12-03-2019, 10:56 PM
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Biopsy results, hubby has skin cancer :(
I don’t how worried I should be.
When he gets a certain rash he’s supposed to put a cream on it to eat the skin that could be cancerous but he neglected that in three places (the one on his shoulder is the worst) and for a couple months now the spot on his nose, back and shoulder got worse. They burned some of it off but now the have to cut out the skin then pull it together to sew it up. He works with really gnarly hazardous materials and it worries me how little time he is going to take off and the plastic surgery that will follow. We have his this kids half the time and they need him so badly because the ex is zero support and will probably try to use this against us when we go for full custody in January of the 16 year old.
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Ops freaking out about husbands skin cancer
Husband seems fine and not worried
There’s kids to be worried about being taken care of
Union grants more time off for recovery but contracting company doesn’t and ops worried about stitches and the hazardous materials hubby works with
Ops wondering if anyone else has any first hand experience with this and how much to worry, what if it gets in his blood stream or something?
When he gets a certain rash he’s supposed to put a cream on it to eat the skin that could be cancerous but he neglected that in three places (the one on his shoulder is the worst) and for a couple months now the spot on his nose, back and shoulder got worse. They burned some of it off but now the have to cut out the skin then pull it together to sew it up. He works with really gnarly hazardous materials and it worries me how little time he is going to take off and the plastic surgery that will follow. We have his this kids half the time and they need him so badly because the ex is zero support and will probably try to use this against us when we go for full custody in January of the 16 year old.
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Ops freaking out about husbands skin cancer
Husband seems fine and not worried
There’s kids to be worried about being taken care of
Union grants more time off for recovery but contracting company doesn’t and ops worried about stitches and the hazardous materials hubby works with
Ops wondering if anyone else has any first hand experience with this and how much to worry, what if it gets in his blood stream or something?
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Guy at work has had skin cancer removed about five times on his face . Seems to be doing fine , but is more careful in the sun then most .
If you have any questions I can text him
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Originally Posted By MajorTendonitis⏩
How much face is missing? Pics?Guy at work has had skin cancer removed about five times on his face
If you have any questions I can text him
If you have any questions I can text him
12-03-2019, 11:04 PM
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Originally Posted By Absthetic⏩
You realise she's being serious about this right? pretty dick response to a serious situation like this one. Rethink what you're saying.did not read but gjdm
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what happens next?
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what happens next?
OP, I don't know much about skin cancer but honestly if he addresses it before it gets to its advanced stage then he should be fine. Cancer in its own form mostly attacks a body that is very acidic meaning all the acidic foods you eat just piles up in the general body temple, so if he's eating constant acidic food of LOW PH and no alkaline balance and he's constantly dehydrated then his situation is going to get worse. Best thing you can honestly do right now is just to make sure he eats properly from here on out (if he hasn't been already).
I'm sure the bloke will be alright though but as Wincel said, it does also depend on the severity of the skin cancer. He's not worried because he doesn't want you to worry and that's understandable, I respect the bloke alot. Just focus on your kids and each other and don't worry about your ex, if he tries to do some shady **** then you guys will get through it because he'd obviously have no grounds to take custody of your children due to the fact that they're not even living in a harmful environment. Your kid will be fine, just focus on your hubby.
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Originally Posted By ThisIsMyAlias⏩
They do skin grafts . Amazing how good his specialist is,as you’d never notice unless he points the areas out and you look hardHow much face is missing? Pics?
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Originally Posted By Absthetic⏩
U dumb as fuk cuzdid not read but gjdm
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what happens next?
skin cancer is different than other forms of cancer, you just get the specific area cut out srs it won't spread into organs like others
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what happens next?
skin cancer is different than other forms of cancer, you just get the specific area cut out srs it won't spread into organs like others
12-03-2019, 11:15 PM
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I'm sorry to hear and welcome to the caretaker club. Hold onto your butt. As I've learned, patients rarely act how you think is the most rational way. They say and do weird things for reasons you won't be able to make sense of.
Are you going to the oncology appointments with him? If you are going to be a caretaker, you should go so you can understand the Dx fully and get your questions answered. Cancer is a giant mindfukk and you aren't going to get accurate, objective details from the patient.
Are you going to the oncology appointments with him? If you are going to be a caretaker, you should go so you can understand the Dx fully and get your questions answered. Cancer is a giant mindfukk and you aren't going to get accurate, objective details from the patient.
12-03-2019, 11:19 PM
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Basal cell or squamous cell?
Plastic/Reconstructive =/= Cosmetic Surgery....
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12-03-2019, 11:27 PM
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Originally Posted By ChangeOfStyle⏩
He used to be so good about drinking ph water and now it’s harder, he gets stressed and eats crappy even when I try to cook for him and pack a lunch, he stress eats like Taco Bell and is always popping tums :/ so the acid thing makes sense and ya today when we found out, I took him over to one of the casino resorts and we just chilled in the pools and hot tubs while it snowed and the 16 year old baby sat, we aren’t telling the kids, my biggest worry is him going under and if the surgery to remove it isn’t enough, he did say it can spread to his blood stream.You realise she's being serious about this right? pretty dick response to a serious situation like this one. Rethink what you're saying.
OP, I don't know much about skin cancer but honestly if he addresses it before it gets to its advanced stage then he should be fine. Cancer in its own form mostly attacks a body that is very acidic meaning all the acidic foods you eat just piles up in the general body temple, so if he's eating constant acidic food of LOW PH and no alkaline balance and he's constantly dehydrated then his situation is going to get worse. Best thing you can honestly do right now is just to make sure he eats properly from here on out (if he hasn't been already).
I'm sure the bloke will be alright though but as Wincel said, it does also depend on the severity of the skin cancer. He's not worried because he doesn't want you to worry and that's understandable, I respect the bloke alot. Just focus on your kids and each other and don't worry about your ex, if he tries to do some shady **** then you guys will get through it because he'd obviously have no grounds to take custody of your children due to the fact that they're not even living in a harmful environment. Your kid will be fine, just focus on your hubby.
Best of luck with this
OP, I don't know much about skin cancer but honestly if he addresses it before it gets to its advanced stage then he should be fine. Cancer in its own form mostly attacks a body that is very acidic meaning all the acidic foods you eat just piles up in the general body temple, so if he's eating constant acidic food of LOW PH and no alkaline balance and he's constantly dehydrated then his situation is going to get worse. Best thing you can honestly do right now is just to make sure he eats properly from here on out (if he hasn't been already).
I'm sure the bloke will be alright though but as Wincel said, it does also depend on the severity of the skin cancer. He's not worried because he doesn't want you to worry and that's understandable, I respect the bloke alot. Just focus on your kids and each other and don't worry about your ex, if he tries to do some shady **** then you guys will get through it because he'd obviously have no grounds to take custody of your children due to the fact that they're not even living in a harmful environment. Your kid will be fine, just focus on your hubby.
Best of luck with this
Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
I’ll start going I haven’t been.I'm sorry to hear and welcome to the caretaker club. Hold onto your butt. As I've learned, patients rarely act how you think is the most rational way. They say and do weird things for reasons you won't be able to make sense of.
Are you going to the oncology appointments with him? If you are going to be a caretaker, you should go so you can understand the Dx fully and get your questions answered. Cancer is a giant mindfukk and you aren't going to get accurate, objective details from the patient.
Are you going to the oncology appointments with him? If you are going to be a caretaker, you should go so you can understand the Dx fully and get your questions answered. Cancer is a giant mindfukk and you aren't going to get accurate, objective details from the patient.
He doesn’t want to stress me out with it and he’s the type to be like I take care of you, he helped me through addiction to alcohol years ago and it was a pretty bad mess.
I know he’s not letting on how bad it is by looking at it, but this is his second time doing it. I wish he ate better. And let on about the dangers of things. I want to know his bp and cholesterols and see labs but he says all is good, we both are taci from birth too and worried if that could affect going under. It looks so bad on his back

Originally Posted By SurgeonBrah⏩
He didn’t tell me, is there a way to tell by looking at it?Basal cell or squamous cell?
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12-03-2019, 11:35 PM
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Originally Posted By snailsrus⏩
Take a picture of the cancer and post it. There is a way to tell, but it isn't always easy. If it is whiteish with blood vessels running around over it kind of like roots on a tree, it is probably basal. If it is a firm, smooth, or hardened and crusty lump, then it is likely squamous.He used to be so good about drinking ph water and now it’s harder, he gets stressed and eats crappy even when I try to cook for him and pack a lunch, he stress eats like Taco Bell and is always popping tums :/ so the acid thing makes sense and ya today when we found out, I took him over to one of the casino resorts and we just chilled in the pools and hot tubs while it snowed and the 16 year old baby sat, we aren’t telling the kids, my biggest worry is him going under and if the surgery to remove it isn’t enough, he did say it can spread to his blood stream.
I’ll start going I haven’t been.
He doesn’t want to stress me out with it and he’s the type to be like I take care of you, he helped me through addiction to alcohol years ago and it was a pretty bad mess.
I know he’s not letting on how bad it is by looking at it, but this is his second time doing it. I wish he ate better. And let on about the dangers of things. I want to know his bp and cholesterols and see labs but he says all is good, we both are taci from birth too and worried if that could affect going under. It looks so bad on his back
He didn’t tell me, is there a way to tell by looking at it?
I’ll start going I haven’t been.
He doesn’t want to stress me out with it and he’s the type to be like I take care of you, he helped me through addiction to alcohol years ago and it was a pretty bad mess.
I know he’s not letting on how bad it is by looking at it, but this is his second time doing it. I wish he ate better. And let on about the dangers of things. I want to know his bp and cholesterols and see labs but he says all is good, we both are taci from birth too and worried if that could affect going under. It looks so bad on his back

He didn’t tell me, is there a way to tell by looking at it?
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Originally Posted By snailsrus⏩
He will probably try to fight you on it, but will be glad you're there in the end. Pepper your angus for that.I’ll start going I haven’t been.
He doesn’t want to stress me out with it and he’s the type to be like I take care of you, he helped me through addiction to alcohol years ago and it was a pretty bad mess.
I know he’s not letting on how bad it is by looking at it, but this is his second time doing it. I wish he ate better. And let on about the dangers of things. I want to know his bp and cholesterols and see labs but he says all is good, we both are taci from birth too and worried if that could affect going under. It looks so bad on his back
He doesn’t want to stress me out with it and he’s the type to be like I take care of you, he helped me through addiction to alcohol years ago and it was a pretty bad mess.
I know he’s not letting on how bad it is by looking at it, but this is his second time doing it. I wish he ate better. And let on about the dangers of things. I want to know his bp and cholesterols and see labs but he says all is good, we both are taci from birth too and worried if that could affect going under. It looks so bad on his back

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If its melanoma thats bad. The other types are less of a concern. There's one type that is basically harmless. You have to find out what type he has and look it up.
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is this real? cancer on both shoulder and face?
which part is cancer? it cant travel through skin that far.
there are two types also, malignant and benign.
benign tumors wont break off into the blood stream, they are safe.
which part is cancer? it cant travel through skin that far.
there are two types also, malignant and benign.
benign tumors wont break off into the blood stream, they are safe.
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Originally Posted By BigNik78⏩
This. GL OPBest wishes for him and your family. Hope he makes a full recovery asap.
12-04-2019, 12:00 AM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
Oh I know he will but he’ll be in an arm sling at least for a week so he’ll need some help there, at least he’s letting me do the driving in case he has to take meds and will be forced to relax because (before we knew) booked us a short cruise for his bday/Xmas so post surgery rest and reading and hot tubs and better food than Taco BellHe will probably try to fight you on it, but will be glad you're there in the end. Pepper your angus for that.
Originally Posted By wincel⏩
ShoulderTake a picture of the cancer and post it. There is a way to tell, but it isn't always easy. If it is whiteish with blood vessels running around over it kind of like roots on a tree, it is probably basal. If it is a firm, smooth, or hardened and crusty lump, then it is likely squamous.

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I know it’s not benign that was the biopsy results we got and yes real He works in thermal engineering and there’s awful fiber glass everywhere, and metal shards and chemicals with a predisposition to skin canceris this real? cancer on both shoulder and face?
which part is cancer? it cant travel through skin that far.
there are two types also, malignant and benign.
benign tumors wont break off into the blood stream, they are safe.
which part is cancer? it cant travel through skin that far.
there are two types also, malignant and benign.
benign tumors wont break off into the blood stream, they are safe.
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Originally Posted By snailsrus⏩
Ah of course not, kids might still be too young to hear of such news but even now you don't know the severity of the cancer so I wouldn't worry too much. Sounds like an awesome family time to be honest. But yeah he needs to get that eating under control, the cancer will feed on that acidic body temple like it's an all-you-can eat buffet and it'll go from bad to worse. There should be improvement if he atleast has that acidic/alkaline balance in his system, he needs to understand that his wellbeing is now at stake so it's not a choice of ''should I'' it's now a question of ''Why aren't I''. I honestly don't think it will spread unless it is diagnosed as the cancer type that does actually spread to nearby organs but as long as that bodytemple is acidic, acidosis piled with dehydration is going to be his fatality if he doesn't turn it around.He used to be so good about drinking ph water and now it’s harder, he gets stressed and eats crappy even when I try to cook for him and pack a lunch, he stress eats like Taco Bell and is always popping tums :/ so the acid thing makes sense and ya today when we found out, I took him over to one of the casino resorts and we just chilled in the pools and hot tubs while it snowed and the 16 year old baby sat, we aren’t telling the kids, my biggest worry is him going under and if the surgery to remove it isn’t enough, he did say it can spread to his blood stream.
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12-04-2019, 12:10 AM
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Do everything his doctor says, however,
If you live in a legal state,
Go to a dispensary and buy hash oil, aka rick Simpson oil or honey oil (all the same thing) and use it as a topical ointment. Spread some onto a bandage and apply directly to the skin cancer. Reapply 2-3 times daily and keep it on 24/7 until it goes away within a few weeks.
He will not get stoned in any way or fail a drug test.
Yes i have seen it work many times first hand on skin cancer diagnosed from a biopsy. I've seen "patients" cancel surgery because the skin cancer healed.
Not a doctor but I recommended this to my own mom, who is very prone to basil cell skin cancer. Worked every time and she no longer gets them surgically removed.
Do everything his doctor says, however,
If you live in a legal state,
Go to a dispensary and buy hash oil, aka rick Simpson oil or honey oil (all the same thing) and use it as a topical ointment. Spread some onto a bandage and apply directly to the skin cancer. Reapply 2-3 times daily and keep it on 24/7 until it goes away within a few weeks.
He will not get stoned in any way or fail a drug test.
Yes i have seen it work many times first hand on skin cancer diagnosed from a biopsy. I've seen "patients" cancel surgery because the skin cancer healed.
Not a doctor but I recommended this to my own mom, who is very prone to basil cell skin cancer. Worked every time and she no longer gets them surgically removed.
12-04-2019, 12:12 AM
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Originally Posted By ChangeOfStyle⏩
All you can eat is better than 2 chewy bars for breakfast, Taco Bell for lunch, twister tea after work, then normally a slightly more balanced meal unless we go out then it’s something like Texas road house, I push pho and sushi. Tomorrow I am buying a bunch of ph water and keep trying to pack better snacks for during the day, he likes trail mix and those little fruit cups, chewy bars, string cheese and hard boiled eggs. Some job sites he can use the little portable crock pot I got him and I pack soups and rice with protein and veggieAh of course not, kids might still be too young to hear of such news but even now you don't know the severity of the cancer so I wouldn't worry too much. Sounds like an awesome family time to be honest. But yeah he needs to get that eating under control, the cancer will feed on that acidic body temple like it's an all-you-can eat buffet and it'll go from bad to worse. There should be improvement if he atleast has that acidic/alkaline balance in his system, he needs to understand that his wellbeing is now at stake so it's not a choice of ''should I'' it's now a question of ''Why aren't I''. I honestly don't think it will spread unless it is diagnosed as the cancer type that does actually spread to nearby organs but as long as that bodytemple is acidic, acidosis piled with dehydration is going to be his fatality if he doesn't turn it around.
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I’ll do that, it’s legal here, and his cousin has a dispensary business, he’s not against it and I’ll bring it up thank you!!!!!!100% srs
Do everything his doctor says, however,
If you live in a legal state,
Go to a dispensary and buy hash oil, aka rick Simpson oil or honey oil (all the same thing) and use it as a topical ointment. Spread some onto a bandage and apply directly to the skin cancer. Reapply 2-3 times daily and keep it on 24/7 until it goes away within a few weeks.
He will not get stoned in any way or fail a drug test.
Yes i have seen it work many times first hand on skin cancer diagnosed from a biopsy. I've seen "patients" cancel surgery because the skin cancer healed.
Not a doctor but I recommended this to my own mom, who is very prone to basil cell skin cancer. Worked every time and she no longer gets them surgically removed.
Do everything his doctor says, however,
If you live in a legal state,
Go to a dispensary and buy hash oil, aka rick Simpson oil or honey oil (all the same thing) and use it as a topical ointment. Spread some onto a bandage and apply directly to the skin cancer. Reapply 2-3 times daily and keep it on 24/7 until it goes away within a few weeks.
He will not get stoned in any way or fail a drug test.
Yes i have seen it work many times first hand on skin cancer diagnosed from a biopsy. I've seen "patients" cancel surgery because the skin cancer healed.
Not a doctor but I recommended this to my own mom, who is very prone to basil cell skin cancer. Worked every time and she no longer gets them surgically removed.
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Sorry to read that OP... I read now that his job is supposed to be connected with the medical condition. That could be a way out and even change your economical situation.
Remind him that taking care of himself is also a responsibility towards you and the children anyway... health is more important than money and time is precious in these cases. He should recover completely before going back to work and follow the Dr. recommendations in the future.
I don't have direct experience but I know that only malignant melanomas can spread to other organs.
All the best.
Remind him that taking care of himself is also a responsibility towards you and the children anyway... health is more important than money and time is precious in these cases. He should recover completely before going back to work and follow the Dr. recommendations in the future.
I don't have direct experience but I know that only malignant melanomas can spread to other organs.
All the best.
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Originally Posted By AlwaysFocus⏩
How is that whiteknight lmfao? Oh yeah, let's make fun of someone whos S/O is diagnosed with cancer. You're just as much as a dumb**** then he is.wk of piece
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Originally Posted By snailsrus⏩
Looks like squamous, but I am NOT a doctor. OK so the hope is that u caught this very early. If so, it can be treated quite easily.Oh I know he will but he’ll be in an arm sling at least for a week so he’ll need some help there, at least he’s letting me do the driving in case he has to take meds and will be forced to relax because (before we knew) booked us a short cruise for his bday/Xmas so post surgery rest and reading and hot tubs and better food than Taco Bell
Shoulder

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Snuck them to try to google while giving a shoulder rub
I know it’s not benign that was the biopsy results we got and yes real He works in thermal engineering and there’s awful fiber glass everywhere, and metal shards and chemicals with a predisposition to skin cancer
Shoulder

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Snuck them to try to google while giving a shoulder rub
I know it’s not benign that was the biopsy results we got and yes real He works in thermal engineering and there’s awful fiber glass everywhere, and metal shards and chemicals with a predisposition to skin cancer
https://www.health.harvard.edu/cance...inoma-overview
If it spreads, unfortunately, that won't be very good. Your husband's future is now in the hands of the surgery/radiation team. Keep your head up, and be strong for him. Hopefully some misc doctors can take a look at the pics.
12-04-2019, 12:56 AM
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Originally Posted By snailsrus⏩
I'm sorry your husband has been diagnosed with skin cancer. Which type/s of skin cancer does he have? Did they say he needs a CT scan or MRI to check for metastasis?I don’t how worried I should be.
When he gets a certain rash he’s supposed to put a cream on it to eat the skin that could be cancerous but he neglected that in three places (the one on his shoulder is the worst) and for a couple months now the spot on his nose, back and shoulder got worse. They burned some of it off but now the have to cut out the skin then pull it together to sew it up. He works with really gnarly hazardous materials and it worries me how little time he is going to take off and the plastic surgery that will follow. We have his this kids half the time and they need him so badly because the ex is zero support and will probably try to use this against us when we go for full custody in January of the 16 year old.
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Ops freaking out about husbands skin cancer
Husband seems fine and not worried
There’s kids to be worried about being taken care of
Union grants more time off for recovery but contracting company doesn’t and ops worried about stitches and the hazardous materials hubby works with
Ops wondering if anyone else has any first hand experience with this and how much to worry, what if it gets in his blood stream or something?
When he gets a certain rash he’s supposed to put a cream on it to eat the skin that could be cancerous but he neglected that in three places (the one on his shoulder is the worst) and for a couple months now the spot on his nose, back and shoulder got worse. They burned some of it off but now the have to cut out the skin then pull it together to sew it up. He works with really gnarly hazardous materials and it worries me how little time he is going to take off and the plastic surgery that will follow. We have his this kids half the time and they need him so badly because the ex is zero support and will probably try to use this against us when we go for full custody in January of the 16 year old.
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Ops freaking out about husbands skin cancer
Husband seems fine and not worried
There’s kids to be worried about being taken care of
Union grants more time off for recovery but contracting company doesn’t and ops worried about stitches and the hazardous materials hubby works with
Ops wondering if anyone else has any first hand experience with this and how much to worry, what if it gets in his blood stream or something?
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12-04-2019, 12:59 AM
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Originally Posted By snailsrus⏩
Does he wear a mask when working with fiberglass?Oh I know he will but he’ll be in an arm sling at least for a week so he’ll need some help there, at least he’s letting me do the driving in case he has to take meds and will be forced to relax because (before we knew) booked us a short cruise for his bday/Xmas so post surgery rest and reading and hot tubs and better food than Taco Bell
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Snuck them to try to google while giving a shoulder rub
I know it’s not benign that was the biopsy results we got and yes real He works in thermal engineering and there’s awful fiber glass everywhere, and metal shards and chemicals with a predisposition to skin cancer
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Snuck them to try to google while giving a shoulder rub
I know it’s not benign that was the biopsy results we got and yes real He works in thermal engineering and there’s awful fiber glass everywhere, and metal shards and chemicals with a predisposition to skin cancer
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12-04-2019, 01:01 AM
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12-04-2019, 01:16 AM
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Originally Posted By NerdyLady⏩
Yes but it gets in your skin and it’s not your normal fiber glass, and the metal work ek! When he comes home I can’t touch him till he showers and I don’t have sensitive skin, attic fiber glass doesn’t bother me at all. And he works with chemicalsDoes he wear a mask when working with fiberglass?
Originally Posted By NerdyLady⏩
As far as I know they burned it after he used a cream to try and eat away the bad skin cells, then did a lab biopsy which came back positive in three places, no scans as far as I knowI'm sorry your husband has been diagnosed with skin cancer. Which type/s of skin cancer does he have? Did they say he needs a CT scan or MRI to check for metastasis?
Originally Posted By wincel⏩
I’ll have to go to the next doctors appointment and ask lots of questions, these thread is helping me make a list of things to ask about, thank youLooks like squamous, but I am NOT a doctor. OK so the hope is that u caught this very early. If so, it can be treated quite easily.
https://www.health.harvard.edu/cance...inoma-overview
If it spreads, unfortunately, that won't be very good. Your husband's future is now in the hands of the surgery/radiation team. Keep your head up, and be strong for him. Hopefully some misc doctors can take a look at the pics.
https://www.health.harvard.edu/cance...inoma-overview
If it spreads, unfortunately, that won't be very good. Your husband's future is now in the hands of the surgery/radiation team. Keep your head up, and be strong for him. Hopefully some misc doctors can take a look at the pics.
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12-04-2019, 01:35 AM
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Originally Posted By snailsrus⏩
His biopsy came back positive for what kind of skin cancer? If they didn't get clean margins, they have to get in there and cut the cancer out. Some skin cancers can get pretty deep and require surgical removal in order to achieve clean margins. He ought to get a second opinion.Yes but it gets in your skin and it’s not your normal fiber glass, and the metal work ek! When he comes home I can’t touch him till he showers and I don’t have sensitive skin, attic fiber glass doesn’t bother me at all. And he works with chemicals
As far as I know they burned it after he used a cream to try and eat away the bad skin cells, then did a lab biopsy which came back positive in three places, no scans as far as I know
I’ll have to go to the next doctors appointment and ask lots of questions, these thread is helping me make a list of things to ask about, thank you
As far as I know they burned it after he used a cream to try and eat away the bad skin cells, then did a lab biopsy which came back positive in three places, no scans as far as I know
I’ll have to go to the next doctors appointment and ask lots of questions, these thread is helping me make a list of things to ask about, thank you
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