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post 1560610011 09-06-2018, 11:19 AM
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
Yes they do.

These are the quiet women you see living with cats in their mid-late 40s. It's unfortunate, but happens quite a bit.
no they just aren't good looking

it is biologically impossible for a good looking woman to not get seeded by a male and be alone
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post 1560610271 09-06-2018, 11:22 AM
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
no they just aren't good looking

it is biologically impossible for a good looking woman to not get seeded by a male and be alone
Nah.. I grew up with tons of women. There are quiet good looking ones

There was one that dated a guy a long time. She was really quiet, stay at home type. Her mother was an alcoholic

Anyways they broke up at some point. And,she was CLUELESS to the dating world after having been in a relationship with 1 guy since a teenager. Shed say some guy hit on her and she had 0 idea what to do

She went years mostly staying in and didnt date. But she eventually did start going out and got with some guy

My point is she was hot but homely and didnt put herself out there
post 1560610501 09-06-2018, 11:24 AM
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Originally Posted By ssilv⏩
When you think about it, nice girls really dont need to put themselves out there because they know their own worth. This is a double edged sword because it keeps them out of bullchit, but also makes them come off as full of themselves or just straight shy (prude). So we see the majority either ending up with a Tim or by themselves, while Stacy and Chad flaunt their rented BMW at high school reunions.
Putting themselves out there can be as simple as going out to social events and acting like they're romantically available. A lot of nice girls can be shut ins, or they stay within their peer group and not interact with new people.
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post 1560610961 09-06-2018, 11:28 AM
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Not a single "Nice girl" was posted that day.

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post 1560611201 09-06-2018, 11:30 AM
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I will say.. Upon thinking about this.

Its prob harder nowadays to find one super quiet girl

When i grew up social media wasnt AS popular. Im not that old but it was kind of just burgeoning and it wasnt around in my younger years

Girls growing up whove had it their whole lives? Prob different

Its not just in their access, its the culture as well
post 1560611241 09-06-2018, 11:31 AM
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Originally Posted By ssilv⏩
When you think about it, nice girls really dont need to put themselves out there because they know their own worth. This is a double edged sword because it keeps them out of bullchit, but also makes them come off as full of themselves or just straight shy (prude). So we see the majority either ending up with a Tim or by themselves, while Stacy and Chad flaunt their rented BMW at high school reunions.
It is a double edge sword. I've had lots of older married people say that I'm a "catch" but to guys around my age I'm not viewed as fun. The "fun" slooty girls always has friends and boyfriends around.
It kinda sucks being a "nice" girl some days.
post 1560611321 09-06-2018, 11:32 AM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
It is a double edge sword. I've had lots of older married people say that I'm a "catch" but to guys around my age I'm not viewed as fun. The "fun" slooty girls always has friends and boyfriends around.
It kinda sucks being a "nice" girl some days.
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post 1560611331 09-06-2018, 11:32 AM
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Originally Posted By WhirlwindTobias⏩
going out to social events and acting like they're romantically available
True, most nice girls will not do this though or will stay tight with their friends. Going to social events looking for romance almost always ends in disappointment.
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post 1560611561 09-06-2018, 11:34 AM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
It is a double edge sword. I've had lots of older married people say that I'm a "catch" but to guys around my age I'm not viewed as fun. The "fun" slooty girls always has friends and boyfriends around. It kinda sucks being a "nice" girl some days.
It's not a bad thing though. Hopefully your energy is facing the right direction. Using the time to find out more about yourself and be happy with who you are becoming allows you to elevate above what society claims is ideal.
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post 1560611611 09-06-2018, 11:35 AM
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
Need pics to assess!

also: Congrats on being post 69!
Haha, I'm not that attractive.

Hellz yeah for 69!!
post 1560611951 09-06-2018, 11:40 AM
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
no they just aren't good looking

it is biologically impossible for a good looking woman to not get seeded by a male and be alone
OP did not mention anything aboutgood-looking females.

He asked about nice girls. And I said yes, there are some that never get in relationships due to insecurities, autism, etc.

You guys underestimate a smart female, who may not be a 7+/10 and young, gaining success with a male. Sure, any woman can land a basement dwelling, lazy, video-gaming playing loser, but why would a smart woman want to marry THAT than be alone?
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post 1560611961 09-06-2018, 11:40 AM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
Haha, I'm not that attractive.

Hellz yeah for 69!!
Not with that attitude.

If you want your reps to skyrocket, you have to post pics. it's just the way it is.
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post 1560612081 09-06-2018, 11:42 AM
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if they’re really nice I would let them finish first multiple times
post 1560612351 09-06-2018, 11:45 AM
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Originally Posted By ssilv⏩
It's not a bad thing though. Hopefully your energy is facing the right direction. Using the time to find out more about yourself and be happy with who you are becoming allows you to elevate above what society claims is ideal.
It's not a bad thing, but I feel like once some men are done with having fun (30+) they will settle for the nice girl. Which really isn't fair, but I understand biological male needs.
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Yes, for sure.
post 1560612591 09-06-2018, 11:47 AM
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
Yes they do.

These are the quiet women you see living with cats in their mid-late 40s. It's unfortunate, but happens quite a bit.
biggest horse chit i ever heard in my life

those nice girls are usually swooped off the market quickly and end up marrying their first boyfriends. while the ones who end up alone are the weekly club going, smoking, excessive drinking, loud, party loving, chad riding sloots.

wot u on about m8?
post 1560612661 09-06-2018, 11:47 AM
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No its the sluts that finish last, unless they find a sugar daddy. And even then I dont think its a happy life.
Good women find a man they marry, have kids with, live stable lives.
post 1560613201 09-06-2018, 11:55 AM
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Originally Posted By underground21⏩
biggest horse chit i ever heard in my life

those nice girls are usually swooped off the market quickly and end up marrying their first boyfriends. while the ones who end up alone are the weekly club going, smoking, excessive drinking, loud, party loving, chad riding sloots.

wot u on about m8?
There is some truth to this, if they're attractive. The church girls in my hometown that were pretty and skinny got married at 18/19. The ones that were fat and had a butter face are still single.
post 1560613631 09-06-2018, 11:59 AM
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They have a FAR easier time than the "nice guy".
Originally Posted By drFEEL⏩
unaware as fuk. the ones you describe are the bitchy ones who think they are too good for anyone else.

quiet ones get picked up and latch onto who ever loves them first.
Exactly. Muzziechick is muddying the waters with her nonsense "logic"
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
It's not a bad thing, but I feel like once some men are done with having fun (30+) they will settle for the nice girl. Which really isn't fair, but I understand biological male needs.
20's are typically the age of most fuk boys and where the sl00ts peak in their lives. Seriously though with the progressive way our society has been going, who would really want to get married before 30 years old? The only benefit I can see to marriage before 30 is from taxes. Just find someone you enjoy being around and who makes you progress in some way shape or form. Take it one day at a time and don't go to places looking for romance where fukboys lurk.
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post 1560614911 09-06-2018, 12:12 PM
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Nice girls are off the market FOREVER by the age of 24. How is it that they finish last? They have long, happy marriages for the most part.
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
Yes they do.

These are the quiet women you see living with cats in their mid-late 40s. It's unfortunate, but happens quite a bit.
The nice women I've known, and have active social lives or do online dating, have all been in relationships.

Our personal experience differs.
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Originally Posted By badbl00d⏩
Yeah they have trouble finding dates because they're frumpy and give off a "IDGAF" vibe. If those girls put effort into their appearance those troubles would disappear.
This. Most of the engineer girls at my office have permanent resting bitch face and are never approachable.
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What defines nice girl? Is that in here somewhere? If it's coming from a family that "stayed together", then yeah, I'm out of the nice girl camp.
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Definition of nice? Non-slooty? Kind? Agreeable?
Originally Posted By BibFortunaBrah⏩
I have seen many beautiful Catholic girls from conservative families go solo into their thirties. Most Chads, even in the face of real beauty and virtue, do not want a girlfriend who won't put out.

And so these women go on, solo. Just LOL at guys who don't secure a virtuous and Christian wife who is a virgin. You may not have sex before marriage but you'll be happier once you are married, you dopes.
Marry who you want. This was a thing when I was younger - girls that wouldn't put out got dropped. Guys wouldn't stick around.
Originally Posted By TrinnieBuu⏩
Nice and unattractive girls finish last. I know I see here lots of men complaining that all women are sluts. Not true, I know a lot of nerdy engineering/IT type females who don’t wear any makeup, don’t really dress up nice, and shy. They have a lot of trouble finding people to date. Even some of the same engineering/IT type males wouldn’t go for them.

And I mean they not only can’t find people to date, they don’t even do casual sex. One of my coworkers is a virgin and she’s 29, just socially awkward and rather get work done.
Originally Posted By TrinnieBuu⏩
I think a lot of the “idgaf” or “too cool to try to impress with clothes and makeup” is just coping and insecurities. I know My best friend had the same mindset in HS, but deep down it was more... what if I’m still the ugly duckling WITH makeup on. So they just don’t wear any, at least then not having dating prospects can be blamed on people being shallow. Obviously some women don’t wear makeup but still groom themselves, I’m not talking about those. More the type that put in zero effort, bc they’re scared it wouldn’t change a thing.
Also definite candidates. The blah clothes/no makeup applies to overweight too. Could be ignorant about attracting men/dating - maybe didn't have a mom that taught them about that or were super sheltered.

Or:
Originally Posted By zknarc⏩
Some perhaps but I think a larger contingent have issues with their own sexuality and sex in general so they deliberately avoid anything that associates/presents themselves in this way.
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This.

Sexually repressed for some reason. Possibly religious upbringing, poor self-esteem, or were objectified/molested/harassed in some way that made them want to avoid sexual attention on some level.

I would say, yeah, sometimes nice girls do finish last. But it isn't really because they are nice, more because of their attitude (unrealistic standards), appearance (plain/fat/frumpy), and availability (introvert, homebody).
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Originally Posted By RedRusty⏩
What defines nice girl? Is that in here somewhere? If it's coming from a family that "stayed together", then yeah, I'm out of the nice girl camp.
I think they just mean girls who's lives aren't partying/clubbing/doing drugs/getting railed on the weekends.
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Yeah nice girls finish last unless they're very pretty. Take me for example I'm nice but because I'm nice subject to abuse etc.

By nice I mean genuinely nice not only having good upbringing. I think most people refer to nice girls as chicks who have clean lives, but such women can still be petty etc.
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩
Definition of nice? Non-slooty? Kind? Agreeable?
It would be interesting to even see any consensus about this.
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
I think most people refer to nice girls as chicks who have clean lives, but such women can still be petty etc.
Not what I am referring to. These are your average nice girls:



> not over the top with makeup
> modest clothing
> usually focused on school and contributing to society
> maybe drink once in a while socially, but stick with group of same friends
> might have good upbringings, might not
> most definitely do not lift -- too fragile for that or just into some quick morning yoga
> might or might not be religious - doesn't really make a difference in this scenario
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
Not with that attitude.

If you want your reps to skyrocket, you have to post pics. it's just the way it is.
False!

As for nice girls finishing last. I think a lot of times nice people get chit on, but I'd say most truly nice people find relationships. I've always been a very compassionate, empathetic nice person and i was married at 28. Even though I'm divorced now in my 40's, I don't consider myself as finishing last. I can hold my head high and say that I was a good and loyal wife, I have my son and my ex and I respect each other as people and parents. How could that possibly be looked at as coming last?
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