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post 1610633641 07-15-2020, 12:09 AM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
Ill tell you one thing though, its cool to see familiar names on the misc and watching their development over the years, i still remember your threads about your crazy ex a few years ago. Seems like it was just yesterday.

We are very similar, and if we have one thing, that is self-awareness, which comes a long way into being happy and successfull with relationships. I feel like you will meet a special girl soon.
Indeed, we have very similar experiences - enjoyed our PM's back in the day. I'm still NC with her btw.

I think that relationship helped me to become more self aware, introspect, figure out my own flaws to work on, what type of person I want, and recognize that there's no such thing as a free lunch - when you get the highs, you get the lows!

I've had a couple of gfs and dated a few other girls since then.
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post 1610633761 07-15-2020, 12:11 AM
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Alright, maybe time to move to R&H
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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩
roommates who rot in the living room all day are the phucking worst

kid would legit camp out all day in the living room back in soph year, apartment wasn't big so it was ****ing annoying
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Have only ever had places with my best homie. Couldn't imagine living with some ******* I don't know or a messy bitch.
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post 1610685111 07-15-2020, 01:18 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I'm not sure it's worth it, unless I get incredibly lucky and find a unique woman - but I'll likely still settle into it as late as I possibly can - probably early 40's because I do want kids and recognize that life would get lonely.
You don't really want to wait that late for kids.

If you really want kids and don't find "the" woman sounds like you could afford to hire a live in nanny and be a single dad.
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post 1610688421 07-15-2020, 01:47 PM
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Living with a roommate who hogs the kitchen is the worst.
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Anything better than how that girl Michelle or whatever lives is the best living situation
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post 1610694751 07-15-2020, 02:53 PM
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The best room living situation is:

21-29: Live with roommates and bank that $$$
30+: Salary jump + Buy your own pad and bring the ladies home
post 1610695251 07-15-2020, 02:59 PM
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post 1610705151 07-15-2020, 05:04 PM
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩
You don't really want to wait that late for kids.
Why not? My father was. I'll ask him but I don't think he has regrets.
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And then youโ€™ll know about chitty living arrangements

You're awfully judgemental.
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post 1610706711 07-15-2020, 05:22 PM
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best living situation is when you own your own home and live in the house you chose you wanted to live in and get to park in your driveway, walk inside and do whatever the fuk you want, girlfriend or no girlfriend.

After owning I cringe at the years i spent renting places. It's just not the same. Especially apartment living.

Waking up in your own bed, in your own house, on your own property, with no one who lives there to effect anything you do is the GOAT. And if you are an alpha you pick a women to date/marry who does a lot of the housework so you even get things easier than if you lived alone.

I like fixing things and doing the yard work myself so thats the compromise.

I dont want to worry about being up to late, making too much noise, sharing the fridge, sharing parking spots, someone else's mess, etc... And I dont like living under someone else's roof who i pay rent to.
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
I kid you not, most woman nowadays, you can be just chilling in bed together, doing absolutely nothing, her checking her phone and you checking yours (women can do that for hours), and god forbids you dare turning on the xbox even right there next to them, because they will lose their ****. Its like, "you dont get to have fun without me..."

Too much real life.
Brb both of you being autistic on your phones for an hour no biggie
Brb turn on PC and she suddenly wants to leave
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I've never lived with roommates, only boyfriends and a husband. I would never want to live with a roommate. That sounds like the worst thing ever IMO.
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My best living situation:

Living alone. lol.

Why? Nobody moves your chit and leaves things out of their place. You can easily stick to your diet instead of being tempted to eat junk other people have laying around. I would miss the security of having someone else around though.
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
My best living situation:

Living alone. lol.

Why? Nobody moves your chit and leaves things out of their place. You can easily stick to your diet instead of being tempted to eat junk other people have laying around. I would miss the security of having someone else around though.
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Originally Posted By iloveus⏩
Aren't you married?
Yep.
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩
You don't really want to wait that late for kids.

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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Why not? My father was. I'll ask him but I don't think he has regrets.

..l.
Grand kids! if you wait too long to have kids you might be too old with health issues to enjoy the grand kids.



IMO best living situation is by yourself in your own house.
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Originally Posted By deltpecx⏩
Grand kids! if you wait too long to have kids you might be too old with health issues to enjoy the grand kids.
True.
IMO best living situation is by yourself in your own house.
Loneliness can be a factor.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
True.



Loneliness can be a factor.
Maybe. I think that depends on the person.


Living alone doesn't mean one is lonely.
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Pretty much with OP. Originally after the Navy I had roommates largely out of necessity, but also I don't mind having them (assuming they don't suck, and I've had good luck). This was in San Diego btw.

I moved to a much lower COL area and have solid job/income now, but I'm a stingy/frugal bastard (like pathologically so) - and again I'm used to having roomates, and am also a minimalist. Here I have one roommate who works a lot, and when we're home both of us spend over 90% of the time in our rooms. My share of the rent is cheap and he pays all the utilities, pretty sweet deal. Being alone would be nice, but imo the pros of this situation outweigh cons.

There is a lot of relocation potential with my career field. I would kind of eventually like to get my own little house/condo/whatever, but I probably won't bother until I'm in a position where I'm fairly confident that I'm going to settle down in whatever area I'm currently in. I already have plenty of money to make massive down payment, and that will just continue to increase in the meantime as I continue to live well below my means.
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Originally Posted By Polaris⏩
Pretty much with OP. Originally after the Navy I had roommates largely out of necessity, but also I don't mind having them (assuming they don't suck, and I've had good luck). This was in San Diego btw.
Good stuff man, but I would recommend setting aside a fixed amount cash every month to spend recreationally. I think that way you can pursue your financial goals, but also enjoy yourself without feeling any guilt.

You are absolutely right that it depends on the roommate and their situation. Basically, I'd rather live alone if my roommate wasn't cool/chill/a friend. So it can be a bit of a gamble.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah on one hand I love living alone because I love having my own space and everything is my way.

On the other hand it does get lonely. I got extremely lonely during lockdown when I couldnโ€™t go out and be around people. That was terrible. Just hope we donโ€™t get another one.
This is what I'm getting at by having a great roommate. You have your own space and privacy, but at the same time don't get as lonely. It's a nice balance that I like. Once they get in a serious relationship though, that declines since their relationship will dominate.

Of course with a partner, you lose some space, privacy and freedom but gain closer companionship.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah I think that would work. You 40 and the girl 30. Ten year age difference at those ages is doable.

And you are in a much better position than Spade because you have more money and you donโ€™t already have a first family taking up your time and money. So I think at 40 youโ€™d have pretty good options with 30 year old girls ready to get married.

Still think youโ€™d have to leave Cali and maybe look in Southern states or at least get tinder and set it to Southern states to talk to some girls there. I donโ€™t think you ever did.
Current gf will be 28 when I'm 40, so if we stay together that age gap is fine.

I plan to leave CA, have started looking around. I'm targeting mid-2021 to make a move.
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Best living situation was when I lived alone in an apartment, also was in the best shape of my life training at home alone then.

Worst was when I rented a room in a boarding house with strangers.
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Originally Posted By johnvee73⏩
Best living situation was when I lived alone in an apartment, also was in the best shape of my life training at home alone then.
What age were you? I lived alone in a nice 1-bed apartment when I was 26. It was great, but nowadays (mid 30s) I think I'd get lonely since my personality changed.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
What age were you? I lived alone in a nice 1-bed apartment when I was 26. It was great, but nowadays I think I'd get lonely since my personality changed.
excuse my avi, havent been on here in awhile.

I was about 26 or 27 when I lived alone, its been recent years I boarded at boarding houses.
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Agreed OP. Espcially if you have a nice pad in the city. Mid 20s. Go out together etc. Goat lifestyle. I dont mind living alone tho thats also a good time (srs) i like privacy.
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