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Whoever SilenceSpeaks is she's probably not DLB because she doesn't seem as crazy or as smart as she is. They both do like younger guys though either around my age or younger.
05-06-2019, 05:55 PM
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The root cause has been debated on here, my theory is trauma from her divorce after she married young and her husband was living a deceptive second life for years.More a symptom than a root cause in my preliminary psychoanalysis so far.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
No spoilers!!The root cause has been debated on here, my theory is trauma from her divorce after she married young and her husband was living a deceptive second life for years.
Edit - I'm guessing the husbands secret life wasnt really that secret, but judging by her other posts decided to ignore it until the attraction level for him dipped. Then it became a convenient way to get out and gain sympathy.
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05-06-2019, 06:03 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
That is true. How can I forget that... Thanks for reminding me. Lol.No, he can't be a control freak, he's good looking.
05-06-2019, 06:06 PM
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05-06-2019, 06:13 PM
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Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer⏩
Good for you brah srs unfortunately a lot of people recognize me from work or school and they're always asking where my friends are if I approach. Moving to a new city where I won't know anyone so I will definitely be going out on my own.Lol it was a great game. Just started putting myself out there more. I make it a point to go out and do something. Whether it be a sporting event, movie, the mall, whatever. Even if I don't meet women it will still get me out of my shell. Just stepping out is very beneficial for my mental state. The feeling of being around other people is much better than being alone and isolated.
Silencespeaks is the reason miscers think all women are chad chasing...please do better for both yourself and your gender.
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05-06-2019, 06:15 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Ye, I'm not getting into this again - I, and others, responded to this many times in the past. Your desire to date baby faced, immature boys as a 40-something y/o woman is not normal.Not sure if srs
So wanting to date someone attractive is now some psychological problem caused by trauma? So if you guys want to date attractive women is that also a psychological problem?
Itโs just normal human nature to want to be with someone attractive. Although there are plenty of people who compromise on that and settle. And also plenty of people who will lie about it and virtue signal that they donโt care much about looks.
So wanting to date someone attractive is now some psychological problem caused by trauma? So if you guys want to date attractive women is that also a psychological problem?
Itโs just normal human nature to want to be with someone attractive. Although there are plenty of people who compromise on that and settle. And also plenty of people who will lie about it and virtue signal that they donโt care much about looks.
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05-06-2019, 06:24 PM
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Originally Posted By iamdetermined⏩
It's just hypergamy at work and why Chad gets all the womenGood for you brah srs unfortunately a lot of people recognize me from work or school and they're always asking where my friends are if I approach. Moving to a new city where I won't know anyone so I will definitely be going out on my own.
Silencespeaks is the reason miscers think all women are chad chasing...please do better for both yourself and your gender.
Silencespeaks is the reason miscers think all women are chad chasing...please do better for both yourself and your gender.
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05-06-2019, 06:29 PM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Your dumbass is acting like Chad doesn't get rejected.It's just hypergamy at work and why Chad gets all the women
05-06-2019, 06:30 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Never posted anybody's pics or detectived anybody in 12 years here.No pics because I donโt want to be detectived or posted online. Iโm already lucky that didnโt happen when I sent pics before.
Not sure if srs
So wanting to date someone attractive is now some psychological problem caused by trauma? So if you guys want to date attractive women is that also a psychological problem?
Itโs just normal human nature to want to be with someone attractive. Although there are plenty of people who compromise on that and settle. And also plenty of people who will lie about it and virtue signal that they donโt care much about looks.
Not sure if srs
So wanting to date someone attractive is now some psychological problem caused by trauma? So if you guys want to date attractive women is that also a psychological problem?
Itโs just normal human nature to want to be with someone attractive. Although there are plenty of people who compromise on that and settle. And also plenty of people who will lie about it and virtue signal that they donโt care much about looks.
It's not an psychological problem to want to be with someone attractive. It is however to ignore everything else and engage in mental gymnastics to be with someone attractive.
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05-06-2019, 06:34 PM
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
Chad will only get rejected if he cold approaches or approaches often. Otherwise chad is fuking that night.Your dumbass is acting like Chad doesn't get rejected.
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05-06-2019, 06:40 PM
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Originally Posted By iamdetermined⏩
SS is more of an exception rather than the rule in many ways. We wouldn't be always talking about her if she wasn't a weird one.Silencespeaks is the reason miscers think all women are chad chasing...please do better for both yourself and your gender.
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I would say that you're somewhat drawn to that type of personality as well. Otherwise you wouldn't be talking about it so much. The difference is that now you're in your 40s and only attracted to it rather than falling over heels for it as you probably would have 20+ years ago.No Iโm not her, I got verified and PMโd pics etc back when I started posting.
Just seems similar because she liked younger guys too. But I think there are lots of older women who are attracted to younger guys.
If youโre 40+ and still care about physical attraction then youโll pretty much have to look at younger guys. Because most 40+ guys generally donโt look so great anymore.
Just seems similar because she liked younger guys too. But I think there are lots of older women who are attracted to younger guys.
If youโre 40+ and still care about physical attraction then youโll pretty much have to look at younger guys. Because most 40+ guys generally donโt look so great anymore.
05-06-2019, 06:43 PM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Chad can get rejected either indirectly or directly. Warm or cold approach.Chad will only get rejected if he cold approaches or approaches often. Otherwise chad is fuking that night.
Only retards think Chad gets all the girls. Maybe alot of them but not every single one.
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05-06-2019, 06:49 PM
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So....I think I've mad some sort of progress or...reached conclusion. As I've said during my 3 year stint of lifting and trying to looks / social max I couldnt seem to land a LTR or even like dates....but I could land one night stands, or FWB situations.
Went full Blackscorpio and just told 4 girls I was ghosted by in the past that we should hook up. 2 out right agree'd, and they all sent semi suggestive photos. This completely blew my mind. Only 1 of the 4 was black-ish (mixed race chick).
Does anyone have theories on this ? This also happened with Black / Mixed girls years back so I dont think its entirely a race issue.
Are some guys just "sex" material to women ?
Are some women sexually attracted to guys but worried about people knowing?
Went full Blackscorpio and just told 4 girls I was ghosted by in the past that we should hook up. 2 out right agree'd, and they all sent semi suggestive photos. This completely blew my mind. Only 1 of the 4 was black-ish (mixed race chick).
Does anyone have theories on this ? This also happened with Black / Mixed girls years back so I dont think its entirely a race issue.
Are some guys just "sex" material to women ?
Are some women sexually attracted to guys but worried about people knowing?
05-06-2019, 06:51 PM
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
Chad is also largely a gay fantasy figure. How many Chads actually exist in real life?Chad can get rejected either indirectly or directly. Warm or cold approach.
Only retards think Chad gets all the girls. Maybe alot of them but not every single one.
Sorry, not sorry.
Only retards think Chad gets all the girls. Maybe alot of them but not every single one.
Sorry, not sorry.
05-06-2019, 06:53 PM
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05-06-2019, 06:58 PM
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Originally Posted By otakutrevan⏩
The latter. Alot of women don't want to be judged by people for sleeping with a guy casually so they're really gonna only casually fuk a dude who they find attractive and is non-judgmental. That's why they put up an act in public saying they're not that type of girl. Only a very small percentage of women don't engage in some form of casual sex.So....I think I've mad some sort of progress or...reached conclusion. As I've said during my 3 year stint of lifting and trying to looks / social max I couldnt seem to land a LTR or even like dates....but I could land one night stands, or FWB situations.
Went full Blackscorpio and just told 4 girls I was ghosted by in the past that we should hook up. 2 out right agree'd, and they all sent semi suggestive photos. This completely blew my mind. Only 1 of the 4 was black-ish (mixed race chick).
Does anyone have theories on this ? This also happened with Black / Mixed girls years back so I dont think its entirely a race issue.
Are some guys just "sex" material to women ?
Are some women sexually attracted to guys but worried about people knowing?
Went full Blackscorpio and just told 4 girls I was ghosted by in the past that we should hook up. 2 out right agree'd, and they all sent semi suggestive photos. This completely blew my mind. Only 1 of the 4 was black-ish (mixed race chick).
Does anyone have theories on this ? This also happened with Black / Mixed girls years back so I dont think its entirely a race issue.
Are some guys just "sex" material to women ?
Are some women sexually attracted to guys but worried about people knowing?
Tinder an good example of this with the whole "Not looking for hookups" when we all know that's not true.
Tell them since they ghosted you that they have to make it up to you
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05-06-2019, 07:00 PM
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05-06-2019, 07:01 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
It isn't bull****, most women your age date older men, while you aren't attracted to men your age at all. It isn't normal.This is such bull****. Everyone likes attractive people. Youโre just used to women virtue signaling that they value personality instead of looks bla bla.
And pretty much all 40+ year old men like 23 year old girls too. Itโs the exact same thing. Just more socially accepted.
And pretty much all 40+ year old men like 23 year old girls too. Itโs the exact same thing. Just more socially accepted.
And men =/= women, men are seeking fertility markers which weigh much heavier in mate selection.
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Originally Posted By otakutrevan⏩
Honestly not surprised. A lot of females are attracted to and respect sexually aggressive men.So....I think I've mad some sort of progress or...reached conclusion. As I've said during my 3 year stint of lifting and trying to looks / social max I couldnt seem to land a LTR or even like dates....but I could land one night stands, or FWB situations.
Went full Blackscorpio and just told 4 girls I was ghosted by in the past that we should hook up. 2 out right agree'd, and they all sent semi suggestive photos. This completely blew my mind. Only 1 of the 4 was black-ish (mixed race chick).
Does anyone have theories on this ? This also happened with Black / Mixed girls years back so I dont think its entirely a race issue.
Are some guys just "sex" material to women ?
Are some women sexually attracted to guys but worried about people knowing?
Went full Blackscorpio and just told 4 girls I was ghosted by in the past that we should hook up. 2 out right agree'd, and they all sent semi suggestive photos. This completely blew my mind. Only 1 of the 4 was black-ish (mixed race chick).
Does anyone have theories on this ? This also happened with Black / Mixed girls years back so I dont think its entirely a race issue.
Are some guys just "sex" material to women ?
Are some women sexually attracted to guys but worried about people knowing?
And yes to the bolded.
05-06-2019, 07:08 PM
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Originally Posted By MediocreGains⏩
How does one gravitate to "dating material" ? Its just weird because....it seems backwards. I've always had my **** together.Honestly not surprised. A lot of females are attracted to and respect sexually aggressive men.
And yes to the bolded.
And yes to the bolded.
05-06-2019, 07:13 PM
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Originally Posted By otakutrevan⏩
I told you, that you were paranoid about being a beta provider. This girl said she assumed I was a "player", and that I was the best looking guy she's matched with. We in Chad lite territory now.How does one gravitate to "dating material" ? Its just weird because....it seems backwards. I've always had my **** together.
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Originally Posted By MediocreGains⏩
Oh I didn't read the first bolded part fully. Yes some guys are used as sex objectives. Whether that has to do to personality, race, looks.Honestly not surprised. A lot of females are attracted to and respect sexually aggressive men.
And yes to the bolded.
And yes to the bolded.
05-06-2019, 07:16 PM
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
"Not looking for hookups" usually means not looking for ONS. Some women aren't into that, neither am I.Only a very small percentage of women don't engage in some form of casual sex.
Tinder an good example of this with the whole "Not looking for hookups" when we all know that's not true.
Tinder an good example of this with the whole "Not looking for hookups" when we all know that's not true.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
assuming by ghosting you were dating these chicks? implying attraction was present.Went full Blackscorpio and just told 4 girls I was ghosted by in the past that we should hook up. 2 out right agree'd, and they all sent semi suggestive photos. This completely blew my mind. Only 1 of the 4 was black-ish (mixed race chick).
Does anyone have theories on this ? This also happened with Black / Mixed girls years back so I dont think its entirely a race issue.
Are some guys just "sex" material to women ?
Are some women sexually attracted to guys but worried about people knowing?
Does anyone have theories on this ? This also happened with Black / Mixed girls years back so I dont think its entirely a race issue.
Are some guys just "sex" material to women ?
Are some women sexually attracted to guys but worried about people knowing?
if a girl id previously dated hit me up saying lets smash, and she hadnt gained 30lbs since, id be down. I think its more #1. People can be very attracted to each other, but want different things/think differently/ whatever the emotional reason may be that makes them someone you no longer wish to continue connecting with but still be physically attracted too
smashing is pure physical and implies no emotion required.
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05-06-2019, 07:22 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Do you mean our own age or older than us? Because I don't believe that is true. I do want a guy who is close to my age, but finding one I'm physically attracted to is very difficult as most guys my age are either A. taken or B. look like absolute chit.It isn't bull****,most women your age date older men, while you aren't attracted to men your age at all. It isn't normal.
And men =/= women, men are seeking fertility markers which weigh much heavier in mate selection.
And men =/= women, men are seeking fertility markers which weigh much heavier in mate selection.
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05-06-2019, 07:23 PM
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Originally Posted By otakutrevan⏩
Sexually suggestive men get laid. Soft spoken betas do not. This should not come as a surprise to you.So....I think I've mad some sort of progress or...reached conclusion. As I've said during my 3 year stint of lifting and trying to looks / social max I couldnt seem to land a LTR or even like dates....but I could land one night stands, or FWB situations.
Went full Blackscorpio and just told 4 girls I was ghosted by in the past that we should hook up. 2 out right agree'd, and they all sent semi suggestive photos. This completely blew my mind. Only 1 of the 4 was black-ish (mixed race chick).
Does anyone have theories on this ? This also happened with Black / Mixed girls years back so I dont think its entirely a race issue.
Are some guys just "sex" material to women ?
Are some women sexually attracted to guys but worried about people knowing?
Went full Blackscorpio and just told 4 girls I was ghosted by in the past that we should hook up. 2 out right agree'd, and they all sent semi suggestive photos. This completely blew my mind. Only 1 of the 4 was black-ish (mixed race chick).
Does anyone have theories on this ? This also happened with Black / Mixed girls years back so I dont think its entirely a race issue.
Are some guys just "sex" material to women ?
Are some women sexually attracted to guys but worried about people knowing?
Pics of mixed chick? Hnng
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05-06-2019, 07:24 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
There is no way in hell what I seem to think is low to no interest is women thinking I'm Chad lite so they dont pursue due to fear of getting pumped dumped , lmao. I just cannot get down with that.I told you, that you were paranoid about being a beta provider. This girl said she assumed I was a "player", and that I was the best looking guy she's matched with. We in Chad lite territory now.
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Originally Posted By otakutrevan⏩
It's hard to say since I don't really know you, and relationships are a lot more complicated than attraction and simply hooking up. I think a lot of it has to do with figuring out what you're compatible with and how to deal with females, all of which you can only really learn through experience.How does one gravitate to "dating material" ? Its just weird because....it seems backwards. I've always had my **** together.
For the time being, I'd say just enjoy. It's not the worst problem to have unless this continues to the point where you're old and lonely.
05-06-2019, 07:25 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
True but I've had a few women tell me irl that all they wanted was a ONS due to my looks, age and/or race."Not looking for hookups" usually means not looking for ONS. Some women aren't into that, neither am I.
At minimum women want a consistent fuk buddy/FWB for regular or semi regular sex, they don't like pumping and dumping alot unless they were only looking for sex that doesn't come back to them due to various factors or the sex was bad. Pumping and dumping sounds easy on paper but unless you have a decent amount of women already, most guys find it difficult to have ONS with a woman and just dump her with no other options.
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