If your wife can't cook, is she even a wife?

01-07-2019, 04:55 PM

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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩

Frackin' Cookie, comes in late and just obliterates the thread. lol.

I didn't even read past the post I quoted tbh, but I'm sure I wasn't the first one to point it out lol

01-07-2019, 04:56 PM

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01-07-2019, 05:02 PM

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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩

that's called any female who grew up in the western world, barring a small portion of those in eastern Europe where men are still men and women are still women

I wouldn't marry a woman who can't cook consistently good food and loved doing so

so in short, no. such a girl wouldn't be my wife

cooking/homemaking/caring for their man (one of which ways is making sure he isn't hungry) is a very feminine, attractive trait

I love to cook but having my girl do it for me just satisfies me on such a deep level

all my girlfriend's so far have been like this.

Where are the men who are still men? Do tell. I'll have a better chance of finding a unicorn, sweetie.

01-07-2019, 05:21 PM

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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩

What if, just say, she wakes you up with a BJ and you make her breakfast in bed?

I don't think it should be a trade. one for the other. that's treading dangerously close to bargaining with sex.

although obviously geared towards the guy.. bj should be enjoyable for both parties. shouldn't really be considered a favour for the man.

on the other hand, a random bj with nothing expected in return, and a random breakfast in bed with nothing expected in return is perfectly ok. it's that spontaneity which makes a relationship work and keeps it fresh.

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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩

This thread is useless without pics. Here's some fewds I've made recently for my husband. All made from scratch btw (except I didn't actually hunt down a cow to make the meats etc.):

T-bone steak with baked potato, cucumber and grilled veggies:

Turmeric veggie rice with potato/beef patties and tandoori style chicken legs with some spiced yogurt:

Random baked goods I've made over the past month to take to events/parties. Different kinds of fudge, milk chocolate pistachio tart and cannolis:

01-07-2019, 07:54 PM

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01-07-2019, 08:05 PM

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I’m not sure what is worse...

A wife who doesn’t cook, or a wife who loves to cook but is really bad at it.

01-08-2019, 01:16 AM

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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩

Oh I get by lol.

Used to cook actually back when I was in college and in my twenties. Just don’t enjoy it at all.

Like said above my life goal is happiness and enjoyment, so I avoid things that I don’t enjoy unless there is a necessity or clear benefit.

For example I don’t enjoy going to the dentist either but I do it of course because there is a clear benefit. With cooking I just don’t have that and it doesn’t pass a cost/benefits analysis for me.

Now as to people who enjoy cooking then yeah of course it is good for them to do. It’s almost like a hobby then if you get joy out of it. So that’s different and I understand that.

I don't enjoy it either but it's kind of a necessity. You just decided to stop cooking like 30 years ago and you're still going strong?

01-08-2019, 01:20 AM

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Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩

I don't enjoy it either but it's kind of a necessity. You just decided to stop cooking like 30 years ago and you're still going strong?

I smell bullchit

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01-08-2019, 01:26 AM

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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩

If she doesn't cook, does she at least clean?

If she does neither, what does she bring to the relationship? I'm a true believer that BOTH parties must bring something to the table in relationships. The level of effort may not be the same for both parties, but there needs to be some semblance of equality in a relationship.

Your first sentence is just mind boggling, more so since you're a woman. Also completely contradictory to the second paragraph (which I agree with). That kind of thinking needs to be relegated to medieval times where it belongs, and quickly.

Your posts usually resonate strongly with me, so I say this with no malice implied.

01-08-2019, 02:01 AM

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hate to say it bud but most women these days cant cook for chit...most will just offer to order takeout or prepare some quick n easy microwave meal. In most cultures women take pride in cookin for their man but in the US its seen as a chore

(these are my opinions i am not a licensed broker by trade)

01-08-2019, 02:07 AM

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meh.. i'd prefer to cook together or take turns, same with chores

Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩

I understand. So what would you bring to a relationship then? Do you have a good job and will be able to pay for half the expenses? Do you maintain yourself physically? Would you categorize yourself as a loving, nurturing person?

For example, my sister also has a cleaning lady. She has 3 kids which she manages 80% of the time. She also works as a nurse and contributes to the household expenses. She also cooks everyday from scratch and is supportive of her husband. She maintains herself physically and isn't a burden on her husband as in expecting him to take care of her material needs.

Why would a dude want to be with you?

is this some sort of interrogation? geez

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01-08-2019, 03:30 AM

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my mom cooked for me only once a day when I was younger and stopped completely when I was a teenager, didn't even bother to fill the fridge with food.

I could take a 3/10 bich as long as she makes bomb ass breakfast, lunch and dinner. srs. ain't no 'mama's cooking' to compare it to. that ugly sloot can make straight garbage. I will still enjoy it.

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01-08-2019, 03:39 AM

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01-08-2019, 04:08 AM

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01-08-2019, 08:49 AM

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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩

For example I don’t enjoy going to the dentist either but I do it of course because there is a clear benefit. With cooking I just don’t have that and it doesn’t pass a cost/benefits analysis for me.

I think everyone does things on a daily basis that they don't like to do and/or are indifferent towards. It's just the name of the game.

Originally Posted By hoganrulz⏩

I smell bullchit

Not really dude. There's tonnes of people who eat at least 2 meals outside, every day, 7 days a week. I know women who order from other local ladies who make trays of rice/lasagna etc. My sister just showed it to me.

Originally Posted By 3maj⏩

Your first sentence is just mind boggling, more so since you're a woman. Also completely contradictory to the second paragraph (which I agree with). That kind of thinking needs to be relegated to medieval times where it belongs, and quickly.

Your posts usually resonate strongly with me, so I say this with no malice implied.

Nothing medieval about it. My question is simple. What do you have to offer in a relationship? I'm not talking about fluffy stuff like "love and affection," that comes naturally and is expected. I'm talking about a real money-maker, trait of substance that you bring to the relationship.

Originally Posted By ****liGirl⏩

is this some sort of interrogation? geez

Yea, wanna play?

Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩

Then we would have to figure out some compromise that we are both ok with. And yes I would be open to compromise for a relationship if needed and if I really liked the guy and it was important to him.

This is the most important part to a relationship. People change over time. If one party is a stubborn chithead who can't or won't be flexible for the happiness of the other party shouldn't really be in a relationship.

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01-08-2019, 09:01 AM

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I'm a better cook than my wife but I love cooking so I just am more practiced at this point

01-08-2019, 09:07 AM

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Nah. Cooking isn't a requirement for me. Sex and being loving is more important. I'll let my own fatass cook if it means being in a good relationship

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01-08-2019, 09:09 AM

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I would honestly never rely solely on my woman to do that sort of stuff around the house. I enjoy cooking and I enjoy being good at it. I even enjoy cleaning sometimes

But she has to contribute value in some way. If I'm cooking, she's prepping veggies or washing dishes. Maybe I do everything one night and she does everything the next night. Maybe I cook dinner on Friday night and she makes breakfast Saturday morning

I'd expect her to also work full time, so we're equal across the board. This is all a team effort, neither of us is doing 100% of the work 100% of the time

01-08-2019, 09:11 AM

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If your wife can't cook, did she even have a mom?

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Yes. Especially when her poosey smells so good.

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01-08-2019, 10:23 AM

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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩

Lol you guys

Just because someone doesn’t list their qualities doesn’t mean they don’t have any.

Similarly if someone covers up and dresses modestly do you assume they are out of shape?

If someone doesn’t virtue signal do you assume they don’t have any virtues?

If someone doesn’t discuss money do you assume they are poor?

If someone doesn’t use big words do you assume they are uneducated?

Etc etc etc

Why do you consistently refuse to divulge any information about you or what kind of person you are? Do you think refusing to say "I love to make clothes/cook/build things/gardening/whatever/etc" makes you a humble person? Honestly if you refuse to talk about what makes you a good person then people have every right to make the claim that you are not.

I can't understand how someone can go through life with any amount of self-satisfaction if you have no sense of self-sufficiency. Just because you have money to pay for someone to come scrub your toilets doesn't mean you should. That money could be better spent on more important things. Even if your kid's tuition is all paid for, house is paid for, etc. there are a dozen other places that money could be better spent. I only go out to eat maybe twice a month, despite esily being able to afford to eat out every day if I like. Why don't I? Because there is a sense of fulfillment that comes from cooking your own food, cleaning your own **** and being self-sufficient. If anyone honestly doesn't feel this way or has a sense of satisfaction when they go on a vacation they really haven't earned, then you have a lot of growing up to do. I couldn't give two ****s if you can afford it, you're still a petulant child and I'm sure you would have a mental breakdown if your phone died.

01-08-2019, 11:42 AM

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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩

Yeah pretty much

And you have kids right? So that’s very different because with kids it’s impractical to go out all the time.

Whereas me I’m just by myself, so I would have to go grocery shopping, prepping, cooking, and cleaning up afterwards, all just to make only one meal for myself. Not worth it to me UNLESS someone actually enjoys that work or enjoys home cooked food more than going out.

Also don’t think it’s that much cheaper btw if you cook a one person meal only, unless you cook in bulk and freeze stuff to reuse etc. But again if you’re cooking for a whole family that’s different, because it’s definitely cheaper than taking the whole family out.

And back when I was married it was no issue at all because we both loved going out. It was like date night every night and very fun.

Only issue I see is if I were to meet a very traditional guy who really wants a homemaker type woman to cook and clean for him. Then we would have to figure out some compromise that we are both ok with. And yes I would be open to compromise for a relationship if needed and if I really liked the guy and it was important to him.

If anything it would be easier without a family to feed. Anything you cook is going to give you leftovers, rather than you having to cook every meal every time.

I don't really see how you could compromise for the right relationship when you've already said that you can't cook. Unless you start getting some practice in now.

Its not even really about being in a relationship when you're at that point though, it's about being a functional adult.

01-08-2019, 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted By Burgerbuger⏩

Nah. Cooking isn't a requirement for me. Sex and being loving is more important. I'll let my own fatass cook if it means being in a good relationship

You don't want kids?

If so, how could you even think about GFing/marrying a woman who can't cook?

What will they be feeding the kids when you aren't around, or you if (god forbid) you get really sick or have to go to hospital? Take out everyday?

My grandfather and grandmother have been in a traditional relationship, my grandmother did/does most of the cooking, but he knows how to cook and even used to get me to cook the rice when I was a kid.

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01-08-2019, 12:00 PM

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I always lol when women say they cant cook but "love to bake". Cool skill lady. Gonna raise your kid of phucking muffins?

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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩

Do you mean household duties? Or other qualities?

As to household duties, those can either be divided or preferably outsourced as much as possible. I prefer to outsource because to me free time and fun and relaxation are much more important.

So for example on a free Saturday I’d much rather have a cleaning lady clean the house while we go out and do something fun and eat out at a restaurant. Just different preference from people who prefer to do housekeeping and cooking themselves.

So if I were to meet someone who prefers a homemaker type woman then we would have to figure out some compromise that we are both ok with, or maybe just would not be compatible or happy with each other.

You have got to be one of the most worthless ladies on this board cheesus christ. No hate, but reading your posts you seem boring af, super anxious introvert, and have ZERO home making skills.

No hate, just calling it like I see it