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post 1579647461 05-07-2019, 09:16 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo
Rate how I'm doing



In B4 cringe/10
Ehh if it works for you brah.
post 1579648591 05-07-2019, 09:36 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo
Rate how I'm doing



In B4 cringe/10
Lol, reading your text exchanges make me feel hella awkward. But hey, if it is working, more power to ya.
post 1579648671 05-07-2019, 09:36 PM
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Already set strong boundaries on exclusive sex with this latest girl. She said she had assumed I was a player, and then opened up about some other “nice” guy (her words) she had seen a few times.

Basically told her that’s cool, she can do what she likes, but I’m also free to drop her if she’s intimate with any other dude. Said she hadn’t been intimate with him (who know or cares if lying), and she might end it with him.

Set my boundaries hard and strong. I could give zero fuks if she doesn’t want to respect that and I lose her.
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post 1579648891 05-07-2019, 09:39 PM
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91
Ehh if it works for you brah.
Originally Posted By jimbong
Lol, reading your text exchanges make me feel hella awkward. But hey, if it is working, more power to ya.
Your responses make me feel like you two have no idea how to flirt over text...

I get positive responses from texts like these 99/100 times.

I get that blackscorpio is more direct, which is fine, that's not my game, but jim, if you are not using text to flirt with your wife....you are doing a great disservice.
Originally Posted By Luc1fer
Already set strong boundaries on exclusive sex with this latest girl. She said she had assumed I was a player, and then opened up about some other “nice” guy (her words) she had seen a few times.

Basically told her that’s cool, she can do what she likes, but I’m also free to drop her if she’s intimate with any other dude. Said she hadn’t been intimate with him (who know or cares if lying), and she might end it with him.

Set my boundaries hard and strong. I could give zero fuks if she doesn’t want to respect that and I lose her.
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post 1579649351 05-07-2019, 09:46 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo
Your responses make me feel like you two have no idea how to flirt over text...

I get positive responses from texts like these 99/100 times.

I get that black is more direct, which is fine, that's not my game, but jim, if you are not using text to flirt with your wife....you are doing a great disservice.
My text and flirting game is decent, nothing spectacular. I just don't go days texting back and forth joking around. I get to the point real quick on the phone too.

And I'm actually giving you props brah, you making things happen old man
post 1579649391 05-07-2019, 09:47 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer
Already set strong boundaries on exclusive sex with this latest girl. She said she had assumed I was a player, and then opened up about some other “nice” guy (her words) she had seen a few times.

Basically told her that’s cool, she can do what she likes, but I’m also free to drop her if she’s intimate with any other dude. Said she hadn’t been intimate with him (who know or cares if lying), and she might end it with him.

Set my boundaries hard and strong. I could give zero fuks if she doesn’t want to respect that and I lose her.
Imo if she thought you were a player then you were doing something right.
post 1579649471 05-07-2019, 09:48 PM
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91
My text and flirting game is decent, nothing spectacular. I just don't go days texting back and forth joking around. I get to the point real quick on the phone too.

And I'm actually giving you props brah, you making things happen old man
Not bad considering she's 10 years younger, right? ;P
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post 1579649911 05-07-2019, 09:55 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo
Not bad considering she's 10 years younger, right? ;P
Yeah brah. If you can pull younger women like that at your age then you're already ahead of like 90% of the men of your age group.

In b4 old women who can't get no men start attacking you.
post 1579649981 05-07-2019, 09:56 PM
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Originally Posted By SwimLiftRunGrl
Sometimes I wonder if you are talking out of your ass from some of your posts. You made some big assumptions there buddy. I am also East Asian. My neice and nephew are 1/4 Japanese, 1/4 Filipino and 1/2 Chinese. My friend's kids are 1/2 Vietnamese and 1/2 Chinese.

My sisters and I are traditional but we are more open-minded when it comes to dating. Before you say anything all my exes are Asian men but I am open to marrying someone outside of my race as long we have common values and views and he respects my culture.The majority of men that asks me out are Asians so I guess they take me seriously.
Which posts are you talking about?

I say right there in my post that I'm making generalizations and that it doesn't apply to everyone. We're also both Asian American, which is a different thing from Asians from Asia, which is mostly what's being talked about here. I'm also fairly traditional and marrying a Chinese girl. That is irrelevant because I'm referring to most people. Not you personally. Not your friends. And not me.

As for the bolded, I'm not even sure what point you're trying to make because it has nothing to do with what I'm saying. Maybe I haven't made myself clear enough or maybe you're just looking to be offended.
post 1579650001 05-07-2019, 09:58 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo
Not bad considering she's 10 years younger, right? ;P
We both look younger than our age, I’m sure women have told you that too. Every woman says I pass for late 20’s.
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post 1579650111 05-07-2019, 09:59 PM
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2 things that made me goo hmmmm... Kinda dear diary..

1. During lunch I had to go pick up some food, it wasn't ready go figure. This nice looking dude walked in was wearing my football team's hoodie. He had headphones in and without a care in world I said "Go xyz.." He took them out and we chatted a bit. I was in hurry cause I had meetings which ended up being cancelled, but I wanted to talk longer. He's from my home state and kinda looks like Oktu. Neither of us asked for the number.. Tips on closing?

2. Got home saw one of my neighbors moving out. I go say hi/bye, he's graduating with a masters in gender studies and journalism. He then proceeds to talk about "white supremacy" for about 5 minutes, I had a complete Bert stare the entire time. He's also from Pakistan too. All I asked was, what are you studying and goes into a rant. Strange world.
post 1579650431 05-07-2019, 10:04 PM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen
2 things that made me goo hmmmm... Kinda dear diary..

1. During lunch I had to go pick up some food, it wasn't ready go figure. This nice looking dude walked in was wearing my football team's hoodie. He had headphones in and without a care in world I said "Go xyz.." He took them out and we chatted a bit. I was in hurry cause I had meetings which ended up being cancelled, but I wanted to talk longer. He's from my home state and kinda looks like Oktu. Neither of us asked for the number.. Tips on closing?

2. Got home saw one of my neighbors moving out. I go say hi/bye, he's graduating with a masters in gender studies and journalism. He then proceeds to talk about "white supremacy" for about 5 minutes, I had a complete Bert stare the entire time. He's also from Pakistan too. All I asked was, what are you studying and goes into a rant. Strange world.
(1) Say, I gotta run but do you wanna continue this over coffee or drinks? Then give #. Not rocket science.

(2) Lol what a fukkin waste of a masters degree.
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post 1579650741 05-07-2019, 10:11 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer
We both look younger than our age, I’m sure women have told you that too. Every woman says I pass for late 20’s.
I used to think I was pulling it off just because I was that charming... but if I were being honest with myself a lot if probably just boils down to looking young.
post 1579650801 05-07-2019, 10:13 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer
(1) Say, I gotta run but do you wanna continue this over coffee or drinks? Then give #. Not rocket science.

(2) Lol what a fukkin waste of a masters degree.
He was in military too.... Easier said than done.... Was not expected to talk ball at a food place during lunch.

Yeah I feel for his kids in Pakistan.
post 1579651001 05-07-2019, 10:17 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer
(1) Say, I gotta run but do you wanna continue this over coffee or drinks? Then give #. Not rocket science.

(2) Lol what a fukkin waste of a masters degree.
Pretty much this

It's hilarious how women go through the same thing as us guys like "What should I do?"
post 1579651381 05-07-2019, 10:23 PM
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91
Pretty much this

It's hilarious how women go through the same thing as us guys like "What should I do?"
My mind was focused on food. If it was at a dive bar, gym, etc I probably would've asked. It wasn't until I was half way back I thought "ohh was he semi flirting with me..?" I'm not on full dating mode at work.


Honest question to everyone ITT when was the last time you asked for a number in day light during the week? Not including apps/online.
post 1579651761 05-07-2019, 10:32 PM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen
My mind was focused on food. If it was at a dive bar, gym, etc I probably would've asked. It wasn't until I was half way back I thought "ohh was he semi flirting with me..?" I'm not on full dating mode at work.


Honest question to everyone ITT when was the last time you asked for a number in day light during the week? Not including apps/online.
Yeah I feel you. Sometimes when I don't feel like looking for pussy or what the PUAs call sarging, I don't really ask out a woman. Like one time years ago a woman walked by me and smiled but I was so distracted by something else that I didn't really notice until I was like "Maybe I should have asked her out"?

And I don't ask for women's numbers anymore, I either give them my number or we exchange numbers. Asking for a number in day time is easy imo and honestly getting a number doesn't mean ****.
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91
Yeah I feel you. Sometimes when I don't feel like looking for pussy or what the PUAs call sarging, I don't really ask out a woman. Like one time years ago a woman walked by me and smiled but I was so distracted by something else that I didn't really notice until I was like "Maybe I should have asked her out"?

And I don't ask for women's numbers anymore, I either give them my number or we exchange numbers. Asking for a number in day time is easy imo and honestly getting a number doesn't mean ****.
Numbers can mean something if they're interested and looking deep into your eyes... And easy for you to say Mr. Direct
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen
Numbers can mean something if they're interested and looking deep into your eyes... And easy for you to say Mr. Direct
Oh come on baby, you love it when I'm direct

Yes you are correct but alot of women are flaky and alot of times give you the number to get rid of you but are not expecting to get together with you and honestly after approaching and asking out alot of women either directly or indirectly you find out getting a number means nothing. PUAs make it seem to naive people it means something but it doesn't. I even made a thread months ago or last year about getting a number means chit and that it's weird when people are happy for you when you do get a number. You're a woman so you don't understand from a man's perspective.
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91
Oh come on baby, you love it when I'm direct

Yes you are correct but alot of women are flaky and honestly after approaching alot of women either directly or indirectly you find out getting a number means nothing. PUAs make it seem to naive people it means something but it doesn't. I even made a thread months ago or last year about getting a number means chit and that it's weird when people are happy for you when you do get a number. You're a woman so you don't understand from a man's perspective.
PUA stuff seems cringey... And you're right a number means jackchit, cause either party can ghost.
Hmmm I should see if he posted in missed connections on craig's list, eyes emoji.
post 1579653191 05-07-2019, 11:06 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer
We both look younger than our age, I’m sure women have told you that too. Every woman says I pass for late 20’s.
I look more my age with the beard, but w/out it yeah, I look 30 tops.
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo
I look more my age with the beard, but w/out it yeah, I look 30 tops.
With my beard, I look late 20s-early 30s.

Without it, I looked about 23-24 (baby face genetics)

Though I had a woman say she thought I was 24 when I had my beard so that was surprising and I've had people thought I was in my late 20s when I was baby faced.

TL: DR people sometimes can't accurately gauge a person's age.
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo
Your responses make me feel like you two have no idea how to flirt over text...

I get positive responses from texts like these 99/100 times.

I get that blackscorpio is more direct, which is fine, that's not my game, but jim, if you are not using text to flirt with your wife....you are doing a great disservice.
I think it is more just the feeling of seeing something semi-personal that you are normally not privy too. I'd guess most people would laugh at another's text game when they aren't engaged directly in the heat of the moment. Can't argue with results though, so I like seeing it.

And yaknow, I don't flirt regularly over text with my wife(at least not purposefully). I'm going to sprinkle some in now from time to time; props for the reminder.
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Originally Posted By jimbong
I think it is more just the feeling of seeing something semi-personal that you are normally not privy too. I'd guess most people would laugh at another's text game when they aren't engaged directly in the heat of the moment. Can't argue with results though, so I like seeing it.

And yaknow, I don't flirt regularly over text with my wife(at least not purposefully). I'm going to sprinkle some in now from time to time; props for the reminder.
You have to flirt.

If you don't she will forget you are a sexual entity... unless she sees other women seeing you as such.

Gotta keep that desire up. I ****ed up massively recently. I've been owning it and it's actually made me upset, because actually she's never treated me better. Whatever the hell I want to do in bed, I can do it, she's just nicer than ever.

I'm upset because I realise the blackpill really does have some truth to it.
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo
Your responses make me feel like you two have no idea how to flirt over text...

I get positive responses from texts like these 99/100 times.
but at what cost
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Originally Posted By BetaThanU
but at what cost
If it works it works. Don't knock it.
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Originally Posted By jacemano
If it works it works. Don't knock it.
The problem is if a woman thinks you are more into her than she is you, it kills attraction.


Though that short text exchange ain't much. Read a to me like pondus was a few glasses of wine in and feeling mushy.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer
We both look younger than our age, I’m sure women have told you that too. Every woman says I pass for late 20’s.
If you good looking, it will be assumed you a player. Good looking and smooth social skills/comfort around women, even more so. They will also throw it out there as a test to see if you dating others. As always, mystery is best unless you having exclusive talks as you are

Pondus: I'm sensing a sprinkle of beta developing in the text game. Don't think I saw an update on how the date went with her.....
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Originally Posted By HayZues
The problem is if a woman thinks you are more into her than she is you, it kills attraction.


Though that short text exchange ain't much. Read a to me like pondus was a few glasses of wine in and feeling mushy.
The way around that is simple enough when texting... go dark.
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