. I don't hate my job, but I don't love it either.



I'd also add to this thread and say that working for yourself shouldn't be romanticized. Even setting up some passive income stream is going to be a lot of work initially, so be prepared for that. Working for a business on a salary has a lot of advantages,especiallyif you value your free time and family.

The ideal state I'd like to land here is either:
1. Having a decent passive income stream with minimal overhead.
2. Being my own boss and consulting (i.e. no upper ceiling) <40 hours p/w. If the bottom falls out, I can still go back to corporate work.
3. Working longer hours on something I actually love, and am passionate about.

The thing is, even if you have (1), you're gonna need some of (3).

In my mid-30's now, and that's normally where the existential crisis occurs (not a bad thing really)
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post 1560018981 08-29-2018, 05:22 PM
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Stop asking the misc, no one here actually wants to help you, its strictly e-bragging and vague motivational posts but no actual advice outside of the obvious which you most likely already know
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