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post 1580201911 05-15-2019, 08:32 PM
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Originally Posted By HayZues
You live in a fantasy world.


Cant tell If you are making up these people entirely, or just in denial about who you are to them.


Still might be momwithfat tbh.
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post 1580201951 05-15-2019, 08:33 PM
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Originally Posted By iamdetermined
Dude is 28 years old so if a girl that old is scared of a one-on-one date then I don't wanna live on this earth anymore. For what its worth I have friends who get dates regularly. So what you're saying is that the best chance is to just have a drunken one night stand?
Smart phone social media generation doesnt feel comfortable with intimate socializing. Sad I know.

Maybe not a drunken one night stand, but escalate early and often. I never gone on many dates, but almost never been with a woman I havent already at least made out with.

In fact, most the dates I found myself trapped on were because I didnt get to smash that night but really wanted to.
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post 1580202021 05-15-2019, 08:35 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Oh no I’m not her, like I’ve said many times I got verified back when I started posting. We do probably have similar experiences with online dating because that’s just how the market is. So that’s why the stories sound similar but that’s just the same general experience as other attractive older women online.

Older women can get a lot of attention online from young guys in their twenties because the milf thing is in style now. I keep telling you guys that but you 30+ guys refuse to believe it. Just because you 30+ oldcels are not into 40+ women doesn’t mean 20+ guys aren’t.
You're her.

Nobody has ever verified you. You are fuking nuts. Dateline episode crazy.
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post 1580202041 05-15-2019, 08:35 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422
You do have a nice voice! I'm so sorry.I really don't understand these bishes. I never bailed once I made plans.



What's that?
You're one of the exceptions.

Nowadays women are flaky as hell or they just ghost because they think that's the normal right thing to do. Same with guys, they ghost after fuking a woman after they told her they wanted a serious relationship even though really they don't

People are pathetic.
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Originally Posted By HayZues
Bro, I was hesitant to turn off my gym mix to hear your voice, but I was pleasantly surprised. Nice tone. Too bad your energy and vine don't match the coolness of your voice. No homo.



One on one dates are scary. Especially for your generation and later. You're still going to see this girl out and **** right? Dont get butt hurt. Just get her drunk next time yall out as a group. Smash THAT NIGHT. Not later in the week after the glow is gone, making plans over sc.

If the sex is good that night, a relationship of some form will form organically.
I wouldn't get a woman drunk just to smash her especially with the Me Too era going around. Too risky.
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91
I wouldn't get a woman drunk just to smash her especially with the Me Too era going around. Too risky.
"Get her drunk " doesnt mean holding her down and pouring liquor down her throat or slipping her some rohypnol..

Buy a round of shots. You and your buddy play her and her friend in pool. Mixed teams, losers buy a round. So oh so forth, by midnight she might be dtf in the parking lot.

Obviously if she sloppy drunk, dont be a fukin rapist. I need her to actually want me to get my dick hard anyway.

Lmao @ the metoo movement. Only effects men with money and actual creeps.
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot
lol @ otaku's situation. not lol @ him just that is such a mindfuk of a thing. I've had women approach me (ya rly) be as forward as she can be, make plans, spend time talking to me about how she wants me to stay focused on her (exclusivity without the exclusivity label, I guess) then guess what? She ghosts. I couldn't imagine being enamored enough with a woman then suddenly changing my mind just cuz.





I thought it was pretty straight-forward :\
I had a similar situation like that happen 2 months ago. If they're acting all enamored and super interested even though they barely know or just met you, exceptions aside, most likely it's too good to be true and as Alan Roger Currie calls them, a Manipulative Timewaster. I find that, exceptions aside, women that act like they're moderately attracted to you tend to not be as flaky or weird.
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Originally Posted By HayZues
"Get her drunk " doesnt mean holding her down and pouring liquor down her throat or slipping her some rohypnol..

Buy a round of shots. You and your buddy play her and her friend in pool. Mixed teams, losers buy a round. So oh so forth, by midnight she might be dtf in the parking lot.


Lmao @ the metoo movement. Only effects men with money and actual creeps.
I'm not even making 30,000 a year and I'm not a creep and you just never know unless you have proof the sex the consensual. I'll fuk a woman that had one or two drinks in her system but not drunk.
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91
I'm not even making 30,000 a year and I'm not a creep and you just never know unless you have proof the sex the consensual. I'll fuk a woman that had one or two drinks in her system but not drunk.
Then you are eliminating about 75% of your chances get laid.

Nobody is metoo'ing you bro. Lmao.
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post 1580203141 05-15-2019, 08:53 PM
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^^Lol'd I'm the same way at work though so I get where he's coming from
Originally Posted By HayZues
Smart phone social media generation doesnt feel comfortable with intimate socializing. Sad I know.

Maybe not a drunken one night stand, but escalate early and often. I never gone on many dates, but almost never been with a woman I havent already at least made out with.

In fact, most the dates I found myself trapped on were because I didnt get to smash that night but really wanted to.
Good to know. Personally never been a wk however I am what most would consider a nice guy. I just need to accept women for what they are these days instead of acting like its 1998.
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post 1580203261 05-15-2019, 08:54 PM
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Originally Posted By iamdetermined
Otaku sorry to hear about the sloot, not sure if its always chadception or what but I always get the same kinds of flakes. Do you text in between or anything? Not sure if I'm not texting enough or what and to be frank I'm not sure whose getting laid these days. Women seem looser but more selective at the same time.

As far as cities are concerned it depends where you move. I'm from a decent sized metro area...sloots are hotter but they are also more stuck up and you have to come correct. However there are a good number of cute nerdy girls as well, just food for thought. Suprised at it being easier in NY cause I'd imagine that girls thereare more stand offish.

Met a cute thick girl at work today, crushed my presentation and she was mirin. Talked to her a bit afterwards, she seems interested and she's certified HTC. Damn near got a boner as I held the door for her... hopefully I'll see her around again inb4 HR



I dress similarly, minus the socks and suspenders and I regularly get compliments on my outfits. Not sure where all the hate is coming from, looks standard for a young brofessional.

I always try to wear a polo button down, nicely fitted joggers/jeans and clarks when going out. Not too much but enough to look decent. Might get into the chelsea boots thing.
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Originally Posted By HayZues
Bro, I was hesitant to turn off my gym mix to hear your voice, but I was pleasantly surprised. Nice tone. Too bad your energy and vine don't match the coolness of your voice. No homo.



One on one dates are scary. Especially for your generation and later. You're still going to see this girl out and **** right? Dont get butt hurt. Just get her drunk next time yall out as a group. Smash THAT NIGHT. Not later in the week after the glow is gone, making plans over sc.

If the sex is good that night, a relationship of some form will form organically.
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post 1580203331 05-15-2019, 08:56 PM
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post 1580203431 05-15-2019, 08:58 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Well maybe. But we talk on Snapchat all day every day. So he must have some kind of interest.
Originally Posted By iamdetermined
^^Lol'd I'm the same way at work though so I get where he's coming from




Good to know. Personally never been a wk however I am what most would consider a nice guy. I just need to accept women for what they are these days instead of acting like its 1998.
Work is completely different. Especially in a corporate environment. Dont **** where you eat.
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post 1580204011 05-15-2019, 09:08 PM
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First 90 seconds are poison and an argument you and I have had enough times, no need to have again tonight.


Last 30 seconds is the light at the end of the tunnel. You're not completely lost. I kind of wonder if you can hide the butthurt tho. You're pretty seething at times.


Women dont go out of their way to make plans with men they aren't attracted to. Even if they end up flaking. There was a breakdown somewhere along the way. Maybe even a breakdown that would have been avoided had she been MORE attracted to you, but she definitely has at least some initial attraction to you. This is where game is REAL. Attraction is knocking on the door. Game is talking your way inside.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer
Kinda - so if a specific guy that rejected and called you names before, now wanted to fuk you - you'd see it as a win to get out of your dry spell?

Genuinely curious on how people think through stuff like this. I'm more a believer in justice, and forgiveness if warranted (acting in a manner in which society would be better if every individual acted that way).

Others view the situation in isolation according to their immediate self interest.
i didn't even remember who the girl was. she came up to me both times. if i rejected her just because i had bad feelings about how she did me 10 years ago that would make me the immature ******* who hasn't gotten over it
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i hear dat texan swag in your voice
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Originally Posted By HayZues
First 90 seconds are poison and an argument you and I have had enough times, no need to have again tonight.


Last 30 seconds is the light at the end of the tunnel. You're not completely lost. I kind of wonder if you can hide the butthurt tho. You're pretty seething at times.


Women dont go out of their way to make plans with men they aren't attracted to. Even if they end up flaking. There was a breakdown somewhere along the way. Maybe even a breakdown that would have been avoided had she been MORE attracted to you, but she definitely has at least some initial attraction to you. This is where game is REAL. Attraction is knocking on the door. Game is talking your way inside.
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i hear dat texan swag in your voice
Nah cuz.
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Originally Posted By otakutrevan
Lol'd @ you going in on me for work chicks . This goes to Hayzeus as well... things are a bit different here and people do it all the time. Not saying its a good thing or that you're wrong, just that my company is super laid back. That and I have little to no options outside of work.
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Originally Posted By iamdetermined
Lol'd @ you going in on me for work chicks . This goes to Hayzeus as well... things are a bit different here and people do it all the time. Not saying its a good thing or that you're wrong, just that my company is super laid back. That and I have little to no options outside of work.
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Originally Posted By NitrogenWidget
My ex-wife came over one day to pick up the kids during the divorce and started bishing about work.
I calmly told her "I don't care".

i might as well as slapped her in the face. LOL!
Completely legit response though.
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Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer
i didn't even remember who the girl was. she came up to me both times. if i rejected her just because i had bad feelings about how she did me 10 years ago that would make me the immature ******* who hasn't gotten over it
Not really. There are plenty of other women you could have devoted your time to. By giving her your attention you confirmed you still have whatever feelings for her and she can get away with being chitty, even if it was a long time ago. I bet if an ugly girl who used to talk chit wanted to hook up you wouldn't do it, right?
Originally Posted By Mr
Completely legit response though.
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Originally Posted By otakutrevan
A while back before I turned 21 a lot of the feedback was regarding how awkward I acted around girls...which was valid. Nowadays the feedback I get is mixed. One night I was out with my chad bro and another buddy. Three of us with 2 blondes and a chubby latina. Chad bro pulls me aside and says I have a chance with the chubby one but I was "too aggressive"...which seems to be a common theme when it comes to criticisms. I've also been out with girls who said I act normal in my approaches so who knows.

I've always felt like your social skills are a bit more advanced than mine which makes your struggles weird. Never coached anyone to act like me outside of building the confidence to walk up to a girl. That said I see dudes with less skills get more.

Glad you brought up the whole you're emanating negativity thing cause all I get are people saying how genuinely positive and optimistic I am. Weird cause a dude was telling me that, tried to get a girl to co-sign to which she said "Im not gonna sit here and boost his head idk" lol Honestly man I'm just chalking this up as some x factor which has proven to be the ultimate contraceptive. No Plan B required.
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Originally Posted By iamdetermined
A while back before I turned 21 a lot of the feedback was regarding how awkward I acted around girls...which was valid. Nowadays the feedback I get is mixed. One night I was out with my chad bro and another buddy. Three of us with 2 blondes and a chubby latina. Chad bro pulls me aside and says I have a chance with the chubby one but I was "too aggressive"...which seems to be a common theme when it comes to criticisms. I've also been out with girls who said I act normal in my approaches so who knows.

I've always felt like your social skills are a bit more advanced than mine which makes your struggles weird. Never coached anyone to act like me outside of building the confidence to walk up to a girl. That said I see dudes with less skills get more.

Glad you brought up the whole you're emanating negativity thing cause all I get are people saying how genuinely positive and optimistic I am. Weird cause a dude was telling me that, tried to get a girl to co-sign to which she said "Im not gonna sit here and boost his head idk" lol Honestly man I'm just chalking this up as some x factor which has proven to be the ultimate contraceptive. No Plan B required.
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Originally Posted By iamdetermined
A while back before I turned 21 a lot of the feedback was regarding how awkward I acted around girls...which was valid. Nowadays the feedback I get is mixed. One night I was out with my chad bro and another buddy. Three of us with 2 blondes and a chubby latina. Chad bro pulls me aside and says I have a chance with the chubby one but I was "too aggressive"...which seems to be a common theme when it comes to criticisms. I've also been out with girls who said I act normal in my approaches so who knows.

I've always felt like your social skills are a bit more advanced than mine which makes your struggles weird. Never coached anyone to act like me outside of building the confidence to walk up to a girl. That said I see dudes with less skills get more.

Glad you brought up the whole you're emanating negativity thing cause all I get are people saying how genuinely positive and optimistic I am. Weird cause a dude was telling me that, tried to get a girl to co-sign to which she said "Im not gonna sit here and boost his head idk" lol Honestly man I'm just chalking this up as some x factor which has proven to be the ultimate contraceptive. No Plan B required.
It depends on how aggressive. Is it in terms of saying sexual things? If so then that's bs. Is it in terms of touching then they might be on to something but a touch on the arm or shoulder is not really a bad thing as long as you can read that she's inviting you to touch her.
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just bought a Samsung Galaxy Note 8 on Amazon. Am kind of scared bc never bought a phone online on Amazon before so I don't know what to expect. Will I get bamboozled and there will be no phone in my box?
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Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer
just bought a Samsung Galaxy Note 8 on Amazon. Am kind of scared bc never bought a phone online on Amazon before so I don't know what to expect. Will I get bamboozled and there will be no phone in my box?
Should have gotten the Note 9 and I got my Note 9 online too but on the Verizon site and it came in the box.

Idk about Amazon but ime only once has my order been fuked and that was because rain got on my package and they had to send it back but I got a refund anyway.

If for some reason it doesn't come, just ask for a refund.
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Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer
just bought a Samsung Galaxy Note 8 on Amazon. Am kind of scared bc never bought a phone online on Amazon before so I don't know what to expect. Will I get bamboozled and there will be no phone in my box?
Ive been buying unlocked phones off line for years. Amazon is pretty solid.
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Originally Posted By otakutrevan
Ive been buying unlocked phones off line for years. Amazon is pretty solid.
What type of phone you got?

And yes Amazon is the bomb. 90% of stuff I buy is from Amazon.
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What type of phone you got?

And yes Amazon is the bomb. 90% of stuff I buy is from Amazon.
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