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post 1570590411 01-08-2019, 12:28 AM
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I just got brutally friendzoned (srs)

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-girl and I hit it off, hang out a couple times lowkey. no kissing/touching but there is flirting.
-christmas break comes and we don't see each other.
-she then texts me asking if I want to be her "adventure buddy"
-I say ok, we make plans to go on an adventurous trip
-she then reveals she is currently IN a relationship but still wants to hang out as long as I realize there are boundaries.
-I say nah srs


did I dun goof? Should I have played it off and hung around if she breaks up with him eventually? Seems beta.



edit- possible plot twist @ post 72. her relationship is with another girl?????
post 1570590561 01-08-2019, 12:32 AM
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Originally Posted By Rajc⏩
you hang out a couple of times and never wanted to touch / kiss her?
guess I should've made my intentions more clear from the beginning and then I would've found out a lot sooner lol
post 1570590571 01-08-2019, 12:32 AM
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was this in a work environment? cos seems normal
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post 1570590581 01-08-2019, 12:32 AM
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lmao lol

dahs called a sugar baby lmao
I'm 24 not 48 lol
post 1570590591 01-08-2019, 12:33 AM
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Sounds like you friend zoned yourself.
post 1570590631 01-08-2019, 12:34 AM
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Originally Posted By hoganrulz⏩
was this in a work environment? cos seems normal
yes it was.
post 1570590671 01-08-2019, 12:35 AM
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Originally Posted By tightteeshirt⏩
yes it was.
looks like you mistook flirting for entertainments sake for wanting the dick
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post 1570590851 01-08-2019, 12:39 AM
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you can hang out with her if she is gonna provide access to hot friends and you are not paying for anything (50/50 only)

otherwise go NC *******
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post 1570590881 01-08-2019, 12:39 AM
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Originally Posted By hoganrulz⏩
looks like you mistook flirting for entertainments sake for wanting the dick
her: "I'm in a relationship and wasn't sure if you liked me as more than a friend"
me: "I was interested in more but its not a big deal"
her: "I was being careful, the feeling was reciprocal" (meaning she was interested in me to some extent....thats why Im wondering if I goofed by not sticking around if she breaks up)
post 1570591031 01-08-2019, 12:43 AM
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Originally Posted By tightteeshirt⏩
her: "I'm in a relationship and wasn't sure if you liked me as more than a friend"
me: "I was interested in more but its not a big deal"
her: "I was being careful, the feeling was reciprocal" (meaning she was interested in me to some extent....thats why Im wondering if I goofed by not sticking around if she breaks up)
if this was the case then the mistake youre making is by not pursuing her now since from what i gather, she was willing to break up her current relationship, its probably maybe still the case even if you agreed to be cucked.
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post 1570591081 01-08-2019, 12:44 AM
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Adventure buddy? Fuk that, especially if you're looking for more than that. No point in sticking around if you want more than to be friendzoned so you're doing the right thing by bailing. Don't be her backup plan.
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post 1570591181 01-08-2019, 12:48 AM
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Originally Posted By fmylife4real⏩
Adventure buddy? Fuk that, especially if you're looking for more than that. No point in sticking around if you want more than to be friendzoned so you're doing the right thing by bailing. Don't be her backup plan.
that was my thought process as well. After she told me she was in a relationship I pictured myself going on the trip with her and cringed at the thought of being the beta male friend guy. If I'm going on some trip with a female it means I LIKE her.
post 1570591191 01-08-2019, 12:48 AM
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i'll be your adventure buddy, op
post 1570591371 01-08-2019, 12:54 AM
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Originally Posted By tightteeshirt⏩
that was my thought process as well. After she told me she was in a relationship I pictured myself going on the trip with her and cringed at the thought of being the beta male friend guy. If I'm going on some trip with a female it means I LIKE her.
Sounds like you know better and to just write her off as a loss.
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post 1570591401 01-08-2019, 12:55 AM
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You did the right thing OP, don’t make someone a priority who only considers you an option.
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Originally Posted By MrSchons⏩
You did the right thing OP, don’t make someone a priority who only considers you an option.
thanks. what do I say if I get the inevitable "are you mad?" text
post 1570591901 01-08-2019, 01:09 AM
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Originally Posted By tightteeshirt⏩
thanks. what do I say if I get the inevitable "are you mad?" text
"New phone, who dis?"
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post 1570592061 01-08-2019, 01:14 AM
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You friend-zoned yourself.

She would have cheated if you pushed it.

A lot of it was code so as to have plausible deniability.

“Adventure Buddy” = she wants to be fwb

Taking hiking trips etc is the perfect cover for outdoor smashing.

“boundaries” = I want you to be a dominant man whose lustful desire overpowers my attempts to resist your advances.

Basically she wants to play the innocent, “it just happened” card, so she still feels like a good girl once she cheats.

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Originally Posted By tightteeshirt⏩
cliffs

-girl and I hit it off, hang out a couple times lowkey. no kissing/touching but there is flirting.
-christmas break comes and we don't see each other.
-she then texts me asking if I want to be her "adventure buddy"
-I say ok, we make plans to go on an adventurous trip
-she then reveals she is currently IN a relationship but still wants to hang out as long as I realize there are boundaries.
-I say nah srs


did I dun goof? Should I have played it off and hung around if she breaks up with him eventually? Seems beta.
Seriously?

No. You absolutely did the right thing. Should have immediately said “no thanks I’m not intersted in that but it was nice getting to know you”


And THATS IT. Move on.
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You'll be ok OP. You will be amazed at how easy a girl who is INTO you makes it for you.

No games, no BS or mixed messages making you wonder. You deserve it.
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post 1570592761 01-08-2019, 01:37 AM
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Originally Posted By Mercworx⏩
Seriously?

No. You absolutely did the right thing. Should have immediately said “no thanks I’m not intersted in that but it was nice getting to know you”


And THATS IT. Move on.
Originally Posted By sword_⏩
You'll be ok OP. You will be amazed at how easy a girl who is INTO you makes it for you.

No games, no BS or mixed messages making you wonder. You deserve it.
thanks friends srs. you're helping me feel better about this.
post 1570592861 01-08-2019, 01:38 AM
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
You'll be ok OP. You will be amazed at how easy a girl who is INTO you makes it for you.

No games, no BS or mixed messages making you wonder. You deserve it.
Listen to the OG over here. This is 100% true.

If a girl likes you she will absolutely make time to see you.
Originally Posted By tightteeshirt⏩
thanks. what do I say if I get the inevitable "are you mad?" text
You ignore it and don’t speak to her again. Waste of time.
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Originally Posted By tightteeshirt⏩
cliffs

-girl and I hit it off, hang out a couple times lowkey. no kissing/touchingbut there is flirting.
no there isn't

post 1570592891 01-08-2019, 01:39 AM
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You did the right thing bro. Bish probably just wanted an emotional tampon while she plays head games with her bf
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Adventure buddy? Lmao what are you both, four years old?
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So are we not doing the no pics neg train thing now?

What's next, we all catch up with OP for coffee and talk about our boyfriend's nice clean wiener?

Srs advice below OP:

Spoiler!
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age 31.

how old is your adventure buddy?
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You did the right thing man. She made it clear that she's in a relationship. Why would you waste your time with her if your intent is to bang/ask out?

The moment a girl tells me that she's in a relationship I pretty much ignore her to a degree. I talk to them just enough to be nice but nothing more.
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Originally Posted By IronILLinois⏩
age 31.

how old is your adventure buddy?
This.. even the word adventure buddy is cringy as fk.. where the fk is this adventure meant to be at too and how long was it meant to be for? So shes going to leave her BF to go on an adventure with some other dude?
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Originally Posted By ichmagwasser⏩
You friend-zoned yourself.

She would have cheated if you pushed it.

A lot of it was code so as to have plausible deniability.

“Adventure Buddy” = she wants to be fwb

Taking hiking trips etc is the perfect cover for outdoor smashing.

“boundaries” = I want you to be a dominant man whose lustful desire overpowers my attempts to resist your advances.

Basically she wants to play the innocent, “it just happened” card, so she still feels like a good girl once she cheats.

Source: I’ve smashed a lot of girls with boyfriends.
but inb4 "it just happened" turns into "he raped me" when her beta provider finds out and is ready to pull the plug on her cash support and she realizes OP doesnt make as much as beta provider.
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