I don’t care what anyone on this thread says all women are the same shallow reject you waste time flake ignoring annoying human beings they are all like this I don’t care what anyone says and anyone out there cold approaching will see how shallow women really are man they are all the same

Bro, please seek professional help, this isn't healthy

Your advice is appreciated. I'm a regular at a bar near my house. I'm cool with the bar sloot and her bf. The crowd is a mix of old and young so I might need to relocate.

dont give up on online dating. you just need good pics and the time to send a copy pasta to every girl that is online. you message 200 girls at least 10 of them will reply back.

Maybe because you look and act like you're mentally deficient? I dated a girl for 2 years that I met on Tinder, we literally traveled the world together. My roommate literally brings home a girl from tinder every other week. What you're saying is like denying that dogs exist. Like dude people have dogs, like ask anyone. It's real.

Funny thing is I'm at a bar right now but I'm just chillin. Going around a bar and just approaching and.hitting on every chick is not whatsup. Just like cold approaching at a store, I tend to have a cool, calm, collected and indifferent vibe about me.

Youre an insufferable kunt. The dating apps/cold approaching isn't the issue for you, its your attitude. Let me ask you though, do you have a social circle of friends? Don't care if its 3, if you have any amount then they should at some point in time introduce you to a girl you can talk to. If they don't, then the issue is either a friend social of autists such as yourself or more than likely its your ****ty attitude and mind frame.

Everyone should have at least 1 of those 3 avenues in 2019 for meeting women. Apps, cold approaching, or friends introducing you. Im a manlet and do absolutely horrible on apps even though Im pretty handsome(no ebrag). Like absolutely no matches type of horrible(unless I swipe right on everything and get whales to match with). Do I complain about women in general or about apps being shytty? Absolutely not. They're fantastic sources that dont work for me and that's fine. I have a big enough social circle that I can get linked up with a girl through friends and am confident enough and funny/witty enough that cold approaches work for me. Figure out the problem with yourself or die an incel ******* like many of the posters on the misc.

Sure you did lol dating apps are worthless full of fake profiles and trolls I’ve proved it

Attitude? That came after ealizing these things get you nothing but rejected or humiliated my attitude is from the negatively from women and the negative experiences

Yes and all 10 will flake lol

Went out today to get some food every women with earbuds in again lmao @ cold approaching working

What is the point of you posting in this thread? This is the "cold approach crew" thread, not he "whiny little bitch crew" thread.

You are obviously not part of the cold approach crew, so GTFO. I'll start a thread for you and people like you.

https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...1&p=1588918201

Its just ridiculous to think people actually cold approach. It doesnt happen irl. I'm outside around thousands of people right now at work and not one person is approaching anyone and everyone is on their phones

Wrong thread *******.https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...1&p=1588918201

So why the fuk are you in this thread?

Take a hint, noone wants you here

You're so ****ing depressing

I agree

All I'm saying is I never see it irl. It's a myth.

Brahs I can never catch this security sloot. There are only so many excuses I can use a day to go to her desk lol.

Waiting for your posts is like waiting for the next episode of my favorite show to come on.

I know that feel brah, was going to approach the hen I had my eye on this past weekend at the singles group, but she was a no show this week. Eh lets hope next weekend is a dif story. Got to take advantage of the chances we get!

As for the two incels posting ITT, please leave or make your own thread. Glorious winged *******s

I'm not even sure what to say. She loves to talk so starting a convo is easy. I just don't know how to close the deal smoothly.

I might just say "Give me your number so I can text you" or "You got plans this weekend?"

So anyone who has a different opinion than you is an incel? Right lolol

That's pretty much it boyo. Get her away from that desk and go somewhere where you can both have fun.

One good place to talk to hbb is at the gym the bad part if she’s not interested you will keep having to see her

I have both 24 and la fitness and there’s about 20 gyms I can probably go to in a 30 mile radius thinking of hitting some gyms for a few weeks to build some rapport and if I strike out I’ll just leave the gym to keep my dignity and move on to the next one

Hey guys, I know a reply from me has been long overdue since creating this thread and first I would like to start off by just saying just wow…

I haven’t been on these forums in a while.. Well since I created this thread all the way back in June (which feels like a year with what I’ve been going through lately). I am totally floored that this post I made on a whim, after being fed up with how introverted I was, actually turned into a movement with multiple people who felt the same way I did taking action to change. Its crazy this thread is STILL getting updated posts today close to 1000 posts over 25 pages of people conquering this tiny irrational fear of talking to strangers and making their day a little more exciting by approaching them.

To everyone who is striving to conquer their fear of approaching I applaud you!

But sadly I can’t say my journey has been the same these past months.. Since june I’ve been trapped in the following daily routine:

Wake up at noon
Run errands
Goto work at 3pm to this hell of a tradie job staying on my feet for 8hrs
Come home half dead at 11pm
Eat
Goto sleep at 4am
Repeat…

When I started this challenge I realized how little of a social life I actually had. My social life was non-existent. My life then, and now consists of going to work and going to stores to get redbulls to go to work... I’m a workcel

To make a long story short, this job was meant to be my way into a better situation to tackle this problem but all it has caused are headaches and a complete time suck. I work everyday even weekends, every weekend, I have mandatory overtime, no sick days, no vacations, and more than 2 absences in a month is immediate termination even if its an emergency. This job is literally prison.
But enough whining about my work.

Its a complete bummer to come back to this thread months later with little progress. I’ve made some, but not as much as I’d like to by this point. Its insane you guys are still here sharing experiences of your journey with others and keeping each other motivated and now that im back, I’m making a bigger effort to take control of my social life.

I’m currently taking a web design course challenge so ill see how that goes in the next couple of months. See if I can save a good 5k before going full freelance living with my roommates.

But yeah wall of text im going to end it here.

I’d like to thank members of the Cold Approach crew like pondus_levo, for keeping up the motivational vibes with his posts, and my boy Muzzlrpress for staying active here and texting me every now and again to catch up on how I was doing (sorry for not getting back to you as much man been swamped read above). I’d also like to think everyone else here taking massive action and shutting down the trolls. Also shoutout to Chivasregal for getting laid thanks in some tiny part to what youve guys have accomplished here in this thread

Were back in it boyos.

(also the main reason I haven't been back is because I ignored the password change thing and once it was done, i was locked out of my account on my phone but i just discovered im still logged in on my ipad somehow)

There’s no way to meet people man

At the bar last night with two of my friends and spotted a couple of cute Asian women. They were definitely checking us out, but it seemed like they were checking everyone out. My friends wouldn't stop talking about them, so I finally told them I'd go over and talk to them and get them to join us. Well, I completely whiffed and fell flat on my face and went back empty-handed. I was completely off my game and even my friends couldn't believe that I struck out so bad. I think part of it I was because I wasn't really doing it for me and the other part was that I was pretty drunk.

I imagine that what happened is what peachy experiences with every human interaction he's ever had.

LOL

Better off having tried than regretting not going over there. Perhaps those women just wanted some attention, how bad did you burnout with them?

I've had moments where I forced a conversation based on perceived interest and they don't reciprocate the conversation. Other times, it's worked out fantastically. But the fails definitely hurt...