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post 1571059741 01-13-2019, 10:30 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
I also agree with you regarding that book.
I never knew you read the book Legz.

What did you think of it overall?
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post 1571060391 01-13-2019, 10:39 AM
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post 1571060871 01-13-2019, 10:48 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
No social circle and no male friends.

Most of my dates are from online. Only two from irl connections (set up by mutual acquaintance).
I figured.

I tried online dating a few years ago and the girl was really pretty, but I felt absolutely nothing. Like, nothing at all like she could have been a relative.

So, I decided to never do that again. I stuck with the girl I had chemistry with, but she lived far away, because I thought it worth it.

Online Dating:

That seems to be for yuppie/whore/pimp types who think a relationship is about what factors add up. You see that a lot on here where a mate must have ABC and D or else it's not going to happen. That's not about chemistry, at all.

You're only going to have chemistry with someone you meet by chance. You can tell if they appear excited or bashful around you.
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The problem is men have standards to, you can have a full list of standards for men but you may not meet their expectations, think about that for a second.
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Originally Posted By BetaAsPhuck⏩
I never knew you read the book Legz.

What did you think of it overall?
lol Haven't read it, just going by the things you've said about it. I feel like I haven't given a 2nd date more due to not having a mental connection moreso than a physical one. I've also brought this up many times, how many dates should really be required before you can say you're not interested? And how is that fair to the guy if I agree to 3 dates and still don't feel anything? I don't want to waste someones time and it makes me feel really bad if I feel like I wasted their time.
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah I guess I’m just not really looking for passion. He is cute and normal/nice and I love his body type. That’s enough for me and I’m happy with that.

Maybe it’s also because I’ve been through massive and traumatic emotional turmoil with my ex. So after all that it’s kind of nice to just be emotionally calm and just enjoy being around someone without any intense feelings of passion or chemistry.



Haven’t read the book but just going by what you’ve said about it.

But then how do you explain that I found about half of my dates attractive/cute? Without any spark or chemistry or any deeper emotional connection.
Yeah, I get that with the trauma you dealt with. I just don't see how it's possible for me. If I don't feel chemistry then I feel no lust/sexual attraction. Don't even want to kiss let alone have sex.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah I’m also interested in opinions from others about how long they think you should date someone you’re not attracted to.

More than a couple of dates? Wouldn’t the guy make a physical move to at least kiss after 2-3 dates? If so should you dodge it or kiss anyway? What about more? How long until you’re just wasting the guy’s time?

Btw it’s easy for people who are dating someone they’re attracted to, to advise others to date someone they’re not attracted to. Different story if you have to do it yourself.

For example Beta how long would you date a woman you’re not attracted to? Like say an obese older woman?
I think tbh, if youre grossed out by someone, its a no go. Generally if youre not totally grossed out by the person but just not attracted, the second the person attempts something physical its friend zoned and NC'd
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah I’m also interested in opinions from others about how long they think you should date someone you’re not attracted to.

More than a couple of dates? Wouldn’t the guy make a physical move to at least kiss after 2-3 dates? If so should you dodge it or kiss anyway? What about more? How long until you’re just wasting the guy’s time?

Btw it’s easy for people who are dating someone they’re attracted to, to advise others to date someone they’re not attracted to. Different story if you have to do it yourself.

For example Beta how long would you date a woman you’re not attracted to? Like say an obese older woman?
Yep, want to hear about this as well from everyone. I know that I wouldn't want to take the time and trouble for multiple dates with someone that felt nothing for me on the first meet. I'd rather they just be done after that first meet and don't waste my time.
Originally Posted By hoganrulz⏩
I think tbh, if youre grossed out by someone, its a no go. Generally if youre not totally grossed out by the person but just not attracted, the second the person attempts something physical its friend zoned and NC'd
It's not even being grossed out by them, but if I'm not feeling that mental/physical click with someone, I really don't want to even kiss them.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
It's not even being grossed out by them, but if I'm not feeling that mental/physical click with someone, I really don't want to even kiss them.
sure but isnt the point to see if you click mentally with someone hence giving them more than one date assuming the person isnt gross like a fat behemoth?
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Originally Posted By hoganrulz⏩
sure but isnt the point to see if you click mentally with someone hence giving them more than one date assuming the person isnt gross like a fat behemoth?
I don't know. If I don't feel attraction (mentally or physically) on the first meet, I don't see it happening just cause I gave them a 2nd or 3rd date. No matter what they look like.

This is very different than someone growing on you through mutual friends/acquaintances/work. That's a totally different ballgame than meeting online.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
I don't know. If I don't feel attraction (mentally or physically) on the first meet, I don't see it happening just cause I gave them a 2nd or 3rd date. No matter what they look like.

This is very different than someone growing on you through mutual friends/acquaintances/work. That's a totally different ballgame than meeting online.
thats true.
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Originally Posted By mgftp⏩
People actually think that's a female? Just LoL
I don’t think a guy would have the attention span to curate a thread at SS's level, nor to play the part of Uber extreme “unaware/I don’t care about my issues” level instability. Just my two cents.
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Sooo is this just a general chat thread now? Or nah?
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Originally Posted By hoganrulz⏩
thats true.
Yep, that's what SS and I have said again and again. Online dating is to date someone. It's totally different than meeting someone that you're kinda meh about and then they grow on you over time. Seeing someone in a group of people and then having attraction grow is not wasting their time. Agreeing to multiple dates with someone you don't feel any click with is wasting their time. IMO.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Yep, that's what SS and I have said again and again. Online dating is to date someone. It's totally different than meeting someone that you're kinda meh about and then they grow on you over time. Seeing someone in a group of people and then having attraction grow is not wasting their time. Agreeing to multiple dates with someone you don't feel any click with is wasting their time. IMO.
yeah i get that, one is going in cold essentially and the other you already have an idea of looks, voice, personality.

you are wise beyond your years.
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Originally Posted By mgftp⏩
People actually think that's a female? Just LoL
I think it's a guy.

The reason is that the character is too surface and vague.
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Originally Posted By hoganrulz⏩
yeah i get that, one is going in cold essentially and the other you already have an idea of looks, voice, personality.

you are wise beyond your years.
It's why I much prefer meeting people IRL. Then you already know there is a base attraction when you agree to go out with them. You may not end up clicking mentally, but it's much better than meeting someone from online and end up with neither physical or mental attraction.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
It's why I much prefer meeting people IRL. Then you already know there is a base attraction when you agree to go out with them. You may not end up clicking mentally, but it's much better than meeting someone from online and end up with neither physical or mental attraction.
I guess this is where SS has the issue, my assumption is the majority of her dates are coming through online portals.
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Like I said before. I already verified myself a couple of years ago by PM sending pics to various miscers and having two miscers on Snapchat for live pics. Probably like 10 or so people saw my pics. Already got lucky that nobody posted or shared my pics (hopefully) at the time.
misc has changed, theres a lot less sharing going on, its more of a closed community kind of place now.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Haven’t read the book but just going by what you’ve said about it..
Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
lol Haven't read it, just going by the things you've said about it.
Ok, if you both read the book, I don't think you would both think that the women are talking about physical attraction.

They seem to be talking about the 'connection' you guys are talking about, those women in the book don't believe it's something that can develop overtime, they believe it's something that they should feel on the first meeting.

The dating coach says that he needs to convince the women to give an opportunity for it to develop, beyond 1 date, like RabbitJ's friend did.

People can be nervous, inhibited, cautious on a first. Or simply, our intuition can be wrong, because we are human. So dismissing someone due to one date, IMO - and the author of the book, and the dating coach Evan Marc Katz - is incredibly harsh (if the date was otherwise enjoyable).
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
And they are girls knees

Every chick has a photo like that, goddamit even I do from the last time I was stateside lmfao
Why do booty pull throughs when it’s all about the knees?
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Like I said before. I already verified myself a couple of years ago by PM sending pics to various miscers and having two miscers on Snapchat for live pics. Probably like 10 or so people saw my pics. Already got lucky that nobody posted or shared my pics (hopefully) at the time.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
So how many dates would you give to an unattractive woman? That you have zero physical interest in at all? Who you don’t want to be around and definitely don’t want her to make a move on you?
I wouldn't go on a date with them in the first place.
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
And they are girls knees

Every chick has a photo like that, goddamit even I do from the last time I was stateside lmfao
TIL I'm not a chick
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Right well irl you can screen for that. But if you’re online dating then you have to meet in person before you can see if there’s any baseline attraction.

And I went out with about 20 people or so total. About half I found attractive, and the other half I didn’t. Either way I could tell within one date how I felt about them at least physically. Now as to personality, character, chemistry, connection etc of course that takes longer to discover and develop.

Like I said almost all my dates were from online. Only two were from irl connections. One irl was a younger guy from the gym. The other irl was a blind date set up by a mutual acquaintance. I had seen his pic and wasn’t feeling it but the acquaintance was pushing for it and I figured I’d give it a chance.
I agree that baseline physical attraction is important, and I get that you're saying that is your reason for not going on further dates with those guys, so I understand now.

The book (and myself) are talking about women who expect to feel a significant mental connection, from the first date.

I have heard that some people's photo angle game online is good, I personally dated one woman who literally put professionally taken photos with professionally done make up. IRL she is a plain jane (no hate, I dated her briefly), but if I was a guy I would see myself as being duped if I went on a date with her based on her online photos - I met her through work.

I have however known women on online dating, who look very similar IRL to how they represent themselves on dating sites. (In my area, a lot of women put pics up of themselves with no make up after going to the gym, doing a marathon, jogging, etc.)
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