First I want to say congrats. I hope you stick to it. That's a big deal!

2nd - If my fav celeb heart throb wanted to smash and I was single. I wouldn't give a fuark if he drank too much - if I felt like smashing - letzzzGO. I'm not dating them for the long term.

However I will NOT date or smash a guy that smokes cigarettes. Seriously. I literally don't care how amazing they are - that's a pet peve and something I literally cannot deal with. I find it absolutely disgusting. That's my personal preference which I'm allowed to have. Also if someone had an alcohol problem and was wasted on a tuesday afternoon when they're suppose to be at work or doing something else adult-ish and does this on a regular basis? I will absolutely not put up with that BS either. I'm not talking about going out on a friday night and getting blasted every now and then. I'm talking about a LEGIT problem.

I'm not saying he can't have bad days. I just don't want someone who claims it's raining every fcking day. I've been out on dates with guys like that. No thanks Sam. My day isn't about to be ruined bc I have to hear your BS every single day about some BS you can change but never do chit about it. I'm totally fine with you considering them 'high status men' who have their chit together and some if that's the description you want to add for the list. I hold myself to those same what I think is minimum standards. I know what I bring to the table.

I'm literally thinking about the handful of guy friends that I hang around with on a regular basis and play ball with. They easily meet all these requirements. I really don't think they're that unrealistic where you feel like I'm being so exaggerated and unbelievable. I'm sure incels aside a ton of dudes on here meet these requirements easily.

Quality women don't spend their time making long lists about what they don't want in a man like this, these types of women probably struggle to find themselves a dude due to being ugly and socially retarded but use lists like these as a way to make themselves feel like they're in control.

You must have had incredibly low self esteem. I'm glad you found a nice, normal husband.

One thing you have to understand about the FA posters here is that they are all painfully introverted and high inhibition. Those things are a killer if you're a man when it comes to dating. These dudes haven't had any success dating when younger which killed their confidence and created a snowball effect. I was always really confident because I was athletic, tall, made good grades, came from a "good" family (or at least as people thought of them) and actually believed I was good looking. Confidence leads to success which leads to more confidence

Post my deal breakers? or requirements?


Fairly simple:

Deal breakers:
- Any kind of addiction (drinking or drugs - I'm talking.. tuesday 2pm black out drunk for no reason all the time kind of drinker)
- Abusive (verbally or physically)
- No ambition (loser - including jobless & won't go look for a job)
- Smoke cigarettes
- Lives too far away (I won't do the long distance bit)
- Liars
- No etiquette / Manners
- Obsessed about money / Cheap
- Low self esteem
- Selfish
- Negative | always bad mouthing someone | Always having a bad day (It CANNOT be raining EVERY DAY)
- Blame game where everything is not their fault / someone else's fault
- Always late | Can't get somewhere on time
- BAD BREATH / bad hygiene


I don't think it's an unreasonable deal breaker list.

TBH reddit gonewild sloots>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Female miscers and it's not even close

Is height or a bad car a deal breaker for women?
My last gf was probably a 6.5 out of 10, average face, good body, good personality.

Me-
- Turning 26
- 5'6
- **** car, only $4,000 in savings.
- average wage income but do have a career so should grow
- not fat , good body
- average facials and NW2.5
- dresses well , good hygiene, always try to take care of myself and look good (hair styled, eyebrows plucked, shaved , wear cologne, etc)
- don't smoke or drink
- charismatic, funny, genuinely a nice person.
- above average intellect


I guess i can't get better than a 6.5/10 , 6/10 who is a low value women e.g. waitress, social media hoe etc because tht's all i seem to be able to get srs.


do i just accept that?

First I want to say congrats. I hope you stick to it. That's a big deal!

2nd - If my fav celeb heart throb wanted to smash and I was single. I wouldn't give a fuark if he drank too much - if I felt like smashing - letzzzGO. I'm not dating them for the long term.

However I will NOT date or smash a guy that smokes cigarettes. Seriously. I literally don't care how amazing they are - that's a pet peve and something I literally cannot deal with. I find it absolutely disgusting. That's my personal preference which I'm allowed to have. Also if someone had an alcohol problem and was wasted on a tuesday afternoon when they're suppose to be at work or doing something else adult-ish and does this on a regular basis? I will absolutely not put up with that BS either. I'm not talking about going out on a friday night and getting blasted every now and then. I'm talking about a LEGIT problem.

I'm not saying he can't have bad days. I just don't want someone who claims it's raining every fcking day. I've been out on dates with guys like that. No thanks Sam. My day isn't about to be ruined bc I have to hear your BS every single day about some BS you can change but never do chit about it. I'm totally fine with you considering them 'high status men' who have their chit together and some if that's the description you want to add for the list. I hold myself to those same what I think is minimum standards. I know what I bring to the table.

I'm literally thinking about the handful of guy friends that I hang around with on a regular basis and play ball with. They easily meet all these requirements. I really don't think they're that unrealistic where you feel like I'm being so exaggerated and unbelievable. I'm sure incels aside a ton of dudes on here meet these requirements easily.



That's exactly what I mean - doesn't mean he can't be human. Think 300BLK taking the list too literal.




Backyard wedding OK with you BB?

If he's not 6 ft, how can he be hard working or ambitious?

chicks don't care about any of that **** as long as you can speak to their primal urges

Dated this girl named Katie. Basically cute, but not really pretty, kind of chubby, had big boobs but got a reduction which destroyed the only assets she really had. We were dating and then she became annoyed with me and bascially told me I wasn't what she was looking for and described what she wanted in a man. This was before I came to the Misc. That was a while ago, and she's not even cute anymore. Just a lonely incel woman now. Her cat even ran away. Last I spoke to her, she straight up told me she wished she hadn't been like that to me because I was so good to her, but she thought she could do better. Why? Because these Chads online made her believe she was really something but just pumped and dumped on her. Now they won't even match her. I don't even feel bad for her because she made me feel worthless when she did that to me.

If he's not 6 ft, how can he be hard working or ambitious?

Yuh

Yuh

Dated this girl named Katie. Basically cute, but not really pretty, kind of chubby, had big boobs but got a reduction which destroyed the only assets she really had. We were dating and then she became annoyed with me and bascially told me I wasn't what she was looking for and described what she wanted in a man. This was before I came to the Misc. That was a while ago, and she's not even cute anymore. Just a lonely incel woman now. Her cat even ran away. Last I spoke to her, she straight up told me she wished she hadn't been like that to me because I was so good to her, but she thought she could do better. Why? Because these Chads online made her believe she was really something but just pumped and dumped on her. Now they won't even match her. I don't even feel bad for her because she made me feel worthless when she did that to me.

She spat in God's face by getting her bobs reduced and as punishment God took away her glow. The cat running away is just rope fuel for the poor woman at this point. Was she having back trouble or something? I just don't understand why a woman would do this especially if her bobs were aesthetic. They don't need to be fake bob perky, they just don't need to be flat flapjacks

Sadly I'm sure this story has played out a million times with online dating. These women think that just because they can get 8/10s to sleep with them that they can date these same men.

Dated this girl named Katie. Basically cute, but not really pretty, kind of chubby, had big boobs but got a reduction which destroyed the only assets she really had. We were dating and then she became annoyed with me and bascially told me I wasn't what she was looking for and described what she wanted in a man. This was before I came to the Misc. That was a while ago, and she's not even cute anymore. Just a lonely incel woman now. Her cat even ran away. Last I spoke to her, she straight up told me she wished she hadn't been like that to me because I was so good to her, but she thought she could do better. Why? Because these Chads online made her believe she was really something but just pumped and dumped on her. Now they won't even match her. I don't even feel bad for her because she made me feel worthless when she did that to me.

You're 6/10 at best and you have this much chit to say about your standards?

I guess it's not your fault though. It's the fault of yellow fever *******s blowing smoke up your ass combined with something changing in 2012 resulting in this absurdity.

Your looksmatched equivalent looks like this.



Yet you have all these fukin standards? JFL.

asian sloot can talk **** cause yellow fever *******s treat her like a queen

all the white guys with asian sloots seem mentally ill srs lol i have not seen one decent white dude with an asian girl. it's like they are balding or have a really **** personality that white girls would be turned off from

Why do so many men chase psychos and ignore the nice plain Janes?

You're 6/10 at best and you have this much chit to say about your standards?

I guess it's not your fault though. It's the fault of yellow fever *******s blowing smoke up your ass combined with something changing in 2012 resulting in this absurdity.

Your looksmatched equivalent looks like this.



Yet you have all these fukin standards? JFL.

She spat in God's face by getting her bobs reduced and as punishment God took away her glow. The cat running away is just rope fuel for the poor woman at this point. Was she having back trouble or something? I just don't understand why a woman would do this especially if her bobs were aesthetic. They don't need to be fake bob perky, they just don't need to be flat flapjacks

Sadly I'm sure this story has played out a million times with online dating. These women think that just because they can get 8/10s to sleep with them that they can date these same men.

Lol, her list is basic as fuk!

Can't believe some of y'all are even worked up about it. And it's not like good dick doesn't take out most of any woman's list anyway. Make a girl cum hard enough to fall in love with your ass, and you can do whatever the fuk you want.

6 figures. 6 pack. 6 foot.

Those are my broad filters. if they don't meet these three then they're not even worth talking to. While these are all great traits to have in and of themselves they also mean that other dealbreakers are already met (a guy making 6 figs is clearly motivated and has a plan for his future. With a 6 pack he's disciplined and takes care of his health etc). Once i actually start seeing a guy seriously then my more specific dealbreakers become:

Consumes video games/porn/drugs

Poor relationship with his mother/sister/grandmother

"Playboy" type. Talking about his numerous exes or other women all the time.

Tries obviously negging me. i can take some playful remarks but if he's doing it just to gauge my reactions then he can **** off

No hobbies outside of work or going to the bar or hanging with his friends. Find something interesting to do with your life bro.

There are more but these are the major ones i can think of right now.

You're 6/10 at best and you have this much chit to say about your standards?

I guess it's not your fault though. It's the fault of yellow fever *******s blowing smoke up your ass combined with something changing in 2012 resulting in this absurdity.

Your looksmatched equivalent looks like this.



Yet you have all these fukin standards? JFL.

asian sloot can talk **** cause yellow fever *******s treat her like a queen

all the white guys with asian sloots seem mentally ill srs lol i have not seen one decent white dude with an asian girl. it's like they are balding or have a really **** personality that white girls would be turned off from

Forgot I had that picture up. Good times were had that eveningYou can tell me that I'm a 3/10 and it really won'thurt my feelingsespecially coming from some No AVI faceless cuck that's ANGRY AF and lashing out at me - feeling the need to post my pictures like I'm embarrassed about them or something?

Why are you so mad? Do you need to talk about it? Did my list trigger you or something? You have a smoking problem and didn't appreciate my comment? I'm not everyone's cup of tea and you're saying that my match would be the dude that shot up 30+ people in virginia tech?

Wow you are SUPER angry. I think you should go seek help instead of lashing out at strangers over the internet. I hope you find peace. It's def not my list that's making you so triggered. You lashing out at me says more about you than it does about my 'standards' really.