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post 1593838991 12-18-2019, 08:31 PM
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Originally Posted By IAmAnon⏩
OP I agree with the consensus here. Your conversations are coming off really cheesy, not the kinda stuff a dominant man would say. Not even a nice guy would say stuff like that. Only desperate, thirsty men would, which is not good for getting women.

Try to completely put yourselves in the shoes of a man. Think how they think, look through their eyes, speak how they speak. Become a man. At least in your persona that is. Do you not have any male friends that can help you out?
My male friends would wonder why I'm doing the experiment. I am trying to put myself in guys' shoes. Will see how it goes.
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post 1593839221 12-18-2019, 08:36 PM
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Originally Posted By FakecelDedSrs⏩
If she had used a picture of chad on tinder, she would get laid even with the most softboy nice-guy soy attitude. White knighting works if its chad that does it.

Im not quite sure what even the goal of this whole experiment is. Someone ever chadfished? You can be as autistic as you please, you WILL pull most women easily into at least a meet-up QUICKLY.

If you are an average looking male on tinder, it doesnt matter if you are assertive and dominant and do everything right, you will hardly ever succeed, PERIOD. Srsly, just chadfish and see how easily conversations are flowing.

But tbh, OP should be assertive and quickly escalate, just to see how her matches are chickening out instantly.
I agree that I should escalate. I have been doing a laid back approach so that's probably not the best move. I'm trying to 'get my test up'. So it will be interesting to see the change in the responses.

I've noticed that not saying hi after two days leads to being unmatched. Strange.
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post 1593839301 12-18-2019, 08:37 PM
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Originally Posted By l2ambo⏩
Maybe you should ask chicks out in person instead.
I wish. But I don't have a good enough disguise to pass for a guy and my voice isn't close to masculine.
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post 1594013431 12-21-2019, 01:32 PM
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Update: The Asian chick gave me her snapchat. It seems she might be interested but not sure exactly how much interest there is. She tends to like stuff I say so that's a good sign at least.

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post 1594015811 12-21-2019, 02:22 PM
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WTF was that kissyface emoji?
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post 1594016691 12-21-2019, 02:38 PM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Update: The Asian chick gave me her snapchat. It seems she might be interested but not sure exactly how much interest there is. She tends to like stuff I say so that's a good sign at least.

Just rackin up those bots I see
I'm back, bitches!
post 1594049041 12-22-2019, 05:44 AM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
WTF was that kissyface emoji?
Yeah lol
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post 1594049091 12-22-2019, 05:45 AM
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
Just rackin up those bots I see
Lol I doubt she's a bot. I'll check out her snap chat.
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post 1594049591 12-22-2019, 06:02 AM
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OP has the worst game I have even seen.

emoji face...

calling her babe...
post 1594050411 12-22-2019, 06:25 AM
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Originally Posted By GODself⏩
OP has the worst game I have even seen.

emoji face...

calling her babe...
Well, everyone has their own learning curve. Besides I'm a chick so chatting up other women doesn't come naturally to me. As strange as it seems. Still learning.
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post 1594050741 12-22-2019, 06:36 AM
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delete this srs
post 1594051381 12-22-2019, 06:52 AM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
delete this srs
Why? Aren't things progressing with the Asian chick?

Didn't realise it was that bad.

She isn't a bot. She is on ********, instagram, LinkedIn etc. I like her a lot actually.
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post 1594051531 12-22-2019, 06:56 AM
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Nominating this for worst thread of 2019 and OP for worst poster of 2019.
post 1594051561 12-22-2019, 06:57 AM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Why? Aren't things progressing with the Asian chick?

Didn't realise it was that bad.
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Originally Posted By ItsNotAPhaseMom⏩
Nominating this for worst thread of 2019 and OP for worst poster of 2019.
post 1594051971 12-22-2019, 07:13 AM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
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Well I mean, I did use your pic for the tinder profile so if you're really against the experiment then I'll have to end it.
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post 1594053221 12-22-2019, 07:49 AM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Well I mean, I did use your pic for the tinder profile so if you're really against the experiment then I'll have to end it.
We told you.

Go back in your life and remember things guys told you that gave your pussy tingles. Not things they said that gave you warm fuzzy feelings.

A good relationship starts with the guy giving tingles and then adding in some fuzzy later.
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post 1594053621 12-22-2019, 08:00 AM
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This experiment doesn't make any sense. It's not going to be accurate because you can't escalate to meeting which is the point that most online matches fail. What is even the point?
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post 1594054321 12-22-2019, 08:17 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
This experiment doesn't make any sense. It's not going to be accurate because you can't escalate to meeting which is the point that most online matches fail. What is even the point?
She can she can set it up and see if they show and have the guy ghost them.

Yes it is rude and very inconsiderate but we would actually get a result.
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post 1594054401 12-22-2019, 08:19 AM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
She can she can set it up and see if they show and have the guy ghost them.

Yes it is rude and very inconsiderate but we would actually get a result.
Well I don't agree with wasting someones time like that. She's not a man. This experiment is stupid.
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post 1594063441 12-22-2019, 11:58 AM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
She can she can set it up and see if they show and have the guy ghost them.

Yes it is rude and very inconsiderate but we would actually get a result.
No I would never stand someone up.
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post 1594063811 12-22-2019, 12:04 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Well I don't agree with wasting someones time like that. She's not a man. This experiment is stupid.
It was really to find out if what some others were saying was true. Which was that men very rarely get any interested women and that only very goodlooking guys get dates.

Someone had also suggested that even trying to chat up women would not work even if you chat up 100.

I wanted to see for myself really. I do wonder how the experiment would go if I were a guy.
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post 1594063941 12-22-2019, 12:06 PM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
We told you.

Go back in your life and remember things guys told you that gave your pussy tingles. Not things they said that gave you warm fuzzy feelings.

A good relationship starts with the guy giving tingles and then adding in some fuzzy later.
Well in my case I'm generally only seduced if the guy is very smart. Intelligence arouses me. TMI I know.
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post 1594064521 12-22-2019, 12:22 PM
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The experiment was to tackle what inceldom portrays and actually see first hand if any of it was true. So no face photo was used. Nor any mention of a popular job type ie lawyer, doctor etc used. I used 'writer' as the job title.

What I observed was that conversation and chemistry was the most important thing(as Leo and others have said).

Job title, looks, height, status are not the main things that determine a man's success in dating but I assume they help in the initial attraction process.

Unemployment I derive would be catastrophic for single men in terms of having an active dating life.

Being too aggressive or too pushy was not good as I lost a match by doing so.

Out of the small sample, I got two snapchats and matches will at least two quite pretty women. One at least a 6 and one I'd rate a 7.5 solid. I am still matched with and did contact those women. In all I got about 7 matches two of which I did not contact because though they were pretty they seem to give off a not serious vibe.

Not sticking to one race also seemed to be a good move for the experiment.

So in conclusion having a job, being respectful and not pushy, good conversation skills with an ability to escalate seem to be the key factors in men's dating success.
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post 1594064941 12-22-2019, 12:32 PM
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I wasn't able to determine whether face was more important than having a popular job.

I also was not able to determine the effect of a high financial status.

Thus I end the experiment with these and the above findings.
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post 1594070251 12-22-2019, 02:30 PM
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Nothing was determined.

You failed miserably. 2 possible bots because you never confirmed they were real women.

None of them expressed any attraction for you.

You didn't do anything to dispel the incels.
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post 1594140971 12-23-2019, 05:27 PM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
Nothing was determined.

You failed miserably. 2 possible bots because you never confirmed they were real women.

None of them expressed any attraction for you.

You didn't do anything to dispel the incels.
Why do you assume they're bots? They have instagram etc profiles, they gave snapchat. In one case she wanted to see my face and wondered why I didnt have a face pic.

Things take time and I wasn't pushing for sex. In fact in my bio I indicated that hookups weren't what I was about.

The experiment wasn't to get laid it was to ask these women out on dates.
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Has OP found one decent looking match yet?
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Why do you assume they're bots? They have instagram etc profiles, they gave snapchat. In one case she wanted to see my face and wondered why I didnt have a face pic.

Things take time and I wasn't pushing for sex. In fact in my bio I indicated that hookups weren't what I was about.

The experiment wasn't to get laid it was to ask these women out on dates.
Have you gotten a live snap or text? Have you manage to set an actual date?
I'm back, bitches!
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Has OP found one decent looking match yet?
Yes I posted pics in the thread. Since you guys were against thick women, I got a cute slim Asian and a slim blonde chick. I did get other matches but they seem more like attention seeker types than anything. Oh, so I got three other black chicks as matches, slim gals but they seemed from their profiles to be in tinder just for attention.

I did get a fat white chick though. Like fat not thick. From her pics she seemed the quick hook up type. Not interested in that.
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Why do you assume they're bots? They have instagram etc profiles, they gave snapchat. In one case she wanted to see my face and wondered why I didnt have a face pic.

Things take time and I wasn't pushing for sex. In fact in my bio I indicated that hookups weren't what I was about.

The experiment wasn't to get laid it was to ask these women out on dates.
My advice... Come clean, let them ask questions or rant, and if they are still willing to talk to you... Ask the girls what they thought of you and your convo, and what they thought of your approach. Srs.
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