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Thread: Why in the fuk would anyone want kids?

post 1569407951 12-23-2018, 09:37 PM
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Nobody wants to **** you guys anyhow none of this is an issue but how weak are you that you can't wake up a few times and feed a little baby without sobbing hysterically about it on the internet? I've got two and this **** is easy as hell.
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The part that annoys me is that you hear parents complain all the time “I have kids to feed!!!”

Well if you can’t afford them then why did you have them?
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post 1569408431 12-23-2018, 09:45 PM
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OP you want me to send you $20? You seem very concerned about your financial situation
post 1569408601 12-23-2018, 09:47 PM
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post 1569408801 12-23-2018, 09:52 PM
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Originally Posted By kingofturtles⏩
I have a 2 year old. Your saying it gets worse? Fml
Not IME. I actually enjoyed my daughter more once she was around 5 or 6. Old enough to communicate with more and more independent.
Originally Posted By GravityLee⏩
You shouldnt have kids until you really understand love and sacrifice
Some people just shouldn't have kids. Plenty of examples around.

Some people don't plan it really, but having kids teaches them about love and sacrifice.

And a few are just naturally great parents...want it, plan for it, and are truly good at it.
Originally Posted By DaveIndeed⏩
up late assembling christmas toys crew.
Just finished wrapping gifts and putting them under the tree.

I wonder how many times this thread has been posted here at this point...

I didn't have a kid to conform, or keep up with other people. Saw my family dwindling (grandparents passing in succession) and noticed that the "kids" were all grown ups. I don't think that wanting to share your experience and values with another human equals selfishness any more so than any other act of self-interest.

I do think there is something to older parents being more ready for parenthood. But younger parents should have more energy to keep up with young kids and also more time to help with potential grand kids.
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post 1569408831 12-23-2018, 09:52 PM
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That feel when you get old and co-workers start talking about their kids and expect you to care.
post 1569409011 12-23-2018, 09:55 PM
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It will be a empty shallow life after 50 without kids. They are tough at the beginning and I hate this part but it gets better.

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no more after this however.
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post 1569409761 12-23-2018, 10:12 PM
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Having kids & grandkids is probably the greatest satisfaction you get from the second half of your life. The first half is when you look your best and you're at your peak, improving yourself in order to compete with other young guys for a mate. The second half starts once you have kids, which is when your goal becomes to strengthen each aspect of the family unit.

Without a family during this second half of your life, what do you even see yourself doing at 50, 60, 70, or later? Practicing guitar chords alone in your house? Endlessly swiping on tinder just to get a date with a woman your age to whom you are barely even attracted? You're living the lifestyle of a man in the first half of his life, but you're handicapped because you're no longer in your prime. How is this life a superior alternative?

I respect the decision of any adult who decides to not have kids, but I think that the reality of being childless is far more bleak than most of the short-sighted No Child Crew miscers realize.
post 1569410021 12-23-2018, 10:19 PM
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Originally Posted By goonsondeck⏩
dude no one cares about your poverty legacy
post 1569410731 12-23-2018, 10:33 PM
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Originally Posted By PoundMobb⏩
Children are just about the only thing that gives life meaning.
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post 1569410931 12-23-2018, 10:39 PM
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Originally Posted By AMDuser⏩
brb financial drain
brb always getting sick, making you sick
brb constantly screaming and running around
brb can't go anywhere without planning in advance
brb no vacations without taking the kids
brb living on a toddler's schedule
brb living like a toddler, as an adult
brb tearing up your house and breaking ****
brb when you want to get away you gotta pay some high schooler $15/hour
brb getting no sleep
brb always have to watch them
brb biggest attention whores
brb your life is gone

Mind blown that people voluntarily have kids.

Instinct to procreate is strong with some.
No kids crew, but...

Life is more than dollars brah.
post 1569411271 12-23-2018, 10:45 PM
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Originally Posted By Mavex⏩
Having kids & grandkids is probably the greatest satisfaction you get from the second half of your life. The first half is when you look your best and you're at your peak, improving yourself in order to compete with other young guys for a mate. The second half starts once you have kids, which is when your goal becomes to strengthen each aspect of the family unit.

Without a family during this second half of your life, what do you even see yourself doing at 50, 60, 70, or later? Practicing guitar chords alone in your house? Endlessly swiping on tinder just to get a date with a woman your age to whom you are barely even attracted? You're living the lifestyle of a man in the first half of his life, but you're handicapped because you're no longer in your prime. How is this life a superior alternative?

I respect the decision of any adult who decides to not have kids, but I think that the reality of being childless is far more bleak than most of the short-sighted No Child Crew miscers realize.
There are these things called a wife. And friends. That's who you spend your time with.

LOL thinking that your grown kids are going to be with you 24/7 to keep you company when you're 70.
post 1569411441 12-23-2018, 10:51 PM
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Children are not for everyone. If you don’t want kids then please dont have them. We already have enough sh*t parents in this world. Personally want 3-5 kids, but I already have a savings account for the future unlike the average person my age.
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post 1569411581 12-23-2018, 10:54 PM
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Originally Posted By Xgamer791⏩
Kids will drain you emotionally and financially, Kids under 11 don’t count, after 11 is when the pressure starts to set in, they are the main reason for most divorces imo, I know this for a fact because my step kids are proving it every day, not the divorce part as I am not married.
Those are step kids. They aren't yours. Its not the same regardless of how fond you are of them. Your raising another mans seed.
post 1569412461 12-23-2018, 11:14 PM
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there is no instinct to procreate

there is an instinct to fukk and an instinct to not kill your kids

the desire to procreate is 100% learned

there is no biological clock

there is a cultural clock
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post 1569412761 12-23-2018, 11:21 PM
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Children are the ends to your goal as a human being. Physical encounters with women are only a means to an end.
post 1569412851 12-23-2018, 11:22 PM
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post 1569412921 12-23-2018, 11:24 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Umm
the concept of a baby is obviously learned. if you were never introduced to it, you would have no idea what it was. you would have a desire to fukk (fat men) but no desire to have a baby until someone taught you what that even meant. there is no way to hard code that concept in a human brain, nor is there a need to so. just like every other species, we have a hard-coded desire to fukk and a desire to not kill our offspring.
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post 1569412941 12-23-2018, 11:24 PM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
there is no instinct to procreate

the desire to procreate is 100% learned

there is no biological clock

there is a cultural clock
everything here is wrong
post 1569413031 12-23-2018, 11:26 PM
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Originally Posted By AMDuser⏩
everything here is wrong
if you believe that, you have zero knowledge of biology or evolution. don't feel bad though, as this is very common among average people srs
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post 1569413561 12-23-2018, 11:37 PM
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there's plenty of philosophical reasons to NOT have kids in this day and age not even getting into the economics of it.
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post 1569413921 12-23-2018, 11:47 PM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
if you believe that, you have zero knowledge of biology or evolution. don't feel bad though, as this is very common among average people srs
the purpose of evolution is the survival of your genes

Why is there an orgasm?

It is not survival of the fittest, but survival of the sexiest.
post 1569414251 12-23-2018, 11:58 PM
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Originally Posted By AMDuser⏩
the purpose of evolution is the survival of your genes

Why is there an orgasm?

It is not survival of the fittest, but survival of the sexiest.
Kids are getting uglier and uglier the last twenty years. Back in the day, CHADS were impregnating everyone. But now thanks to wide spread DNA testing, girls are just taking semen from their door mat providers.

Now it’s all about which guy is the most agreeable to be a father.
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Originally Posted By enzo818⏩
you're only looking at the negatives. Kids can provide more joy than any material possession.
Originally Posted By PoundMobb⏩
Children are just about the only thing that gives life meaning.
Originally Posted By davik⏩
because some people still have souls unlike you
Originally Posted By S0Jack3d⏩
lol @ retards that don't want kids
Originally Posted By Ikeman83⏩
You can't even fathom what it's like watching your woman carry your child who you then mold after yourself.
Originally Posted By DaveIndeed⏩
Nobody wants to **** you guys anyhow none of this is an issue but how weak are you that you can't wake up a few times and feed a little baby without sobbing hysterically about it on the internet? I've got two and this **** is easy as hell.
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It will be a empty shallow life after 50 without kids. They are tough at the beginning and I hate this part but it gets better.

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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
if you believe that, you have zero knowledge of biology or evolution. don't feel bad though, as this is very common among average people srs
lmao Ratfish at it again.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Biological clock means that women can only get pg up until menopause.

But yeah I’ve never had any desire to have kids. And yeah I agree that cultural norms and social expectations are one of the reasons that people want kids. Marriage and kids are still very important for social status.

Idk just never wanted any. But if I were a guy I’d probably just have kids anyway just very late in life when I’m old. And then have the mother do all the work.
most of the time i hear people say that, they mean that a woman's urge to reproduce is fukken throbbing like mad because of hormones or something, when in reality it's because all of her friends on ******** are posting baby pics and she feels envious of the attention.
Originally Posted By AMDuser⏩
the purpose of evolution is the survival of your genes

Why is there an orgasm?

It is not survival of the fittest, but survival of the sexiest.
there's no purpose of anything. we're just momentarily trapping energy before entropy releases it from our dried out husks of bodies.

take a deer, for example. do you think the deer is thinking "boy, i sure want to make a little bambi fukker that i have to carry, watch over and whose existence dramatically decreases my own odds of survival"

nope.

the deer is thinking "i hope this chad buck fukks the chit outta me"

then it gets pregnant

then it drops bambi and instinct takes over and stops it from peacing out

no animal has a hardwired concept of a widdle baby in its mind. there's no need for that to evolve. evolution gives every animal a desire to fukk and a desire to raise the offspring. that's all that has been necessary for millions of years of evolution.

of course humans think they're somehow different, but if you raise a human in a lab and never tell it about the concept of a baby, it's never going to want to make one obviously. it's going to want to fukk a scientist though most likely.
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100% agree with OP, had a vasectomy just 4 days ago to make sure this mistake doesn't happen to me.
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Reality is that a vast majority of children are accidents. That's why educated/intelligent people have less kids and many aren't having kids at all. That's why there is a declining population in most 1st world countries if it weren't for immigration.





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[QUOTE=Jasonw1178 post_id=1569416121]Reality is that a vast majority of children are accidents. That's why educated/intelligent people have less kids and many aren't having kids at all. That's why there is a declining population in most 1st world countries if it weren't for immigration.

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[IMG]https://pics.onsizzle.com/her-remember-when-wed-do-this-without-the-clot-him-4779980.png[IMG][/QUOTE]i often get really depressed when i think about how i never had kids

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