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Thread: Dad tries to kick out son at 18, ends up losing family

post 1615785691 09-06-2020, 10:41 PM
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Originally Posted By randombrah102⏩
All I did was pointed out a fact that a kid who gets millions from his parents will have an incredible advantage over the rest of the population and will be able to stay in the top 1%. In American culture (right wing culture to be more exact) rich parents giving their kids money is seen as totally normal, and then that same culture encourages middle class and lower class parents to kick their kids out when they turn 18.

Now please explain how making that observation is making an excuse for people and my own lot in life (and the funny thing is you have no idea what lot in life I fall under and from which class I come from, I think if you did my posts would rustle you a lot harder than they already do lmfao)
If you're not doing anything with your life, then you should perhaps be kicked out. Or at least threatened with being kicked out.

Unfortunately a ton of people have no business having children, especially if they can't take care of themselves. You're just causing them to become a burden on society.
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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
I wonder how the father in OP would pay for their kid's college...

If the kid wasn't going to college?

Seriously, I am starting to question the reading comprehension of a lot of people in this thread.
I was not addressing the story in the OP.
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id kid my wife out too if she tried to kick my son out at 18. Family comes first
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Originally Posted By KhumatMibra⏩
will never understand the idea of kicking your kid out the house just because they turn 18, this seems to be a common thing american families


what a failure of a father
And probably the same Americans complaining about the death of family values. Fukin lol.

Anyways, it's on reddit, so it's probably fake. But a lot of these guys kicking out their kids at 18 are the same ones who get stuffed in nursing homes and complain that their kids don't visit them.
post 1615786531 09-06-2020, 10:54 PM
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Originally Posted By Dave22reborn⏩
I work with tons of people who joined the military and moved out when they were 17 years old, after the military they became CPD, and some of them bought a house 2 years after joining the department.

But let's listen to people like hou instead.....
the military is not exactly 100% self sufficiency since the government is footing the bill for most of your room and board. Also, many people aren't cut for the military especially if they have some genetic defect that disqualifies them like bad eye sight (air force)/fallen arches/congenital heart defect (Marines) etc. What are they suppose to do?
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moving out at 18 is boomer privilege where they can get a job at the yard down the road, rent for 10 years then pay for a house in full, cash on hand by the end of that.

who wants to stay with their folks at 18? You can bring home a girl and fuk her all over the house, she can scream till the windows shatter, and the only ones who'll say anything are the neighbours. Sleep at 2am, wake up at 12, leave dishes undone, live like a king.

Boomer parents who've done that think that today's 18 year olds can go to a local business down the road, hop over the fence, and be able to afford a full house cash money in 10 years. They want their children to "spread their wings" like they did, but they're fukking disconnected from reality. Ivy league can barely get you a crackhouse rental with 6 other housemates, 20 miles from your workplace, much less a chit 18 year old with nothing.
post 1615786841 09-06-2020, 10:59 PM
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Originally Posted By Dave22reborn⏩
26???? ****s sake man......
Its not just white people, its American whites. You go to somewhere like France or Italy or Norway or India and the sons stay at home until they're in their 30's. The only kids that leave are the daughters who move in with their bf/husbands who are more often that not still living under their paternal household roof.
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Originally Posted By Maestro⏩
the military is not exactly 100% self sufficiency since the government is footing the bill for most of your room and board. Also, many people aren't cut for the military especially if they have some genetic defect that disqualifies them like bad eye sight (air force)/fallen arches/congenital heart defect (Marines) etc. What are they suppose to do?
So the bad eye sight will disqualify them from the air force, there's numerous other branches they can join.

What I'm saying is that its admirable how some people have their **** together at a young age. And then there are those who live at mommy and daddy's house till their 30 years old.....and whats even sadder is that people like you make excuses for them.
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Originally Posted By Dave22reborn⏩
I was pretty much told that if you're not going to college at 18, then you're paying us rent. It was like that for a ton of people growing up. Key word.......growing up.
and thats fine.

However, in the OP's story the kid was on the verge of being kicked out with not even a chance to pay rent as compensation for living at home as an adult.
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Originally Posted By Maestro⏩
Its not just white people, its American whites. You go to somewhere like France or Italy or Norway or India and the sons stay at home until they're in their 30's. The only kids that leave are the daughters who move in with their bf/husbands who are more often that not still living in their paternal household roof.
Sounds beyond pathetic. No wonder you encourage it.

We're creating a generation of man-children with this kind of attitude.
post 1615787201 09-06-2020, 11:04 PM
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Originally Posted By KBurn⏩
moving out at 18 is boomer privilege where they can get a job at the yard down the road, rent for 10 years then pay for a house in full, cash on hand by the end of that.

who wants to stay with their folks at 18? You can bring home a girl and fuk her all over the house, she can scream till the windows shatter, and the only ones who'll say anything are the neighbours. Sleep at 2am, wake up at 12, leave dishes undone, live like a king.

Boomer parents who've done that think that today's 18 year olds can go to a local business down the road, hop over the fence, and be able to afford a full house cash money in 10 years. They want their children to "spread their wings" like they did, but they're fukking disconnected from reality. Ivy league can barely get you a crackhouse rental with 6 other housemates, 20 miles from your workplace, much less a chit 18 year old with nothing.
LMAO thank. you.
post 1615787341 09-06-2020, 11:06 PM
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Originally Posted By Dave22reborn⏩
So the bad eye sight will disqualify them from the air force, there's numerous other branches they can join.

What I'm saying is that its admirable how some people have their **** together at a young age. And then there are those who live at mommy and daddy's house till their 30 years old.....and whats even sadder is that people like you make excuses for them.
Living at home past 30 is great, my parents like it I like it, i can do whatever go out when i please bring my gf well ex over etc... I help out around the house they help me with things its pretty nice.
post 1615787381 09-06-2020, 11:07 PM
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Originally Posted By KBurn⏩
moving out at 18 is boomer privilege where they can get a job at the yard down the road, rent for 10 years then pay for a house in full, cash on hand by the end of that.

who wants to stay with their folks at 18? You can bring home a girl and fuk her all over the house, she can scream till the windows shatter, and the only ones who'll say anything are the neighbours. Sleep at 2am, wake up at 12, leave dishes undone, live like a king.

Boomer parents who've done that think that today's 18 year olds can go to a local business down the road, hop over the fence, and be able to afford a full house cash money in 10 years. They want their children to "spread their wings" like they did, but they're fukking disconnected from reality. Ivy league can barely get you a crackhouse rental with 6 other housemates, 20 miles from your workplace, much less a chit 18 year old with nothing.
When in doubt make excuses why you can't do something......
post 1615787421 09-06-2020, 11:08 PM
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Originally Posted By Dave22reborn⏩
Sounds beyond pathetic. No wonder you encourage it.

We're creating a generation of man-children with this kind of attitude.
No. The greatest generation did it, the silent generation did it. These are the men who stormed Normandy, and you're calling them man children?

The only generation who did the move out at 18 were the boomers, because they could hop a fence and earn a wage large enough to support an entire family, plus save for a house in 10 years. They were the generation of plenty and priviledge.

You think people were fukking moving out at 18 during the great fukking depression? Fukking grapes of wrath had 4 generations "living" under one household.
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Originally Posted By Dave22reborn⏩
Sounds beyond pathetic. No wonder you encourage it.

We're creating a generation of man-children with this kind of attitude.
no, because its been like that in those countries for hundreds of years. The kids stay at home and help take care of the household chores and take care of the parents into their elderly years, and when the parents pass away the kids take ownership of the house, and the cycle repeats.

Thats how you develop tiny quiet villages where generations of a family have been living under one roof for 200+ years.

Its a very American idea for every single person to have their own individual house or for every person to have their own individual car.
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Originally Posted By havoc00⏩
Living at home past 30 is great, my parents like it I like it, i can do whatever go out when i please bring my gf well ex over etc... I help out around the house they help me with things its pretty nice.
I hope you're trolling.....
post 1615787691 09-06-2020, 11:13 PM
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Originally Posted By Dave22reborn⏩
When in doubt make excuses why you can't do something......
I rented from 21 to 32, till I owned my own fukking $1m house in Melbourne Australia, just LMAO @ not being able to see any other perspective other than your own. Are you even a homeowner or a rentcel?

It was hard as fuk saving for a house, only dual high paying managerial incomes managed to do it. The regular professional folks could only do it because they stayed with their folks till 30, and even those who bought houses rented it out and stayed with their folks. That's how you get people earning half of what we earn being able to pay down 80% of their mortgage by 35. Having bogan chit parents that kick you out @ 18 is the absolute last thing you need to get ahead in life. Even the worst bogans don't do it, only the pure psychopaths do it.

Moving out at 18 makes you a slave to the banks. The landlord is just the middleman. Anyone who move out voluntarily or thinks its a good idea at 18 is an utter cuckold of the highest order.
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Originally Posted By Dave22reborn⏩
I hope you're trolling.....
nope
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Originally Posted By Maestro⏩
no, because its been like that in those countries for hundreds of years. The kids stay at home and help take care of the household chores and take care of the parents into their elderly years, and when the parents pass away the kids take ownership of the house, and the cycle repeats.

Thats how you develop tiny quiet villages where generations of a family have been living under one roof for 200+ years.

Its a very American idea for every single person to have their own individual house or for every person to have their own individual car.
Its kind of important for people to leave the nest.

And whats wrong with owning your own car? ****, I owned my first car when I was 16 years old.
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Originally Posted By Dave22reborn⏩
Its kind of important for people to leave the nest.

And whats wrong with owning your own car? ****, I owned my first car when I was 16 years old.
sounds like u had a bad relationship with ur parents dunno
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that degenerate whore sounds like she wants to phuck her son.
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Originally Posted By havoc00⏩
sounds like u had a bad relationship with ur parents dunno
I liked telling a girl, "Want to come back to my place?" Vs. "Want to come back to my parent's place?"
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Happy that im greek, me and all my cousins moved out at 28-32 lots of help from parents as well. Every single one of them is a millionaire, i will try and do the same for my kids.
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Originally Posted By Dave22reborn⏩
I liked telling a girl, "Want to come back to my place?" Vs. "Want to come back to my parent's place?"
And my ex lived with her parents too, and yet your are posting on the misc at almost 2am on a holiday weekend where is your amazing social life? Most people live at home now

https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tan...at-depression/
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Sounds like 90% of people ITT are still living w/ their parents.
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Originally Posted By TrickHenry⏩
that degenerate whore sounds like she wants to phuck her son.
If the son isn't working, who's gonna pay the bills?
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Originally Posted By havoc00⏩
And my ex lived with her parents too, and yet your are posting on the misc at almost 2am on a holiday weekend where is your amazing social life? Most people live at home now

https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tan...at-depression/
I'm CPD working a 12hr shift, days off canceled, we're done with the BBQ, and just chilling right now.
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Originally Posted By apo99⏩
Happy that im greek, me and all my cousins moved out at 28-32 lots of help from parents as well. Every single one of them is a millionaire, i will try and do the same for my kids.
32 years old???
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Originally Posted By Dave22reborn⏩
I'm CPD working a 12hr shift, we're done with the BBQ, and just chilling right now.
enjoy ur de funding and working for beetle juice goals. But but you have your own place lmao
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