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Thread: Study: Women peak at 18 on dating apps. Men peak at 50.

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Y'all think about this too much. If a girl likes a guy it's obvious, they start talking, go on a date and things just happen. If you have to seek out women you have already lost.
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Originally Posted By BetaAsPhuck⏩
OK, but why do you lie about your age?

What's the motivation?
I answered this twice already lol. The age demographic that I'm most attracted to (18-26)....includes women who use the age parameter setting and set it to no older than 30-35. Why do they do this? For the same reason I set mine to no older than 26-30. Because if you take a pool of random men aged 18-40, and put them in front a group of women aged 18-26, most of these women will not find the men over 30-35 as attractive as the younger lads. Since its a completely random selection of men. And men start giving less of a phuck about their diet, fitness, etc...as age catches up on them and starts settling in, which is when they should be giving more a puck. Therefore for the same reason I use the age setting, women do to. To optomize their selections, handed to them at random, which saves time swiping left.

But not all women use this setting. And some younger women actually prefer guys alot older then them. So Id estimate Im increasing my pool by 20% give or take by lowering my own age. It's not life or death is what I'm getting at...and since Im actually in the best physical shape of my life, at 40, have retained most of my facial aesthetics, and demonstrate high value through my profile pics, and irl...I'm able to attract more, and prettier women then I did at 21. These are facts. Im not making any of this up.
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Also I hate to break it to the misc but at the ripe old age of 24 I have FAR more eligible husband matieral men interested in me then I did at 18.

When I was 18 I got loads of messages from creepy old men and dudes looking to pay me for sex (which I still get). The block button was my best friend. Literally every other message was borderline **** bear material from guys who wanted to star in their very own barely legal porn. Ew.

Dudes seeking much younger women are doing so for purely sexual purposes most of the time. That and the ego boost.

I am now considered wife material age and can still date pretty much any age of man I want. I have no reason to go above 35 to find what I’m looking for. None at all. I am basking in the attention of decent, relationship material men 21-35.

Tbh that has a lot more value to me than being seen as “prime hole” so I’m living the dream at the moment and fully intend to take full advantage.

Maybe you guys are ok paying for sex forever and living a degenerate life, but I’d rather build something real.
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Originally Posted By Maylie⏩
Also I hate to break it to the misc but at the ripe old age of 24 I have FAR more eligible husband matieral men interested in me then I did at 18.

When I was 18 I got loads of messages from creepy old men and dudes looking to pay me for sex (which I still get). The block button was my best friend. Literally every other message was borderline **** bear material from guys who wanted to star in their very own barely legal porn. Ew.

Dudes seeking much younger women are doing so for purely sexual purposes most of the time. That and the ego boost.

I am now considered wife material age and can still date pretty much any age of man I want. I have no reason to go above 35 to find what I’m looking for. None at all. I am basking in the attention of decent, relationship material men 21-35.

Tbh that has a lot more value to me than being seen as “prime hole” so I’m living the dream at the moment and fully intend to take full advantage.

Maybe you guys are ok paying for sex forever and living a degenerate life, but I’d rather build something real.
so you've been posting on the misc since you were 18 and think you'll ever have a normal relationship? see you when you're 30 with 2 cats.
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Originally Posted By FIREnICE⏩
so you've been posting on the misc since you were 18 and think you'll ever have a normal relationship? see you when you're 30 with 2 cats.
I started posting here at 19.

Also lol @ 30 cope.

Any decent looking chick will have more options than a lot of men for way longer than that. Supply and demand is that simple.

I agree she may not get Chad, but she’s not as likely to die alone as Timothy is.

Sorry.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yes well just saying you have that option. If you can’t attract women based on your looks, you can play the money/status/provider card like a lot of men do.
i am good looking though

the issue is I'm not the top 1% women want on dating sites and approaching in real life is very hard

on dating sites as a male, due to horrible oversaturation of market, all the attractive women are looking for 9/10s. Even 7 females on dating sites want a 9/10 male
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
If you have to seek out women you have already lost.
what does this mean? would "seeking out women" extend so far as placing yourself in a situation to meet women?

cause im not sure how you think it works.

unless it all happens at work/ school
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah 30’s is a lot more reasonable than 50. If you look at men’s dating value as a combination between looks and money/stability/provider status, then 30’s is probably the prime period.

Strictly lookswise though I think it’s even younger, and men peak in their 20’s. After 30 a lot of men decline lookswise and start balding, getting wrinkles, looking old in their face, getting fat or skinny fat, bad posture etc.

Men lose glow just like women do. The drop off can be just as bad as for women. The only difference is that men can compensate with money/stability/provider role (or baiting women with money/stability even though they have no intention of actually being a stable provider).
"Objectively," sure. When I showed my girl my pics from 10 years ago, she said I was more handsome then, and that's what I was expecting. However, the results speak for themselves, as there is no comparison between my dating/sex life then compared to later on. I know it isn't in your case, but for most women there's more to what makes a man attractive than youth and looks. Confidence, charm, sex appeal--these traits often don't get developed until later on and with experience. The only thing my youthful looks got me then was comments and looks from older women (such as yourself, lol) and gay men.

As for "money/stability/provider status," those have never been a factor for me. Most girls under 25 don't care what you make as long as you aren't poverty status (except for sugar babies of course, but they're just prostitutes in all but name). Of course, a lot of guys do use money to get laid, but it's not like there's some exact equation between youth, looks, and money.
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Originally Posted By spadelexus⏩
I answered this twice already lol. The age demographic that I'm most attracted to (18-26)....includes women who use the age parameter setting and set it to no older than 30-35. Why do they do this? For the same reason I set mine to no older than 26-30. Because if you take a pool of random men aged 18-40, and put them in front a group of women aged 18-26, most of these women will not find the men over 30-35 as attractive as the younger lads.
Exactly.

I sounds to me like you do it, because you know that putting your real age would lead to women rejecting you (via their explicit age preference). Also, it seems that once you believe they are attracted to you, only then you reveal the lie - because you don't believe they will disregard how attracted they are to you.

Which is basically you telling us that you need to lie about your age, in order to attract younger women. Which contradictions what you are saying about the women you like, liking older. You only get them because you lie.

It's like a ex-friend of mine who won't tell women he is dating that he's had relationships with men, until he knows that seriously like him (ie. they have already become monogamous. He has had a female outright tell him to his face, that she would have rejected him if she would have known that from the start, but she was already strongly attracted to him and dating him long term.
So Id estimate Im increasing my pool by 20% give or take by lowering my own age.
You can easily test your estimate.
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Originally Posted By Maylie⏩
I started posting here at 19.

Also lol @ 30 cope.

Any decent looking chick will have more options than a lot of men for way longer than that. Supply and demand is that simple.

I agree she may not get Chad, but she’s not as likely to die alone as Timothy is.

Sorry.
You basically just said a decent looking girl past 30 ends up with a Timothy.

Men can increase their value as they age with money and status giving them more options for attractive women...then women, who lose their value (looks), as they age giving them less options for Chads. So if you're 24. Choose your dating time wisely. My advice would be never have sex before the third date.
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Originally Posted By spadelexus⏩
You basically just said a decent looking girl past 30 ends up with a Timothy.

Men can increase their value as they age with money and status giving them more options for attractive women...then women, who lose their value (looks), as they age giving them less options for Chads. So if you're 24. Choose your dating time wisely. My advice would be never have sex before the third date.
maylie is an ethnic woman

if she takes care of herself, she'll be very attractive at 45. Ethnic women have a very long shelf life
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Originally Posted By spadelexus⏩
You basically just said a decent looking girl past 30 ends up with a Timothy.

Men can increase their value as they age with money and status giving them more options for attractive women...then women, who lose their value (looks), as they age giving them less options for Chads. So if you're 24. Choose your dating time wisely. My advice would be never have sex before the third date.
I am under no illusion I’ll have better options as I age, but it’s pure revenge fantasy cope by angry virgins to act like I won’t have a fair amount.

My cousin is 33 and overweight and just married an eye doctor who makes 250k a year.

I see chit like that literally all the time.

That being said: I think men’s value starts to go down past 35 if a woman is looking for a husband/father for her kids. Single people past that age tend to be single for a reason. I don’t mess with men above that age because I assume they either a) don’t want to settle down b) do want to settle down and something else is the problem.

IMO most of the eligible, family oriented people of both genders are off the market by 35.

You have 3 kids dude, can’t imagine any woman in her 20’s wanting to get serious with that. Enjoy your sex spree while it lasts but don’t forget your family.
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as a 31 year old who looks 25 it's a blessing and a curse. The blessing is I can legitimately get a 20 year old girl interested in me because I look young but then the curse is revealing your age to them and it catches them off guard because you look younger. then the age gap is a little too much for most.

also I think I'd be concerned that in a few years I'll start getting some age lines/looking more tired and then if I was dating a younger girl she might think 'well hmm maybe I should go for this more youthful looking guy who's actually my age".
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Man goes through struggles to become rich and accumulate wealth. The average women will be valued by her beauty and then one day if she does not plan for a better future, she has no future and therefore latches on the guy who spent his entire career working. Obviously the older you get, the harder it is to find a good man willing to put up with your **** and baggage.

High chance for being damaged goods if you a 30 year women without a husband. The only exception is a career woman.
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Originally Posted By spadelexus⏩
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(Though I always appreciate the reps and comments fromyou-know-who-are.)

Spade, sorry if my tone come across as harsh. I honestly don't have anything against you.

I'm really not writing with bad intention, I just think you aren't being realistic.

You're lying about your age, seemingly from the understanding that women in their physical prime explicitly do not want men in their 40s. However, you are simultaneously trying to convince the misc that women in their physical prime lust after men 40+.
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Originally Posted By MagicWater⏩
maylie is an ethnic woman

if she takes care of herself, she'll be very attractive at 45. Ethnic women have a very long shelf life
I don't know why Americans call non-whites 'ethnics'.

Whites have ethnicities. (eg. English. Italian. Polish. etc.)
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Originally Posted By BetaAsPhuck⏩
(Though I always appreciate the reps and comments fromyou-know-who-are.)

Spade, sorry if my tone come across as harsh. I honestly don't have anything against you.

I'm really not writing with bad intention, I just don't think you aren't being realistic.

You're lying about your age, seemingly from the understanding that women in their physical prime explicitly do not want men in their 40s. However, you are simultaneously trying to convince the misc that women in their physical prime lust after men 40+.
This.

I hate filtering through all the older dudes lying about their age on dating sites. Plenty are extremely obvious. Spade is black so maybe he’s telling the truth about looking a lot younger.

If it were really prime time for young girls you wouldn’t have to lie in the first place.
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ITT everyone is forgetting how old 50 really is. Its rare to see anyone in good shape at this age, let alone peaking lmao. But the article is right in the sense that if you are a man, in good shape at 50, women will definitely have their eyes on you.

I never see myself not being in shape so it should be interesting to see how things work out.


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Women peak between 18-22

Men peak between 27-35

Saying men peak at 50 is manipulation of data.
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Originally Posted By digitalchi⏩
ITT everyone is forgetting how old 50 really is. Its rare to see anyone in good shape at this age, let alone peaking lmao. But the article is right in the sense that if you are a man, in good shape at 50, women will definitely have their eyes on you.

I never see myself not being in shape so it should be interesting to see how things work out.


This is the expectation for most miscers


















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Fukkin dead

100% accurate when it comes to the men age like wine cope fest ITT

35 is the start of a steep hill for men and women, especially in America.

The most common exception I see is black/brown/Asian people who have stayed in shape.
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Originally Posted By Maylie⏩
Fukkin dead

100% accurate when it comes to the men age like wine cope fest ITT

35 is the start of a steep hill for men and women, especially in America.

The most common exception I see is black/brown/Asian people who have stayed in shape.
This is actually true. After 35-40 it's over for everyone. Unless you have absolute top tier genetics (some people can still look youthful until 50-55 but it's extremely rare)

Tony Horton was like 52 in P90x
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
This is actually true. After 35-40 it's over for everyone. Unless you have absolute top tier genetics (some people can still look youthful until 50-55 but it's extremely rare)

Tony Horton was like 52 in P90x
Tony Horton looks good AF for a 50something! It's also very, very, very rare for a 50+ year old guy to look that good.
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Originally Posted By BetaAsPhuck⏩
(Though I always appreciate the reps and comments fromyou-know-who-are.)

Spade, sorry if my tone come across as harsh. I honestly don't have anything against you.

I'm really not writing with bad intention, I just think you aren't being realistic.

You're lying about your age, seemingly from the understanding that women in their physical prime explicitly do not want men in their 40s. However, you are simultaneously trying to convince the misc that women in their physical prime lust after men 40+.
I'm either a creepy old fart pulling because I'm paying them or a conniving yet good looking fraudster pulling because I'm lying to them. Lmfao I can never win when talking about this subject.

I said that some exclusively like older guys. I also said that I hide my age. So while its set to 29, I don't know which girls put 30 or 40 or 50 as a parameter. What I do know is that when I tell them my age, it doesn't ever matter.

This is because Im probably in the top 15-20% of all guys on dating apps in looks (probably top 3% for guys 40+), have my chit together (I own a house while Chads I compete with live with mommy and daddy) and most girls I date are not thinking LTR, because they are in college/having fun, or because I have kids.

And no telling a girl my age before having sex with her is nothing like your friend telling a girl she's now in a higher risk pool for HIV after having sex with her. Sorry not even close. It's more like a girl having pics with long hair and before you go on a date she txts you "btw my hair is short now". If shes pretty and nice, most guys won't care, even if they prefer long hair.

My message to the misc is that its not black or white. A man's value in the dating or sex markets is based on his looks money and status and he should continually try to maximize each one as he ages so he can beat competition and not be FA. And yes its totally possible for a 21 yo FA....to be dating a 20yo low tier model when he is 40....without paying them, and also telling them you're real age before sleeping with them.

I'm living proof.
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I don't know what is so hard to understand about this study.

Everyone wants to fuk 18 year old women because they have tight snatch and perfect tits and no kids.

No one wants to fuk 50 year old women because they have wizard sleeve, saggy tits, and children of various ages to feed and clothe.

Everyone wants to fuk 50 year old men because they have refined taste, money, nice house, nice car.

No one wants to fuk 18 year old men because they have autism, no money, no house, no car, pimples, premature ejaculation issues.
Dude what in the fuk are you smoking? I'm 54 and make over $200K a year. I don't live like that and neither do my divorced guy friends. You're either delusional or a supreme troll.
Originally Posted By Kev1972⏩
The average 50yo SINGLE man is a winner. At or close to the peak of his career. Highest earning potential. Debt free as child support and mortgages and student loans are all in the rear view mirror. Huge house full of goodies. Lots of toys like cars motorcycles guns trucks. Lots of disposable income. Tons of strippers and sloot single moms who all want a piece of what he has. Winning every single day.
LMAO most of my single friends age 50 are bald and grey. Yeah they have good money, but who the hell wants a gold digging chick who only wants you for your money?
Originally Posted By spadelexus⏩
Mans glow increases over time if you stay fit and live above mediocre.

When I was 21 I was scrawny and broke. Facially I was probably an 8. I was low confidence, low self esteem, and only got lucky when drunk girls threw themselves at me.

Now I have a good career, can pass for early 30's, body and face probably 7/10. Norwood reaper, a few greys and wrinkles, but I'm much more confident in every aspect of my life.

I recently deleted the dating app bumble because I couldn't keep up with the 24hr window to reply, and volume of matches/messages I would get.



Buying girls dinner on dates doesn't make me a sugar daddy or them a sugar baby. I'm "targeting" girls I'm attracted to. Yes a divorce mid life with 3 kids in the picture is a crisis. I could have easily cashed out on my responsibilities in life and moved to Brazil to live on the beach. But I didn't. I support my kids and their mom, and have made sacrifices.

The recently found freedom to see other women, pool of attractive and available women, and easy access to meet them with dating apps...was a total shock on my neurotransmitters. I was admittedly addicted to the dopamine rush when I got a "You got a match!" notification on tinder, and the girl was a hot prime glow hbb. Most men in my situation would also get a rush from the dopamine, and keep swiping for more. Source: Tinder is the most downloaded, and highest grossing dating app in the world.

But...there's much more to life then dating apps, women and causal sex. So after a couple years of experiencing that lifestyle, I've scaled down quite dramatically, and have been giving my attention to 1, maybe 2 girls at a time, steadily... instead of dozens on continual pipeline replenishment. Current gf is a 21yo 7/10 attending HBS in the fall. I see her 1-2×'s/week. We've been seeing each other for a few months. And I'm content atm.
Difference is your lift now and have a slightly higher income.
Originally Posted By spadelexus⏩
I set my age to 29 on tinder, then hide my age. I always tell a girl (if she doesn't ask) my real age when we txt, meet, before having sex, etc... On bumble I think it's set to 35-36, and I also, tell girls my real age if we decide to meet/before having sex. It's never been an issue. Not once. Most of the times girls don't believe me, ask to see my Id etc...I also tell them the truth when they ask me why I set my age to be younger...it's because it increases the pool of young attractive girls...they take it as a compliment, smile and say "that makes sense" and blush.

If I ran my real age Id estimate Id get 20% less matches. Still would be doing better than I did at 21-23yo with girls 18-26yo.
You aren't 50, dude, and you have to lie about your age to get girls. So much for the "all 18 year olds want 50 year old guys" if a 40 year old guy has to lie about his age.
Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Weird thing is I bought a car from a car salesman a couple year ago and hes a strong 6/10 but hes married to a 8/10 that is like 5-10 years younger. Hes very confident and cocky though.
LMAO, put him in touch with our used car salesman so he can be a mentor and our used car salesman will stop posting the same chit over and over.
Originally Posted By spadelexus⏩
I answered this twice already lol. The age demographic that I'm most attracted to (18-26)....includes women who use the age parameter setting and set it to no older than 30-35. Why do they do this? For the same reason I set mine to no older than 26-30. Because if you take a pool of random men aged 18-40, and put them in front a group of women aged 18-26, most of these women will not find the men over 30-35 as attractive as the younger lads. Since its a completely random selection of men. And men start giving less of a phuck about their diet, fitness, etc...as age catches up on them and starts settling in, which is when they should be giving more a puck. Therefore for the same reason I use the age setting, women do to. To optomize their selections, handed to them at random, which saves time swiping left.

But not all women use this setting. And some younger women actually prefer guys alot older then them. So Id estimate Im increasing my pool by 20% give or take by lowering my own age. It's not life or death is what I'm getting at...and since Im actually in the best physical shape of my life, at 40, have retained most of my facial aesthetics, and demonstrate high value through my profile pics, and irl...I'm able to attract more, and prettier women then I did at 21. These are facts. Im not making any of this up.
You are better looking than most 40 year old men. Most 40 year old men stop working out, are hairy on their bodies, balding, grey hair.

Chicks color their hair and can wear makeup to hide aging. Men don't always want to hide their grey and can't hide balding.

Plus as female Miscers show, they go on Tinder and get hundreds of hot Chads in their 20s who want to bang them.

The game is rigged guys. Now with social media and online dating, chicks can be 60 and banging prime 20 year old Chads as long as she works out and has a decent face. She can hide the grey and get botox.

Those of us over 50 are lucky to get the attention of fit 50 year old women. Even in the gym the 40 year old women are getting hit on by 20 year old college Chads. It's phucking disgusting. 20 year old Stacys aren't hitting on me in the gym.
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Originally Posted By bretmarathon⏩
Dude what in the fuk are you smoking? I'm 54 and make over $200K a year. I don't live like that and neither do my divorced guy friends. You're either delusional or a supreme troll.



LMAO most of my single friends age 50 are bald and grey. Yeah they have good money, but who the hell wants a gold digging chick who only wants you for your money?



Difference is your lift now and have a slightly higher income.



You aren't 50, dude, and you have to lie about your age to get girls. So much for the "all 18 year olds want 50 year old guys" if a 40 year old guy has to lie about his age.



LMAO, put him in touch with our used car salesman so he can be a mentor and our used car salesman will stop posting the same chit over and over.



You are better looking than most 40 year old men. Most 40 year old men stop working out, are hairy on their bodies, balding, grey hair.

Chicks color their hair and can wear makeup to hide aging. Men don't always want to hide their grey and can't hide balding.

Plus as female Miscers show, they go on Tinder and get hundreds of hot Chads in their 20s who want to bang them.

The game is rigged guys. Now with social media and online dating, chicks can be 60 and banging prime 20 year old Chads as long as she works out and has a decent face. She can hide the grey and get botox.

Those of us over 50 are lucky to get the attention of fit 50 year old women. Even in the gym the 40 year old women are getting hit on by 20 year old college Chads. It's phucking disgusting. 20 year old Stacys aren't hitting on me in the gym.
Chads aren't swiping on 40+yo women. Don't be fooled by them coping. SS may be an exception because she has a real nice body that a 20 something yo Chad would use 1x if he couldn't find any better.

I don't need to lie. And I don't. Could say I mislead but I always come clean before wasting any time.

Keep hearing the carsalesman use this so figured Id give it a shot to settle this debate once and for all. Too early to tell, but so far things look promising.

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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Can't imagine being under age 40 and using a dating app
***** you at least 40 already
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Originally Posted By spadelexus⏩
Chads aren't swiping on 40+yo women. Don't be fooled by them coping. SS may be an exception because she has a real nice body that a 20 something yo Chad would use 1x if he couldn't find any better.

I don't need to lie. And I don't. Could say I mislead but I always come clean before wasting any time.

Keep hearing the carsalesman use this so figured Id give it a shot to settle this debate once and for all. Too early to tell, but so far things look promising.
SS and those type of women aren't getting 20 year old Chads as FWB which means multiple sex. SS even posted she has a young Chad FWB.

20 year old Chads will fuk 40 year old whales who weigh over 200 lbs and date them in public. Srs. I see it at my gym. Granted she has a pretty face and does powerlifting, so she spots the young guys.

There are 2 exercise instructors at my gym who are legit dating Chads 20-25 years their junior. Both are chicks in their 50s. They are hot, I do say that. They look better than most 20 year old chicks cuz they work out all day and wear a lot of makeup/do up their hair.

I think they spend their entire income on Botox. Srs.

I wish I could approach these chicks and even get 1 date, but 20 year old Chads get them. How can I compete with Chads half my age? It's frustrating as hell.

If you're a 9.1 in looks and idk what the Used Carsalesmanbrah is, 6.9? Then no wonder you get chicks. Why sit here and preach to those of us who aren't 9.1s? Even with my high income and I lift 6x a week, I can't get even 40 year old chicks.
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Originally Posted By DSTEE⏩
It fits with what I've seen IRL. Early 20 y/o female friends often have several hundreds matches and pending matches and usually don't even bother responding. Yesterday I was with a few attractive 30 y/o female friends and saw their tinder. Literally just a small handfull of matches, and often they don't get any response or get ghosted after a date. One of them also asked me if I could find a friends for her to hook up with because she had no luck on apps. They had the same negative view of dating apps as a lot of miscers have nowadays. Just sent one them the link from the op and got "Well that explains a lot" as response




So you also agree with the study that younger females are more attractive than older ones then. Women are kind of the opposite



https://i.imgur.com/ClwByd7.png
lol @ brahs saying 22. They'd all say 17 if they knew they could get away with it w8 wut
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