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post 1615827211 09-07-2020, 12:36 PM
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress
Did I say he did?
I definitely made mistakes. I was just young and stupid. My parents tended to let me learn from my mistakes. Which in this case too big of a decision for a 20 yo.

I lasted 17 years in **** show! I wish they would have told me that I was making a mistake.

I remember telling my mother that I was getting a divorce, she said ‘Congratulations!’. I thought she was going to give me the riot act. She said she always knew that I wasn’t happy. I had no idea.
post 1615827281 09-07-2020, 12:37 PM
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A lot of people don't understand the value proposition of Marriage.

Anything less than total mutual exclusive "ownership" of another willing individual is not worth it to men.

We just plain don't want it that way. As much as we joke about pussy and that that's all we care about, actually the pussy and the dick are both worthless. Only love and the emotional high has value.

The madness of omg I own this wonderful creature (and they own me) and its forever. That insanity is what it takes to get fully high off the life and love of it.

So vapid women that want to be your "partner" are just selling themselves and the whole idea of love short. Nobody wants a stank ass pussy around just for the fuk of it.

Excuse my harshness.
post 1615829621 09-07-2020, 12:58 PM
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Men wouldn’t have a problem with it if it was a flat fee that went to the lawyer.

It’s the idea of giving your ex an allowance while she has no obligation to you whatsoever. It’s the lowest form of sugar daddy ever. Basically they can spend your money however they please, **** whoever they want, and it’s all because at one point you were in love with each other (maybe).

It’s horse****. It’s a business and has everything to do with status and very little to do with love.
post 1615829991 09-07-2020, 01:02 PM
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress
If your a "men and women are equal" sort of guy I get it, but for guys who want a traditional wife, someone taking care of you and the home is extremely valuable. Some things you can't put a price on, and in the case of Bezos, his wife helped him at home and the business itself. They remain amicable to this day. Why are you more upset about it than Jeff is?
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post 1615830241 09-07-2020, 01:04 PM
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Originally Posted By GlassMoon
the loss of money is more terrifying on the principle of having to pay for some lazy sloot to sit on her arse. its the wealth resdistribution, not the wealth loss
No one is forced to sign a legal contract with someone who plans to stay at home.

Marry someone who works with a career
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post 1615830791 09-07-2020, 01:11 PM
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I divorced my wife and i kept the house. Not sure why any court would award an unemployed woman a house in a divorce. It cost me about $16,000 total.
post 1615831621 09-07-2020, 01:19 PM
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Originally Posted By gtrzrus
I had never lived with her until after we were married. We married early due to a pregnancy. I honestly knew it was never going to work on the day after we were married. She was just nasty.

For instance, she would not bathe unless she planned on sex. I had already started pulling back on sex to like once a month because I found her so disgusting. She would bathe only then. The rest of the time she smelled like pure azz.

Her mother died right before we were married and it really caused some issues mentally. That’s when the hoarding started.

I stayed with her because we had a daughter who I loved dearly. My parents were still married. I was brought up that you stick together through it all. So that what I did, but I had depression and was on meds because of it.

Even after she cucked me, I fought to stay with her because of the kids. We had three by that time. I literally told myself that I would sacrifice my life for my kids.

Those first few months were hopeless after the divorce, but I felt that I had to keep it together for the kids.

I had ballooned up to 240 lbs trying to comfort myself with food, but after the divorce I started working out. I lost 70lbs. My life changed for the better after that. I’ve been great mentally since then.

I did remarry which I thought I would never do, but it is drastically different this time. We are best friends and do not have an ounce of hate towards her.
Holy chit man. That's a legit horror story. Glad you ended up happy though. Was it a fling you knocked up? How are things with the kids now?
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post 1615832071 09-07-2020, 01:23 PM
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress
If your a "men and women are equal" sort of guy I get it, but for guys who want a traditional wife, someone taking care of you and the home is extremely valuable. Some things you can't put a price on, and in the case of Bezos, his wife helped him at home and the business itself. They remain amicable to this day. Why are you more upset about it than Jeff is?
Pretty much. You should pick one who treats taking care of the household as a job. I'm in a high level technical job, in MBA school full time, still have hobbies and have a 1 year old. No way I could manage that without a quality partner who picks up stuff on the home front so I can spend 100% of my free time relaxing with the family.

If she keeps putting 100% into housewifing and we divorce in 20 years I have no problem giving her half the family assets as they were earned via 2 person effort.

Of course I don't have expensive tastes and don't feel that money is overly important to my happiness, I'm only professionally successful because I need goals and complex problems to solve to feel satisfied. Many likely don't feel that way.
post 1615832221 09-07-2020, 01:26 PM
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Lol, if my wife threatened me with divorce I'd ask her to get the pen hot. I mean, I love my wife and plan on being married to her forever, but if she threatens me with divorce, well, bye.
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Originally Posted By soaponarope1
Pretty much. You should pick one who treats taking care of the household as a job. I'm in a high level technical job, in MBA school full time, still have hobbies and have a 1 year old. No way I could manage that without a quality partner who picks up stuff on the home front so I can spend 100% of my free time relaxing with the family.

If she keeps putting 100% into housewifing and we divorce in 20 years I have no problem giving her half the family assets as they were earned via 2 person effort.

Of course I don't have expensive tastes and don't feel that money is overly important to my happiness, I'm only professionally successful because I need goals and complex problems to solve to feel satisfied. Many likely don't feel that way.
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post 1615832961 09-07-2020, 01:34 PM
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Lol at married tards saying COPE when miscers call these losers out for getting married.

If you haven't realized it's a terrible idea in 2020, you are a literal degenerate.
post 1615834421 09-07-2020, 01:50 PM
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A good amount of cope (can't get a wifey) and confirmation bias (focus on the worst case divorces) would be my call.
Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
I think they’re scared of their own ability to sustain a relationship or the interest and love of another person

It stems from self loathing I reckon
Seems like a reasonable thing to be anxious about though. Never mind the self-esteem one way or another.
Originally Posted By soaponarope1
Pretty much. You should pick one who treats taking care of the household as a job. I'm in a high level technical job, in MBA school full time, still have hobbies and have a 1 year old. No way I could manage that without a quality partner who picks up stuff on the home front so I can spend 100% of my free time relaxing with the family.

If she keeps putting 100% into housewifing and we divorce in 20 years I have no problem giving her half the family assets as they were earned via 2 person effort.

Of course I don't have expensive tastes and don't feel that money is overly important to my happiness, I'm only professionally successful because I need goals and complex problems to solve to feel satisfied. Many likely don't feel that way.
Hey, an actual traditionalist.

Laws vary by state but generally are not as slanted toward women as miscers claim. Used to be more in women's favor than it is now. In some states there is no alimony at all. In most others alimony is for a limited time period based off the length of the marriage. Last I read only 7 states even have the option still for permanent alimony.
Indeed, today’s mothers are the primary breadwinners in four out of 10 U.S. families, according to Pew Research. And though only 3% of the roughly 400,000 alimony recipients in 2010 were male, per Census data, the trend of spousal support awards from women to men is “definitely on the rise” as women’s earnings continue to increase, New York divorce lawyer James Sexton told Moneyish.

Women have been responsible for paying spousal support since 1979, when the U.S. Supreme Court ruled in a landmark decision that alimony should be gender-neutral. Many states over the years have shifted away from permanent spousal support -- lifelong payments until death or the spouse’s remarriage -- to alleviate the payer’s burden and catch up with the modern marriage.
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post 1615836181 09-07-2020, 02:09 PM
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why cant women understand we just plain dont like them THAT much. Its mostly primal urges that are temporary. But they swear its us that are the problem and not them. Despite the fact that they have betrayed their gender and the human race by not playing gender roles and become ugly man-wannabes.

If you act like a dude and want to be the same as a dude, then that would make us gay for liking another person who acts like a man.

Its never cool for a woman to act like a dude. Your value goes to near zero. Femininity is a valuable asset. If you dont have that you are nothing. A man essentially, less than a man.

If i was into dudes i would get a quality masculine gay man. But since im into feminity and subservience, if you want to be equal then you are no longer valuable. Youre just taking up space in an already overpopulated place.

BRB we hardly have jobs but now women want to double the ammount of jobs we need because they all want their own job, apartment, and to be left alone to live in a lonely cell (metaphorically speaking) like a commie.
post 1615840901 09-07-2020, 03:08 PM
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress
Holy chit man. That's a legit horror story. Glad you ended up happy though. Was it a fling you knocked up? How are things with the kids now?
Yeah, I was just fuking her raw dog and slipped up. She thought it was more than it was (don’t they all), but I was still a free agent in my mind.

My oldest followed in her mother’s footsteps and got married early. I begged her not too, but her mother told her to do what makes her happy. I lost that one. She has two kids now with a loser who has no motivation to do better than the minimum. What can you do?

My other two are in College and doing well. My son, my youngest at 18, avoids any type of relationship at all cost. I’ve taught him well!
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Originally Posted By KingSWRV
why cant women understand we just plain dont like them THAT much. Its mostly primal urges that are temporary. But they swear its us that are the problem and not them. Despite the fact that they have betrayed their gender and the human race by not playing gender roles and become ugly man-wannabes.

If you act like a dude and want to be the same as a dude, then that would make us gay for liking another person who acts like a man.

Its never cool for a woman to act like a dude. Your value goes to near zero. Femininity is a valuable asset. If you dont have that you are nothing. A man essentially, less than a man.

If i was into dudes i would get a quality masculine gay man. But since im into feminity and subservience, if you want to be equal then you are no longer valuable. Youre just taking up space in an already overpopulated place.

BRB we hardly have jobs but now women want to double the ammount of jobs we need because they all want their own job, apartment, and to be left alone to live in a lonely cell (metaphorically speaking) like a commie.
What you mean "you" don't like "us" that much. A lot of us have marriages that have lasted for decades.

There are a lot of men that like their wives a lot. The couples spend all the time together doing everything together. It's going through life with a partner.

When you get sick, they take care of you. When something good happens, they rejoice with you. It's life, connection, history, meaning, friendship and loveship and pretty much everything.
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Originally Posted By gtrzrus
Yeah, I was just fuking her raw dog and slipped up. She thought it was more than it was (don’t they all), but I was still a free agent in my mind.

My oldest followed in her mother’s footsteps and got married early. I begged her not too, but her mother told her to do what makes her happy. I lost that one. She has two kids now with a loser who has no motivation to do better than the minimum. What can you do?

My other two are in College and doing well. My son, my youngest at 18, avoids any type of relationship at all cost. I’ve taught him well!
Taught him sloots gon sloot eh? lol
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Originally Posted By hendrixfreak70
Lol, if my wife threatened me with divorce I'd ask her to get the pen hot. I mean, I love my wife and plan on being married to her forever, but if she threatens me with divorce, well, bye.
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Originally Posted By GlassMoon
the loss of money is more terrifying on the principle of having to pay for some lazy sloot to sit on her arse. its the wealth resdistribution, not the wealth loss
This. Would move to Cambodia and disappear into the jungle before paying a backstabbing sloot to live in my house.
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A lot of miscers make bad choices with women. They're better off not marrying.
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It’s the cuck factor

Imagine paying for a house where your ex wife lives in with her new bf and smash her everynight while you are reduced to living in a shack
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(talking alimony without kids here; see better arguments for it with kids, but I don't want kids myself, so idgaf)

To some degree, it seems like alimony only "equalizes" things one way.

If you're the breadwinner and your spouse stays at home maintaining the home/whatever, you'll probably have to pay them money so they can maintain *their* lifestyle, but the court's not going to order them to
help maintain *your* lifestyle by having them clean your house or help out however (that would be a terrible arrangement ofc).

I get that the stay-at-home spouse has sacrificed professional development to help with the marriage and this may severely impact them in the workplace, but if only side is sacrificing things in the end,
it feels like the courts have implied the deal was uneven or the breadwinner had the better deal, which seems contrary to the original idea.
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress
Taught him sloots gon sloot eh? lol
Exactly! It just ain’t worth it to tie yourself down at a young age.
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