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01-08-2019, 03:42 AM
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She's monkey-branching in case you wind up better than the guy she's with who probably knows nothing of her talking to and hanging out with you. Calling you an adventure buddy is so she has an out if something didn't go her way and can blame it on you if it went too far.
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01-08-2019, 03:55 AM
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Originally Posted By ichmagwasser⏩
LmaoYou friend-zoned yourself.
She would have cheated if you pushed it.
A lot of it was code so as to have plausible deniability.
“Adventure Buddy” = she wants to be fwb
Taking hiking trips etc is the perfect cover for outdoor smashing.
“boundaries” = I want you to be a dominant man whose lustful desire overpowers my attempts to resist your advances.
Basically she wants to play the innocent, “it just happened” card, so she still feels like a good girl once she cheats.
Source: I’ve smashed a lot of girls with boyfriends.
She would have cheated if you pushed it.
A lot of it was code so as to have plausible deniability.
“Adventure Buddy” = she wants to be fwb
Taking hiking trips etc is the perfect cover for outdoor smashing.
“boundaries” = I want you to be a dominant man whose lustful desire overpowers my attempts to resist your advances.
Basically she wants to play the innocent, “it just happened” card, so she still feels like a good girl once she cheats.
Source: I’ve smashed a lot of girls with boyfriends.
inb4 rape charges
I just came here on the internet to lie
01-08-2019, 04:07 AM
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Originally Posted By tightteeshirt⏩
She told you she was interested and told you about her bf.her: "I'm in a relationship and wasn't sure if you liked me as more than a friend"
me: "I was interested in more but its not a big deal"
her: "I was being careful, the feeling was reciprocal" (meaning she was interested in me to some extent....thats why Im wondering if I goofed by not sticking around if she breaks up)
me: "I was interested in more but its not a big deal"
her: "I was being careful, the feeling was reciprocal" (meaning she was interested in me to some extent....thats why Im wondering if I goofed by not sticking around if she breaks up)
I'll run that interaction through google bish translate:
her: "I'm in a relationship and I'm telling you this so when you make a move it's not entirely my fault cus you know about my bf"
me: "I was interested in more but its not a big deal"
her: "If you didn't already know, I like you. I'm using the adventure buddy thing as a excuse to give you an opportunity to give me some d because I can't just come out and say it cus it makes me feel like a slut"
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01-08-2019, 04:13 AM
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Why would you want to get serious with a chick who would schedule vacation trips with guys besides her boyfriend she claimed to have, hang out with and flirt with them, etc.? Anything you see a woman do before they get with you, you'd better believe they'll do it afterwards as well. You're not going to be "special" enough for them to change as a person, so get over that idea. Consider yourself lucky for having dogded a bullet.
01-08-2019, 04:23 AM
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01-08-2019, 04:43 AM
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Unless she's 8 years old or mentally retarded, "adventure buddy" means one of the orbiters she fuсks when she's mad at her BF or he's out of town
Don't bother OP, she's probably not clean
Don't bother OP, she's probably not clean
01-08-2019, 05:22 AM
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in my opinion you did one of 2 viable options which left you with some dignity. well done for not being a beta cuck
option 1 which u did was not take any chances at being used for attention and shut it down before anything, good or bad could happen
I used to take option 1 a lot with girls who were giving mixed or unclear messages. then you learn to read people and their intentions better, and u become more outcome independent so u go along without investing.
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the 2nd option, would have been to go on this 'adventure' with her and try something
girls don't say what they mean
She SAID she has a boyfriend and there are boundaries, YET STILL (lol women) she is putting herself 1 on 1 with another guy and going out with him.. for more than just a coffee which in itself is unacceptable in a relationship, unless she knew him as a friend for years.
because of this - highly unlikely her bf knows about this little trip and she was probably just trying to have plausible deniability if he found out by saying well I told him I was with you and I said we are just friends
but she may have wanted your cock nonetheless.
I would have chose option 2. if she rejects you go nc.
option 1 which u did was not take any chances at being used for attention and shut it down before anything, good or bad could happen
I used to take option 1 a lot with girls who were giving mixed or unclear messages. then you learn to read people and their intentions better, and u become more outcome independent so u go along without investing.
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the 2nd option, would have been to go on this 'adventure' with her and try something
girls don't say what they mean
She SAID she has a boyfriend and there are boundaries, YET STILL (lol women) she is putting herself 1 on 1 with another guy and going out with him.. for more than just a coffee which in itself is unacceptable in a relationship, unless she knew him as a friend for years.
because of this - highly unlikely her bf knows about this little trip and she was probably just trying to have plausible deniability if he found out by saying well I told him I was with you and I said we are just friends
but she may have wanted your cock nonetheless.
I would have chose option 2. if she rejects you go nc.
Originally Posted By ichmagwasser⏩
also what this guy saidYou friend-zoned yourself.
She would have cheated if you pushed it.
A lot of it was code so as to have plausible deniability.
“Adventure Buddy” = she wants to be fwb
Taking hiking trips etc is the perfect cover for outdoor smashing.
“boundaries” = I want you to be a dominant man whose lustful desire overpowers my attempts to resist your advances.
Basically she wants to play the innocent, “it just happened” card, so she still feels like a good girl once she cheats.
Source: I’ve smashed a lot of girls with boyfriends.
She would have cheated if you pushed it.
A lot of it was code so as to have plausible deniability.
“Adventure Buddy” = she wants to be fwb
Taking hiking trips etc is the perfect cover for outdoor smashing.
“boundaries” = I want you to be a dominant man whose lustful desire overpowers my attempts to resist your advances.
Basically she wants to play the innocent, “it just happened” card, so she still feels like a good girl once she cheats.
Source: I’ve smashed a lot of girls with boyfriends.
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01-08-2019, 05:33 AM
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Originally Posted By HolyCowBatman⏩
Thisyou can hang out with her if she is gonna provide access to hot friends and you are not paying for anything (50/50 only)
otherwise go NC *******
otherwise go NC *******
Should’ve had her put you on with some of her friends then
I’ve friendzoned or have been friendzoned with females, mainly because I just enjoy kickin it wit bitches sometimes. Eventually sex happens, either with the girl or one of her friends. Sorta miss those days. I would be like the only dude surrounded by like 3 bitches and everybody would be mirin.
01-08-2019, 05:36 AM
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01-08-2019, 06:06 AM
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adventure buddies sounds gay op you were right to kill her.
01-08-2019, 06:49 AM
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Originally Posted By Jimmehhh⏩
This is likely the truth. You might have missed the chance to escalate by turning her down, but at least your conscience will be clear.She told you she was interested and told you about her bf.
I'll run that interaction through google bish translate:
her: "I'm in a relationship and I'm telling you this so when you make a move it's not entirely my fault cus you know about my bf"
me: "I was interested in more but its not a big deal"
her: "If you didn't already know, I like you. I'm using the adventure buddy thing as a excuse to give you an opportunity to give me some d because I can't just come out and say it cus it makes me feel like a slut"
I'll run that interaction through google bish translate:
her: "I'm in a relationship and I'm telling you this so when you make a move it's not entirely my fault cus you know about my bf"
me: "I was interested in more but its not a big deal"
her: "If you didn't already know, I like you. I'm using the adventure buddy thing as a excuse to give you an opportunity to give me some d because I can't just come out and say it cus it makes me feel like a slut"
01-08-2019, 06:52 AM
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Originally Posted By Mercworx⏩
^^ This.Seriously?
No. You absolutely did the right thing. Should have immediately said “no thanks I’m not intersted in that but it was nice getting to know you”
And THATS IT. Move on.
No. You absolutely did the right thing. Should have immediately said “no thanks I’m not intersted in that but it was nice getting to know you”
And THATS IT. Move on.
But don't be surprised if you hear from her in a couple weeks trying to get together again. " Me and my BF broke up", or some story incoming.
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01-08-2019, 06:52 AM
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oops, you fuked up
boundaries? just LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO those don't exist if a girl wants to fuk you even while they are "taken"
boundaries? just LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO those don't exist if a girl wants to fuk you even while they are "taken"
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01-08-2019, 06:56 AM
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Originally Posted By tightteeshirt⏩
she basically wants you to be her gay friend-she then reveals she is currently IN a relationship but still wants to hang out as long as I realize there are boundaries.
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but you did good going nc on her
if she comes back after she breaks up with bf just smash and dash
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01-08-2019, 06:59 AM
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Originally Posted By tightteeshirt⏩
Yo.her: "I'm in a relationship and wasn't sure if you liked me as more than a friend"
me: "I was interested in more but its not a big deal"
her: "I was being careful, the feeling was reciprocal"(meaning she was interested in me to some extent....thats why Im wondering if I goofed by not sticking around if she breaks up)
me: "I was interested in more but its not a big deal"
her: "I was being careful, the feeling was reciprocal"(meaning she was interested in me to some extent....thats why Im wondering if I goofed by not sticking around if she breaks up)
This is what a monkey branch looks like.
Recognize this and understand it would happen to you in a relationship with this person. If she does it to them, she will do it to you.
Forget her, move on. Even if she did want to fuk, why would you entertain/reward that behavior?
01-08-2019, 07:12 AM
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You didn't take your shot, someone else did. Hope you learned a lesson. Now find another one and make the move quickly.
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01-08-2019, 07:16 AM
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Originally Posted By tightteeshirt⏩
Thats the definition of a friendzone beta orbiter. Don't do that. Nobody likes that guy and you have to have self respect. You did the right thing to say no.did I dun goof? Should I have played it off and hung around if she breaks up with him eventually? Seems beta.
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Probably should have made it known from the start you are looking for a relationship.
Good thing she told you lol, but she is still a sloot for wanting an "adventure buddy", lol @ looking for another guy to share memories with
Her relationship may not be going will so she probably made you her contingency plan in case chit doesn't work out. Or she's just a sloot, lol. If she's willing to have adventure buddies she aint the one lmao.
Or maybe it's one way of saying she isn't really interested in you on that level.
Fuk that chit, go NC, don't need that noise. Move on.
Good thing she told you lol, but she is still a sloot for wanting an "adventure buddy", lol @ looking for another guy to share memories with
Her relationship may not be going will so she probably made you her contingency plan in case chit doesn't work out. Or she's just a sloot, lol. If she's willing to have adventure buddies she aint the one lmao.
Or maybe it's one way of saying she isn't really interested in you on that level.
Fuk that chit, go NC, don't need that noise. Move on.
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01-08-2019, 07:18 AM
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01-08-2019, 07:19 AM
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Originally Posted By TypeNirvash⏩
There it is OP.Yo.
This is what a monkey branch looks like.
Recognize this and understand it would happen to you in a relationship with this person. If she does it to them, she will do it to you.
Forget her, move on. Even if she did want to fuk, why would you entertain/reward that behavior?
This is what a monkey branch looks like.
Recognize this and understand it would happen to you in a relationship with this person. If she does it to them, she will do it to you.
Forget her, move on. Even if she did want to fuk, why would you entertain/reward that behavior?
You did the right thing.
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Originally Posted By ichmagwasser⏩
underrated post from a redYou friend-zoned yourself.
She would have cheated if you pushed it.
A lot of it was code so as to have plausible deniability.
“Adventure Buddy” = she wants to be fwb
Taking hiking trips etc is the perfect cover for outdoor smashing.
“boundaries” = I want you to be a dominant man whose lustful desire overpowers my attempts to resist your advances.
Basically she wants to play the innocent, “it just happened” card, so she still feels like a good girl once she cheats.
Source: I’ve smashed a lot of girls with boyfriends.
She would have cheated if you pushed it.
A lot of it was code so as to have plausible deniability.
“Adventure Buddy” = she wants to be fwb
Taking hiking trips etc is the perfect cover for outdoor smashing.
“boundaries” = I want you to be a dominant man whose lustful desire overpowers my attempts to resist your advances.
Basically she wants to play the innocent, “it just happened” card, so she still feels like a good girl once she cheats.
Source: I’ve smashed a lot of girls with boyfriends.
pretty much 100% true
either be a homewrecker or move on
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Originally Posted By tightteeshirt⏩
didn't think you would care since you are a *******cliffs
-girl and I hit it off, hang out a couple times lowkey. no kissing/touching but there is flirting.
-christmas break comes and we don't see each other.
-she then texts me asking if I want to be her "adventure buddy"
-I say ok, we make plans to go on an adventurous trip
-she then reveals she is currently IN a relationship but still wants to hang out as long as I realize there are boundaries.
-I say nah srs
did I dun goof? Should I have played it off and hung around if she breaks up with him eventually? Seems beta.
-girl and I hit it off, hang out a couple times lowkey. no kissing/touching but there is flirting.
-christmas break comes and we don't see each other.
-she then texts me asking if I want to be her "adventure buddy"
-I say ok, we make plans to go on an adventurous trip
-she then reveals she is currently IN a relationship but still wants to hang out as long as I realize there are boundaries.
-I say nah srs
did I dun goof? Should I have played it off and hung around if she breaks up with him eventually? Seems beta.
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Originally Posted By ichmagwasser⏩
Wrong! OP already proved with his lack of initiative that he wasn’t a suitor worth having sex with.You friend-zoned yourself.
She would have cheated if you pushed it.
A lot of it was code so as to have plausible deniability.
“Adventure Buddy” = she wants to be fwb
Taking hiking trips etc is the perfect cover for outdoor smashing.
“boundaries” = I want you to be a dominant man whose lustful desire overpowers my attempts to resist your advances.
Basically she wants to play the innocent, “it just happened” card, so she still feels like a good girl once she cheats.
Source: I’ve smashed a lot of girls with boyfriends.
She would have cheated if you pushed it.
A lot of it was code so as to have plausible deniability.
“Adventure Buddy” = she wants to be fwb
Taking hiking trips etc is the perfect cover for outdoor smashing.
“boundaries” = I want you to be a dominant man whose lustful desire overpowers my attempts to resist your advances.
Basically she wants to play the innocent, “it just happened” card, so she still feels like a good girl once she cheats.
Source: I’ve smashed a lot of girls with boyfriends.
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Originally Posted By tightteeshirt⏩
You did exactly what you should. Who wants to spend time trying to break up a relationship or pursue someone who is in one.her: "I'm in a relationship and wasn't sure if you liked me as more than a friend"
me: "I was interested in more but its not a big deal"
her: "I was being careful, the feeling was reciprocal" (meaning she was interested in me to some extent....thats why Im wondering if I goofed by not sticking around if she breaks up)
me: "I was interested in more but its not a big deal"
her: "I was being careful, the feeling was reciprocal" (meaning she was interested in me to some extent....thats why Im wondering if I goofed by not sticking around if she breaks up)
Fuk that noise, theres plenty of other options out there.
I'm not a fan of cheaters or a bunch of high school level drama though, many others like that kinda ****.
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