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post 1597912241 02-17-2020, 12:43 AM
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Originally Posted By LinuxJon⏩
Guy "I want/need _______"
Girl "No. That isn't ideal for me"
Guy "Yes but it's a minor inconvenience for you and extremely important to me"
Girl "Stop being selfish"

The incels are lucky.
Control your inner hatred and inner anger that leads you to make posts like these.

Control your sarcasm.

Sarcasm is a form of hate.

This was very rude of you to post.

Be nicer to people overall.

Think happy and positive thoughts.

At least they are trying.
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Originally Posted By guest89⏩
Women don't exactly gush for a weak man who asks her permission or consults her for his wants/needs. They also don't necessarily like when a man depends on them. Even if they tolerate that.



Made it clear to my girlfriend from the start that I'll always do what I want to do. I won't be manipulated or controlled. I don't 'need' to be in a relationship. I'm perfectly happy being single. If at any point there is an issue for her we can go our separate ways with no hard feelings or drama. She also knows I don't think much about the institution of marriage and wouldn't mind being a bachelor into my 40s and 50s. So she knows I'm not bluffing on separating over petty issues. I think a lot of women manipulate their significant other and change them/control them. Then over time they lose respect for them because they aren't even the same guy they fell in love with.




With that said. You make schitty decisions with pets so maybe you should listen to your wife on this one.
This is sort of what I do.

I don't act stuck-up, I am not stubborn or completely dismiss the possibility of marriage, family, kids in the future but they know that I don't need it. I have everything so far in my life in check, a relationship and family would be supplementary, not a necessity.

Men fail when they cave into the pressure society and media puts on a couple that if you want kids, you have to get married. It's utter bullsh*t and nearly always a lose-lose for the male. I have countless stories to back this up and also the biased laws of the family court. Also to not sound pessimistic I also know plenty of stories where it's all worked out; however it's a calculated risk with a very little safety net.

I am also intelligent enough to know when a woman is feigning agreement but they are secretly biding their time. Many women will be fully accepting, and then slowly get you to change until you eventually cave in thinking: "But we're different".

It also matters what country you are n and how generally men and female treat unity there. However you get a problem where some countries and their women are too subservient in partnerships - that's a total turn off though I can see how many males would like that.

The governments grubby hand in partnerships, what society condones and that obvious legal bias for one gender is what is making a mess of it all. At the end of the day, it doesn't matter what I or anyone else, says people will still get married or not married.

However, if you can muster enough will, never and I mean never feel pressure to marry someone if they use it as a hostage device. Every day people do this and they submit, it's worse than a coin flip at this point. Women are under a tighter schedule and will want commitment with basically a verbal contract which puts men under a lot of pressure.
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post 1597912581 02-17-2020, 12:55 AM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
Your wife and child is supposed to be your company.
Agreed. And for between 80-90% of our marriage she's been completely absent or worse. I'm trying to keep the family together for our sons sake and honestly that means having at least one other living creature who I can count on for companionship. Especially when she's loved to threaten taking the kid away every time she's been mad for years.
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post 1597915771 02-17-2020, 03:15 AM
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Originally Posted By LinuxJon⏩
In this case involving pets. But this is essentially universal.
with you it's always the fukken pets lmao
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Sounds like you married an unhappy miserable **** who sees you as the root cause of her own misery.

Your life is going to be hell. I feel sorry for your kid.

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Just lol if you get married in this age though
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Gambling half your chit on the off chance that another human being will stay faithful and love you completely for the rest of your life?

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Originally Posted By LinuxJon⏩
Guy "I want/need _______"
Girl "No. That isn't ideal for me"
Guy "Yes but it's a minor inconvenience for you and extremely important to me"
Girl "Stop being selfish"

The incels are lucky.
Once tried to talk with a girl about this concept. If something is a +10 for person 1's happiness and a -1 for person 2, it should be obvious that this is good in total; also because next time something is -1 for person 1 and +10 for person 2, it will also be approved on. She didn't understand it at all.
Then I proceeded to put it in the bum, all f*ck's given.
Selfish c*nt's, most of them.
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Get a divorce and be there for your kid. She doesn’t deserve half the money from a successful business that you create while married. Your kids will hate dealing with the constant fighting and your wife’s crazy. Do not be a cuck as a role model for your kids.
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Originally Posted By guest89⏩
Women don't exactly gush for a weak man who asks her permission or consults her for his wants/needs. They also don't necessarily like when a man depends on them. Even if they tolerate that.



Made it clear to my girlfriend from the start that I'll always do what I want to do. I won't be manipulated or controlled. I don't 'need' to be in a relationship. I'm perfectly happy being single. If at any point there is an issue for her we can go our separate ways with no hard feelings or drama. She also knows I don't think much about the institution of marriage and wouldn't mind being a bachelor into my 40s and 50s. So she knows I'm not bluffing on separating over petty issues. I think a lot of women manipulate their significant other and change them/control them. Then over time they lose respect for them because they aren't even the same guy they fell in love with.




With that said. You make schitty decisions with pets so maybe you should listen to your wife on this one.
Mirin if true, this is how you do it. SHE is the lucky one, not you.
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Has she ever opened up to you? Show you her insecurities? Sounds like you’re keeping your pets make her insecure. You’re choosing your pets over her. it’s not going to be this simple but she does sound vulnerable on the inside. Some people just don’t take threats very well you gotta get your message through a diffferent route - a route that speaks to them. If you are stuck with her, might as well make it enjoyable for you and your child Also.

Sounds sad and borderline abuse (By her) but this may all just be your doing (not your fault - just your own doing).

Look up “how to deal with a narcissist” and maybe that’ll help you. Not saying she’s a narcissist but try reading up on it and if you see such traits in you or her, lookup and implement one step at a time - maybe it’ll help.
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Mirin if true, this is how you do it. SHE is the lucky one, not you.
^^^ this

You’re the catch here bro. But make the best of this situation and you can bring back the her that you fell in love with.
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Originally Posted By LinuxJon⏩
Agreed. And for between 80-90% of our marriage she's been completely absent or worse. I'm trying to keep the family together for our sons sake and honestly that means having at least one other living creature who I can count on for companionship. Especially when she's loved to threaten taking the kid away every time she's been mad for years.
Look, I'm sorry about your chitty marriage, truly. But even from your biased point of view it sounds like you're the kunt here for reasons already covered.

But even if you were perfect beforehand, which we all know you weren't, and she's causing all this chit, why are you determined to make it 100 times worse instead of working together to fix it or just breaking up?

You complain that she's selfish for not letting you have another cat, when you acted like you weren't a crazy cat lady until you locked her down, and you know she is allergic and your still have multiple cats.

You say the reason you need "at least one" (which you already have by the way so why keep pushing it) companion because she is absent 80-90% if your marriage, so you try your best to make sure she has absolutely zero space to relax at home, and I mean that with no exaggeration at all. You know damn well that's not going to lead to her being around more.

She threatens to take your son (which is quite awful, assuming that's the way she words it in anger, rather than that just being the way you take it when she says she wants a divorce) so this makes you want more cats, and also makes you discuss having another child with her.

What in the everloving fk is wrong with you, genuinely
post 1597932361 02-17-2020, 10:30 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
My turn

Girl "we need _______"
Guy "OK no problem"

3 weeks later
Girl "did you sort out _________"
Guy "quit nagging"

The singles are lucky.
Why does he have to sort it out?
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I'll sum up OP: *******
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Originally Posted By KirkMcquest⏩
There, I fixed it for ya. Just saved you thousands of dollars and months of "couples therapy".
Lol @ how accurate that edit is.
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Didn't you barely know this woman before you married her?

And of course no sensible person wants even more furballs in the house (which is what I'm assuming you're asking), you goddamn hoarder.
Originally Posted By Duckliver⏩
You tricked a woman who is allergic to cats into marrying you while you had no cats
You knocked her up and tied her too you with a baby
You have so much debt from buying Guns, watches, gun safes, leasing cars etc..
She now gets half your debt in a divorce instead of half your assets
You buy 20 cats again and infest your house despite her being allergic


We should all be feeling bad for the woman you tricked not you. You are honestly lucky she hasn’t actually killed you. (No WK)
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩
Look, I'm sorry about your chitty marriage, truly. But even from your biased point of view it sounds like you're the kunt here for reasons already covered.

But even if you were perfect beforehand, which we all know you weren't, and she's causing all this chit, why are you determined to make it 100 times worse instead of working together to fix it or just breaking up?

You complain that she's selfish for not letting you have another cat, when you acted like you weren't a crazy cat lady until you locked her down, and you know she is allergic and your still have multiple cats.

You say the reason you need "at least one" (which you already have by the way so why keep pushing it) companion because she is absent 80-90% if your marriage, so you try your best to make sure she has absolutely zero space to relax at home, and I mean that with no exaggeration at all. You know damn well that's not going to lead to her being around more.

She threatens to take your son (which is quite awful, assuming that's the way she words it in anger, rather than that just being the way you take it when she says she wants a divorce) so this makes you want more cats, and also makes you discuss having another child with her.

What in the everloving fk is wrong with you, genuinely
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩
Look, I'm sorry about your chitty marriage, truly. But even from your biased point of view it sounds like you're the kunt here for reasons already covered.

But even if you were perfect beforehand, which we all know you weren't, and she's causing all this chit, why are you determined to make it 100 times worse instead of working together to fix it or just breaking up?

You complain that she's selfish for not letting you have another cat, when you acted like you weren't a crazy cat lady until you locked her down, and you know she is allergic and your still have multiple cats.

You say the reason you need "at least one" (which you already have by the way so why keep pushing it) companion because she is absent 80-90% if your marriage, so you try your best to make sure she has absolutely zero space to relax at home, and I mean that with no exaggeration at all. You know damn well that's not going to lead to her being around more.

She threatens to take your son (which is quite awful, assuming that's the way she words it in anger, rather than that just being the way you take it when she says she wants a divorce) so this makes you want more cats, and also makes you discuss having another child with her.

What in the everloving fk is wrong with you, genuinely
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You're this pissed that your wife doesn't want a second or third cat? What are you going to do with the cat? Carress it? Kiss it? Let it sleep on you? And you wonder why your wife finds this request of yours to be bizarre and unreasonable?

If you want life advice from the misc then you need to detatch yourself from the beta worldview that has apparantly phucked up your mind and made you want a cat. You should be trying to find a way to get rid of the pets you currently have without upsetting your wife, not increasing the number of mouths you have to feed and egos you have to stroke to avoid getting clawed.
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Your wife is allergic to cats?!?!?!

I just....I can't.
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Originally Posted By RedRusty⏩
Your wife is allergic to cats?!?!?!

I just....I can't.
Its a minor inconvenience
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩
Its a minor inconvenience
For reference, I am good friends with TWO men who are allergic to cats and have multiple kitties for their wives.
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Not sure how this happens to men. OF course there are a couple things my wife has her line in the sand about, but then again so do I.
One of the small engines in our equipment at work broke down so instead of rebuilding it we replaced it. I asked for the broken engine because the parts to fix what was needed cost less that $40 and I want to build a go kart. My wife hemmed and hawed a bit but you'd be damn crazy to think that engine isn't in my garage right now in pieces while I wait for the parts.

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Originally Posted By LinuxJon⏩
For reference, I am good friends with TWO men who are allergic to cats and have multiple kitties for their wives.
You mean how your wife has multiple kitties for you?

You never answered if you have some of your life insurance or anything else set up to go towards your son or just your cats?
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Originally Posted By LinuxJon⏩
For reference, I am good friends with TWO men who are allergic to cats and have multiple kitties for their wives.
It's asinine to have one cat. It's asinine to have more than one watch and 2 guns.

When you start taking care of your end of the bargain then you can complain about your wife.

But you have a very long way to go to fix your schit.


I'd guess if you eliminated your problems then your marriage would drastically improve.

But step one is cats go today.

Phuck if I was your wife you'd come home and find the cats gone.
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I'm sorry but this thread is absolutely hilarious. Catbrah OP is mad and attacks the institute of marriage because his wife won't let him get another cat. Discussion devolves into how friends and family have cats and are willing to make concessions for their cat-loving partners but OP's won't. Lmao
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Better protect your assets bro...cat food aint cheap.
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