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post 1587246391 09-04-2019, 10:20 AM
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Originally Posted By Retoaded
LOL yep. My mother-in-law retired...at age 21.

There have been times we are on vacation and she agrees to go see the cats daily and let us know how they are doing. Day 1 she doesn't report in, doesn't answer call or text...same Day 2...Day 3 we finally hear from her that "everything's fine".

We are like bullchit you didn't even go over there for 2 days. Thanks for giving my wife anxiety while we are on vacation bish.Wife is currently gone NC on her parents and we are happier for it.
I'm seriously considering this but not sure if I can. Have they not tried to reach out to her?

Chit it's just sad.
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post 1587246501 09-04-2019, 10:22 AM
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That's heartbreaking Busta, i'm really sorry for that. My mom passed away two years ago, but I know she'd trade anything possible to have had more time with my daughter. She loved her beyond words. I can't imagine your internal conflict on this one, but it does not seem like they are bringing any happiness to your life. NC may be in the cards.
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Originally Posted By BustaCapp
The only reason I'm not completely washing my hands of them is because I want 1/3 of that Victorian house when they snuff it.

Otherwise they can f@cking suck my dick from now on.
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Originally Posted By BustaCapp
I'm seriously considering this but not sure if I can. Have they not tried to reach out to her?

Chit it's just sad.
They have. Its a vicious cycle. The mother is also a raging alcoholic who says the most mean things possible when she drinks. Wife quits talking to her. She kisses ass and apologizes then everything is fine for a few months. Then another raging alcoholic episode.

My wife sought love and approval from them her entire life as they were too self centered to give her real love and approval. She finally realized her happiness should be in loving and approving of herself and to take her own success and be happy with me and her other loved ones, and fuk her parents. Once you are a grown ass adult, horrible parents or siblings don't get automatic, unconditional love anymore.

btw, her parents are worth 4-5 million and we may be throwing that away, but fuk them, its principles. Dead serious.
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Reminds me of my father in law. Got his permission to pop the question and all.
First time my wife went over there without me (fathers day I believe, weeks before the wedding) he hits her with every low blow possible. Idk why you invited my friends, its too far and they wont have fun, taking bets on how long until the divorce, I dont even wanna walk you down the isle/do the father daughter dance.
I had my family ready to escort his ass off the property at ghe first sign of trouble.
Truly pissed me off. Her mom is awesome too, and dad acrs cool whenever I'm around but if not he takes his bs out on everyone.
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Originally Posted By BustaCapp
Wanted a mini break with the wife to Amsterdam - 3 days tops.

Not been anywhere for years together without the kids, barely a night out since my mother is a moaning piece of $hit and whines when asked to babysit my two boys just for one f@cking evening.

Nevertheless, she agreed to it in principle, and so we booked the flights.

Next thing I know is she says "3 days is too long".

Bear in mind my kids are big time into gaming and would cause no fuss at my parents house, because they have superfast broadband. My parent's would practically not notice they were there. All they need to do is feed them (school holidays).

My parents are oldcels, early 70's, plenty of space in their Victorian home and it's not like my kids need night feeds or nappy changes.

I don't get it - most grandparents would be happy to have their grandkids for a few days? God knows they left me with their mother almost every weekend whilst they went out.

Faced with the choice of cancelling the flight and getting an earlier one home (would cost £30), I have decided that the kids can come along with us and my parents can go smoke a bowl of baby dicks.

Probably gonna add £1k to the cost too.

Next time they want me to go around and move something heavy from the attic - I will be telling them to go suck a fat cock.

The miserable pair of twats.
British & moaning piece of sh*t.

Makes sense.
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post 1587247091 09-04-2019, 10:33 AM
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Originally Posted By Retoaded
They have. Its a vicious cycle. The mother is also a raging alcoholic who says the most mean things possible when she drinks. Wife quits talking to her. She kisses ass and apologizes then everything is fine for a few months. Then another raging alcoholic episode.

My wife sought love and approval from them her entire life as they were too self centered to give her real love and approval. She finally realized her happiness should be in loving and approving of herself and to take her own success and be happy with me and her other loved ones, and fuk her parents. Once you are a grown ass adult, horrible parents or siblings don't get automatic, unconditional love anymore.

btw, her parents are worth 4-5 million and we may be throwing that away, but fuk them, its principles. Dead serious.
Wow (srs).
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post 1587247151 09-04-2019, 10:34 AM
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Even with 4 grandparents, my kids have been watched once in the last couple of years. For a few hours, while my wife was in the hospital. Lol
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Originally Posted By bea5twood
Lol, at least you have parents.. you'll feel bad when they are gone..
No maybe he won't. We don't all have good parents bro
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Originally Posted By Retoaded
They have. Its a vicious cycle. The mother is also a raging alcoholic who says the most mean things possible when she drinks. Wife quits talking to her. She kisses ass and apologizes then everything is fine for a few months. Then another raging alcoholic episode.

My wife sought love and approval from them her entire life as they were too self centered to give her real love and approval. She finally realized her happiness should be in loving and approving of herself and to take her own success and be happy with me and her other loved ones, and fuk her parents. Once you are a grown ass adult, horrible parents or siblings don't get automatic, unconditional love anymore.

btw, her parents are worth 4-5 million and we may be throwing that away, but fuk them, its principles. Dead serious.
I agree 100% op. Some people are just chit, and drag everyone down.

Once you start taking responsibility for who you are, you have to cull the negative influence in your life, and that means turning away from terrible parents. Ironically that becomes what is best. Unfortunately these types of parents have a way of blaming their kids for doing so...Its never the parents fault for anything.
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My mom hasn't hugged me in months. I used to initiate every single time, and she was receptive, but then I thought I'd test a little theory of mine and stop hugging her. What happened? The hugs stopped, and she has grown to resent me for it. So I asked her why, and she says because I was "disrespectful towards her" at a BBQ I had. What was the disrespectful moment you ask? I told her to stop walking around my house eating a burger without so much as a napkin. So here my mother is walking around my house eating a burger, dropping toppings and chit all over my floors, and I should have been cool with it because she's my mother. Parents are not supposed to make their children feel guilty over chit...Especially chit they would never tolerate themselves.
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Originally Posted By BustaCapp
Fuk... 46 years of relationship gone just like that.

Oh well

...fuk 'em
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Jesus some of you in this thread have horrific parents and makes me realize how lucky I am that at least I've got one really good one. My dad isn't bad he just didn't get any affection from his parents so he has no idea how to do it. I know he loves me by his actions but he just doesn't have it in him to speak the words
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"she agreed to it in principle"

What do you mean by "in principle"?
Def. a sht move if she agreed to do it and you guys planned depending on that, that's harsh.

I don't ask anything of my parents, although they would be more than willing if asked for anything. I put them through sht growing up and they stuck by me all the way so once I became an adult I recognized they had done their job (and then some) and they were done.

In general I don't depend on others so I don't have to deal with them not coming through. I take care of my own business so I know its taken care of.
I totally get that everyone's got diff. situations and extenuating factors and such though.

Hopefully you can accept that that's who and how she is and move on without completely severing ties, as once its too late you can't go back.

Bright side, sweet deal for your kids, hope you can make the best of it bruh.
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Sound like boomer scum. Just sitting back wasting the resources of a dozen people in their selfish delusion.

I wish we had coal mines these fuks were enlisted to work in at 60 until death to take back all they stole and teach some humility.
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post 1587251941 09-04-2019, 11:52 AM
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Originally Posted By badbl00d
My mom hasn't hugged me in months. I used to initiate every single time, and she was receptive, but then I thought I'd test a little theory of mine and stop hugging her. What happened? The hugs stopped, and she has grown to resent me for it. So I asked her why, and she says because I was "disrespectful towards her" at a BBQ I had. What was the disrespectful moment you ask? I told her to stop walking around my house eating a burger without so much as a napkin. So here my mother is walking around my house eating a burger, dropping toppings and chit all over my floors, and I should have been cool with it because she's my mother. Parents are not supposed to make their children feel guilty over chit...Especially chit they would never tolerate themselves.
I wonder if it's an age thing?

No excuses for my parents due to their past but at least you once had a close bond.
Originally Posted By TBO1313
Jesus some of you in this thread have horrific parents and makes me realize how lucky I am that at least I've got one really good one.My dad isn't bad he just didn't get any affection from his parents so he has no idea how to do it. I know he loves me by his actions but he just doesn't have it in him to speak the words
No offence bro but that's no excuse for him to be like that. Quite the opposite in fact. My parents have not once ever told me they love me, or showed any affection towards me (apart from my mother maybe once).

But I tell my kids I love them all the time, am tactile with them, spend time with them, drag them to the park every weekend etc. I'm not saying I'm the best Dad in the world by all means.

Even my parents parents showed more love than my parents. Only person that used to take me to the park was my gramps.

Perhaps there is some truth in this 'boomers' chit..

Originally Posted By BoobPunch
"she agreed to it in principle"

What do you mean by "in principle"?
Def. a sht move if she agreed to do it and you guys planned depending on that, that's harsh.

I don't ask anything of my parents, although they would be more than willing if asked for anything. I put them through sht growing up and they stuck by me all the way so once I became an adult I recognized they had done their job (and then some) and they were done.

In general I don't depend on others so I don't have to deal with them not coming through. I take care of my own business so I know its taken care of.
I totally get that everyone's got diff. situations and extenuating factors and such though.

Hopefully you can accept that that's who and how she is and move on without completely severing ties, as once its too late you can't go back.

Bright side, sweet deal for your kids, hope you can make the best of it bruh.
What I mean by "in principal" is I ran the idea past her on Sunday and said we were thinking of 2, maybe 3 days away. She reluctantly agreed.

So today I text her "we've decided on 3 days, gonna book the flights shortly".

I know she read the message at 08:00 (whatsapp), and hear nothing back, so book the flight at about 09:00. At about 09:05 she responds with "3 days is too much".

U fuk'n w0t?

So now a cancellation and looks like - if we do go - the kids are coming, so will probably only be 2 days, and of course I'm gonna have to tone down the theme of the trip somewhat.

So, next time that old bag sends me a text like "can you come and move some furniture for us?" I will respond "too heavy, sorry".

Fuk the pair of them.
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Originally Posted By Retoaded
btw, her parents are worth 4-5 million and we may be throwing that away, but fuk them, its principles. Dead serious.
Can you ask if they are open to adopting? I'm game, just PM me when you get the info ready.
Originally Posted By badbl00d
My mom hasn't hugged me in months. I used to initiate every single time, and she was receptive, but then I thought I'd test a little theory of mine and stop hugging her. What happened? The hugs stopped, and she has grown to resent me for it. So I asked her why, and she says because I was "disrespectful towards her" at a BBQ I had. What was the disrespectful moment you ask? I told her to stop walking around my house eating a burger without so much as a napkin. So here my mother is walking around my house eating a burger, dropping toppings and chit all over my floors, and I should have been cool with it because she's my mother. Parents are not supposed to make their children feel guilty over chit...Especially chit they would never tolerate themselves.
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Would she still do the 2 days and someone else could cover the 3rd day or something?

Maybe someone you could ship up to stay at your place for the 3days?
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Dang some of you guys have chit parents, some fuked up stories itt sorry to hear it. Good on some of you for not getting walked on by their selfish ass parents srs There are definitely some entitled ass boomers out there
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Originally Posted By BoobPunch
Would she still do the 2 days and someone else could cover the 3rd day or something?

Maybe someone you could ship up to stay at your place for the 3days?
There is no way I am asking them for anything ever again. Absolutely no way am I lowering myself to it.

There is a principal here, about their mean-spirited attitude towards people they decided to bring into the world.

And the more I think about it, the more and more I think they are a pair of absolue chitstains and I've never really aknowledged it.

We just cancelled the flights anyway.

Will book for all 4 of us instead.
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Wanted to come after you, but chit, your parents are really mean. I lived more with my grandparents because they spoiled me like crazy and loved to stay with them more than at my own house lol.

Sorry op. Enjoy your vacation.
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Originally Posted By BustaCapp
Wanted a mini break with the wife to Amsterdam
my mother is a moaning piece of $hit and whines when asked to babysit my two boys
1) the wife needed a break from sucking all these dinks while you were away
2)your mother was ok with babysitting,it was her husband who didnt wanted cos he knows your not his son,
you re a bastard child of your sl00ty mother
3)they re not your boys,these re the bastard children of your sl00ty wife
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Originally Posted By BustaCapp
I wonder if it's an age thing?

No excuses for my parents due to their past but at least you once had a close bond.


My parents have gotten exponentially worse as they've gotten older. I remember them being so much different when I was younger...Calm, and rational. Maybe the writing on the wall so to speak changes people.
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Originally Posted By BustaCapp
No offence bro but that's no excuse for him to be like that. Quite the opposite in fact. My parents have not once ever told me they love me, or showed any affection towards me (apart from my mother maybe once).

But I tell my kids I love them all the time, am tactile with them, spend time with them, drag them to the park every weekend etc. I'm not saying I'm the best Dad in the world by all means.

Even my parents parents showed more love than my parents. Only person that used to take me to the park was my gramps.

Perhaps there is some truth in this 'boomers'
In my case its a cultural thing. We never verbalize any affection, we show it through actions. My parents never outright say ‘I love you’ nor is hugging the norm either. We’re never touchy feely with eachother, same goes for my siblings. But my parents done more for me than I can ever repay them for. Stuck by me through my worst. I know they’d go to the ends of the earth for me if I had any problem. And honestly saying it outright just feels awkward, cause that’s how the dynamics of our relationship is
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Originally Posted By Offset645
In my case its a cultural thing. We never verbalize any affection, we show it through actions. My parents never outright say ‘I love you’ nor is hugging the norm either. We’re never touchy feely with eachother, same goes for my siblings. But my parents done more for me than I can ever repay them for. Stuck by me through my worst.I know they’d go to the ends of the earth for me if I had any problem.
...but would they look after their grandkids for 3 days?
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Originally Posted By BustaCapp
...but would they look after their grandkids for 3 days?
just ask Jamal΄s and Tyrones parents to keep them
they ll be very to happy to babysit their grandkis
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my mom pretty much makes her self available for my sisters 2 kids anytime she asks. They actually just bought a house closer just so my mom can help out 24/7, lol.
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Originally Posted By BustaCapp
brb never making my kids feel unwanted - I fully expect them to live wih us indefinitely.
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