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ยป Sloth Thread Part XIII: Looks get you matches, game gets you smashes
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post 1566350191 11-15-2018, 08:20 PM
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Originally Posted By BRBMakingMoney
How about I kill two birds with one stone and answer both your questions at once. This is an Instagram close I did a while back (I can post it now as it's been a while since I've seen this girl). This girl is a singer, model, actress and ex reality TV 'star'. Pics below.
Lol really enjoyed this. Please post more.

I think it's interesting to wonder if to bag a girl who's got a bit of a "clout" behind her you need to be someone who has that too (like she won't date you unless you're some sort of high flyer). It's definitely possible - most people who aspire to that kind of thing are pretty insecure, so it would make sense that they match up with eachother. That said, I think there's a way to be attractive/interesting without making **** up. Respect though - that was a rock solid old-school PUA pickup.
post 1566363031 11-16-2018, 12:13 AM
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I love love love the new gif image thing on tinder. It gives you a much better looks at a girl depending on what she posts. It's also slightly like the old school moments in that it can reveal some inner sloot. Nothing will top moments though, that was the GOAT feature.

Every guy should make an interesting gif image. Mine is just me in a hat, looking cute, cracking a sly smile while tipping my hat. I have seen an increase in matches and more women opening me. Some clearly above me on the number scale, I think they just see the person alive in front of them and it draws their attention more.

The three most valuable pictures I have I think are possibly this new gif one. One where I was at a concert with my friend and his wife, the pic has me and her smiling and she's a cute girl, guess its like social proof. My crown jewel is me giving a speech in a suit at a wedding, that's the one pic that has always gotten me matches.

I am by no means slaying on tinder but I am always surprised when people say they cant get nothing. I play within my range and still get matches. I will say though that tinder clearly kills your potential matches if you stay in one area too long. Its way harder for me to get matches in my home area than when I get plus and go other places.
post 1566363201 11-16-2018, 12:18 AM
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i miss my slaying days i remember how they send me double messages after not answering
post 1566363251 11-16-2018, 12:19 AM
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got my first superlike in like 6 months and she just unmatches after I said hello, just lol.. nothing is a sure thing.. and literally never met or got anywhere with a girl that superliked me.. its weird.
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post 1566363361 11-16-2018, 12:21 AM
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Originally Posted By malakas1
i miss my slaying days i remember how they send me double messages after not answering
even just a year or 2 ago girls would actually talk to you and there were some genuine girls on there. Though I ruined a lot from being sex hungry.
nowadays even if a girl is interested she gives 1 word responses and can disappear at ANY time. fukn terrible
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post 1566387921 11-16-2018, 09:52 AM
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Originally Posted By Nicklol
got my first superlike in like 6 months and she just unmatches after I said hello, just lol.. nothing is a sure thing.. and literally never met or got anywhere with a girl that superliked me.. its weird.
Super Liking almost never seems to go anywhere. A lot of girls accidently do it too. I have had a few tell me they see super liking as creepy, particularly when guys do it to them. I think it works best you are really good looking. Joe blow, eh results can be pretty mixed.
post 1566398341 11-16-2018, 11:44 AM
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Just super like, match, then say it was an "accident" but you're interested still.

"Am I not good looking enough to get super liked"
"Why didnt he superlike me"
"He probably superlikes hot blondes anyways"

Play with a sloots mind and they will lick your nut sack boys.
Look, i know i don't really know you and all, and i know you probably hear this like everyday, but your just so perfect to me. The few hours we talked were really great even if the convo was stale, your really pretty and chill, and your country thats just perfect :'D i really dont know how to explain it, but i think i have feelings for you somehow. i never felt like this with someone i just met, but i felt the need to get it off my chest. sorry for being all weird just idk how to explain it D:
post 1566535461 11-18-2018, 08:38 AM
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Originally Posted By awwchit2
Just super like, match, then say it was an "accident" but you're interested still.

"Am I not good looking enough to get super liked"
"Why didnt he superlike me"
"He probably superlikes hot blondes anyways"

Play with a sloots mind and they will lick your nut sack boys.
this is straight up manipulative
post 1567130021 11-25-2018, 11:34 PM
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Spoiler!








Was feeling a bit festive with the opener
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post 1567144361 11-26-2018, 07:54 AM
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Originally Posted By Explainme44
this is straight up manipulative
And that's why its great
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post 1567200041 11-26-2018, 08:42 PM
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Originally Posted By fox994
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Was feeling a bit festive with the opener
She is really cute.

Anyone seen any funny/crazy gifs on a profile? Just saw a chick who was basically making her mouth look like she was blowing you. Guarantee some miscer used that as fap material.
post 1567248691 11-27-2018, 01:04 PM
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Is getting Tinder Plus/Gold increasing your visibility ( not talking about the boost) and if yes, is the difference big? I'm surprised by the lack of matches I'm getting.
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post 1567249001 11-27-2018, 01:09 PM
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Originally Posted By Dedikejshn
Is getting Tinder Plus/Gold increasing your visibility ( not talking about the boost) and if yes, is the difference big? I'm surprised by the lack of matches I'm getting.
no theres just no chicks on tinder now except fat ones
post 1567262081 11-27-2018, 03:18 PM
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Originally Posted By Dedikejshn
Is getting Tinder Plus/Gold increasing your visibility ( not talking about the boost) and if yes, is the difference big? I'm surprised by the lack of matches I'm getting.
I donโ€™t think you get much if any more visibility. Itโ€™s kinda nice to have for a little bit. Buy it for a month and cancel it. See if you think itโ€™s worth it
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post 1567283401 11-27-2018, 08:01 PM
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Originally Posted By Dedikejshn
Is getting Tinder Plus/Gold increasing your visibility ( not talking about the boost) and if yes, is the difference big? I'm surprised by the lack of matches I'm getting.
Nope I am also pretty sure Tinder burries you after a while too. I hardly get any matches in my area anymore, maybe like 3-10 a month. With plus when I spoof to a new spot I can get 5-15 matches in a day or two and after several days it dies out too. I like getting gold just to spoof and see what kind of chicks I could potentially get but its pretty crap value IMO unless you are traveling or swipe a lot.
post 1567402771 11-29-2018, 09:31 AM
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Originally Posted By fox994
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Was feeling a bit festive with the opener
Wow, I have my fingers crossed for you.
post 1567403661 11-29-2018, 09:43 AM
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Someone critique me please. Barely getting matches. Is it my pics? Is i ugly?Sorry if pics are hugeI used to do amazing on tinder in 2013-2016. Now it seemed to have died.

post 1567404151 11-29-2018, 09:49 AM
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Originally Posted By Slyrz
Thats a lot of work for a typical European white girl. You're purposefully making it harder for yourself by elevating her to some status she's not worthy of just because its a cold IG DM (which its not entirely since there was a minor connection).

I'm all for game, but I think some of you make it unnecessarily difficult for yourself just to convince yourself you're getting a big win by getting a number/date. Its either that or when you share your stories in here, you frame it like it's more difficult than it actually was

In short, you messaged a girl who follows you on IG, got her number and got her to go on a date with you. You could have saved the rest of that fluff and essays you were sending her. Totally unnecessary, IMO

But if it works, it works. So ride your system until the wheels fall off is my suggestion.
Seriously! I cringe at the amount of work these guys are putting in for these lame ass women because they allow pussy to run they life.

In a not too distant future, you guys are going to feel stupid as **** reflecting back what you went thru for a couple minutes of pleasure.
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I seriously regret getting tinder gold. Should have just given hinge the money. I do better playing for free on hinge than tinder. And the quality difference, oh lord.
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post 1567404581 11-29-2018, 09:56 AM
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Originally Posted By tunafish01
Someone critique me please. Barely getting matches. Is it my pics? Is i ugly?Sorry if pics are hugeI used to do amazing on tinder in 2013-2016. Now it seemed to have died.

You look stiff as **** in that buddy pic, remove that. The soccer game pic should be your main pic. Add something short but witty to your bio.


Tinder isn't popping for everyone. I used to be able to amass hundreds of matches in a single day, I'm lucky to get 30 even while boosting.


I'm just now patiently waiting for the next "it" dating app to pop off. Tinder ran it's course.
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Originally Posted By jacemano
I seriously regret getting tinder gold. Should have just given hinge the money. I do better playing for free on hinge than tinder. And the quality different, oh lord.
Tinder ran it's course. They became too greedy for money and just pray on desperate suckas now.
post 1567417181 11-29-2018, 12:25 PM
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Originally Posted By tunafish01
Someone critique me please. Barely getting matches. Is it my pics? Is i ugly?Sorry if pics are hugeI used to do amazing on tinder in 2013-2016. Now it seemed to have died.

lol i don't believe this is you. how is it possible to be that good looking and be a no avi. nope. not buying it
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post 1567420821 11-29-2018, 01:08 PM
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Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer
lol i don't believe this is you. how is it possible to be that good looking and be a no avi. nope. not buying it
Haha wtf would I put as my avi srs.

Looks dont matter anyway.
post 1567422321 11-29-2018, 01:25 PM
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Originally Posted By tunafish01
Someone critique me please. Barely getting matches. Is it my pics? Is i ugly?Sorry if pics are hugeI used to do amazing on tinder in 2013-2016. Now it seemed to have died.

Sorry to reply with pics (hate when people do that) but it'll save you from scrolling back up. The first photo of you in the suit & tie is money, and the one of you next to the other guy is good. The other two pics are pointless - it's just showing your face at roughly the same distance and angles as the first pic.

Each photo should be an opportunity to hook these sloots in a different way. So replace those two with photos of you doing stuff, with pets, with groups of people, or at points of interest/travel related.
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Originally Posted By fox994
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Was feeling a bit festive with the opener
damn better hit that son

just hopped back on tinder today
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Question to all - what's your strategy for getting less flakes? I have solid success and get a good share of dates (1-2 per week) but sometimes one or two will flake on the weekend. I've thought about scheduling two girls for one night and then going with my best option, but I feel like that's kinda a dick move. Would appreciate any advice.

Thanks
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Originally Posted By jacemano
And that's why its great
yeah true i love tricking women into having sex with me so i dont have to cry myself to sleep
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Originally Posted By tf19
Question to all - what's your strategy for getting less flakes? I have solid success and get a good share of dates (1-2 per week) but sometimes one or two will flake on the weekend. I've thought about scheduling two girls for one night and then going with my best option, but I feel like that's kinda a dick move. Would appreciate any advice.

Thanks
That's why they flake. They stacked you and chose their best option. That's when you get the "so hey I totally forgot I promised my mom/friend/niece etc...blah blah blah...so I hate to do this but can we reschedule?" txt.

If their top pick turns out to be a douche, or flakes on them after they flaked on you, you'll probably get another shot assuming you were second pick...and they don't find a better option by the time you reschedule...(they could also be telling the truth too)...

So hell yeah I stack dates. Once had three girls down to meet same night, and none of them flaked...so I flaked on two. I actually went with my second choice because the first choice was acting flakey, then txts me "hey Im on my way" while I was with the other girl already. Told her I was stuck at the airport, my phone died, etc...and just ghosted number three. Only issue other than telling a fib is you may burn bridges.

But thats the exception. Different night had three girls lined up...and they all flaked.

Seeing one girl pretty steady now and don't have time/energy to pursue others. But she's 21, starting at HBS in the fall...so at some point it will end. Then back to stacking flakes (I mean dates
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Originally Posted By Explainme44
yeah true i love tricking women into having sex with me so i dont have to cry myself to sleep
All human interaction is manipulation when you have an outcome in mind.
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Originally Posted By spadelexus
That's why they flake. They stacked you and chose their best option. That's when you get the "so hey I totally forgot I promised my mom/friend/niece etc...blah blah blah...so I hate to do this but can we reschedule?" txt.

If their top pick turns out to be a douche, or flakes on them after they flaked on you, you'll probably get another shot assuming you were second pick...and they don't find a better option by the time you reschedule...(they could also be telling the truth too)...

So hell yeah I stack dates. Once had three girls down to meet same night, and none of them flaked...so I flaked on two. I actually went with my second choice because the first choice was acting flakey, then txts me "hey Im on my way" while I was with the other girl already. Told her I was stuck at the airport, my phone died, etc...and just ghosted number three. Only issue other than telling a fib is you may burn bridges.

But thats the exception. Different night had three girls lined up...and they all flaked.

Seeing one girl pretty steady now and don't have time/energy to pursue others. But she's 21, starting at HBS in the fall...so at some point it will end. Then back to stacking flakes (I mean dates
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