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post 1574813601 03-01-2019, 12:04 PM
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Originally Posted By ANIMALISTIKZ⏩
At least you’ve had sustainable income for 11 years. Life isn’t perfect; take what you can get.
You're right.. I appreciate that I've been employable and have maintained employment throughout these years. A lot of people cannot speak to that. The underlying concern of mine is that I'm doing what I'm doing now for the wrong reasons. Retirement funding, checks and insurance are fantastic but if I were receiving all the above in a field I love.. it'd be that much better.
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Originally Posted By EBarbz⏩
yes sometimes. When I read stories of Wall Street brokers, or hedge fund managers, I regret not taking my studies more serious in college, and regret not going down that path .
i regret that as well, i just didnt have my shiit figured out when i was 18
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not one hobby was listed in OP
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post 1574814771 03-01-2019, 12:17 PM
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Originally Posted By ashin1⏩
not one hobby was listed in OP
in no particular order:

rock climb
lift
camp
mtn biking
run
concerts
dining out
movies
gaming
reading
etc..

I have all sorts of hobbies.

My job does not have a hindrance on my hobbies.. though it sucks I only get 2 days a week to play. Also, getting time off is hard because there's so much GD work. Take a day off get 4 days behind. There's definitely hesitation to use vacation days.. and there shouldn't be. Maybe the job does have a hindrance after all.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
The type of people in those fields would never quit after a few years, because work is their LIFE. They’d rather give up anything else in the world than give up work. They love work more than anything else. Those are the only types of people who make it that far. People who want a more balanced lifestyle never even make it to that level.
By ‚in those fields‘ you mean specifically the financial sector or financially successful (CEO-type) people in the upper management in general?
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post 1574815031 03-01-2019, 12:19 PM
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Yes, and the feeling is inevitable unless you own the buisness or are compensated heavily based on performance. I'm about to be 30 and feel like this career chit is for the birds. Only thing i can tell you is to invest heavily and have 0 debt so you can do anything you want and not worry about the man coming in and taking your chit. Financial freedom opens up massive doors. The problem with Western society is that the media has convinced us to consume at a rate greater than our salaries allow, thus turning you into the rat in the wheel who doesn't stop until you're too old to do anything but retire. Gotta bust out of that consumer mindset and live life on your terms to be truly happy.
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post 1574815301 03-01-2019, 12:22 PM
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Originally Posted By colbski⏩
in no particular order:

rock climb
lift
camp
mtn biking
run
concerts
dining out
movies
gaming
reading

etc.. I have all sorts of hobbies. My job does not have a hindrance on my hobbies..though it sucks I only get 2 days a week to play.Also, getting time off is hard because there's so much GD work. Take a day off get 4 days behind.
some people would kill for a consistent 2 day off a week schedule.

if you really enjoy your hobbies you make time for them. so depending on how much you enjoy your hobbies you may need to find a different job with more flexibility, but if your job's income/benefits is what enables to enjoy said hobby, you need to reevaluate your off work time management.
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post 1574815761 03-01-2019, 12:26 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Financial sector where you’re working for a big slavedriver company.

Plenty of financially successful CEO people made it in other ways like starting a business or good investments etc. That’s very different because then you are working for yourself and have more control over your life.
Then I agree.
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Originally Posted By colbski⏩
in no particular order:

rock climb
lift
camp
mtn biking
run
concerts
dining out
movies
gaming
reading
etc..

I have all sorts of hobbies.

My job does not have a hindrance on my hobbies.. though it sucks I only get 2 days a week to play. Also, getting time off is hard because there's so much GD work. Take a day off get 4 days behind. There's definitely hesitation to use vacation days.. and there shouldn't be. Maybe the job does have a hindrance after all.
IOTW you are aimless. A jack of all trades is a master of none. You gotta focus on your top passions and simply do those.
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Jobs in general suck. I'm fortunate that I can take on term positions (1-2 years) from time to time to mix things up (as they say a change is as good as a rest) but after the novelty of the new job/challenge wears off it's all basically the same shyt.

I don't know what the answer is, we're debt free and I don't feel any more free than I did when I had a mortgage
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post 1574816721 03-01-2019, 12:37 PM
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Originally Posted By ashin1⏩
some people would kill for a consistent 2 day off a week schedule.

if you really enjoy your hobbies you make time for them. so depending on how much you enjoy your hobbies you may need to find a different job with more flexibility, but if your job's income/benefits is what enables to enjoy said hobby, you need to reevaluate your off work time management.
I should have been more specific -- the weekends are the only time I get to play. I had more flexibility at my other job because I could telecommute if I had too and I essentially worked whenever I wanted (as long as I got my 40 hours in). This allowed for more playtime, but the work was boring, monotonous and unfulfilling. I was warming a seat for a check basically.

Now.. being an employed where I'm at currently--- we're in at 8:00am out at 430pm. Insane amounts of work, taking time off is chitty because it puts so you far behind. Great pay and benefits though. Hard to find a happy medium in this industry so I truly think my answer would be to shift gears.
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Originally Posted By colbski⏩
I should have been more specific -- the weekends are the only time I get to play. I had more flexibility at my other job because I could telecommute if I had too and I essentially worked whenever I wanted (as long as I got my 40 hours in). This allowed for more playtime, but the work was boring, monotonous and unfulfilling. I was warming a seat for a check basically.

Now.. being an employed where I'm at currently--- we're in at 8:00am out at 430pm. Insane amounts of work, taking time off is chitty because it puts so you far behind. Great pay and benefits though. Hard to find a happy medium in this industry so I truly think my answer would be to shift gears.
another option is move closer too work?

how long is your commute, plenty of what you listed as hobbies can be done at home.

also some of your hobbies sound more leisure...

eating is a now a hobby?

what are you a female?
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post 1574817271 03-01-2019, 12:43 PM
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Originally Posted By lsiberian⏩
IOTW you are aimless. A jack of all trades is a master of none. You gotta focus on your top passions and simply do those.
What does IOTW mean? These are my hobbies and outlets for escape. But yes, I'm know where my interests and passions are and it's not stuck behind a desk doing excel data.
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Originally Posted By ashin1⏩
another option is move closer too work?

how long is your commute, plenty of what you listed as hobbies can be done at home.

also some of your hobbies sound more leisure...

eating is a now a hobby?

what are you a female?
My commute time has nothing to do with my unhappiness with the career path I've chosen.. lol. I'm 10 minutes from home if it makes any difference.

Hobby/leisure is all the same to me.

I owned and operated a Bakery so yeah, eating is a hobby of mine.
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Originally Posted By colbski⏩
Well I owned and operated a Bakery so yeah, eating is a hobby of mine.
fair, so why can't you do that at home?

plenty of time to bake and eat at home.

inb4 green grass is not green
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I work from my office at home for apple doing tech database administration and have a e commerce business worth 6 figures.

I'm winning but it's whatever the only perk is I get food no charge for free delivered to me off my companies dime. So I'm spending at least 150 everyday in jus food alone hahah.
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Originally Posted By ashin1⏩
fair, so why can't you do that at home?

plenty of time to bake and eat at home.

inb4 green grass is not green
it's truly not the lack of enjoying or not partaking in the hobbies. It's more or less me being emotionally drained with the energy I'm putting forth to make the dough.

If I'm working as hard as I am and getting no sort of reciprocation other than a check, health insurance and retirement savings, what am I even doing? I need to leave at the end of day feeling like I made a difference and did something to better someone or something else, not my own self. This industry does not promote personal growth..other than the fact that it ages you quicker than chit. There are people here that are STUCK and look like they should be in a retirement home. One lady wreaks of alcohol and always talks about her drinking routine: "Ohhhh I can't wait to get home to have my two tallboy ice houses". Pretty sure she leaves on her lunch to drink too.
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Originally Posted By colbski⏩
it's truly not the lack of enjoying or not partaking in the hobbies.It's more or less me being emotionally drained with the energy I'm putting forth to make the dough.

If I'm working as hard as I am and getting no sort of reciprocation other than a check, health insurance and retirement savings, what am I even doing? I need to leave at the end of day feeling like I made a difference and did something to better someone or something else, not my own self. This industry does not promote personal growth..other than the fact that it ages you quicker than chit.
hobbies shouldn't be emotionally draining brah, you do hobbies because they bring you joy in the process. do you want more free time to pursue hobbies, or just want a different job?

it sounds like you have ample time to enjoy hobbies
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Originally Posted By ashin1⏩
hobbies shouldn't be emotionally draining brah, you do hobbies because they bring you joy in the process. do you want more free time to pursue hobbies, or just want a different job?

it sounds like you have ample time to enjoy hobbies
When I say dough, I'm talking about cash.. not bread, sorry. I leave my job every day feeling drained and empty... for what?? The check, the insurance, the savings? Your career should be your passion and if I'm going to expend all this energy for a job or career that I'm not passionate about and that won't have a lasting impact, what am I even doing?
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Originally Posted By colbski⏩
When I say dough, I'm talking about cash.. not bread, sorry. I leave my job every day feeling drained and empty and for what?? The check, the insurance, the savings? There's more to life than that and if I'm going to expend the energy I am and be compensated for it.. I'm doing something that brings fulfillment and joy.
do you have have goals or milestones you want to achieve?
fulfillment comes from having purpose.

you sound a bit lost and need some kind of direction.
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Originally Posted By ashin1⏩
do you have have goals or milestones you want to achieve?
fulfillment comes from having purpose.

you sound a bit lost and need some kind of direction.
I literally had the WTF moment about this 11 year career stint a few days ago. Hit me pretty hard too. I do have goals and that's why I'm going to be making some changes to meet and exceed what I've set for myself.

I've always had a passion for the human services field so I'll probably start my M.S. in Psychology and make a pursuit in AAT or something similar. I've had my BS for a long time but never continued on because I got married and wanted to play house. Kinda fuq'D chit up per-say.
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What started as a hobby, something fun that I loved learning about and doing ended up turning into a career and I couldn't be happier at this point. At the end of June I will be at my current company (started as desktop support but have been IT manager for the last 6 years) for 15 years. It can be pretty dull sometimes but we get to work on a lot of cool stuff that I still enjoy.

If your current path doesn't satisfy you then there's nothing wrong with working towards changing it even if it's completely opposite.
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Originally Posted By fmylife4real⏩
What started as a hobby, something fun that I loved learning about and doing ended up turning into a career and I couldn't be happier at this point. At the end of June I will be at my current company (started as desktop support but have been IT manager for the last 6 years) for 15 years. It can be pretty dull sometimes but we get to work on a lot of cool stuff that I still enjoy.

If your current path doesn't satisfy you then there's nothing wrong with working towards changing it even if it's completely opposite.
That's exactly what I'm trying to convey here. I fell into the career I have now while working towards something which would have put me in a completely different realm. Made myself stuck because I got comfortable. I had great benefits, flexibility and pay.. but that was it. 11 years later, kind of raging at myself for being so deluded
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A lot of its mindset. I mean I totally get what youre saying but most of us wont go to a job we love.
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By the time I’d been working for 11 years I’d had three careers (public relations, lawyer, economist). Later on I changed again to auditing (external then internal).

Life’s too short to work st a job that a) you don’t enjoy and b) isn’t what you’re best at
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Isn't that pretty much every job? Honestly how many people enjoy their job? And I'm not talking about stockholm syndrome, I mean actually enjoy it as in they would do it for free
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Originally Posted By Omnivium⏩
Isn't that pretty much every job? Honestly how many people enjoy their job? And I'm not talking about stockholm syndrome, I mean actually enjoy it as in they would do it for free
If you have a passion for something then job you have should be more enjoyable,tolerable and more fulfilling. For some reason there's this underlying notion that JOBS suck and they aren't supposed to be enjoyable. Hell, there are truck drivers who LOVE driving, love traveling, love the isolation etc... and they wholeheartedly enjoy their jobs. There's even a guy on this thread who loves being an IT manager because he's passionate about what he does. I can't speak to his level of his enjoyment but he sounded rather pleased and satisfied.

I'd work for free if I didn't need the money. But since that isn't possible at this time, I want to enjoy what I'm doing while earning that dough.
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