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05-05-2019, 12:47 PM
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Originally Posted By otakutrevan⏩
I think for us averageish looking guys (I posted a head shot recently on that Photofeeler site, got 5.2 for attractiveness. My wife's picture got 8.5 though, holla!), you have to maximize your social circle and be strategic about including the type of people who hang out with the type of girls you want to meet. Then when you meet girls via that social circle you will have instant credibility as well as time to chat and build attraction via game/personality/whatever you want to call it.I agree with the positive feedback loop
I agree with looks maxing. The only thing that seemed to remotely help me
However as far as manipulating social scenarios I still have 1 foot out the door. Example here. Recently my class did interview prep as we graduate soon. Honestly when it comes to coding I'm one of the weaker people in the class (but i still grind). However I got serious praise from Senior Devs and Project Managers. Imo that is because I understand what employers look for and why presenting ones self as confident, inquisitive, and humble in a job interview can be. I slay them ****s every time. However due to me getting an "interview" ? They actually ALLOW themselves to see my "game". But with women as I stated above if I don't get 5 seconds then my game doesnt matter. Now maybe PERHAPS if the girl is around me in continued social interactions the "game" / "personality" may grow on her. I've experienced this a few times. This may be what pondus refers to as "building attraction", but in most scenarios (day game, bar game, festival game, anime con game) that **** is irrelevant because you will only be around that person for a few minutes, or maybe an hour at a max and if they have already written you off looks wise? Your game means nothing
So for long term social situations ? Being conscious of your social actions is important, but if you're just getting yucky with the boys or at a pool party? Just look as good as possible and be normal. Thats really all you can do and hope someone take the bait.
I agree with looks maxing. The only thing that seemed to remotely help me
However as far as manipulating social scenarios I still have 1 foot out the door. Example here. Recently my class did interview prep as we graduate soon. Honestly when it comes to coding I'm one of the weaker people in the class (but i still grind). However I got serious praise from Senior Devs and Project Managers. Imo that is because I understand what employers look for and why presenting ones self as confident, inquisitive, and humble in a job interview can be. I slay them ****s every time. However due to me getting an "interview" ? They actually ALLOW themselves to see my "game". But with women as I stated above if I don't get 5 seconds then my game doesnt matter. Now maybe PERHAPS if the girl is around me in continued social interactions the "game" / "personality" may grow on her. I've experienced this a few times. This may be what pondus refers to as "building attraction", but in most scenarios (day game, bar game, festival game, anime con game) that **** is irrelevant because you will only be around that person for a few minutes, or maybe an hour at a max and if they have already written you off looks wise? Your game means nothing
So for long term social situations ? Being conscious of your social actions is important, but if you're just getting yucky with the boys or at a pool party? Just look as good as possible and be normal. Thats really all you can do and hope someone take the bait.
IMO, if you are over 23 or so and have a good amount of friends, are decent looking(which most can get to by taking care of themselves), and reasonably enjoyable to hang out with, then the girlfriends/wive's of those friends should be falling over themselves to set you up with their single friends. Even if you are fat/unattractive you should still have this happen to you, just the girls they try and hook you up with will not be attractive. Social circle and ability to meet girls in a casual group setting to me is one of the most important factors in having some success with women.
05-05-2019, 12:57 PM
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Originally Posted By peter19996⏩
LOL you mad boy lmaoooooooo.That’s why I don’t talk to women or use those apps all women are a waste of time and full of s h I t
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05-05-2019, 01:01 PM
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Originally Posted By jimbong⏩
The most I got was a 7.3 on Photofeeler, get at my level brah......I think for us averageish looking guys (I posted a head shot recently on that Photofeeler site, got 5.2 for attractiveness. My wife's picture got 8.5 though, holla!), you have to maximize your social circle and be strategic about including the type of people who hang out with the type of girls you want to meet. Then when you meet girls via that social circle you will have instant credibility as well as time to chat and build attraction via game/personality/whatever you want to call it.
IMO, if you are over 23 or so and have a good amount of friends, are decent looking(which most can get to by taking care of themselves), and reasonably enjoyable to hang out with, then the girlfriends/wive's of those friends should be falling over themselves to set you up with their single friends. Even if you are fat/unattractive you should still have this happen to you, just the girls they try and hook you up with will not be attractive. Social circle and ability to meet girls in a casual group setting to me is one of the most important factors in having some success with women.
IMO, if you are over 23 or so and have a good amount of friends, are decent looking(which most can get to by taking care of themselves), and reasonably enjoyable to hang out with, then the girlfriends/wive's of those friends should be falling over themselves to set you up with their single friends. Even if you are fat/unattractive you should still have this happen to you, just the girls they try and hook you up with will not be attractive. Social circle and ability to meet girls in a casual group setting to me is one of the most important factors in having some success with women.
But yeah I would say I'm decent looking but I'm nowhere near Brad Pitt's level of looks. I also have what you might call a hit or miss face. Some women like the way I look, others don't and I use a combination of physical attraction and a decent personality in order find a woman that takes the bait. I also have this nerdy black guy look because of my glasses and because of that, some women might not be attracted to that due to the whole "Steve Urkel" thing. Luckily I can grow a nice beard which makes me look better and I'm still looking to looks max by getting contacts and getting lean.
05-05-2019, 01:03 PM
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Originally Posted By peter19996⏩
That’s why I don’t talk to women or use those apps all women are a waste of time and full of s h I t
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05-05-2019, 01:08 PM
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In reply to black Scorpio your only saying it’s me because I’m going at women for the stuff they do pretty sure if I was going at men on the **** they do you wouldn’t be making these excuses yh it’s all me that women ignore waste time and are difficult yet I get on with older women and guys just fine and no I’m not gay and I have said nasty **** about men before you say “your picking on women” lol get real I just don’t lick women’s asses for abousletely no reason and have to make excuses for the **** they do p.s I don’t hate men or women
05-05-2019, 01:33 PM
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Oh boy, I’m glad I was open minded about dating an E Asian girl. My mind is just blown by all these little things she does. She seems so genuinely nice.
Couple of examples:
We ate cereal this morning, and she grabbed the bowls and went to wash them.
I was gonna grab my backpack and she zipped it up and handed it to me.
After she did that, I kinda froze. She asked what’s wrong and I said nothing, it’s just nice that she does these little things. She said yes in her culture women are “motherly” and caring. She said I would really like Japanese women.
I said I’ve never, ever had a Western woman do stuff like that. The last girl I dated was foreign too, but was Americanized. She actually kinda complained about the lack of food options I had.
This girl only moved over a year or two ago so I guess didn’t go through the college system and get westernized.
Fcuk guys I’m suddenly so much more open minded about an E Asian wife. Even my ex was from conservative America but she was nothing like this. This girl seems nice and not entitled.
Couple of examples:
We ate cereal this morning, and she grabbed the bowls and went to wash them.
I was gonna grab my backpack and she zipped it up and handed it to me.
After she did that, I kinda froze. She asked what’s wrong and I said nothing, it’s just nice that she does these little things. She said yes in her culture women are “motherly” and caring. She said I would really like Japanese women.
I said I’ve never, ever had a Western woman do stuff like that. The last girl I dated was foreign too, but was Americanized. She actually kinda complained about the lack of food options I had.
This girl only moved over a year or two ago so I guess didn’t go through the college system and get westernized.
Fcuk guys I’m suddenly so much more open minded about an E Asian wife. Even my ex was from conservative America but she was nothing like this. This girl seems nice and not entitled.
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05-05-2019, 01:46 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
It’s baffling to me that any of that would be so odd, sometimes I feel that most of the MISC operates in a completely different world fromOh boy, I’m glad I was open minded about dating an E Asian girl. My mind is just blown by all these little things she does. She seems so genuinely nice.
Couple of examples:
We ate cereal this morning, and she grabbed the bowls and went to wash them.
I was gonna grab my backpack and she zipped it up and handed it to me.
After she did that, I kinda froze. She asked what’s wrong and I said nothing, it’s just nice that she does these little things. She said yes in her culture women are “motherly” and caring. She said I would really like Japanese women.
I said I’ve never, ever had a Western woman do stuff like that. The last girl I dated was foreign too, but was Americanized. She actually kinda complained about the lack of food options I had.
This girl only moved over a year or two ago so I guess didn’t go through the college system and get westernized.
Fcuk guys I’m suddenly so much more open minded about an E Asian wife. Even my ex was from conservative America but she was nothing like this. This girl seems nice and not entitled.
Couple of examples:
We ate cereal this morning, and she grabbed the bowls and went to wash them.
I was gonna grab my backpack and she zipped it up and handed it to me.
After she did that, I kinda froze. She asked what’s wrong and I said nothing, it’s just nice that she does these little things. She said yes in her culture women are “motherly” and caring. She said I would really like Japanese women.
I said I’ve never, ever had a Western woman do stuff like that. The last girl I dated was foreign too, but was Americanized. She actually kinda complained about the lack of food options I had.
This girl only moved over a year or two ago so I guess didn’t go through the college system and get westernized.
Fcuk guys I’m suddenly so much more open minded about an E Asian wife. Even my ex was from conservative America but she was nothing like this. This girl seems nice and not entitled.
me, and/or has impressively bad taste in women.
05-05-2019, 01:49 PM
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Originally Posted By jimbong⏩
This. I do nice little things like that all the time. I actually like doing the nice little things for someone and I think that's what I miss most about not having a boyfriend/husband. To think that guys have never experienced that in a woman is mind blowing to me.It’s baffling to me that any of that would be so odd, sometimes I feel that most of the MISC operates in a completely different world from
me, and/or has impressively bad taste in women.
me, and/or has impressively bad taste in women.
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05-05-2019, 01:54 PM
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩
pretty lit and decided to DM my ex (only girl I've ever actually dated)She read the message and didnt respond. Literally said "Hope things are going good for you and kudos on the new gig (saw it on social media)
Boy I broke like 5 years of no contact just to get left on read , lmaooooooooooooo
05-05-2019, 01:54 PM
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Originally Posted By jimbong⏩
No kidding. I've been doing this kind of stuff for years and not just for a bf or husband.It’s baffling to me that any of that would be so odd, sometimes I feel that most of the MISC operates in a completely different world from
me, and/or has impressively bad taste in women.
me, and/or has impressively bad taste in women.
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05-05-2019, 02:11 PM
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05-05-2019, 02:13 PM
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Originally Posted By otakutrevan⏩
You're still friends with your ex on social media?pretty lit and decided to DM my ex (only girl I've ever actually dated)
She read the message and didnt respond. Literally said "Hope things are going good for you and kudos on the new gig (saw it on social media)
Boy I broke like 5 years of no contact just to get left on read , lmaooooooooooooo
She read the message and didnt respond. Literally said "Hope things are going good for you and kudos on the new gig (saw it on social media)
Boy I broke like 5 years of no contact just to get left on read , lmaooooooooooooo
05-05-2019, 02:19 PM
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Originally Posted By peter19996⏩
shut the fuk up *******In reply to black Scorpio your only saying it’s me because I’m going at women for the stuff they do pretty sure if I was going at men on the **** they do you wouldn’t be making these excuses yh it’s all me that women ignore waste time and are difficult yet I get on with older women and guys just fine and no I’m not gay and I have said nasty **** about men before you say “your picking on women” lol get real I just don’t lick women’s asses for abousletely no reason and have to make excuses for the **** they do p.s I don’t hate men or women
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05-05-2019, 02:33 PM
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05-05-2019, 02:33 PM
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
yes ?I m not a salty butthurt. I prefer to look to indifferent. So I never unfollowed her on insta and she never unfollowed me. the left on read = my value has dropped in her eyes or she has some guy with a higher status, but sheet. not even a hey? lmao. It goes to show going "no contact" is nothing more than a method for a man to retain his pride and confidence.You're still friends with your ex on social media?
05-05-2019, 02:36 PM
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Originally Posted By peter19996⏩
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05-05-2019, 02:38 PM
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Never had a gf until 24, landed a really attractive one for a couple months before she broke it off. I had fallen for her hard and went NC and thought MISC says this always works. 10 years later and she still hasn’t contacted me 😂.
05-05-2019, 02:41 PM
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Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer⏩
Truth hurtswah wah keep crying pussy
05-05-2019, 02:51 PM
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Originally Posted By peter19996⏩
LOL is that your voice m8 ?Edit: m8 if that is you ? you are kind of the British version of me. Idk m8. Get fit af, and get you a nice bird yah ? keep trying. idk. or quit.
05-05-2019, 03:02 PM
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05-05-2019, 03:11 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
This. I do nice little things like that all the time. I actually like doing the nice little things for someone and I think that's what I miss most about not having a boyfriend/husband. To think that guys have never experienced that in a woman is mind blowing to me.
Originally Posted By kimm4⏩
So I want to make a distinction here. Every woman I dated, including my ex, did thoughtful things. Cards, gifts, surprises, really thoughtful birthday stuff etc. Which I really appreciated.No kidding. I've been doing this kind of stuff for years and not just for a bf or husband.
But this girl just seemed different, it was just those basic everyday things I noticed. I don't know you two personally, but since you're a bit older it's possible you are just like her.
I wouldn't be too quick to claim we all have bad taste in women. I'm pretty selective, and rule out vapid, materialistic, entitled women as much as possible. I think it's possible that you just don't realize what younger westernized women are like. It could be either or both though; I can't prove it here -- I might have had an unlucky run or selected poorly.
I think that a lot of young western women are paranoid about doing things that may seem "subservient", and have been taught in culture that actions like that are not empowering. I got that vibe from the last girl for sure.
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Originally Posted By otakutrevan⏩
Awe damn. That would destroy my ego tbh, but I’m sorry she left you on read.pretty lit and decided to DM my ex (only girl I've ever actually dated)
She read the message and didnt respond. Literally said "Hope things are going good for you and kudos on the new gig (saw it on social media)
Boy I broke like 5 years of no contact just to get left on read , lmaooooooooooooo
She read the message and didnt respond. Literally said "Hope things are going good for you and kudos on the new gig (saw it on social media)
Boy I broke like 5 years of no contact just to get left on read , lmaooooooooooooo
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
They are. The last guy I got involved with was so shocked that I did so many nice things for him. Make him lunch, wash his clothes, do the dishes after we ate, etc. and once my friends heard all of that.. they all started going on about “You are doing it wrong. He should’ve done his own chit. It’s his house. You’re a woman, not a slave” So much more, but I can’t remember the whole mumble jumbo they spoke.I think that a lot of young western women are paranoid about doing things that may seem "subservient", and have been taught in culture that actions like that are not empowering. I got that vibe from the last girl for sure.
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It’s ok to slag off men but as soon as your have an opnion on women it’s all you and all you get is excuses sexism
05-05-2019, 03:45 PM
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩
Wow, good for you. And I know you're not doing it to be subservient, you're doing it because you enjoy it and are naturally nurturing?They are. The last guy I got involved with was so shocked that I did so many nice things for him. Make him lunch, wash his clothes, do the dishes after we ate, etc. and once my friends heard all of that.. they all started going on about “You are doing it wrong. He should’ve done his own chit. It’s his house. You’re a woman, not a slave” So much more, but I can’t remember the whole mumble jumbo they spoke.
This is so messed up, that women are railing against their nature in some senses. And ye, I'm sure my 'shock' was very similar to that last guy you dated. I bet he really loved it; that masculine/feminine balance and complement is so fulfilling.
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
I am too and it was a top 10 ugly break up of all time lmao personally I don't see a problem with it once the feelings are gone. Most won't agree but I'm not above smashing an ex again after we've moved on. If you still have feels then obviously stay NC until you forget about them. I'll probably smash again next time we hang out. These are dark times so anything goes.You're still friends with your ex on social media?
Went out last night for whats hopefully the last time for a while. I left early cause everyone started splitting off and I only knew one person. Cute girl came late to the dinner, sat next to me and we hit it off pretty well. She came out later to the bar but everyone was split up. Kinda feel like I shoulda stayed but I would've had to be the life of the party and I just wasn't up for it. Alcohol has been starting to have the opposite of it's intended effect.
Went to church today and I'm gonna try my best to walk away from the partying and drugs.Just sucks that I always meet hot girls when I go out so its definitely tempting.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I think it depends on the woman and how she was raised. There are a lot of women out there that would do things for their men because they love to do it and make them happy.So I want to make a distinction here. Every woman I dated, including my ex, did thoughtful things. Cards, gifts, surprises, really thoughtful birthday stuff etc. Which I really appreciated.
But this girl just seemed different, it was just those basic everyday things I noticed. I don't know you two personally, but since you're a bit older it's possible you are just like her.
I wouldn't be too quick to claim we all have bad taste in women. I'm pretty selective, and rule out vapid, materialistic, entitled women as much as possible. I think it's possible that you just don't realize what younger westernized women are like. It could be either or both though; I can't prove it here -- I might have had an unlucky run or selected poorly.
I think that a lot of young western women are paranoid about doing things that may seem "subservient", and have been taught in culture that actions like that are not empowering. I got that vibe from the last girl for sure.
But this girl just seemed different, it was just those basic everyday things I noticed. I don't know you two personally, but since you're a bit older it's possible you are just like her.
I wouldn't be too quick to claim we all have bad taste in women. I'm pretty selective, and rule out vapid, materialistic, entitled women as much as possible. I think it's possible that you just don't realize what younger westernized women are like. It could be either or both though; I can't prove it here -- I might have had an unlucky run or selected poorly.
I think that a lot of young western women are paranoid about doing things that may seem "subservient", and have been taught in culture that actions like that are not empowering. I got that vibe from the last girl for sure.
My friends and I are Americanized but we were raised with traditional parents and still do a lot of things within what our culture expect us to do. I don’t know about other cultures but in the Chinese culture when you go out to eat at an Asian restaurant and you order sharing plates the first thing we do as women we will serve you the food before we eat. We will grab the food and put it in your plate. Sometimes we will cut the food up for you too. Lol. One my ex hates eating stir fry crabs because he doesn’t like peeling the shell off so I would do it for him all the time. Also, in our culture sewing belongs to women. I would patch up holes for my exes all the time.
Next time you go out with her see if she serves you food first.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I enjoy helping people I care for. So yeah, I would say I’m naturally nurturing woman.Wow, good for you. And I know you're not doing it to be subservient, you're doing it because you enjoy it and are naturally nurturing?
This is so messed up, that women are railing against their nature in some senses. And ye, I'm sure my 'shock' was very similar to that last guy you dated. I bet he really loved it; that masculine/feminine balance and complement is so fulfilling.
This is so messed up, that women are railing against their nature in some senses. And ye, I'm sure my 'shock' was very similar to that last guy you dated. I bet he really loved it; that masculine/feminine balance and complement is so fulfilling.
In general I feel like women are so focused on being like men that they are forgetting to be women. Maybe that’s one of the reasons why they get so offended when someone asks them to do a feminine task tbh. He did love it and majority of them do. Balance is key to relationship for me. I’d really hate to date a guy that was more feminine than me.
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