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09-10-2020, 09:53 AM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Probably has more to do with the vibe you give off.Apparently I have that DILF thing going for me, my exes friends were saying that. I don't think I look much older than 30 though.
That and mid-30s seems pretty old when you're 22.
09-10-2020, 11:10 AM
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I've been called Daddy and Papi before but never a DILF.
I would consider that kind of a back handed compliment as they're implying you're old af imo.
I would consider that kind of a back handed compliment as they're implying you're old af imo.
09-10-2020, 11:23 AM
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Originally Posted By brightbrah⏩
No, this was months ago and it was said in a positive way (she showed me some messages).Sounds like they're brainstorming anything that you might possibly take as an insult
Originally Posted By MediocreGains⏩
Right. I was "old af" compared to them. But I still look ~30.Probably has more to do with the vibe you give off.
That and mid-30s seems pretty old when you're 22.
That and mid-30s seems pretty old when you're 22.
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09-10-2020, 01:07 PM
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
Daddy and Papa.I've been called Daddy and Papi before but never a DILF.
I would consider that kind of a back handed compliment as they're implying you're old af imo.
I would consider that kind of a back handed compliment as they're implying you're old af imo.
but it was during sex.
does that count?
and yes, those chicks turned out to be unstable.
had some trailer trash 20yr old hit me up okcupid once.
was probably a dude.
I ignored the first few messages until "she" said I was a total DILF and she loves older men.
that she lives in my city and really wants to meet.
assumed it was a dude trolling for dink pics.
told "her" to send a spoon pick and link me her FB profile.
didn't hear from "her" again. LOL!
09-10-2020, 01:36 PM
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Originally Posted By NitrogenWidget⏩
Yeah probably a gay dude.Daddy and Papa.
but it was during sex.
does that count?
and yes, those chicks turned out to be unstable.
had some trailer trash 20yr old hit me up okcupid once.
was probably a dude.
I ignored the first few messages until "she" said I was a total DILF and she loves older men.
that she lives in my city and really wants to meet.
assumed it was a dude trolling for dink pics.
told "her" to send a spoon pick and link me her FB profile.
didn't hear from "her" again. LOL!
but it was during sex.
does that count?
and yes, those chicks turned out to be unstable.
had some trailer trash 20yr old hit me up okcupid once.
was probably a dude.
I ignored the first few messages until "she" said I was a total DILF and she loves older men.
that she lives in my city and really wants to meet.
assumed it was a dude trolling for dink pics.
told "her" to send a spoon pick and link me her FB profile.
didn't hear from "her" again. LOL!
09-10-2020, 11:05 PM
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Originally Posted By MediocreGains⏩
Not for Spade. He gets 19 year old girls at 42.Probably has more to do with the vibe you give off.
That and mid-30s seems pretty old when you're 22.
That and mid-30s seems pretty old when you're 22.
I wonder what is happening with the latest one who is in her 30s.
09-10-2020, 11:58 PM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
Hmmm ye but he’s still viewed as a sugar daddy. And he plays the part too from what he described.Not for Spade. He gets 19 year old girls at 42.
I wonder what is happening with the latest one who is in her 30s.
I wonder what is happening with the latest one who is in her 30s.
I didn’t with mine, but it’s difficult to escape the evident age gap and sometimes I felt that dynamic. It’s probably fine once they hit late 20s.
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09-11-2020, 12:02 AM
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it so hilarious how these schit apps ban you for no reason once and you can never get on again sucha joke hinge and tinder since hinge is now owned by tinder
09-11-2020, 07:38 AM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Has the reaper paid you a visit yet or have you been fortunate in that regard?Hmmm ye but he’s still viewed as a sugar daddy. And he plays the part too from what he described.
I didn’t with mine, but it’s difficult to escape the evident age gap and sometimes I felt that dynamic. It’s probably fine once they hit late 20s.
I didn’t with mine, but it’s difficult to escape the evident age gap and sometimes I felt that dynamic. It’s probably fine once they hit late 20s.
09-11-2020, 08:22 AM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
For some of them the age gap is part of the appeal.Not for Spade. He gets 19 year old girls at 42.
I wonder what is happening with the latest one who is in her 30s.
I wonder what is happening with the latest one who is in her 30s.
09-11-2020, 09:53 AM
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Originally Posted By brightbrah⏩
I'm good, only have a few gray hairs even.Has the reaper paid you a visit yet or have you been fortunate in that regard?
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09-11-2020, 10:11 AM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
He hasn't been around. Wonder if him and rich girl eloped. lolNot for Spade. He gets 19 year old girls at 42.
I wonder what is happening with the latest one who is in her 30s.
I wonder what is happening with the latest one who is in her 30s.
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09-11-2020, 10:21 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
I honestly think they suit one another. Both seem highly narcissistic.He hasn't been around. Wonder if him and rich girl eloped. lol
She's "down to earth" lmao
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09-11-2020, 10:23 AM
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Where's my girl Silence?
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09-11-2020, 10:33 AM
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09-11-2020, 10:39 AM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Yeah, I had to laugh at that too.I honestly think they suit one another. Both seem highly narcissistic.
She's "down to earth" lmao
She's "down to earth" lmao
Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
There was a big thread where a bunch of miscers were saying they'd seen her pics and she hasn't posted since.Where's my girl Silence?
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09-11-2020, 11:03 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
you mean He hasn't posted since.Yeah, I had to laugh at that too.
There was a big thread where a bunch of miscers were saying they'd seen her pics and she hasn't posted since.
There was a big thread where a bunch of miscers were saying they'd seen her pics and she hasn't posted since.

09-11-2020, 01:49 PM
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Originally Posted By NitrogenWidget⏩
I honestly forgot all about SilenceSpeaks.....if he/she is gone, oh well.you mean He hasn't posted since.

Anyway very few dudes in their 40s can pull younger men judging by how beta and out of shape they are so I give Spade his props for doing that.
09-11-2020, 05:43 PM
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So saw grocery guy this morning. He texted me this morning for the first time all week. Then I was off work and doing errands so decided to hit up the grocery store today instead of tomorrow. We talked for like 15-20 min and he was very very complimentary. Then when we were texting after, again very complimentary. Still no mention of seeing each other. lol
Met Tinder guy tonight. We met at a starbucks and just talked for about an hour or so. He's cute and nice and we had a good conversation but I just don't know. He's not FWB.
I'm so sad now. I wish I could eat my cookies tonight. :/
Met Tinder guy tonight. We met at a starbucks and just talked for about an hour or so. He's cute and nice and we had a good conversation but I just don't know. He's not FWB.
I'm so sad now. I wish I could eat my cookies tonight. :/~ In a world where you can be anything, be kind ~
09-11-2020, 06:44 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Does grocery store guy seem generally low confidence and clueless about women/dating?So saw grocery guy this morning. He texted me this morning for the first time all week. Then I was off work and doing errands so decided to hit up the grocery store today instead of tomorrow. We talked for like 15-20 min and he was very very complimentary. Then when we were texting after, again very complimentary. Still no mention of seeing each other. lol
Met Tinder guy tonight. We met at a starbucks and just talked for about an hour or so. He's cute and nice and we had a good conversation but I just don't know. He's not FWB.
I'm so sad now. I wish I could eat my cookies tonight. :/
Met Tinder guy tonight. We met at a starbucks and just talked for about an hour or so. He's cute and nice and we had a good conversation but I just don't know. He's not FWB.
I'm so sad now. I wish I could eat my cookies tonight. :/𝕮𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖈𝖍𝖊𝖈𝕶, 𝖓𝖊𝖛𝖊𝖗 𝖈𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖇𝖎𝖙𝖈𝖍
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09-11-2020, 06:55 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
I wouldn’t even respond to grocery guy mama legz.. he only contacts you when he wants (imo). It honestly seems like you just need to take time off and heal from your FWBSo saw grocery guy this morning. He texted me this morning for the first time all week. Then I was off work and doing errands so decided to hit up the grocery store today instead of tomorrow. We talked for like 15-20 min and he was very very complimentary. Then when we were texting after, again very complimentary. Still no mention of seeing each other. lol
Met Tinder guy tonight. We met at a starbucks and just talked for about an hour or so. He's cute and nice and we had a good conversation but I just don't know. He's not FWB.
I'm so sad now. I wish I could eat my cookies tonight. :/
Met Tinder guy tonight. We met at a starbucks and just talked for about an hour or so. He's cute and nice and we had a good conversation but I just don't know. He's not FWB.
I'm so sad now. I wish I could eat my cookies tonight. :/
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Mama legz, **** grocery store guy. He sounds like he's old enough to know he's being difficult, regardless of how socially incompetent he could be.So saw grocery guy this morning. He texted me this morning for the first time all week. Then I was off work and doing errands so decided to hit up the grocery store today instead of tomorrow. We talked for like 15-20 min and he was very very complimentary. Then when we were texting after, again very complimentary. Still no mention of seeing each other. lol
Met Tinder guy tonight. We met at a starbucks and just talked for about an hour or so. He's cute and nice and we had a good conversation but I just don't know. He's not FWB.
I'm so sad now. I wish I could eat my cookies tonight. :/
Met Tinder guy tonight. We met at a starbucks and just talked for about an hour or so. He's cute and nice and we had a good conversation but I just don't know. He's not FWB.
I'm so sad now. I wish I could eat my cookies tonight. :/I'm sorry. I hope something works out for you.
09-12-2020, 07:38 AM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
He really comes off as clueless but I don't know. He could just be really good at that game, you know? I've decided I'm going to say something today. So he can either chit or get off the pot.Does grocery store guy seem generally low confidence and clueless about women/dating?
Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩
I just want to stop thinking about fwb. I don't think anyone is going to measure up, that's just something that I think I need to get used to. I think maybe it will be good to never feel that kind of chemistry again, that way it won't be so devastating to lose it.I wouldn’t even respond to grocery guy mama legz.. he only contacts you when he wants (imo). It honestly seems like you just need to take time off and heal from your FWB
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Sushi guy agreed to let me organize his apartment after our restaurant date tomorrow. Basically the definition of a bachelor pad...
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Thank you.Mama legz, **** grocery store guy. He sounds like he's old enough to know he's being difficult, regardless of how socially incompetent he could be.
I'm sorry. I hope something works out for you.
I'm sorry. I hope something works out for you.
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09-12-2020, 08:08 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Maybe he's a miscerHe really comes off as clueless but I don't know. He could just be really good at that game, you know? I've decided I'm going to say something today.
09-12-2020, 08:10 AM
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Originally Posted By brightbrah⏩
lol Doubtful but you never know.Maybe he's a miscer
ETA: The other good thing about meeting Tinder guy. I haven't met anyone new in years and was curious if I've still got it. Going by his reaction and the stuff he's saying, I definitely do.

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09-12-2020, 06:09 PM
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Anyone tried okcupid, and do you have any tips? Is it worth buying 1 month premium? Just made my profile and I’m just wondering how to maximize my use of this app. Apologies in advance if it’s already been discussed.
09-12-2020, 06:27 PM
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Originally Posted By InsanePain11⏩
I deleted mine, was trashy in my area.Anyone tried okcupid, and do you have any tips? Is it worth buying 1 month premium? Just made my profile and I’m just wondering how to maximize my use of this app. Apologies in advance if it’s already been discussed.
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Originally Posted By InsanePain11⏩
I have the app but never tried it, I'm usually on ******** Dating, Tinder, Bumble and Hinge.Anyone tried okcupid, and do you have any tips? Is it worth buying 1 month premium? Just made my profile and I’m just wondering how to maximize my use of this app. Apologies in advance if it’s already been discussed.
09-12-2020, 07:10 PM
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Originally Posted By InsanePain11⏩
I remember it being total chit even eight years ago. It can only be worse now with all the competition.Anyone tried okcupid, and do you have any tips? Is it worth buying 1 month premium? Just made my profile and I’m just wondering how to maximize my use of this app. Apologies in advance if it’s already been discussed.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
For sure brah. My expectations are pretty low for this but I figured I'd take a quick look.I deleted mine, was trashy in my area.
Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
Nice brah. Which one is your favorite? I know you prefer IRL approaches, but if you had to pick one that works best, which would it be?I have the app but never tried it, I'm usually on ******** Dating, Tinder, Bumble and Hinge.
Originally Posted By MediocreGains⏩
That's a good guestimate I'd say.I remember it being total chit even eight years ago. It can only be worse now with all the competition.
It's funny how these apps all try to suck you in to get you to buy premium. I have like 23 likes already in a couple hours, but I'm pretty positive they will be mostly unattractive, as judgemental as that may sound (they don't let you see who likes you without premium). With that said I'm STILL tempted to pay lol. I just want to see how they are. I'll probably fold and pay eventually and then I'll see them and be sadface.jpg haha.
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