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Thread: Why do so many brahs of the misc want relationships?

post 1575953821 03-16-2019, 08:07 AM
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Originally Posted By TypeNirvash⏩
I haven't read anything beyond the OP and the post under mine.

I tend to only post when I can add some insight. And my opinion is generally that you take your point of view a little further than is necessary.

Your method of dating is likely going to make it harder for you to connect on a genuine level.Further, the insecurity does need to be addressed before you move forward into a dating situation.

Problematically, the insecurities we feel tend to undermine stable relationships if we aren't honest in confronting them.



I do agree that OP just put out what can only be described as a tall order lol
I completely agree with you, which is why I'm taking a break from dating to get my financial situation in check, as well as my health. I've been in a bit of a rut these past few months. I'm not as bad as you guys are making me out to be, trust me. I have no problems being honest even when I know that I may be giving trolls more ammo.
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Originally Posted By Rajc⏩
a lambo?
my money is on deep rooted baggage!
post 1575953881 03-16-2019, 08:09 AM
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Originally Posted By TypeNirvash⏩
my money is on deep rooted baggage!
I'm going with duct tape and OP interprets the muffled screams as "yes great, I love this a lot"
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post 1575953931 03-16-2019, 08:10 AM
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Originally Posted By TypeNirvash⏩
my money is on deep rooted baggage!
That would be psychological and it wouldn't be an attribute. I also admit that I have in some situations, projected past relationship adversities onto current. However, that's not always the case.
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post 1575954151 03-16-2019, 08:14 AM
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Originally Posted By Vampirelol⏩
I'm going with duct tape and OP interprets the muffled screams as "yes great, I love this a lot"
Cope
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post 1575954291 03-16-2019, 08:16 AM
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Originally Posted By l2ambo⏩
I completely agree with you, which is why I'm taking a break from dating to get my financial situation in check, as well as my health. I've been in a bit of a rut these past few months. I'm not as bad as you guys are making me out to be, trust me. I have no problems being honest even when I know that I may be giving trolls more ammo.
All joking aside;

That's smart, to get your financial situation in check.

But a big reason why you're probably getting chit is because you posted an OP that is rooted in the insecurity you carry rather than unconditional truth.

To be honest, in claiming that you look like "X/Y/Z" and that you have "another thing women love" you're coming off exactly like what you're trying to say you're not.

If you wanna be honest about your rut, solid, we all go through them and they get better. Don't make it worse for yourself by trying to "one-up" people with emptiness. This is coming from the ego, trying to build value for yourself--the same value you feel is destroyed by admitting your rut.

You're throwing these inane things out there that don't help your cause or make you seem any better than what you put out initially, specifically because you don't want to seem lesser than your ego believes you to be.

The truth is that we're all simple creatures with no real value other than the value we extract from ourselves. The one-upping is empty, because it means nothing to anyone.

So let's get down to the real nitty gritty;
Why do you think you posted this thread?
What were you hoping to extract from the responses?
post 1575954641 03-16-2019, 08:23 AM
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Originally Posted By TypeNirvash⏩
All joking aside;

That's smart, to get your financial situation in check.

But a big reason why you're probably getting chit is because you posted an OP that is rooted in the insecurity you carry rather than unconditional truth.

To be honest, in claiming that you look like "X/Y/Z" and that you have "another thing women love" you're coming off exactly like what you're trying to say you're not.

If you wanna be honest about your rut, solid, we all go through them and they get better. Don't make it worse for yourself by trying to "one-up" people with emptiness. This is coming from the ego, trying to build value for yourself--the same value you feel is destroyed by admitting your rut.

You're throwing these inane things out there that don't help your cause or make you seem any better than what you put out initially, specifically because you don't want to seem lesser than your ego believes you to be.

The truth is that we're all simple creatures with no real value other than the value we extract from ourselves. The one-upping is empty, because it means nothing to anyone.

So let's get down to the real nitty gritty;
Why do you think you posted this thread?
What were you hoping to extract from the responses?
I wasn't trying to one up anyone by making this thread, I was trying to help clueless miscers navigate the dating scene. Inb4 I'm said clueless miscer. Trust me, I also know about the ego and I do w/e I can to diminish it through self observance and honest critique of that self. I've read what plato, aristotle, nietzsche, and ekhart tolle have to say about the ego and while I'm far from perfect, I try to keep my ego in check. This thread was made to help. If I'm wrong, I'll admit it but you and vampire seem to agree with most of the OP so I'm a bit confused. I'm nothing but honest with woman IRL and I don't want to hurt anyone. Maybe I gave the OP a bit of a redpill flare to it that rubbed some of you the wrong way? IDK
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post 1575954781 03-16-2019, 08:25 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
^^^ impressed



Well judging by this thread you don’t have many psychological attributes that make you appealing
If you say so.
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post 1575955021 03-16-2019, 08:29 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
You think your attitude, ethics, honour and ability to display any of the many positive attributes of masculinity has come across in this thread at all?
Summary of my OP. "Date woman until you find one that you can be exclusive with." You guys, "WaAAAAAAAAAAAAA"
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post 1575955131 03-16-2019, 08:31 AM
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Originally Posted By Vampirelol⏩
there's your answer



yeah you probably dump them for no reason or something irrational because you're an emotional, insecure *******.
damn, why you guys heff to be mad. it's just a game
post 1575955191 03-16-2019, 08:32 AM
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Fuk you, my tits are motherfukken perfect
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post 1575955341 03-16-2019, 08:36 AM
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yeah true OP many times a relationship is overrated af, I feel atleast half the dudes are in a relationship because they're scared (to be alone, to not get laid elsewise or for whatever reason)
post 1575955351 03-16-2019, 08:36 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
You think your attitude, ethics, honour and ability to display any of the many positive attributes of masculinity has come across in this thread at all?
I don't know what the OP made me seem like. What I do know is... I'm nothing but honest with every woman I'm intimate with. If I don't intend to develop a serious relationship with them, I'll flat out tell them in the most direct way possible. If they continue to sleep with me after that hoping for something more, is it my fault when I leave and they want more? fuk no. I'm good on my end. I seriously doubt you're anywhere near as honest as I am in the dating world. My ethics are solid. Are yours?

Edit: I expect a dodge and a deflection like every other sloot that I confront expecting honesty.
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post 1575955511 03-16-2019, 08:40 AM
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Originally Posted By tehgosu⏩
yeah true OP many times a relationship is overrated af, I feel atleast half the dudes are in a relationship because they're scared (to be alone, to not get laid elsewise or for whatever reason)
You on that Starcraft time brah?
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post 1575955931 03-16-2019, 08:47 AM
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Originally Posted By ncnc⏩
cliffs: OP has read too many redpill blogs and needs dat dere therapy
Haven't even read one. You mad?
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post 1575956461 03-16-2019, 08:56 AM
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Companionship Brah
post 1575957171 03-16-2019, 09:12 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
I’m not in the dating world, I’m in a happy, fulfilling, long term relationship.

But when I was, I would have absolutely discounted any person who seriously exhibited any of chite you espoused in OP
Dodge and deflected just like I said. lololol. sloooooot. I feel bad for your bf.

Edit: Too bad your rep power says nothing about the person you are, you'd be an absolute queen.
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post 1575957421 03-16-2019, 09:17 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Neither is true, what question do you think I’m dodging?

Am I honest with my husband? Well doh!
I'm sure.
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post 1575957511 03-16-2019, 09:18 AM
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Originally Posted By l2ambo⏩
Dodge and deflected just like I said. lololol. sloooooot. I feel bad for your bf.

Edit: Too bad your rep power says nothing about the person you are, you'd be an absolute queen.
I feel bad for your bf, you're the kind of twink that never just bites the pillow and does as they're told
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Originally Posted By l2ambo⏩
I'm sure.
Serious post ahead:

You make a lot of assumptions. I'm sure they're from experience, but you have to understand that there are many people out there with different experiences than yours. There are such things as monogamous, honest relationships and there are such thing as good husbands and wives.

Just because you made different choices and haven't found that yet doesn't discount them.

Try to open up your mind to different possibilities and you may just get a different result.
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post 1575957601 03-16-2019, 09:20 AM
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Originally Posted By DrewDarden⏩
Serious post ahead:

You make a lot of assumptions. I'm sure they're from experience, but you have to understand that there are many people out there with different experiences than yours. There are such things as monogamous, honest relationships and there are such thing as good husbands and wives.

Just because you made different choices and haven't found that yet doesn't discount them.

Try to open up your mind to different possibilities and you may just get a different result.
I also know that dodging a question and deflecting is typical of a liar. My assumptions are based on research and personal experience. It's not my fault she has you fooled brah.
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I get very bored with having sex with the same woman after the 1 year mark. I dont know if ill do relationships any more if this one doesnt work out. It feels bad breaking up with nice girls.
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Originally Posted By GravityLee⏩
I get very bored with having sex with the same woman after the 1 year mark. I dont know if ill do relationships any more if this one doesnt work out. It feels bad breaking up with nice girls.
no doubt
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This thread is AIDS and everyone in it has mange.
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Originally Posted By l2ambo⏩
I also know that dodging a question and deflecting is typical of a liar. My assumptions are based on research and personal experience.
You're the one making a claim. So insisting that people who don't buy into them are just liars is akin to a Christian demanding that a nonbeliever answer a series of questions to prove their point. It doesn't work that way. You're making a series of claims, so the responsibility is on you to prove it if you need to do that. It's not on her or any of us to make your argument for you.
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Originally Posted By Vampirelol⏩
I feel bad for your bf, you're the kind of twink that never just bites the pillow and does as they're told
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Originally Posted By GravityLee⏩
I get very bored with having sex with the same woman after the 1 year mark. I dont know if ill do relationships any more if this one doesnt work out. It feels bad breaking up with nice girls.
bruhhhhhhhh. feels. just ended an 8 month bit with a girl that had wifey potential. the idea of being single indefinitely is becoming a very plausible concept
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Originally Posted By DrewDarden⏩
First off, you're the one making a claim. So insisting that people who don't buy into are just liars is akin to a Christian demanding that a nonbeliever answer a series of questions to prove their point. It doesn't work that way. You're making a series of claims, so the responsibility is on you to prove it if you need to do that. It's not on her or any of us to make your argument for you.
Read some facts about how people decieve and lie, then come back and reread my question and her response.
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Again what have I dodged

You think going on the attack is going to save you from people thinking you’re a twat?
Not even worth responding to you anymore. I literally predicted what you would do in your response and you did just that. Liars dodge and deflect, anyone who's not deluded knows that.
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Again what have I dodged
Originally Posted By l2ambo⏩
Not even worth responding to you anymore. I literally predicted what you would do in your response and you did just that. Liars dodge and deflect, anyone who's not deluded knows that.
Now who's dodging?
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