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post 1625143363 12-10-2020, 06:18 PM
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the unfortunate reality is that you prob did the biggest no no for sloots.

it literally can all change with words. you saying you "need a goth gf" is not necessarily wrong or bad you just worded it wrong.

you could have said "i've wanted a goth girl" or "i could use a little goth in my life" - something like that. this is just a frame of reference of you wanting something and not implying the fact that you are desperate and "need" something

you've come from a stance of weakness which isn't good

i would also not to talk about no matches. i would steer away from that but if you had to, "tinder sucks" - not "i hardly have any matches"

also "what happened" - once again kind of implying you've been clinging on and or don't have many matches.. not good

you MIGHT run across one every one and a million times that like this but you're severely hurting your chances, and disqualifying tons in the process

as other people have alluded to itt, it literally starts with one idea and that's you, yourself and your confidence

edit: it sucks bishes aren't more understanding, but they ARENT. especially initially. your game will improve a TON if you switch it up. i promise you your current stance will leave you very little success
post 1625145293 12-10-2020, 06:43 PM
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Originally Posted By propreffered7
the unfortunate reality is that you prob did the biggest no no for sloots.

it literally can all change with words. you saying you "need a goth gf" is not necessarily wrong or bad you just worded it wrong.

you could have said "i've wanted a goth girl" or "i could use a little goth in my life" - something like that. this is just a frame of reference of you wanting something and not implying the fact that you are desperate and "need" something

you've come from a stance of weakness which isn't good

i would also not to talk about no matches. i would steer away from that but if you had to, "tinder sucks" - not "i hardly have any matches"

also "what happened" - once again kind of implying you've been clinging on and or don't have many matches.. not good

you MIGHT run across one every one and a million times that like this but you're severely hurting your chances, and disqualifying tons in the process

as other people have alluded to itt, it literally starts with one idea and that's you, yourself and your confidence

edit: it sucks bishes aren't more understanding, but they ARENT. especially initially. your game will improve a TON if you switch it up. i promise you your current stance will leave you very little success
Their loss for missing out on dating a cool dude cause they’re too shallow perceiving how a person is based completely on some arbitrary “text game”

I respect your guys responses and everything since I’ve been here for years but I also know to take the misc with a grain of salt you guys have a tendency to blow a lot of things out of proportion.

But in this instance I can see how I might come off in a negative light with my current style of texting. I’ll work on being less open over text.
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post 1625159223 12-10-2020, 09:36 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
Their loss for missing out on dating a cool dude cause they’re too shallow perceiving how a person is based completely on some arbitrary “text game”

I respect your guys responses and everything since I’ve been here for years but I also know to take the misc with a grain of salt you guys have a tendency to blow a lot of things out of proportion.

But in this instance I can see how I might come off in a negative light with my current style of texting. I’ll work on being less open over text.
it's not about being closed off. i knew that would be your interpretation. i think your honesty was good; i thought about pointing that out because you'd take it that way

the problem is that your honesty came with a bag of chit. you don't have to be dishonest

just don't bring up the negative stuff. for instance, how i worded it in my previous post. instead of saying "i need a goth girl" - as though you have never had one or that you're desperate just say you "want a goth girl". it prob goes pretty deep for you; you might have a lot of memories, but just try to recognize it

for instance, there were studies that told people NOT to talk about any ailments or injuries or diseases on the first date. it's such a limited time-scope glimpse into someone that the only inference is negative. just better to avoid it

women get horny with guys full of life and vigor and strength and want men to toss them around and have their way with them. their poosy does not open up to sad sack chit. they may pity you or entertain you but it is not access to poosy and can be hard to transition back into that full of vigor, life, frame
post 1625272013 12-11-2020, 10:36 PM
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FINAL UPDATE: I tried some of your guy’s suggestions and texted her one more time. It’s been two days and she hasn’t responded.

I’m moving on, and so my jaded experiences with women continues

Fukk women and fukk trying to date srs

Why message me first and give me your number again after 2 years if you have no intention of it going anywhere fukkin sloots man srs
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post 1625272393 12-11-2020, 10:41 PM
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Hit the bars dude.
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post 1625272773 12-11-2020, 10:47 PM
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Originally Posted By Misc420Doctor
Hit the bars dude.
I don’t drink
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post 1625272873 12-11-2020, 10:48 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
I don’t drink
Play pool and drink a soda.

Bar chicks love cops.
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post 1625273463 12-11-2020, 10:56 PM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad
Why do you rip on yourself and show weakness in your messages?

“I don’t get a lot of matches”

Wtf is that chit ... even if you don’t I have no idea why you’d admit it
True.

OP acting all beta already from scratch.
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post 1625273523 12-11-2020, 10:57 PM
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Originally Posted By umadbroski
True.

OP acting all beta already from scratch.
If you had the experiences I’ve had when dating you wouldn’t be surprised by my outlook on the situation
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post 1625273583 12-11-2020, 10:58 PM
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OP, you have a decent physique judging by your avi.

Unless you have a verh phucked up face or you are a turbo manlet, there is no reason to act all cuck beta.

Remember, you are the prize.
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post 1625273803 12-11-2020, 10:59 PM
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post 1625273933 12-11-2020, 11:01 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
Honesty is the best policy, not gonna pretend to be someone I'm not.
This man knows.

As cliche as it may sound. Be yourself, a half smart chick will smell your cringy bullchit a mile away.

In a world full of posers just be yourself, it’s refreshing for the right people, the kind you wanna be around.
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post 1625274293 12-11-2020, 11:07 PM
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Originally Posted By umadbroski
OP, you have a decent physique judging by your avi.

Unless you have a verh phucked up face or you are a turbo manlet, there is no reason to act all cuck beta.

Remember, you are the prize.
My first girlfriend was wildly insecure and constantly talked down to me after our first major bump on our relationship. Hated my mother and kept me from doing things that made me happy in order to focus all the attention on her

My second girlfriend was a compulsive liar with drug problems and two kids. Claimed she was raped by her roommate and pregnant but wouldn’t go forward to the police. Ended up getting an abortion and to be honest there’s a chance it might have been my child. Dodged a bullet for sure but wanted to help her turn her life around. Made the decision to breakup but still tried to help her. Not even a week later she’s back on the carousel dating some new cuck posting pictures of him all over insta

Never been more disrespected in my entire life

Dated another girl who was great for like 2 weeks, after that she gave me the run around and only used me for attention. Eventually told me she doesn’t give a fukk about me. Went psycho on me and told she also got raped, probably more likely she regretted a ONS with some random. Was not in a committed relationship but was trying to get to know her better

All other women I’ve dated were lazy with no ambitions in life.

Online dating nets me next to zero results even paying for premium services. Despite my success and good looks no woman my age actually tries to get to know me on a deep level. No woman my age is interested in me.

I have a lot to offer the right person and all I want is a little companionship.

I’m at my wits end with dating and this recent experience almost got my hopes up that she was interested in me but I knew deep down this would be the outcome the day I made this thread I’m not surprised anymore
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post 1625274503 12-11-2020, 11:09 PM
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Not reading through 7 pages of garbage, but how hard is it to keep the text to a minimum, move to a phone call and then meet her out somewhere. bars and restaurants are closed in my state so I meet at a park and go hiking or something. Sometimes she brings her dog. It's really simple, you are all overthinking this trying to be "cool" or to not be "cringe."

You shouldn 't be texting endlessly anyway, it's a time waste and something is bound to be misinterpreted and since you have not met it is really easy for one of you to pull the plug.

You all have really no idea what you are doing, the mention of "having a nice physique" or "being a cop" really means nothing TBH.

The more you F around with the endless texting the higher probability you are going to fail it is really simple.
post 1625275533 12-11-2020, 11:25 PM
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Originally Posted By iabs
This man knows.

As cliche as it may sound. Be yourself, a half smart chick will smell your cringy bullchit a mile away.

In a world full of posers just be yourself, it’s refreshing for the right people, the kind you wanna be around.
Just be yourself, lmao.

Thats the biggest cope ever.

Phuck "being yourself" if you aint getting any punjaby.
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post 1625276443 12-11-2020, 11:38 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
Online dating nets me next to zero results even paying for premium services. Despite my success and good looks no woman my age actually tries to get to know me on a deep level. No woman my age is interested in me.
you shouldn't take too much of it to heart, as they don't know you. it just shows you how judgmental most women are. but you have to play within those confines if you want success

that means putting the best version of yourself on; and not "dishonest" btw. talk about some bad azz cop busts or people you've arrested or cool stories, and your guitar playing for instance. keep it within there without going into the sad stuff. you can get to the sad stuff later. you could also say you like exercising your authority over others and could put them in cuffs for some quick parlay into sexy time

i guess i should say be careful with that last line lol

online you gotta go ham on good photos and good profile; it's prob even more judgmental because of the number of dudes on there and you have only a quick shot to provide ANY impression
post 1625277223 12-11-2020, 11:57 PM
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“I tried to date you” cringe
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Op, she got pumped and dumped.

She contacted all dudes she knew and you were one of them.

She chose some other looser to get pumped by next. Your turn in 10 yrs. srs

And stop with this fuking overthinking. It’s not like you dated her for 10 yrs and broke up then she contacted you.
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