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post 1616412481 09-13-2020, 01:42 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422
lol These. Every guy in this thread would be telling another guy in that situation to cheat.
Not true. I know you have to defend your team, but miscers are very anti cheating
Not in the AM
post 1616412591 09-13-2020, 01:44 PM
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I don't really blame the whore, tbh.
post 1616412861 09-13-2020, 01:47 PM
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Originally Posted By Evlve
Women’s “loyalty” is tied to mans ability to protect (a dangerous man), provide (a successful/ambitious/creative/handy man), and assert his will over nature, people (a confident, well spoken, socially savvy man).

Most settle for 1 or 2 of those characteristics. Few have all 3.

Lose all of those and the old survival instincts will drive them to run to find someone to replace them. That’s why marriages end when the guy loses his job.

People will find a more appropriate reason (in their mind) to spin it to their friends, fam, online community in order to justify their feelings. There isn’t much if any cultural backlash anymore so it becomes easy to create an echo chamber and feel justified.

Same thing happens with men btw just for different reasons
Came to say this. We're just apes in clothes, and if you're not providing her with upward social mobility, you are useless as a male. You don't get to step off the treadmill for any reason.

You don't even have to lose your job. One of my brahs quit his $$$ finance job that was eating his soul to be a college professor. Pay cut, but he was 100x happier. His wife of 15 years and 2 kids bailed 6 months later for his friend who owns a mortgage underwriting company.
post 1616413201 09-13-2020, 01:52 PM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
Came to say this. We're just apes in clothes, and if you're not providing her with upward social mobility, you are useless as a male. You don't get to step off the treadmill for any reason.

You don't even have to lose your job. One of my brahs quit his $$$ finance job that was eating his soul to be a college professor. Pay cut, but he was 100x happier. His wife of 15 years and 2 kids bailed 6 months later for his friend who owns a mortgage underwriting company.
we're apes in clothes as soon as we forget we can influence ourselves
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post 1616413451 09-13-2020, 01:55 PM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
Came to say this. We're just apes in clothes, and if you're not providing her with upward social mobility, you are useless as a male. You don't get to step off the treadmill for any reason.

You don't even have to lose your job. One of my brahs quit his $$$ finance job that was eating his soul to be a college professor. Pay cut, but he was 100x happier. His wife of 15 years and 2 kids bailed 6 months later for his friend who owns a mortgage underwriting company.
thats a phuking brutal story man
post 1616413531 09-13-2020, 01:56 PM
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She's already made her decision. Just wants group approval at this point.
post 1616414001 09-13-2020, 02:02 PM
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Originally Posted By FuarkedUp
thats a phuking brutal story man
Yeah it was brutal. She was a part time physical therapist lol, but is now retired thanks her mid 7 figure divorce money plus new provider money. So for her, it was a hugely positive financial move to leave.
post 1616414381 09-13-2020, 02:05 PM
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I recently had this 50ish year old lady who is a fellow broker try to fuk me. She said her longtime boyfriend/husband is dying and said he doesn't really give a chit about her anymore.
post 1616414811 09-13-2020, 02:09 PM
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens
I recently had this 50ish year old lady who is a fellow broker try to fuk me. She said her longtime boyfriend/husband is dying and said he doesn't really give a chit about her anymore.
Sounds like a female miscer
post 1616415181 09-13-2020, 02:13 PM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
Sounds like a female miscer
Too young to be a female miscer
Not in the AM
post 1616415441 09-13-2020, 02:15 PM
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sloots gonna sloot, who wouldve thought?
See user title srs
post 1616415791 09-13-2020, 02:19 PM
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Men lie
Women lie

Men cheat
Women cheat


Men are scum
Women are scum


We all go to the lowest levels of degenmaxxing. There are shining moments of pure goodness.


Also if i was sick af like that and my women was saying shes not sexually satisfied or wanted me to do more. Whenever ur girl says something even close to along those lines its game over already. I would just tell her she can leave.


I tell all my girls, i have an open door policy. U wanna go, then fkin go. I dont need u.
post 1616416851 09-13-2020, 02:30 PM
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Originally Posted By bea5twood
She quietly whispered "offer valid only 20 years" when saying her vows.
20 years? lol
post 1616417301 09-13-2020, 02:34 PM
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Originally Posted By rectifryer
we're apes in clothes as soon as we forget we can influence ourselves
Women make decisions far more based on raw emotion (which is influenced by their subconscious). That's actual science.
post 1616418701 09-13-2020, 02:46 PM
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens
I recently had this 50ish year old lady who is a fellow broker try to fuk me. She said her longtime boyfriend/husband is dying and said he doesn't really give a chit about her anymore.
could be she's a koont and he figures death is a release from pretending to like her anymore

could be she's just lying to make you feel better about rawdogging, bruh might not even be dying
Nah, fukk that. I’m not doing that.
post 1616422951 09-13-2020, 03:30 PM
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Are there men who think they can be low energy, unemployed, and impotent for years on end and not get cucked? lol. You're not even seen as a man anymore at that point. There has never been a point in time where a man could get away with that.
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post 1616423621 09-13-2020, 03:37 PM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
Yeah it was brutal. She was a part time physical therapist lol, but is now retired thanks her mid 7 figure divorce money plus new provider money. So for her, it was a hugely positive financial move to leave.
Phuk marriage if youre a richcel in this day and age
post 1616426131 09-13-2020, 04:01 PM
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Originally Posted By ScottTil
lol you sound naive dude. Everyone can fall out of love. There is no one true love.
This woman may have loved her husband in the past but now that he is sick and dying there is no attraction anymore. Same way you wouldn't be sexually attracted to a sick and dying woman. Being sick is literally the antithesis of being attractive sexually. It's just the way it is.
She may love him as a husband and based on their shared past but no longer finds him a sexual option.
To be honest it's a tough spot to be in because this is the time when he needs her the most and she knows it. Leaving a sick husband of wife is generally seen by society as a total scumbag move and for good reason.
There are 3 options:
1)suffer in a sexless marriage. This may lead to her resenting him in the long run
2)Take care of him and **** other people
3)Divorce him and have everyone she knows hate her.

None of these options are great. That's life son.
Scott telling the truth.

Unfortunately that's life son.

I know a family in a similar situation. Family with two daughters. Father was a Latino immigrant who served in Vietnam, suffered from depression and onset of dementia unrelated to the war. Wife left him for another man when he was 45. Didn't even tell or invite the daughters to the wedding. Eldest daughter wouldn't talk to the mother anymore. Eventually the wife decides to take in the ex-husband and take care of him. Eldest daughter is still unhappy but now things are working. New husband takes care of, actually bathes and wipes the ass of ex-husband. Ex husband sleeps in a separate room while his ex-wife gets fuked.

I can't imagine how else it would have worked. They can't afford a nurse on site all the time. Paying a nanny would be difficult. Ex-wife would not have been able to financially support and be on-site to take care of ex-husband. She tried option #3 but ended up in option #2.


That's life son.
When Trump faces a reality she can't stand, she becomes highly emotional and illogical. Every crisis is met by histrionics, tantrums and an inability to deal with facts. "Its a HOAX! Its a FRAUD!"

The emotion then becomes the reality. Those of us with girlfriends are familiar with this phenomena. Donald Trump menstruating 24/7: "Blood coming out of his eyes, blood coming out of his WHEREVER."
post 1616426601 09-13-2020, 04:07 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
Yet you will justify men straying for no sex in a couple of months or cos they fancy a different hole

Double up these standards, place your bets
Originally Posted By Legz422
lol These. Every guy in this thread would be telling another guy in that situation to cheat.
No and no. Cheating on a sick wife would be far from what I, and a lot of other miscers, would do, or recommend.
post 1616426991 09-13-2020, 04:10 PM
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[QUOTE=LoLBrah69 post_id=1616426131]New husband takes care of, actually bathes and wipes the ass of ex-husband. Ex husband sleeps in a separate room while his ex-wife gets fuked.[/B][/QUOTE]I would suck start a shotgun before signing up for either of those situations.
post 1616431941 09-13-2020, 05:01 PM
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Originally Posted By rectifryer
we're apes in clothes as soon as we forget we can influence ourselves
This


Brb going to the moon
Brb abstaining from food in order to cut weight
Brb holding a sniper position for days on end to hit a terrorist



But we are just "apes". That **** is so played out. We make a thousand choices a day that prove we arent just apes. Its the ideology of the lazy and weak willed. Basically a cop out for people who choose to do the wrong thing.


This is a **** woman. Granted maybe he isnt trying. Thats a seperate issue from the fact that this probably nearly 50 year old woman thinks she needs to go out with her girlfriends all the time.
post 1616432271 09-13-2020, 05:04 PM
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Originally Posted By ScottTil
bro... let's be serious. If you were a man in your prime and your wife was on chemo or some chit and became a total sexless ghoul on the verge of death and you had cuties hitting you up youd think about cheating too.
No, no I wouldn’t
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post 1616432571 09-13-2020, 05:07 PM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
Sounds like a female miscer
Yeah, actually this lady could be a female miscer. She's actually good looking for her age and cool, I'd for sure enjoy fuking her.
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Originally Posted By Mercworx
This

Brb going to the moon
Brb abstaining from food in order to cut weight
Brb holding a sniper position for days on end to hit a terrorist

But we are just "apes". That **** is so played out. We make a thousand choices a day that prove we arent just apes. Its the ideology of the lazy and weak willed. Basically a cop out for people who choose to do the wrong thing.


This is a **** woman. Granted maybe he isnt trying. Thats a seperate issue from the fact that this probably nearly 50 year old woman thinks she needs to go out with her girlfriends all the time.
- Nerds have to TRAVELMAXX and CAREERMAXX to get pussy. The only reason we ever went to the moon was to SPACEMOGG the russians. Chads don't bother with that chit.
- We abstain from food to cut weight in order to improve our physiques and SMASH more poon.
- We are willing to do almost anything to win a battle (even against 3rd world peasants on behalf of our corporate masters) and MOGG other men. Guess why?


We relatively hairless apes who learned how to walk upright. Das it, mane. There is no human behavior not at least tangentially related to smashing.
post 1616433151 09-13-2020, 05:15 PM
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Originally Posted By ANumber1
could be she's a koont and he figures death is a release from pretending to like her anymore

could be she's just lying to make you feel better about rawdogging, bruh might not even be dying
Lol, she doesn't strike me as the koonty type, but she has been divorced like 3 times so I'm sure there's something weird behind the scenes. The funny thing is I actually made out with her 20 year old daughter once while wasted last year which was hilarious.
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Dick her down or someone else will
post 1616434881 09-13-2020, 05:30 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422
lol These. Every guy in this thread would be telling another guy in that situation to cheat.
remember that the Misc has been overrun by semi-employed incels who use being "right-wing traditional" as a cover for sucking at life, so they probably wouldn't, on average, cheat in that situation anymore, but would also never succeed in wifing anyone up in the first place
Originally Posted By OliverHeldens
Lol, she doesn't strike me as the koonty type, but she has been divorced like 3 times so I'm sure there's something weird behind the scenes. The funny thing is I actually made out with her 20 year old daughter once while wasted last year which was hilarious.
you know now what you must do

mother-daughter threesome is the move
Nah, fukk that. I’m not doing that.
post 1616435441 09-13-2020, 05:37 PM
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if shes typing all that and thought about it. shes going to do it. 100%. id bet my house on it

and shes trying to excuse her behavior for saying 'he wouldnt even care, i bet" lol

reminds me when im at the bar and my friends and i will see who can get a number first. so we even talk to ugly girls. and i bet shes ugly and she had someone doing something like that and she felt hot. how much yall wanna bet shes fat? and not getting hit on either
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