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post 1610698491 07-15-2020, 03:38 PM
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The simple truth is. If a girl is into you, you'll be on her mind. She'll be texting you every day. 'Good morning'. 'Hows your day going'. Etc.



If she does this type of thing she's really not that into you. Her attention was diverted to someone more worthy but that ended so she's back to you to occupy her until the next Chad shows up.
post 1610699931 07-15-2020, 03:57 PM
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Here's what I'm going to do :

-Drink date but no dinner
-1 hour tops
-Won't chase nor compliment her
-Try to make my move
-Smash or pass depending on the outcome
post 1610699961 07-15-2020, 03:57 PM
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Seems weird she's trying to pin it on you. I don't think you should have agreed to the date so quickly. Definitely shouldn't spend money on her.
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post 1610700031 07-15-2020, 03:58 PM
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Do you want to pursue a girl uninterested in you and who will expect you to put in all the work? If so, continue.
post 1610700131 07-15-2020, 04:00 PM
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Originally Posted By guest89⏩
The simple truth is. If a girl is into you, you'll be on her mind. She'll be texting you every day. 'Good morning'. 'Hows your day going'. Etc.



If she does this type of thing she's really not that into you. Her attention was diverted to someone more worthy but that ended so she's back to you to occupy her until the next Chad shows up.
True.

I don't even understand how she accepted the date...

I should probably cancel.
post 1610700191 07-15-2020, 04:01 PM
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Is she arab?
post 1610700611 07-15-2020, 04:08 PM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
True.

I don't even understand how she accepted the date...

I should probably cancel.
She literally doesn't have anything better going on. That's why. If its just drinks go. She might be horny and DTF. If not at most you've wasted an hour or two.



At all costs no matter how great she seems remember you were plan B to her.
post 1610700761 07-15-2020, 04:10 PM
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she found a white guy sorry op
post 1610701131 07-15-2020, 04:14 PM
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Hang on, Opie did you ever actually see this girl?

To me ghosting can't happen with two people who've never met. If you go out a couple of times and one person stops responding to the other and just disappears -- that's ghosting. In this case, you've got a guy and a girl talking where eventually the conversation fizzled out. That happens all the time and people just move on.
post 1610701221 07-15-2020, 04:16 PM
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Originally Posted By WishIWasJawBrah⏩
Is she arab?
Yes, obviously ayy lmao.
post 1610701411 07-15-2020, 04:19 PM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
Yes, obviously ayy lmao.
Oh that hoe. I thought you'd fuk her already
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post 1610701421 07-15-2020, 04:19 PM
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Smash said sloot and keep it moving. She's not even worth a real date. Take her for drinks, clap dem cheeks, and disappear.
post 1610702041 07-15-2020, 04:24 PM
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When this happens to me, I only use one response. I don't ghost or no-reply because it just contributes to that terrible cycle. It is a crappy feeling being a backup.

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post 1610702191 07-15-2020, 04:26 PM
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Originally Posted By Fang2⏩
Oh that hoe. I thought you'd fuk her already
Another one.
post 1610703291 07-15-2020, 04:39 PM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
Here's what I'm going to do :

-Drink date but no dinner
-1 hour tops
-Won't chase nor compliment her
-Try to make my move
-Smash or pass depending on the outcome
Shouldn't even do that. Invite her to the crib for drinks. Try to make the move. Smash or pass. Ghost.
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post 1610703621 07-15-2020, 04:43 PM
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Originally Posted By Thunder999⏩
The exact same thing happened to me.

Tell her to GTF, thats what i plan to do she comes back to work Mon.
Ego or sex... which to choose here.

Smart man would choose sex and not catch feels.
post 1610704221 07-15-2020, 04:53 PM
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no pics and no cliffs.
Im surprised nobody is negging OP.

is it because he is black?

Strong inverse racism.
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post 1610704331 07-15-2020, 04:54 PM
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Originally Posted By umadbroski⏩
no pics and no cliffs.
Im surprised nobody is negging OP.

is it because he is black?

Strong inverse racism.
Jelly because you don't have that trump (no pun intended) card ?
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post 1610705541 07-15-2020, 05:09 PM
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Originally Posted By JackFlag⏩
Set the date, text her 30 mins before to confirm, ghost and block her on every channel, move on with life.
why would you go through that trouble. when u can just bang her??
post 1610706151 07-15-2020, 05:15 PM
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date a girl like that? no way

try and smash right away, otherwise, you ghost her this time
post 1610706331 07-15-2020, 05:18 PM
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post 1610707781 07-15-2020, 05:35 PM
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Originally Posted By isawthesign⏩
why would you go through that trouble. when u can just bang her??
Cause he wont
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post 1610707891 07-15-2020, 05:36 PM
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Originally Posted By FoxMcCocks⏩
She found a Chad and then he dumped her so she came back

have some self respect, dumb bitch couldn't even apologize, she turned it around on you lmao
This. You're a temporary back up.
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Originally Posted By backinthegymbro⏩
This. You're a temporary back up.
And if OP doesn't have feelings for her, and just uses her as a fuk buddy, this is bad because???

Lol @ incels with big ass egos.
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Can’t believe people are giving OP srs answers without him posting pics first. Would never have happened back in the misc glory days.
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
Yes, obviously ayy lmao.
Have you ever seen a white guy with an arab girl there in France?
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You were not the first choice

She had someone else that she was dealing with (boyfriend, ex boyfriend, some random) that she expected things to work out with and then it didnt. You are the next in line and she is using deflecting to justify her disappearance - it was YOUR fault i didnt text for weeks.

It's called 'monkey branching' op. deal with her at your own discretion
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
Long story short : I was chatting with this girl back in early march, we were supposed to see each other before the lockdown prevented everything. We texted everyday and called each other every other day, one thing leading to another she loses interests and end up ghosting me at the end of April.

No hard feelings, I just move on with my life and decide never to talk to her again.That was until Monday. She came back from oblivion to wish me an happy birthday (she remembered) I could not leave such an attention unanswered so I gave in and we start to talk again.

Her excuse for disappearing : "I thought that you forgot me as you would not text me anymore, you're the man you're supposed to be leading the relationship".

Date is set for next friday but I already feel like it's not even worth it.

Shall I give it a try, have you ever been able to turn the tables with a sloot who ghosted you ?
Sounds like a lead on! Ghost her back
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