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post 1579554371 05-06-2019, 03:43 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I'm relatively convinced you have some sort of superiority complex. Always suggesting you're a higher quality man than other posters. Didn't you admit in some thread recently that you treat your wife like garbage or was that someone else?
I may very well have a superiority complex, but that wasnt me.
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post 1579554451 05-06-2019, 03:44 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah unreliable with disappearing and also with not wanting to actually hang out. Most of our conversations go like this:

NC for extended time

Him: I love you

Me: lol no

Him: I want a relationship

Me: lol no

Me: can we just hang out and see how it goes?

Him: will you stop talking to other guys

Me: you talk to other girls too

Him: I’ll stop if we start dating

Me: it’s not realistic but let’s just hang out and see

Him: I love you and I want you to be mine

Me: let’s meet up tomorrow and talk and just see

Him: NC

NC for extended time

Repeat
He just checking in to make sure the plate still spinning and hasnt fallen to the floor and shattered yet.
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post 1579554521 05-06-2019, 03:46 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah unreliable with disappearing and also with not wanting to actually hang out. Most of our conversations go like this:

NC for extended time

Him: I love you

Me: lol no

Him: I want a relationship

Me: lol no

Me: can we just hang out and see how it goes?

Him: will you stop talking to other guys

Me: you talk to other girls too

Him: I’ll stop if we start dating

Me: it’s not realistic but let’s just hang out and see

Him: I love you and I want you to be mine

Me: let’s meet up tomorrow and talk and just see

Him: NC

NC for extended time

Repeat
Sounds like a weirdo creep.
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post 1579555191 05-06-2019, 03:59 PM
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post 1579555311 05-06-2019, 04:01 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah he is breadcrumbing. Usually guys breadcrumb for sex and girls breadcrumb for attention. Doesn’t seem like he wants sex so maybe it’s just for attention? Idk
Have y'all banged?
post 1579555671 05-06-2019, 04:08 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah he is breadcrumbing. Usually guys breadcrumb for sex and girls breadcrumb for attention. Doesn’t seem like he wants sex so maybe it’s just for attention? Idk



No he’s goodlooking and seems pretty normal. Just immature and unreliable.
Men like attention too. Some more than others.

I can also say speaking from experience, knowing I could smash, sometimes is enough of ego stroke as actually smashing. I'll just beat my dick to your pics and call it a day. Less trouble.



My guess, dude has a REAL gf. Hard to just meet up whenever when you creepin.
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post 1579555751 05-06-2019, 04:09 PM
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Originally Posted By HayZues
I'm relatively convinced that men who complain about how low quality women are, tend to be low quality themselves.
100% what I’ve believed for some time, or at least they only surround themselves with low quality people.
post 1579556371 05-06-2019, 04:18 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
No he’s goodlooking and seems pretty normal. Just immature and unreliable.
Lmaoooo.


Proving again the difference between being funny or quirky and a weirdo creep is how you look doing it.
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post 1579556401 05-06-2019, 04:19 PM
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Originally Posted By jimbong⏩
100% what I’ve believed for some time, or at least they only surround themselves with low quality people.
You've already lost all credibility though.
Originally Posted By HayZues
Lmaoooo.

Proving again the difference between being funny or quirky and a weirdo creep is how you look doing it.
lol, indeed. Silence is a caricature.
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post 1579557351 05-06-2019, 04:34 PM
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Dear Silence,

Hell no. What are you thinking?

He "loves you" and wants to own/control you (be mine), but randomly just ghosts.

Why would you sign up for that? Yeah, maybe he will chase you. And that could be okay for a minute.

IMO once he thinks he really has you?

I wouldn't expect him to be good to you. In fact that push-pull/come here - go away thing would probably continue.

Who needs that ****?

I have to believe your standards (young-ish, big and...erm, uncomplicated) can be met with less emotional BS in tow.

Ever thought about trying co-ed softball? Volleyball maybe? Kayaking? Heck, join a beer pong league and there should be some guys that fit what you want.

Love,
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post 1579557411 05-06-2019, 04:34 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
You've already lost all credibility though.



e.
Why do you take such umbrage with that statement though?
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post 1579557621 05-06-2019, 04:38 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
You've already lost all credibility though.
How so?
post 1579557881 05-06-2019, 04:42 PM
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post 1579557921 05-06-2019, 04:42 PM
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post 1579558091 05-06-2019, 04:46 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah unreliable with disappearing and also with not wanting to actually hang out. Most of our conversations go like this:

NC for extended time

Him: I love you

Me: lol no

Him: I want a relationship

Me: lol no

Me: can we just hang out and see how it goes?

Him: will you stop talking to other guys

Me: you talk to other girls too

Him: I’ll stop if we start dating

Me: it’s not realistic but let’s just hang out and see

Him: I love you and I want you to be mine

Me: let’s meet up tomorrow and talk and just see

Him: NC

NC for extended time

Repeat
Sounds like a controlling freak. If you go with him there might be a chance that you truly will be silent.
post 1579558191 05-06-2019, 04:48 PM
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post 1579558381 05-06-2019, 04:51 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Thanks lol. Yeah he is annoying and unreliable but he looks good.

And I don’t like talking to people so I don’t want to join any clubs. That’s why unlike most people I actually liked online dating, because you can get dates without having to socialize.
Lmao @ valuing looks over how they treat you.

True rookie ****.
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post 1579558451 05-06-2019, 04:52 PM
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LOL @ you guys focusing on the guy, when the real issue here is SS even responding to him and asking him to hang out.
Forever alone? Attraction and keeping the girl chasing you - http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=131498033

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post 1579558991 05-06-2019, 04:58 PM
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Originally Posted By SwimLiftRunGrl⏩
Sounds like a controlling freak. If you go with him there might be a chance that you truly will be silent.
No, he can't be a control freak, he's good looking.
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post 1579559101 05-06-2019, 05:00 PM
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post 1579559291 05-06-2019, 05:03 PM
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Imagine being in your 40s and allowing a 20-something fukbuddy to emotionally manipulate you.
"A stupid man's report of what a clever man says can never be accurate, because he unconsciously translates what he hears into something he can understand."
post 1579559461 05-06-2019, 05:06 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
LOL @ you guys focusing on the guy, when the real issue here is SS even responding to him and asking him to hang out.
I wasnt blaming the guy at all. Just letting her know what I perceived his intentions as.
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Well I can’t be with an unattractive guy. Not doing it.

And I never wanted a relationship with him, just wanted to casually date or be fwb and see him a couple of times a week.
Nobody saying attractiveness shouldn't be on your requirement list. Just not #1. Certainly not higher than how they treat you.


You remind me of a lot of side chicks, and nothing of my wife. Let that sink in.
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post 1579559591 05-06-2019, 05:08 PM
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Physical attraction is a requirement, but fkn LOL if you settle for an inadequate person because they're hot. Such a pathetic way to disrespect yourself.
"A stupid man's report of what a clever man says can never be accurate, because he unconsciously translates what he hears into something he can understand."
post 1579559741 05-06-2019, 05:11 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
LOL @ you guys focusing on the guy, when the real issue here is SS even responding to him and asking him to hang out.
Originally Posted By Mr
Imagine being in your 40s and allowing a 20-something fukbuddy emotionally manipulate you.
Are we sure SS isnt DLB? Srs.

Definitely some similarities.
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post 1579560291 05-06-2019, 05:19 PM
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Originally Posted By HayZues
Are we sure SS isnt DLB? Srs.

Definitely some similarities.
I doubt it, even when DLB was pretending to be a guy, some of her obsessions still came through loud and clear i.e. constantly babbling about therapy, psychiatric disorders etc. and her problems with ex- spouse and teenage daughter.

SS has different personality issues and overall seems like to be less weird and crazy. Like she never talked about getting her rectum blown out by Tinder Chad-lites so there's that.

But this is the internet so who knows?
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post 1579560551 05-06-2019, 05:23 PM
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Originally Posted By Mr
I doubt it, even when DLB was pretending to be a guy, some of her obsessions still came through loud and clear i.e. constantly babbling about therapy, psychiatric disorders etc. and her problems with ex- spouse and teenage daughter.

SS has different problems and overall seems like to be less weird and crazy. Like she never talked about getting her rectum blown out from Tinder Chad-lites so there's that.

But this is the internet so who knows?
Or because she is more attractive (has this been confirmed?) Than dlb so we see it as less completely bat **** as we did with dlb? Like how SS sees this guy as just slightly immature instead of manipulative weirdo because she is attracted to him?
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post 1579560841 05-06-2019, 05:27 PM
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Originally Posted By HayZues
Like how SS sees this guy as just slightly immature instead of manipulative weirdo because she is attracted to him?
SS is just obsessively consumed by looks, primarily youthful looks. That's all you need to know really to make sense of her behavior.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
SS is just obsessively consumed by looks, primarily youthful looks. That's all you need to know really to make sense of her behavior.
More a symptom than a root cause in my preliminary psychoanalysis so far.


Edit - I'm guessing the husbands secret life wasnt really that secret, but judging by her other posts decided to ignore it until the attraction level for him dipped. Then it became a convenient way to get out and gain sympathy.
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