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post 1617513881 09-24-2020, 07:13 PM
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The Fatal Flaw of Charismaxxing

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post 1617515181 09-24-2020, 07:26 PM
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post 1617515271 09-24-2020, 07:27 PM
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It's not the charisma that's the problem. Nor is it turning it off for a moment. You are allowed to have various different modes.
Sometimes you can't avoid a fight, but as long as you are fair, and love her even during a fight it should be fine. Don't be too negative to yourself about raging. You are showing her that you know what anger is (empathy if she needs to be angry sometimes too), and that that's okay to be yourself. That means she can be herself too.
Now go have makeup sex, she's waiting for you to turn it back on again.
post 1617515391 09-24-2020, 07:28 PM
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Make a pros and cons of Jestermaxxxing video
post 1617516101 09-24-2020, 07:37 PM
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Originally Posted By havoc00⏩
Make a pros and cons of Jestermaxxxing video
He just did. Not sure why he's referring to jestermaxxing as charismaxxing
post 1617516131 09-24-2020, 07:37 PM
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Not really a charismamaxxer, but you make great points. I like to joke around a lot at work for example, and the days I keep to myself and am more focused on work and just not in a mood to talk as much, all the girls think I am mad or something is wrong with me. When in reality it's just me just being reserved or focusing because I want to.

Now I don't get that as much with women outside of work because they'll see that all the time with me when we are together a full day. But I can definitely see that being an issue if you're a charismamaxxer and turn off the jets for a bit.
post 1617516231 09-24-2020, 07:38 PM
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good point srs
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post 1617516361 09-24-2020, 07:41 PM
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If people have issues with you 'turning off' your charisma and thinks there's something wrong, they don't know you, and perhaps it's because you haven't allowed 'em too.

If you are being genuinely yourself, and the person is worth it, then maybe you could help them understand you. If not, then maybe you could help you understand you.
fukn Brozart
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post 1617516391 09-24-2020, 07:42 PM
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Yeah...

People say that to me too..
post 1617516511 09-24-2020, 07:43 PM
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its true. i fukked a girl on a night where i was charismaxxing and then next time i saw her she was like visibly bored cause i was just acting normal
post 1617516911 09-24-2020, 07:46 PM
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Originally Posted By FrankGrimes29⏩
Not really a charismamaxxer, but you make great points. I like to joke around a lot at work for example, and the days I keep to myself and am more focused on work and just not in a mood to talk as much, all the girls think I am mad or something is wrong with me. When in reality it's just me just being reserved or focusing because I want to.

Now I don't get that as much with women outside of work because they'll see that all the time with me when we are together a full day. But I can definitely see that being an issue if you're a charismamaxxer and turn off the jets for a bit.
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post 1617517031 09-24-2020, 07:48 PM
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post 1617517161 09-24-2020, 07:49 PM
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Just admit your a jestermaxxer dont try to rebrand it
post 1617518301 09-24-2020, 07:59 PM
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Originally Posted By Cogsworth⏩
Just admit your a jestermaxxer dont try to rebrand it
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post 1617519361 09-24-2020, 08:08 PM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
Some wise videos tonight brah. Srs.

I realized this around age 24-25. When I was with the boyos or friends I was just myself completely and could talk you ear off and crack jokes. But when I went out or was ever in public situations, I'd get reserved and fall back in the crowd. I never knew why. Mainly just created a shell like you said for some reason.

Now I don't give a fuk. It's way better. Just be yourself and realize maybe not everyone will like you, but usually it is a net positive. Plus they like you and know you...FOR YOU. Plus it is just a lot more fun. Life definitely is a lot more fun when you just go with the flow and be yourself.
post 1617522571 09-24-2020, 08:39 PM
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Basically let go of your ego and insecurity.
post 1617523781 09-24-2020, 08:50 PM
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You should start a misc podcast. Wood listen to.
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post 1617524431 09-24-2020, 08:57 PM
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A hit was sent, from the President, to raid your residence /
Because you had secret evidence, and documents /
On how they raped the continents, and it's the prominent /
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post 1617524601 09-24-2020, 08:59 PM
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Honestly you only have so much ammo, quippy responses, and comebacks to do when you're putting on the charisma. You can't go 100% with it. You have to show it here and there.

You're right to a degree.
Originally Posted By Brozart⏩
If people have issues with you 'turning off' your charisma and thinks there's something wrong, they don't know you, and perhaps it's because you haven't allowed 'em too.

If you are being genuinely yourself, and the person is worth it, then maybe you could help them understand you. If not, then maybe you could help you understand you.
Yeah my "game", which BTW I still do in a relationship, is still being charismatic, not putting all of my cards on the table, but allowing yourself to be vulnerable.

Ratfish didn't really go into the idea of 'charismaxxing/jestermaxxing' being seen as lacking depth to others so you HAVE to show another side of you that a woman finds endearing instead of always trying to be cool/confident contrary to what people think "Chad" is.
A hit was sent, from the President, to raid your residence /
Because you had secret evidence, and documents /
On how they raped the continents, and it's the prominent /
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post 1617525011 09-24-2020, 09:05 PM
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Originally Posted By Evolutionary1⏩
Basically let go of your ego and insecurity.
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post 1617525341 09-24-2020, 09:10 PM
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lol I remember getting in a fight with my ex because I didn't "perform" at some stupid social event of hers. Like they literally just eyeballed me and waited for me to entertain them and I wasn't having it that night.


So later on she said, "EVERYONEthought you were being really weird, not talking and just being quiet. It was really RUDE!"
post 1617525721 09-24-2020, 09:15 PM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
Women be nonsensemaxxing
post 1617526371 09-24-2020, 09:24 PM
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
Yeah...

People say that to me too..
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post 1617526741 09-24-2020, 09:29 PM
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"You're so quiet"

Me: you dont want to hear that thang talk
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
Yeah...

People say that to me too..
i want to spit in ur azzhole
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Trade charismamaxxing for Trumpmaxxing and you'll be set for life.

In on Ratfish thread.
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Originally Posted By havoc00⏩
i want to spit in ur azzhole
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Originally Posted By FrankGrimes29⏩
Some wise videos tonight brah. Srs.

I realized this around age 24-25. When I was with the boyos or friends I was just myself completely and could talk you ear off and crack jokes. But when I went out or was ever in public situations, I'd get reserved and fall back in the crowd. I never knew why. Mainly just created a shell like you said for some reason.
prob just a non autistic introvert, that is normal. I am the same way, one on one conversations or like three people conversations ect I can talk a lot but around strangers I am not going to be introducing myself talking to random people at the bars or large group conversations I just shut down and listen, if its like 6 people in a circle talking, it takes me a lot of mental energy to track when is the time to interject my thoughts, Id rather just sit back and listen to all of them. Especially with a large group even after giving your take or opinion, it will quickly move on to something else so not like you even get much of a response for all that energy spent vs with a one on one conversation.
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Originally Posted By elterrible987⏩
prob just a non autistic introvert, that is normal. I am the same way, one on one conversations or like three people conversations ect I can talk a lot but around strangers I am not going to be introducing myself talking to random people at the bars or large group conversations I just shut down and listen, if its like 6 people in a circle talking, it takes me a lot of mental energy to track when is the time to interject my thoughts, Id rather just sit back and listen to all of them. Especially with a large group even after giving your take or opinion, it will quickly move on to something else so not like you even get much of a response for all that energy spent vs with a one on one conversation.
Comedic timing is everything in that scenario. I would be blurting out fukked up chit if I thought it was funny because their opinions are largely irrelevant
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