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post 1570995321 01-12-2019, 01:35 PM
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is there any way for me to block silencespeaks and the creator of this thread so i wont have to see it on the first page everytime i log in?
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
But can you articulate what “breaking out of your shell” actually means?
Being or appearing enthusiastically social/extroverted.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
But can you articulate what “breaking out of your shell” actually means?
It means doing something slightly outside of your comfort zone, in order to potentially expose you to things that may actually increase your well being or happiness.

Myself, for example. I’m highly disciplined and routined, but being more impulsive (within reason) has actually improved my life. It’s the opposite problem to most people.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Why would I want to do that. I don’t even like socializing.
Yet you seem to be pretty heavily involved in most of the social threads on here?
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Why would I want to do that. I don’t even like socializing.
Do I gotta find the quote in here of you saying you love socializing with your 3 (?) Close friends & family? My assumption is its them saying you ought to break out your shell?

If that is the case, you love them so much yet they feel youre in a shell & they obv feel sad & disappointed by that, isn't that worth a change?
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
No I like spending time just with them. And they love me the way I am. But sometimes I socialize with their other friends or their social circle in general. And those other people are the ones saying to “break out of my shell” but those people are just acquaintances to me, not my friends or family.

For example I prefer to go out to dinner with my friend one on one. But she has a large social circle so sometimes I’ll go with a group of her friends. Like say a dinner with a group of 6 women and they are all drinking wine and talking. Usually I’ll just sit there quietly and just talk politely if someone talks to me directly.

Then usually the loudest most extroverted “life of the party” ones will start saying they should get me “out of my shell.” Meanwhile I’m thinking No thanks Jeff I don’t want to be like you.
aww..you can be in this world just the way you are for goodness sake.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
No I like spending time just with them. And they love me the way I am. But sometimes I socialize with their other friends or their social circle in general. And those other people are the ones saying to “break out of my shell” but those people are just acquaintances to me, not my friends or family.

For example I prefer to go out to dinner with my friend one on one. But she has a large social circle so sometimes I’ll go with a group of her friends. Like say a dinner with a group of 6 women and they are all drinking wine and talking. Usually I’ll just sit there quietly and just talk politely if someone talks to me directly.

Then usually the loudest most extroverted “life of the party” ones will start saying they should get me “out of my shell.” Meanwhile I’m thinking No thanks Jeff I don’t want to be like you.
But do you get how it's worth trying to be like them to actually achieve your goals with greater odds than that of being struck by lighting 6 times consecutively whilst being stood in the same place?

Those goals being, getting in a lasting relationship with someone youre physically attracted to? Because surely you see being the quiet one in the corner isn't conducive to having a relationship at all?

Or are you adamant youre selectively extroverted/social with those you care about? I mean, even still, pretty hard to get a relationship started without being social to begin with rather than being able to be social once youre comfortable or invested somehow in someone.
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Originally Posted By Aristotelian⏩
It depends. Are you fascinated by SS' lifestyle, which apparently culminates in condom only, often missionary submissive sex with a partner, where the submissive element is derived from a 'can't cook won't cook, don't read (though she recently quoted some self help book in another post which contradicts the don't read claim), don't watch tv, don't...'?

If so you're in the right place.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Just meet up with Spade ffs, break out of your shell and make this interesting
Would you meet a single Female Miscer if she was in your area?
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Why is this thread 33 pages ?
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Originally Posted By bretmarathon⏩
Would you meet a single Female Miscer if she was in your area?
If I’m attracted to them, sure.
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Originally Posted By hoganrulz⏩
But do you get how it's worth trying to be like them to actually achieve your goals with greater odds than that of being struck by lighting 6 times consecutively whilst being stood in the same place?

Those goals being, getting in a lasting relationship with someone youre physically attracted to? Because surely you see being the quiet one in the corner isn't conducive to having a relationship at all?

Or are you adamant youre selectively extroverted/social with those you care about? I mean, even still, pretty hard to get a relationship started without being social to begin with rather than being able to be social once youre comfortable or invested somehow in someone.
I don't think you should have to be loud and obnoxious in order to find someone to date. Being loud and abrasive doesn't seem attractive to me.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Thanks



Well I probably would have an easier time meeting men if I drank and went to bars, or was loud and the life of the party, or very flirtatious etc. Just don’t find that attractive at all in women and I don’t aspire to be like that.

So when I’m a social setting with loud and buzzed women and they tell me to get “out of my shell” it does not appeal to me at all because I don’t want to be like them.

And again I’m not a homebody at all. I love going outside and doing fun stuff. Just want to clarify being introverted does not mean a homebody.
Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
I don't think you should have to be loud and obnoxious in order to find someone to date. Being loud and abrasive doesn't seem attractive to me.
youve pretty much assumed an extreme here. Of course as in everything moderation is best. You don't have to be buzzed and loud, or terribly extroverted and loud, or drunk and loud. Just something to loosen you up so you're open to being social in an environment youre not necessarily otherwise wanting to be social and inclusive in. That's just being able to adapt to a situation.
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Originally Posted By hoganrulz⏩
youve pretty much assumed an extreme here. Of course as in everything moderation is best. You don't have to be buzzed and loud, or terribly extroverted and loud, or drunk and loud. Just something to loosen you up so you're open to being social in an environment youre not necessarily otherwise wanting to be social and inclusive in. That's just being able to adapt to a situation.
Oh yeah, I can agree with that. Just seemed like you were saying it's better to be loud. I can be social in social settings but I'm not loud and abrasive. I also don't really like going out to eat with a ton of people. It gets really hard to talk and then you have to yell practically to be heard and for me that's exhausting. Even just going to a loud bar with 1 friend to catch up with isn't really enjoyable to me.

Going out dancing= yes. Going out to talk and catch up with a friend= no.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Oh yeah, I can agree with that. Just seemed like you were saying it's better to be loud. I can be social in social settings but I'm not loud and abrasive. I also don't really like going out to eat with a ton of people. It gets really hard to talk and then you have to yell practically to be heard and for me that's exhausting. Even just going to a loud bar with 1 friend to catch up with isn't really enjoyable to me.
Oh sure, generally I guess if you go out in a group, you end up conversing to whomever's closest to avoid that exact situation, maybe sometimes chime in, in moments of silence to restart a group convo. IMO in SS' position, it seems like she could only be loose enough or willing enough to do it after a drink. Again, not get slashed, just buzzed. I'm sure you know, one drink doesn't make you lose control of your internal volume settings.
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Originally Posted By hoganrulz⏩
Oh sure, generally I guess if you go out in a group, you end up conversing to whomever's closest to avoid that exact situation, maybe sometimes chime in, in moments of silence to restart a group convo. IMO in SS' position, it seems like she could only be loose enough or willing enough to do it after a drink. Again, not get slashed, just buzzed. I'm sure you know, one drink doesn't make you lose control of your internal volume settings.
Yes, or you have those groups that just all talk loud and talk over each other. lol I can be fun and social without alcohol, so I'm kinda with SS on that. Last time I went with a friend to a bar to catch up I had water. lol When I went out dancing I had a drink. Just depends on the situation.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Yes, or you have those groups that just all talk loud and talk over each other. lol I can be fun and social without alcohol, so I'm kinda with SS on that. Last time I went with a friend to a bar to catch up I had water. lol When I went out dancing I had a drink. Just depends on the situation.
maybe thats a woman group thing lmao, usually if everyones acquaintances of friends in a group of around 4-6, it tends to be more inclusive. in my experience at least.

and yeah, i totally agree you need liquor to be social, but, seems like she does in the context of a group of 4-6 people of which all but one and nothing more than acquaintances.
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Originally Posted By hoganrulz⏩
maybe thats a woman group thing lmao, usually if everyones acquaintances of friends in a group of around 4-6, it tends to be more inclusive. in my experience at least.

and yeah, i totally agree you need liquor to be social, but, seems like she does in the context of a group of 4-6 people of which all but one and nothing more than acquaintances.
Prob totally depends on the group of people. Plus the type of restaurant you're in. Some are super loud and makes it harder to socialize. I don't know, the older I get the more I hate having to yell to be heard. That happened at my high school reunion a few months ago. Loud AF and had to yell to be heard the entire time. 2-3 hours in I was exhausted and just wanted to go home, even though a bunch invited me to a bar afterwards. I was like no thanks Jeff! lol
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Well like I said before I can socialize just fine when needed.
One on one, or in groups?
I can hold a conversation and I am a good listener and very positive and encouraging. So people generally like talking to me.
again, one on one? or in groups?
Just not on the same page as people who are buzzed, or loud and attention seeking, or very flirtatious etc. Ime those are the types of people telling quieter people to “break out of their shell.”
I mean, if youre in a social situation with a group of people, arent you wanting to be social and inclusive? Like youve said, people liek talking to you, so if youre not saying a thing and im assuming zoned out, how are they supposed to talk to you?

I can believe youre absolutely fine socialising one on one with people as youve said you care about. But that group of people doesnt really get any larger if its all just a chore and its an american psycho style act, almost sounds like your regular social interactions are learned and are essentially a mask to come off as normal.

not sure if trolling tbh, dunno how you can attempt to pass off yourself as a female patrick bateman and not realise it if youre a miscer.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Prob totally depends on the group of people. Plus the type of restaurant you're in. Some are super loud and makes it harder to socialize. I don't know, the older I get the more I hate having to yell to be heard. That happened at my high school reunion a few months ago. Loud AF and had to yell to be heard the entire time. 2-3 hours in I was exhausted and just wanted to go home, even though a bunch invited me to a bar afterwards. I was like no thanks Jeff! lol
youre very right there, could very well just be an age thing.
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Originally Posted By hoganrulz⏩
youre very right there, could very well just be an age thing.
lol
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