Is your argument really - "that you can't know people other than yourself and possibly your longtime S/O, but with that said, I know you Mr. Random message board poster and you are very easily manipulated, and also, you can't argue against it because if you were easy to manipulate you wouldn't know it"?

That was just one of many cues.

Girl on badoo randomly blocked for no reason women piss me off

Yes. Because I am not making an ethical call on you as a person, I'm just saying that you have an objectively ridiculous belief. It's possible that instead of being easily manipulated you just have a massive ego (as evidenced by how sure you are you would succeed easily in today's dating environment), but those with massive egos are generally very easy to manipulate. I'm not saying you're good or bad which is a judgment of the entire character of a person. I'm just saying one obvious quality you have. It's objectively absurd to believe that you can figure out the core of another human being after an hour of public interaction.

She probably just saved her own life. Ya fukin creep.

The battle goes on

Well, I like helping people. I don't do it for my personal benefit. I get nothing from it, except some satisfaction that my advice may help others. As you can tell. I don't even care if I am liked, because I know I rub most people there the wrong way, so again, not doing to to boost my ego. I pretty much get called out every time, it is what it is.

I get what you are saying, but it's not a desperation. When I was going out with lots and lots of women, I was just having fun, seeing what was out there, finding myself and figuring out what type of woman I want, but over time, I became more and more open to a relationship and I slowed WAY down. I've only slept with 2 women in the last year. One was this time last year and we dated for about 3 months and I didn't date anyone after, until I met the next woman, in which we dated for 2.5 months. Then after that nothing again. I legit just started talking to woman and going out on dates again a few weeks ago.

I try because I believe there is someone out there for me. How am I going to find her if I don't put myself out there? And it's SO low on my things of important list. I take care of my kids and myself first and make time for women when I can.

I like the woman I went out with Sunday. I want to go out with her again, but will she end up being the one? Will I even get a second date? :shrug:

I've never once thought that this journey has been a waste of my time because I take a very pragmatic approach to dating. If a woman as a waste of my time, that's 100% on me for not filtering her out.

Explain to me how I am a creep?

Ye, I think I did things the wrong way around, but that's probably because I started dating later in life. Most people have probably figured out what type of woman they want, set appropriate expectations etc. in their 20's.

I started off into a serious relationship (well, after just one brief casual one), that lasted 3 years and then after that ended I tried to replace it. Now I'm more in that discovery phase. Of course that phase is much easier, because you don't have to filter as hard for wife material. Although some will probably argue that I'm more likely to meet a potential wife with this more chill approach.

Ahh life must suck to be a incel creep.

I’m not but I don’t blame people who are look at the stuff women do they have litreally 0 personality

Why are women so boring

SS has gone full autistic.

stfu?

sorry if that only helps me.









































not sorry.

Who the fuk is posting on the misc while working out? Pathetic.

Drooling over Chads and doesn't even have the balls to approach.

No one cares about you looking at guys working out.

Of course you didn't see them, they don't drink all that orange juice in Europe.

You're a young man so I don't see any problem with just sleeping around and not expecting anything. While I agree with some of the things you're saying, in part you seem to be experiencing late 20s disillusionment. In 5-10 years, it wouldn't surprise me if you end up changing your tune a bit.

As for Asian women, as one of the few East Asians on the board and therefore probably the only one who isn't talking out of his ass about the subject, I'll say that in reality it's a catch-22 situation. Non-Asian men want an Asian women because they want someone more traditional, but the reality is that Asians are generally a xenophobic people who aren't fond of outsiders. Actually traditional Asian women practically never even date outside of their ethnicity/nationality, let alone their race. Not saying it doesn't happen, but it's a ridiculous expectation to have. I see plenty of white guys assume that a girl is traditional because she's Asian and not a blatantly loudmouth obnoxious kunt, but more often than not it's the type of girl no Asian man who knows better would ever take seriously.

Anyways, I can see the appeal. Most of the girls I've dated, and the one I'm marrying soon, have been Asian Asian rather than Americanized ones, despite the fact that I'm fairly Americanized myself.

As for being "subservient," it's the wrong way to describe what everyone is talking about considering that it has an inherently negative connotation. That being nurturing and feminine is framed in such a way is in large part what I see as a problem in American (and probably Western) culture.

That’s what I thought spastic