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post 1620334361 10-24-2020, 03:53 PM
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Khabib and His Father's Relationshop - How is the relationship with yours? srs

Just finished watching UFC 254 and Khabib breaking down about his late father. It seems Khabib had a great relationship with his and was well raised.

Kinda made me reflect on the relationship with mines

My dad beat me when I was younger has said all sorts of **** from wishing I was never born to not caring if I committed suicide. Haven't spoken to mine in a while.


How is the relationship with yours? srs
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Sorry about your dad brah. No dad should treat a son like that.

Thankfully my dad and I have a great relationship. He taught me a lot, mainly by action, and never beat me or made me feel like a failure. There are very few men in our family and we have kind of the passing of the torch to me from him as the man. Funny thing is he's 6'7 and yet makes me seem like I am a monster to everyone he talks to lol. Talks me up a lot. He races motorcycles (on legit tracks) and I am his pit crew when I can go with him. We do a lot of things like that. We're different in a lot of ways, but also same in a lot. Especially as I get older.
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one of best people i know. truly a great person, incredibly hard worker. makes me feel bad im such a failure
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Originally Posted By GlassMoon
one of best people i know. truly a great person, incredibly hard worker. makes me feel bad im such a failure
same. fought a brutal war for my countries independence and took a grenade to the neck and managed to survive
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Originally Posted By FrankGrimes29
Sorry about your dad brah. No dad should treat a son like that.

Thankfully my dad and I have a great relationship. He taught me a lot, mainly by action, and never beat me or made me feel like a failure. There are very few men in our family and we have kind of the passing of the torch to me from him as the man. Funny thing is he's 6'7 and yet makes me seem like I am a monster to everyone he talks to lol. Talks me up a lot. He races motorcycles (on legit tracks) and I am his pit crew when I can go with him. We do a lot of things like that. We're different in a lot of ways, but also same in a lot. Especially as I get older.
merlin relationship and 6'7 viking genetics. Seems like you had a great dad. Also how tall are you?
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My dad mogs all ur dad's.. and he's only 5'5.
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Originally Posted By carcano69
merlin relationship and 6'7 viking genetics. Seems like you had a great dad. Also how tall are you?
I'm 6'1.5. So quite a difference. He married a 5'3 blonde Swedish woman. My sister is 5'1 so thank God I came out as the tall one lol.

I wish I could find the picture of him next to me at my senior day in college for soccer. When he walked out with me you can hear everyone saying "holy ****." Was pretty funny.
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Originally Posted By GlassMoon
one of best people i know. truly a great person, incredibly hard worker. makes me feel bad im such a failure
It's hard to live up to some dads reputations like if they were a self made millionaire or something. Dont feel bad brah. Let him know what you think of him it'll probably make his day
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same. fought a brutal war for my countries independence and took a grenade to the neck and managed to survive
srs? which one
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abusive control freak narcissist. always pointed out the smallest faults to make me feel like chit.

started changing in his 60's.
Originally Posted By MuslimBrahSwag
same. fought a brutal war for my countries independence and took a grenade to the neck and managed to survive
didn't Serbia win? brutal war tho.
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Originally Posted By FrankGrimes29
I'm 6'1.5. So quite a difference. He married a 5'3 blonde Swedish woman. My sister is 5'1 so thank God I came out as the tall one lol.

I wish I could find the picture of him next to me at my senior day in college for soccer. When he walked out with me you can hear everyone saying "holy ****." Was pretty funny.
lol @ the dudes who try to date your sis and come to meet a 6'7 giant
Originally Posted By tunafishha
My dad mogs all ur dad's.. and he's only 5'5.
doesn't matter about height brah. As long he raises you with love, provides food shelter, etc

But low key I am glad I got passed decent genetics
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Much better than it used to be. We just stay out of each otherโ€™s way lol
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post 1620336171 10-24-2020, 04:15 PM
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Originally Posted By 3basic5me
abusive control freak narcissist. always pointed out the smallest faults to make me feel like chit.

started changing in his 60's.
this is what I am starting to notice as well. He is realizing his own mortality and that he doesn't have anyone to take care of him when he gets older except his own children.

He's tried to make amends with me, I've tried to accept them but sometimes those scars still hurt
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Originally Posted By carcano69
lol @ the dudes who try to date your sis and come to meet a 6'7 giant
Yea no one fukked with my dad. At one point used to work in one of the worst gang ridden areas in Chicago as a manager of a grocery store. Drove a cadillac. Everyone was afraid of him lol. He was on the news a couple times for shootings/killings on his street and things.

Here is the pic I found. He is probably 260lbs here. He was shrugging 140lb dbs for like sets of 30-40 (you can tell by his neck). Doing chest flies with 80lb dbs. I was maybe 180lbs here lol.

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Originally Posted By 2am
He's dead
Sorry to hear brah. Was he a good father to you?
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amazing. we dont talk much but I love him deeply. everything ive accomplished in life, all my good habits/attributes, ambition, good looks etc is because of him srs.

I feel bad for men who grew up without a father figure srs.

especially in this soy world, if you had a strong father figure you were born on 2nd base basically
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better than its ever been so i'm thankful for that
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Itll destroy me when my father passes
Call them and let them know how much you appreciate/love them srs
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Originally Posted By carcano69
Sorry to hear brah. Was he a good father to you?


No
He did teach me how not to be a Father though
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Haven't talked to my father for 14 years. He never was there in my life thinking and quote ''raising a kid is a woman's job'' and then ended up being a pos so i said cya.
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Originally Posted By FrankGrimes29
Yea no one fukked with my dad. At one point used to work in one of the worst gang ridden areas in Chicago as a manager of a grocery store. Drove a cadillac. Everyone was afraid of him lol. He was on the news a couple times for shootings/killings on his street and things.

Here is the pic I found. He is probably 260lbs here. He was shrugging 140lb dbs for like sets of 30-40 (you can tell by his neck). Doing chest flies with 80lb dbs. I was maybe 180lbs here lol.

yeah he definitely looks like a beast and just towers over everyone lol
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No
He did teach me how not to be a Father though
same here if I ever have kids one day id definitely know what id not do
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Pretty good...
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a couple of years ago my dad and I visited Hungary and had sex with the most amazing Hungarian hookers

we used to fukkkk them all sorts of ways, theyd do anything for you (and to you) for a nice amoutn of cash

so ****ing amazing and beautiful

acquire some currency nad u can have tghe best sex over there

we used to **** them in different ways and had tons of blow jobs, , we even pissed in their mouths hahah

some great looking sluts!
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Originally Posted By backinthegymbro
Haven't talked to my father for 14 years. He never was there in my life thinking and quote ''raising a kid is a woman's job'' and then ended up being a pos so i said cya.
Sorry to hearHas he ever tried reaching out to you?
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Originally Posted By FrankGrimes29
Here is the pic I found. He is probably 260lbs here. He was shrugging 140lb dbs for like sets of 30-40 (you can tell by his neck). Doing chest flies with 80lb dbs. I was maybe 180lbs here lol.
will high volume shrugging help thicken the neck?
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How do people not understand family are the only ones who will actually help you, and antagonizing them for no reason does not help either side?

How disconnected from others are you to beat someone domestically when you intend to work with them going forward?

Mine decided to give my money to his wife's family for the millionth time and got physical when I tried to confront him about it. He's now making things up about me to save face instead of just paying what he owes.
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Originally Posted By Dorich
Pretty good...

a couple of years ago my dad and I visited Hungary and had sex with the most amazing Hungarian hookers

we used to fukkkk them all sorts of ways, theyd do anything for you (and to you) for a nice amoutn of cash

so ****ing amazing and beautiful

acquire some currency nad u can have tghe best sex over there

we used to **** them in different ways and had tons of blow jobs, , we even pissed in their mouths hahah

some great looking sluts!


ayyy lmao. I know a dude whos dad bought him a hooker for his 18th bday lol


edit: on recharge illget everyone back
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Originally Posted By 3basic5me
will high volume shrugging help thicken the neck?
It helped me a bit. But it made my dad's neck explode in size. Might be a genetic thing for him. Although that's pretty heavy weight plus high volume.

Worth a shot. He was doing it 3x a week too for months.
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My father was a drinker...and a fiend. And one night, he goes off crazier than usual. Mommy gets the kitchen knife to defend herself. He doesn't like that. Not...one...bit. So, me watching, he takes the knife to her, laughing while he does it. He turns to me, and he says, "Why so serious?" He comes at me with the knife - "Why so serious?" He sticks the blade in my mouth - "Let's put a smile on that face!" And... why so serious?
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Originally Posted By carcano69


ayyy lmao. I know a dude whos dad bought him a hooker for his 18th bday lol


edit: on recharge illget everyone back
lol cool

my dad and I pissed in their mouths together for just a couple more bucks
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Originally Posted By carcano69
Sorry to hearHas he ever tried reaching out to you?
Never. why should he? He doesn't want anything to do with raising a kid. And even though i'm an adult now, all he wants to do is live his own life.
Then again i have no desire to have him in my life either. But i do wish i was born in a normal family with parents actually caring and teaching me stuff.

I was an accident and my father wasn't present in my life, despite living in the same house. And my mother cared absolutely none and was a gambling addict.
I remember looking up old picture books and i only saw my siblings. I have zero pictures as a kid. That should say enough as to how much my folks cared.
Not to go all dear diary here, but you definitely don't get the teachings/raisings etc you'd get from a normal household. And it sets you back for sure.

Hence why so many kids being raised by single mothers and broken families etc end up unsuccessful.
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Originally Posted By backinthegymbro
Never. why should he? He doesn't want anything to do with raising a kid. And even though i'm an adult now, all he wants to do is live his own life.
Then again i have no desire to have him in my life either. But i do wish i was born in a normal family with parents actually caring and teaching me stuff.

I was an accident and my father wasn't present in my life, despite living in the same house. And my mother cared absolutely none and was a gambling addict.
I remember looking up old picture books and i only saw my siblings. I have zero pictures as a kid. That should say enough as to how much my folks cared.
Not to go all dear diary here, but you definitely don't get the teachings/raisings etc you'd get from a normal household. And it sets you back for sure.

Hence why so many kids being raised by single mothers and broken families etc end up unsuccessful.
Dang man sorry to hear. Must have been rough. Just keep crushing in life despite that. I don't get how people can be like that to their own family.
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