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post 1584696321 07-26-2019, 06:49 AM
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Originally Posted By wincel
To be fair, a lot of them do try to help the poor. The system is pretty fuked honestly. If there weren't so many barriers to entry and rights to monopolies, patents, etc u would never see this kind of concentration of wealth.
Good point but on the other hand don't you think it's wrong for the Government to levy a death tax and force the inheritors of substantially large corporations whose originators built their wealth from the ground up to cede control of their family business because it's not economically possible to keep the family business in that circumstance?

Guess who takes control of the business then.
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post 1584696611 07-26-2019, 06:57 AM
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Originally Posted By Anachron
No thanks, I don't need to watch that, you're confusing me with Eod.

There is no one holding a gun to anyone's head to not interact with people IRL, people choose to do that themselves.

People are lazier than ever.
Well good news. Oregon passed 'mental health' school absences for their Children. This should fix everything. When they can't 'cope' stay home and play video games and withdraw from society more. Then when you get out with sub par grades, they can strive for that $20/hr burger flipping job w/ no incentive to better their situation...all the while still complaining they need MORE. This generation no longer has the carrot dangled in front of them to pull their own weight ...it's been GIVEN to them to sit and do nothing. A reward for complacency and idiocy where the focus on the one finger pointing at society being the fault, is greater than the 4 pointing back at themselves.
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post 1584696661 07-26-2019, 06:58 AM
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Originally Posted By speculator
You would think if God made a guest appearance and demanded the billionaires donate 90% of their money to charity that they would.
Well... God did make an appearance.

Every single major religion advises giving to the poor, and avoiding hoarding... Every single one.

Christianity, Judaism, Islam, Sikhism and Hinduism.

It's right there in stories and sayings from Jesus, The Apostles, Guru Nanak, and in various Hindu scriptures.

Some examples from Jesus...

"Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal, but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. . . . No one can serve two masters, for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and money. (Matt. 6:19–24)"

"Jesus answered, “If you want to be perfect, go, sell your possessions and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.”

When the young man heard this, he went away sad, because he had great wealth.

Then Jesus said to his disciples, “Truly I tell you, it is hard for someone who is rich to enter the kingdom of heaven. Again I tell you, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for someone who is rich to enter the kingdom of God.
” Matthew 19:21-23


Every major theistic religions encourages charity and warns against hoarding (just Google each religion's views on charity, to check if I'm lying)... But you still think that's not enough from God?

Every single major Theistic religion saying that, is not enough?
But, God's doing nothing, if he even exists.
That voice or feeling that encourages you to think kindly about people, and to be generous... That is God doing something... But God's also given us the ability to turn away from kindness and generosity, and towards selfishness.

Do you ever get a feeling or thoughts to be kind, compassionate or generous that you ignore? That's guidance.

I'm sure billionaires get that guidance too.

I'm guessing though, you want guidance to come in a specific form, probably for God or Jesus to literally appear and tell people exactly and specifically what to do?

Or perhaps you want God to force people to be kind?

Maybe... Guidance and the means to build a better world are already here, but we just keep ignoring the messages?
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post 1584696821 07-26-2019, 07:02 AM
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> Get off the internet
This would help you out tremendously...even if you just cut it to half the time
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post 1584697031 07-26-2019, 07:09 AM
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post 1584697111 07-26-2019, 07:10 AM
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[QUOTE=Merovingian11 post_id=1584696181]You may have expected that response but I don't think you predicted it. If I'm wrong feel free to quote it.[/QUOTE]I just did.

[QUOTE]You're getting a bit emotional and it's making me uncomfortable, will you please calm down and stop using foul language as a substitute for thinking.[/QUOTE]You can't see me, you don't know if I'm getting emotional or not. I used the word a holes... Are you genuinely offended by my language, or is this just passive-aggression?

[quote]I didn't say that I support the greed I said it's their right to hoard their own money that they earned from the economic system they derived it from.

[QUOTE]I do care about people and it's astounding to me that you would dare to accuse me otherwise.[/QUOTE]You literally argued that trying to help the poor would cause overpopulaton and pollution.

You literally made an argument against spending money to help the poor, heere is the post you made...

I'll bold and underline the relevant parts...

[QUOTE=Merovingian11 post_id=1584693171][b][u]If you distributed the wealth of the wealthiest throughout the world all that would happen is a temporary uptick in consumption, followed by more pollution.[/u][/b]

In the words of an Alec Baldwin character "These are the new leads, the Glengarry leads, and to you they're gold but you don't get them. Why? Because to give them to you is just throwing them away. They're for closers."

I see what you mean in that you think throwing money at medical research and such would yield a positive result in people's lives, and you may be right, but in a closed system there is only so much resource to go around and throwing more money at research projects may help a bit but what if they don't need it, greedy people will find a way to line their pockets and fleece the generous billionaires.

[b][u]Cure everyone, feed everyone, it's the same thing. Just more mouths to feed and less place to put them.[/u][/b]
[b][u]
Yes it's very cold and calculated but it's not without reason. Life unfortunately involves winners and losers and people have to fight to survive.[/u][/b]

Fuk I'm starting to sound like wincel or something.[/QUOTE]
You said that helping the poor would only lead to overpopulation and pollution.

You also literally admitted that your opinion was was cold and calculated ([b][u]those were your own words[/u][/b]).


But you seem to be offended that I don't think that you care about the poor, despite you literally stating that there helping the poor would only result in overpopulation and pollution.
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post 1584697121 07-26-2019, 07:11 AM
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post 1584697221 07-26-2019, 07:14 AM
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Originally Posted By wincel
To be fair, a lot of them do try to help the poor.
They give a fraction of their wealth to some charities.

They posses enough money to radically change entire socio-economic systems if they wanted.
The system is pretty fuked honestly.
Arguably billionaires posses enough wealth, that they can disrupt entire economic systems. They literally (individually and collectively) own more wealth than entire nations.
If there weren't so many barriers to entry and rights to monopolies, patents, etc u would never see this kind of concentration of wealth.
I agree, I would like to see the complete abolishment of intellectual property rights (apart from attribution rights) in medicine.
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post 1584697471 07-26-2019, 07:21 AM
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[QUOTE=BetaAsPhuck;1584697111]I just did.



You can't see me, you don't know if I'm getting emotional or not. I used the word a holes... Are you genuinely offended by my language, or is this just passive-aggression?

[QUOTE]I didn't say that I support the greed I said it's their right to hoard their own money that they earned from the economic system they derived it from.



You literally argued that trying to help the poor would cause overpopulaton and pollution.

You literally made an argument against spending money to help the poor, heere is the post you made...

I'll bold and underline the relevant parts...




You said that helping the poor would only lead to overpopulation and pollution.

You also literally admitted that your opinion was was cold and calculated ([b][u]those were your own words[/u][/b]).


But you seem to be offended that I don't think that you care about the poor, despite you literally stating that there helping the poor would only result in overpopulation and pollution.[/QUOTE]I do care about people and I've given money to people collecting recyclables that lived on the street so they could catch a bus or just get something for themselves for the night.

I've also been poor collecting recyclables to feed myself with pinto beans and brown rice cook from raw and russet potatoes from walmart even though I think that company sucks they had the best deals so I compromised.

You don't know me and you're still coming at me with this heated style of prose.

I don't appreciate it.

wincel and I are pretty chill but you seem like a dickhead.

Go fuk yourself for the next 12 hours, i'm done with you for now.

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post 1584697511 07-26-2019, 07:22 AM
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dude

if you're so alone go get into magic the gathering or DND and play with nerds at a game store, srs. find some connections with people, if nerd chit isnt your thing then play bball or tennis at a park and look for others who share the interest
post 1584697541 07-26-2019, 07:23 AM
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Wincel,

I'm sure it's been asked and come up at least once but:

Do you work? Full/Part time?

Do you have your own place?

How's life/therapy going? I remember reading you were going at one point.

I'll probably take some heat for this from others but - have you considered crossfit? I don't support the idea of crossfit as exercise but I know that those gyms are such a tight knit community that they're all BFFs with each other and even have some real meaningful relationships both plutonic and romantic come from it.

Besides therapy, have you tried behavioral therapy/modification? I remember you worked on "oversharing" and stuff. Be a novel, don't be a brochure - make people want to learn more and more about you by not divulging too much up front.

It's so hard to stay positive especially when the world is tearing itself apart but you have to do it because this life is all we've got and pain and suffering isn't forever.
post 1584697931 07-26-2019, 07:31 AM
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Originally Posted By Merovingian11
You don't know me
True... I can only go based on what you wrote.

I didn't say for definite that you don't care for the poor, I purposefully used words likeseemandthink. For example; "I don't think you care about the poor."

Seeing a you do care about the poor, I would strongly advise you to think carefully before promoting arguments like; "Helping the poor will only lead to overpopulaton and pollution", especially seeing as there is strong evidence against that notion (e.g. Zero and negative population birth rates in high quality of life countries, and a generation by generation declining birth rates amongst immigrant families to western nations).

Those kinds of arguments can discourage people from helping the poor, e.g."If we help the poor, it will lead to worse living conditions for everyone due to overpopulation and pollution."
you're still coming at me with this heated style of prose.

I don't appreciate it.
To be fair, that is true.

That is my style of writing, and I can understand that it rubs people the wrong way.

Sorry (genuinely), I do need to try more to change that about myself.
wincel and I are pretty chill but you seem like a dickhead.
LOL @ calling wincel chill...

I genuinely like the guy, but he gets banned regularly for flipping out at people. (Ask him yourself.)

He and I have a pretty heated debate style.
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post 1584697991 07-26-2019, 07:34 AM
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OP u should try the new dating app called miscr
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Originally Posted By BetaAsPhuck
True... I can only go based on what you wrote.

I didn't say for definite that you don't care for the poor, I purposefully used words likeseemandthink. For example; "I don't think you care about the poor."

Seeing a you do care about the poor, I would strongly advise you to think carefully before promoting arguments like; "Helping the poor will only lead to overpopulaton and pollution", especially seeing as there is strong evidence against that notion (e.g. Zero and negative population birth rates in high quality of life countries, and a generation by generation declining birth rates amongst immigrant families to western nations).

Those kinds of arguments can discourage people from helping the poor, e.g."If we help the poor, it will lead to worse living conditions for everyone due to overpopulation and pollution."



To be fair, that is true.

That is my style of writing, and I can understand that it rubs people the wrong way.

Sorry (genuinely), I do need to try more to change that about myself.



LOL @ calling wincel chill...

I genuinely like the guy, but he gets banned regularly for flipping out at people. (Ask him yourself.)

He and I have a pretty heated debate style.


Didn't see your apology at first, accepted.

I'll talk with you later.
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post 1584698021 07-26-2019, 07:34 AM
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Originally Posted By eod8989
I often wonder if most other people are alone too and this is all a facade. I feel alone basically 24/7 and have most of my life. I'm much more lonely post 2012 even though I have social media. It all makes me feel more lonely. Going places and seeing everyone on their phones makes me feel lonely.Technology ruined the social fabric of society.
You do realise there are still people out there who actually socialize, talk, and do things that don't revolve around their phones.

There's also those that wallow in self pity 24/7 and blame everything else but themselves for their problems, not naming any names though..

Life is what you make of it, grab your nuts and get out there and stop blaming everyone and everything else for your shortcomings. At this point i'm starting to think you're a troll though tbh.

@wincel - you're a slightly different case to eod, you're legitimately a smart dude which is probably part of why you're this way. I used to feel the same and being 'intelligent' doesn't help as it leads you to overthinking every scenario and causing yourself anxiety. Honestly just find a passion and talk to people, it's not hard, and stop worrying about things that you can't control. Since you're on a lifting forum, perhaps lifting might be a nice place to start. It may not seem much, but the routine it brings, the exposure to the outside world, and the general feeling of self improvement it provides will help, and small changes lead to big ones over time.

Honestly, the common theme i see with incels and generally lonely people is an inability to take any personal responsibility for their situation. It's always someone or some thing elses fault, or societies fault. Once you accept that you have the ability to change your life significantly, life becomes less depressing and this epiphany is exhilarating. The reality is, even if your situation is societies fault, or your parents, or some other entity that isn't you, and you can prove it, so what? Will that suddenly make everything better? The cold hard truth is regardless of why you're in the situation you are, nobody really cares but you, and it's on you to improve your life, and it is entirely possible by focusing on the things you can change. However, no change = no improvement.
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Not alone, you have yourself
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Originally Posted By Anachron
No thanks, I don't need to watch that, you're confusing me with Eod.

There is no one holding a gun to anyone's head to not interact with people IRL, people choose to do that themselves.
That's a really simplistic way of looking at things.

I already explained thatclose relationshipsare the key to feeling socially connected. Superficial relationships do not make us feel connected, if they did... Simply being online and writing text to people would be enough to never feel lonely... However we all need more meaningful interaction than just text communication.

Is modern work-life balance, promoting close relationships with friends and family?

Is technology's increases encroachment into our social lives (eg. social media, smartphones, online dating, etc), facilitating close relationships?


Those are key questions to ask IMO.



A ex-friend of mine is a martial arts instructor and counsellor, and was pushing 40. He told me that he noticed that he noticed Generationa Z males would 'stiffen up, and be noticeable uncomfortable when people would touch them in friendly manner (eg. elbow nudge when a jokes told, hand on shoulder, etc). He said he noticed that they don't seem like they were socialized with a lot of physical interaction... Whilst we grew up playing video games with our friends physically sitting right next to us, cracking jokes and nudging one another, they grew up playing games talking to each other through their headsets.


As human beings we have psychological and neurological vulnerabilities (research in neurology, cognitive psychology, and social psychology show that), and I hope you agree that culture conditions us. Not having a gun to one's head, doesn't mean that a collective we aren't being conditioned to increasingly superficial relationships.

Superficial relationships are incredibly easy to find (eg. striking up an e-friendship on social media), but finding close relationships were you physically interact without someone whilst physically being in the same space as them? Arguably that is harder to find.

This is just a chart about dating... But you can see that physical interaction in regards to dating is declining, due to the smartphones...



https://www.economist.com/briefing/2...changed-dating

I'm not saying it's not possible for you or me as an individual to find close relationships, but I am saying that social norms are now being heavily shaped through the internet and smartphones. In the past, we had no choice but to interact with people (through our voices or IRL) for things like; talking to another person, dating, shopping, multiplayer gaming, etc. That era has gone now... And it's being discouraged.
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Originally Posted By RICHSTRONG
Something is srsly fkn wrong with this generation. They have it the best out of any yet whine and get the most depressed that everything sucks.
Uhhhh, no we don’t.
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Originally Posted By BetaAsPhuck
brb, investing 10k in grindr
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Originally Posted By TappingTheZen
You do realise there are still people out there who actually socialize, talk, and do things that don't revolve around their phones.

There's also those that wallow in self pity 24/7 and blame everything else but themselves for their problems, not naming any names though..

Life is what you make of it, grab your nuts and get out there and stop blaming everyone and everything else for your shortcomings. At this point i'm starting to think you're a troll though tbh.

@wincel - you're a slightly different case to eod, you're legitimately a smart dude which is probably part of why you're this way. I used to feel the same and being 'intelligent' doesn't help as it leads you to overthinking every scenario and causing yourself anxiety. Honestly just find a passion and talk to people, it's not hard, and stop worrying about things that you can't control. Since you're on a lifting forum, perhaps lifting might be a nice place to start. It may not seem much, but the routine it brings, the exposure to the outside world, and the general feeling of self improvement it provides will help, and small changes lead to big ones over time.

Honestly, the common theme i see with incels and generally lonely people is an inability to take any personal responsibility for their situation. It's always someone or some thing elses fault, or societies fault. Once you accept that you have the ability to change your life significantly, life becomes less depressing and this epiphany is exhilarating. The reality is, even if your situation is societies fault, or your parents, or some other entity that isn't you, and you can prove it, so what? Will that suddenly make everything better? The cold hard truth is regardless of why you're in the situation you are, nobody really cares but you, and it's on you to improve your life, and it is entirely possible by focusing on the things you can change. However, no change = no improvement.
Good point.

If you think it's bad as an incel (this won't last forever unless you want it to unless you're truly freakish which I highly doubt. You have a nice thumb, no homo.)

Just wait until you get your heart broken the first time, then tell us how you feel, haha.
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Originally Posted By TappingTheZen
You do realise there are still people out there who actually socialize, talk, and do things that don't revolve around their phones.

There's also those that wallow in self pity 24/7 and blame everything else but themselves for their problems, not naming any names though..

Life is what you make of it, grab your nuts and get out there and stop blaming everyone and everything else for your shortcomings. At this point i'm starting to think you're a troll though tbh.

@wincel - you're a slightly different case to eod, you're legitimately a smart dude which is probably part of why you're this way. I used to feel the same and being 'intelligent' doesn't help as it leads you to overthinking every scenario and causing yourself anxiety. Honestly just find a passion and talk to people, it's not hard, and stop worrying about things that you can't control. Since you're on a lifting forum, perhaps lifting might be a nice place to start. It may not seem much, but the routine it brings, the exposure to the outside world, and the general feeling of self improvement it provides will help, and small changes lead to big ones over time.

Honestly, the common theme i see with incels and generally lonely people is an inability to take any personal responsibility for their situation. It's always someone or some thing elses fault, or societies fault. Once you accept that you have the ability to change your life significantly, life becomes less depressing and this epiphany is exhilarating. The reality is, even if your situation is societies fault, or your parents, or some other entity that isn't you, and you can prove it, so what? Will that suddenly make everything better? The cold hard truth is regardless of why you're in the situation you are, nobody really cares but you, and it's on you to improve your life, and it is entirely possible by focusing on the things you can change. However, no change = no improvement.
Who are you to say I'm not smart. For all we know wincel and myself could have elevated iq's making us feel this way.
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post 1584701291 07-26-2019, 08:27 AM
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Originally Posted By eod8989
Who are you to say I'm not smart. For all we know wincel and myself could have elevated iq's making us feel this way.
I never said you're not smart.

But... you're dense as a rock
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Originally Posted By anonkunbrah
brb, investing 10k in grindr
brb investing in friends.
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post 1584701621 07-26-2019, 08:31 AM
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post 1584701871 07-26-2019, 08:35 AM
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Peak civilization was pre social media and smart phones. Our quality of life continues to decrease year after year.

>There are more people in each of our countries than there has ever been; yet we're lonelier than ever before
>There are more ways to connect with others; yet we have less connections than ever before
>sloots have never been slootier yet we're having less sex than before
>we're working more hours yet have less money and more debt than before
> we know far more about the human body; yet we're fatter and sicker than ever before
>we have a fraction of the test and fertility our great grandfathers had before


It's a myth that it's better than it's ever been.
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I saw someone the other day with a tattoo on her forearm.

I don't particularly like tattoos generally but I thought I recognized the artwork.

I asked her, is that Dali, and she seemed confused for a moment.

I gestured with 2 fingers pointing to her forearm art (because some cultures consider pointing with only the index finger offensive) and said it looked like a Salvador Dali piece.

She replied that yes it was and said something to the effect of "good man"

Obviously this is only something that works if you have an understanding of the subject matter but I think it's a pretty good example of how you can let a person know you see what they are about and that you appreciate it.

People wear conversation pieces because they like talking about them.

If they have none it's more difficult.

Hopefully some of this was helpful.
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post 1584702621 07-26-2019, 08:47 AM
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I have told you this before. Look into the non allergenic cats/dog breeds. I think having a pet would do you a world of good. Especially a doggo. It would get you outside and you just can't even imagine the love they will give back to you. They're also good company for when you're lonely. I can't even imagine how I would have gotten through the first months after my divorce when my son was with his dad every other weekend if I didn't have my dog. He made it so much easier when I was missing my baby boy.
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Originally Posted By Anachron
So who is holding the gun to your head to only interact with people online?
I'm guessing your trolling, or you didn't read anything that I wrote.

If you aren't trolling, I don't know why you are making this personal, I didn't make a personal statement.
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post 1584702771 07-26-2019, 08:49 AM
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Im on the opposite side, I know too many people and it sucks too. Why is so hard for you to meet people?
Being social is easy mate

Ps: a doggo will make things better
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