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post 1579502861 05-05-2019, 08:06 PM
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Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer⏩
lol yea but i didn't see a ring so i just assumed she was single. obviously i didn't find out until after the fact but yea not wasting my time with that one
Oh, I wasn't saying anything against you. I just can't believe a married person would do that in public where they could be seen. Like what if you got caught on the big cam?! Yikes. lol
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post 1579502931 05-05-2019, 08:07 PM
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
So you're a beta male hanging out with strong, independent women? Got it.

Only beta males have a majority of female friends ESPECIALLY if they're one of those strong, independent types. Most dudes don't have a whole bunch of female friends including me.

And I bet these women are one of those "I don't need a man" types right?
Nah, I’m the kind of male who doesn’t think about beta/alpha or other internet nonsense as I had men in real life to show me the way. I follow their example and do the best I can to take care of those I care about.

The women I hang out with are via my wife and my friend’s wives/girlfriends, as well as through my career. I’d hope any self respecting women would laugh at the idea of NEEDING a man, but people will surprise you.
post 1579503071 05-05-2019, 08:10 PM
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Originally Posted By jimbong⏩
Nah, I’m the kind of male who doesn’t think about beta/alpha or other internet nonsense as I had men in real life to show me the way. I follow their example and do the best I can to take care of those I care about.

The women I hang out with are via my wife and my friend’s wives/girlfriends, as well as through my career. I’d hope any self respecting women would laugh at the idea of NEEDING a man, but people will surprise you.
This is very true. It would suck to "need" a man in order to survive. I don't need a man, but I very much want one. Two different things.
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post 1579503271 05-05-2019, 08:14 PM
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Lots of cringe in last 2 pages.




As for how women treat their man and such... people can only treat you how you let them. Every woman in have ever been with has been eager to serve me. I may be demanding, but I try and make sure I am also very appreciative and that they know it.
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post 1579504611 05-05-2019, 08:35 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Hnnnng, so attractive to me.
Kinda off topic, but one thing I miss about my ex is that he liked spicy food. He's not from this state, and almost every guy I've gone on a date with from here hates spicy food.
post 1579504711 05-05-2019, 08:36 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Oh, I wasn't saying anything against you. I just can't believe a married person would do that in public where they could be seen. Like what if you got caught on the big cam?! Yikes. lol
You'd be surprised.
post 1579504861 05-05-2019, 08:39 PM
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Originally Posted By NitrogenWidget⏩
have experienced this with women and I returned in kind also, but it doesn't last.
Seems like they only do it to hook me then get lazy while I still did little things for them and eventually I just moved on because I felt like I was the only one who was doing anything in the relationship.
Takes all kinds. Some guys seem to get mad about it. See:wasp in main misc. Don't feel like trying to dig up the comment though; something about women wanting to cook and clean for him and he doesn't need/want that. And some just ignore it/take it for granted...no appreciation or reciprocity.
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post 1579505051 05-05-2019, 08:41 PM
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Originally Posted By jimbong⏩
Nah, I’m the kind of male who doesn’t think about beta/alpha or other internet nonsense as I had men in real life to show me the way. I follow their example and do the best I can to take care of those I care about.

The women I hang out with are via my wife and my friend’s wives/girlfriends, as well as through my career. I’d hope any self respecting women would laugh at the idea of NEEDING a man, but people will surprise you.
Yeah need and want are two different things but honestly alot of these people just talk about how they don't need a man like it's some big achievement. Like good for you? No one cares.

I just think women should know their roles like how men should know their roles. We need each other, femininity and masculinity are ying and yang, the roles should not be reverse and alot of these women are trying to do that.
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
I just think women should know their roles like how men should know their roles. We need each other, femininity and masculinity are ying and yang, the roles should not be reverse and alot of these women are trying to do that.
Eh, I steer clear of telling anyone that they should “know their roles”. If a women has the goods to be the alpha dog, then she should go get it.
post 1579507061 05-05-2019, 09:17 PM
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
Yeah need and want are two different things but honestly alot of these people just talk about how they don't need a man like it's some big achievement. Like good for you? No one cares.

I just think women should know their roles like how men should know their roles. We need each other, femininity and masculinity are ying and yang, the roles should not be reverse and alot of these women are trying to do that.
I agree, as long as we recognize that individuals are free to tangent off the path of typical roles if they wish since there are outliers within each sex (in a meritocratic way, not how we're currently pushing 50/50 etc.)
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post 1579508071 05-05-2019, 09:34 PM
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Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer⏩
lol yea but i didn't see a ring so i just assumed she was single. obviously i didn't find out until after the fact but yea not wasting my time with that one
Just saw this post but that game was wild, when will it be mine turn for 2nd round playoffs again (heatbrah). That said I always see sloots at games so I'm not surprised. Just crazy she made out at a game her husband probably paid for lmao

IIRC you used to be FA but I'm always seeing you post about a new girl every week ITT. When did this all happen?
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post 1579509421 05-05-2019, 10:00 PM
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Originally Posted By iamdetermined⏩
Just saw this post but that game was wild, when will it be mine turn for 2nd round playoffs again (heatbrah). That said I always see sloots at games so I'm not surprised. Just crazy she made out at a game her husband probably paid for lmao

IIRC you used to be FA but I'm always seeing you post about a new girl every week ITT. When did this all happen?
Lol it was a great game. Just started putting myself out there more. I make it a point to go out and do something. Whether it be a sporting event, movie, the mall, whatever. Even if I don't meet women it will still get me out of my shell. Just stepping out is very beneficial for my mental state. The feeling of being around other people is much better than being alone and isolated.
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post 1579512661 05-05-2019, 11:25 PM
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Well in marriage you both do things for each other, it's not one sided. I take care of the house and work and if I get something, I will always think of my husband also.

However, I am not nurturing and I would be a horrible mother. I'm just too absentminded and in my own world. Legzz and Kim are no doubt great mothers. I'm not like that.

However, maybe if I had kids, I would just naturally always think what others need. Or maybe not.
post 1579513341 05-05-2019, 11:46 PM
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
Well in marriage you both do things for each other, it's not one sided. I take care of the house and work and if I get something, I will always think of my husband also.

However, I am not nurturing and I would be a horrible mother. I'm just too absentminded and in my own world. Legzz and Kim are no doubt great mothers. I'm not like that.

However, maybe if I had kids, I would just naturally always think what others need. Or maybe not.
Some people are natural carers and nurturers. They derive satisfaction from helping others. Women tend to fit this profile more than men; hence the ratio of nurses etc.

You might not be that type of person. I laughed when Silence claimed to be.
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post 1579514081 05-06-2019, 12:14 AM
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩
They are. The last guy I got involved with was so shocked that I did so many nice things for him. Make him lunch, wash his clothes, do the dishes after we ate, etc. and once my friends heard all of that.. they all started going on about “You are doing it wrong. He should’ve done his own chit. It’s his house. You’re a woman, not a slave” So much more, but I can’t remember the whole mumble jumbo they spoke.
I bet they're OK with a guy doing gentlemanly stuff for them.
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Originally Posted By Mr
I bet they're OK with a guy doing gentlemanly stuff for them.
Oh yes, most expect men to romance and impress them.
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post 1579514231 05-06-2019, 12:22 AM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Some people are natural carers and nurturers. They derive satisfaction from helping others. Women tend to fit this profile more than men; hence the ratio of nurses etc.

You might not be that type of person. I laughed when Silence claimed to be.
I do all the housework, though. My husband can't do it because he's been married his whole life and he just always had a wife doing it. Our division of labor is traditional and I consider him the leader of our family, even though it's just us. Men are not like women and they do other stuff that I don't know how to do.
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
Your friends are retarded. Let me guess they're single right?

And a woman doing all those things for me would definitely get the D.
Lmao they can be, but only a few are single. One is married and the others have a bf. It’s actually pretty common for a lot of taken women to view it as they did. Even had a 50yo woman tell me to make a man work the hardest in the relationship. Lol’d a bit because I’m sure she was divorced.
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
I do all the housework, though. My husband can't do it because he's been married his whole life and he just always had a wife doing it. Our division of labor is traditional and I consider him the leader of our family, even though it's just us. Men are not like women and they do other stuff that I don't know how to do.
If you’re both content with the roles, then that’s all that matters. In general, I’d be concerned that a non-nurturing type of woman performing those roles might build up resentment or something.

I’d prefer if she truly derived satisfaction from it, and the same for myself. It’s gonna be much healthier than just a logically agreed upon set of roles.
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post 1579515051 05-06-2019, 01:16 AM
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Originally Posted By Mr
I bet they're OK with a guy doing gentlemanly stuff for them.
Ye, they just don’t want to do any work, but expect to be romanced or have a guy treat them like a “princess” (as a few of them stated)

In general, people want specially treatment, but won’t give the same respect.
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Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer⏩
Lol it was a great game. Just started putting myself out there more. I make it a point to go out and do something. Whether it be a sporting event, movie, the mall, whatever. Even if I don't meet women it will still get me out of my shell. Just stepping out is very beneficial for my mental state. The feeling of being around other people is much better than being alone and isolated.
IDK brah. I tried that and it just made me feel worse. Some people are better off alone. Not saying you are, but I am.
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Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer⏩
yea i won't be talking to her again. i found out she's married
this is why i misc
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Just talking about basic affection and courtesy. I mean you don’t have to be Martha Stewart to pick up a bowl and wash it. That’s just normal basic stuff. Even more so when you’re in love with someone so you want to show affection and do stuff for them.
Well, this girl doesn't love me. And idk why you're zoning in on the specific actions - I just gave two examples to try portray the general vibe I got from her.

Honestly, it's very difficult to articulate. You can just sense this natural sort of kindness and femininity. Maybe 'dutiful' and 'conscientious' are better adjectives.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Well, this girl doesn't love me. And idk why you're zoning in on the specific actions - I just gave two examples to try portray the general vibe I got from her.

Honestly, it's very difficult to articulate. You can just sense this natural sort of kindness and femininity. Maybe 'dutiful' and 'conscientious' are better adjectives.
I understand what you are getting at, but I still don't think it is difficult to find women in America with those traits.
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Originally Posted By jimbong⏩
I understand what you are getting at, but I still don't think it is difficult to find women in America with those traits.
Most of them aren't online...
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
Most of them aren't online...
Yeah, probably not, but I never did online dating as I know looks aren't my strength, and I met my now wife right before Tinder exploded so never dealt with it.

I do know of a handful of quality women that are on Tinder and such, but they mostly just use it as a form of entertainment and are ridiculously selective of the men they meet IRL from it.
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Originally Posted By jimbong⏩
I do know of a handful ofquality women that are on Tinderand such, but they mostly justuse it as a form of entertainmentand areridiculously selectiveof the men they meet IRL from it.
Does not compute.
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