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post 1567401001 11-29-2018, 09:08 AM
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Originally Posted By FrazettaSilke⏩
You dumped a doctor who was fine af


And you're talking bout homosexuality?
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My dad is 67 and diagnosed with Parkinson for over 10 years now. He always was my hero but I don't think he'll reach 70
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3 years ago, still in my early 30s, my dad died and I had to move mom (early 60s, with Alzheimer's) into a nursing home since she lost her caregiver. Granted dad was 71, but he was one of those old bastards that seemed he'd outlive everyone else just to spite them. A brain tumor took him our after he suffered for years with other breathing issues - go figure. Then my poor mom had the dementia onset in her 50s, to the point where now she's like my toddler at best. Horribly sad.

Lots of things suck and you never know when it's going to hit. Best wishes to ya.
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post 1567405791 11-29-2018, 10:12 AM
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Originally Posted By FrazettaSilke⏩
Wtf does that have to do with anything?
Just read your dad had you at 44 - yeah, your old man is definitely going to be much weaker.

Your mom is still very young though. Mind = blown at what a playa your old man is.

Be fortunate there's no major health issues. I've been through hell quite a few times... lost several fam.
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post 1567406261 11-29-2018, 10:17 AM
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Originally Posted By FrazettaSilke⏩
Thanksgiving was amazing, and I cut wood with my old man as we usually do. He always could split wood way better than I could, but this year he couldn't keep up with me. He's getting older, and losing his gristle. Can't imagine how I'll feel when he dies. Thursday is feelsday man. Hold your folks boyos
be thankful that at almost 30 years of age you are sitll cutting wood with your father and can generally enjoy outdoor activities with him.

my mom is 63 and dying of ALS. she was diagnosed in january of this year (almost been 1 year) in the span of less than a year she has lost the ability to walk, use her arms for pretty much anything and requires help using the bathroom, eating and bathing. We dont expect her to make it to 2020

I remember hiking with my mother as recently as 4 years ago. every moment is so precious man, your old man might be slowing down today and dead by the end of the year, it can happen in the blink of an eye. I wish I could go back in time and spend so much more time with her prior to this disease.

EDIT: im 24, mom had me at 39 years old. she was always the active , outdoorsy one. my dad is a soyboy, but extremely smart and well read. would rather play scrabble with the family then go outside for a bike ride.
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post 1567406611 11-29-2018, 10:21 AM
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Wish I could see my pops get old in his right state of mind. Lung cancer spread to his brain, tumor was removed but hes basically a child again. Short term memory is shot, goes to the bathroom on himself, and needs to be watched over 24/7.

Cancer sucks.. enjoy the time u get with him and make sure u ask him all the deep life questions u always wanted to while hes still mentally capable of answering.
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People laughing at OP for his dad being 44 when he was born meanwhile this is exactly what a chitlpad of people are doing in today’s world...having children later.

OP, I know these feels. Parents are only 65 and they are fading fast.
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post 1567406881 11-29-2018, 10:24 AM
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Originally Posted By pojo18⏩
be thankful that at almost 30 years of age you are sitll cutting wood with your father and can generally enjoy outdoor activities with him.

my mom is 63 and dying of ALS. she was diagnosed in january of this year (almost been 1 year) in the span of less than a year she has lost the ability to walk, use her arms for pretty much anything and requires help using the bathroom, eating and bathing. We dont expect her to make it to 2020

I remember hiking with my mother as recently as 4 years ago. every moment is so precious man, your old man might be slowing down today and dead by the end of the year, it can happen in the blink of an eye. I wish I could go back in time and spend so much more time with her prior to this disease.

EDIT: im 24, mom had me at 39 years old. she was always the active , outdoorsy one. my dad is a soyboy, but extremely smart and well read. would rather play scrabble with the family then go outside for a bike ride.
Sorry about your mom, going through something very similar with my dad. Mans search for meaning is a solid book to help maintain a positive outlook while you deal with horrible circumstances.
post 1567406951 11-29-2018, 10:25 AM
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Originally Posted By canonhope⏩
lmao did you even know your grandparents?



A lady I know, her dad died at 59 last week. She is devastated and I feel bad for her. She is fine af too even after having a baby this year at age 38.


my parents are 63.

Ya know why they had me late? Instead of LOL at us who didn’t know our grandparents.

My parents were partying together hitting up disco clubs and hitting up the city til they were ready for me.

And they’re the only ones of their friends who are still married.

Jokes on the younger parents.


So HA
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post 1567407191 11-29-2018, 10:28 AM
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My dads my best bud and will be my best man in my wedding.


Just shot him a text if he wanted to check out this rockabilly band playing in town.

“Hell ya lets go”.


My dads cool as fuk
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post 1567407251 11-29-2018, 10:29 AM
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Originally Posted By bobbydigitaloa⏩
People laughing at OP for his dad being 44 when he was born meanwhile this is exactly what a chitlpad of people are doing in today’s world...having children later.

OP, I know these feels. Parents are only 65 and they are fading fast.
His mom is like from a different period.

I know women in their 40's when they have their FIRST kid. I expect even later in the near future thanks to freezing and all the toy boys out there.
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post 1567407341 11-29-2018, 10:30 AM
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Originally Posted By FrazettaSilke⏩
You dumped a doctor who was fine af


And you're talking bout homosexuality?
what good is a doctor who can't even treat her own case of stage 4 kuntiosis?
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post 1567407361 11-29-2018, 10:31 AM
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Agreed OP. My dad is 86 and has Alzheimer's and he's fading fast, doubt he makes 90. He was pretty sprightly until the Alzheimer's became very apparent a couple of years ago.

I'm cherishing what little time I have left with him when he does eventually die I know I'm going to fall apart and be a mess.
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post 1567407371 11-29-2018, 10:31 AM
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Originally Posted By PermaBulk610⏩
Wish I could see my pops get old in his right state of mind. Lung cancer spread to his brain, tumor was removed but hes basically a child again. Short term memory is shot, goes to the bathroom on himself, and needs to be watched over 24/7.

Cancer sucks.. enjoy the time u get with him and make sure u ask him all the deep life questions u always wanted to while hes still mentally capable of answering.
Saw that with my other grandpa this year. Went from healthy as a bull to dead in 6 weeks. cancer sucks.
post 1567407521 11-29-2018, 10:34 AM
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Same. My dad is late 60s, mum early. Gran was born in 1916. Makes it harder to handle the demographic trends imo.

Must mean we are fertile though.
post 1567407611 11-29-2018, 10:36 AM
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post 1567407711 11-29-2018, 10:38 AM
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Originally Posted By FrazettaSilke⏩
My other Grandpa's mother is still living, at 100+. He's 85 years old and still has to listen to his Mama in her house lmao
lmao that’s awesome
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Dad is 63 , past 3 years his weight has significantly dropped , see his face molding into an old man . I do think about it and then look at him like its the last time ill see him. Just spend as much time as you can well their active and cognitive functoons in tact
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I can relate. My parents are only in their early 60s, but neither are exactly healthy. My mother was always a bit fragile. My father has years of heavy drinking under his belt, and 5 years of prison aged him terribly (he got out a few years ago).
Originally Posted By JimmieRedbeard⏩
My dad was 40 and my mom was 20 when i was born.
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Originally Posted By FrazettaSilke⏩
Think 70 asshat
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My dad was 44 when and my mother was 42 when they had me. It really blows when your parents are elderly by the time you become a man. I'm hoping I can churn out some grandchildren for them before it's too late.
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I think for a lot of people seeing their parents "age" faster is also because you most likely don't live with them, and don't see them changing every day.

Once you only see them a handful of times a month/year, it speeds up the process. I know after moving out that it feels that way, but I still get to regularly see my parents.
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I'm at that age where my parents are basically "old people" however neither they nor I like to use that word. My Dad still sees "old" as 80+ and despite his age and afew health issues which require daily medication, he does whatever his 70 year-old frame will allow him to do. He even did some discuss and shot-put training last year and occassionaly rides his sports bike. He didn't have my youngest bro til he was 43 and its startling how many people have mistaken then for granddad and grandson.

My mother was diagnosed with MS (mutiple sclerosis) only a few months ago. However its just one of those conditions people have to live with. Better to develop it at late 60s than late 20s. The actresses Selma Blair and Jamie Lynn Sigler have it as well.
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Originally Posted By bobbydigitaloa⏩
People laughing at OP for his dad being 44 when he was born meanwhile this is exactly what a chitlpad of people are doing in today’s world...having children later.
Most miscers will be doing the same when the cold realization kicks in that all their friends have disappeared to have families.

Only they will have to settle for some battle-hardened sea tortoise with a clunge like a donkey's yawn and 4 bastards in tow.
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
what good is a doctor who can't even treat her own case of stage 4 kuntiosis?
Having dated a hot doctor, you did the right thing. Blending a hot female’s psyche with a doctor’s God complex is absolutely fatal.
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Originally Posted By StinnerOzz⏩
3 years ago, still in my early 30s, my dad died and I had to move mom (early 60s, with Alzheimer's) into a nursing home since she lost her caregiver. Granted dad was 71, but he was one of those old bastards that seemed he'd outlive everyone else just to spite them. A brain tumor took him our after he suffered for years with other breathing issues - go figure. Then my poor mom had the dementia onset in her 50s, to the point where now she's like my toddler at best. Horribly sad.

Lots of things suck and you never know when it's going to hit. Best wishes to ya.
Fck ... dementia in her 50s?! That seems much too young.

I had my DNA checked out and apparently I have a genetic marker for Alzheimer's. It said "late onset Alzheimer's" though, so I guess I might get it when I'm in my 80s or some chit. I recently found out that drugs like Benadryl increase your odds of getting Alzheimer's too, so I immediately threw out what Benadryl pills I had left in the house. Hold me, brahs.
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Originally Posted By bobbydigitaloa⏩
People laughing at OP for his dad being 44 when he was born meanwhile this is exactly what a chitlpad of people are doing in today’s world...having children later.
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Especially since the miscer dream is to knock up a 20 year-old at 45.
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Originally Posted By seekingainz⏩
Having dated a hot doctor, you did the right thing. Blending a hot female’s psyche with a doctor’s God complex is absolutely fatal.
yeah, my freedom and happiness trump all other factors. she had job offers for 250-300k while still in her last year of residency. i'm sure she's making 300 right now. i could have used sloot logic and married her and never worked again. just lol @ being trash like that. same goes for the lawyer who wanted to get married.

i've pulled hotter sloots since then and i'll pull even hotter ones in the future. i'm sure i'll date more doctors and lawyers going forward. wood rather never have another GF though. mark my words: my next GF (should i be weak enough to have another one) will look like a god-tier model srs
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damn, currently miscing with a lump in my throat. Dad's 77, still plays sports and no health issues, but watching him get slower and slower on the badminton court, and out of breath easily when on hikes with family is brutal!!!
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It comes in stages

The first for me was my dad following me down something skiing and having a big crash. I realised that for some time he'd been just following me down things he wasn't happy skiing at his age and just not said anything for some time. I'd just never thought about it.
I think a pivotal time is when you ask your parents advice about something and realise they don't know any more about it than you do. Spun me out a bit.
Recently I asked my dad to help me move some stuff into my new flat and he said he would love to but he just can't carry heavy stuff anymore and not sure how much use he'd be

My mum, the women who drove through Yugoslavia and along a road known as called "the death road" in a small BMW for the lulz has stopped driving long distances and at night. Just bought an automatic.

Fuk just take me back to the times when my parents were superheros and no matter how fuked up I'd managed to make something they always knew what to do and sorted it outDoes make me grow the fuk up though.
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