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post 1625228553 12-11-2020, 02:58 PM
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make the most of your loved ones while they’re still here

just got off the phone with my Dad after his father (my grandpa) passed away today. Feels weird to console my Dad, but also a reminder I’ll have to do the same thing one day


you will regret not spending time with them before they’re gone, not fixing relationships with them etc brahs



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post 1625228833 12-11-2020, 03:01 PM
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Fawk brah. RIP.

I think this is everyone's worst nightmare, especially about parents

It's horrible to think that one day they will just.. not be here
post 1625229013 12-11-2020, 03:03 PM
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This is some of the best advice possible srs. Sorry for your loss brah. I don't even want to think about that day I have to bury my parents.
post 1625229403 12-11-2020, 03:07 PM
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absolutely true. spend time with your dad if possible. last year i came to the realization I wasn't spending enough quality time with mine and made it my #1 priority in life of things to change. Can honestly say me and my father hang and shoot the **** now 5 of 7 evenings/nights a week. best recent decision I've made and I know decades down the road I will appreciate it even more

sorry bro. hope your pops and your family are staying strong
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post 1625229843 12-11-2020, 03:11 PM
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Sounds good, thanks!
post 1625230213 12-11-2020, 03:15 PM
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Originally Posted By Gainzzz⏩
Fawk brah. RIP.

I think this is everyone's worst nightmare, especially about parents

It's horrible to think that one day they will just.. not be here
Thx brah -- agreed; its tough to think about losing your parents. It's prob been one of my biggest fears since I was a little kid (ded fkn Srs)
Originally Posted By MetroBrah⏩
This is some of the best advice possible srs. Sorry for your loss brah. I don't even want to think about that day I have to bury my parents.
Thanks brother -- I agree, it's hard to think about.
Originally Posted By DrugsToGetBig⏩
absolutely true. spend time with your dad if possible. last year i came to the realization I wasn't spending enough quality time with mine and made it my #1 priority in life of things to change. Can honestly say me and my father hang and shoot the **** now 5 of 7 evenings/nights a week. best recent decision I've made and I know decades down the road I will appreciate it even more

sorry bro. hope your pops and your family are staying strong
thx a lot brah, much appreciated. i can relate; as my relationship with my Dad in particular has been very up and down since I was ~16. But we've turned a corner in the past 5 years or so, and I know how much it means to him.
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What if you don't like your mum and dad? serious
If your Mom and Dad did something unforgivable to you, abused you, treated you like chit, then honestly idk what to tell you man; that's for you to decide.

But if the divide is something superficial, something you can't quite put your finger on, then you owe it to yourself to work on it. You will feel better.
Originally Posted By moeenali⏩
Indoor dining is open?
fkn lmao, this made me lol.

yeah, in CT it is
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post 1625230273 12-11-2020, 03:15 PM
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Oof bro, revived my account to offer condolences and to be jealous that you, your mom and your dad talk.


Going through similar, my father has cancer but never wanted me in his life, nothing I can do about it now but wait for the death notice.


Cherish your parents if they're good to you.
post 1625230993 12-11-2020, 03:21 PM
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Originally Posted By neondevil⏩
Oof bro, revived my account to offer condolences and to be jealous that you, your mom and your dad talk.


Going through similar, my father has cancer but never wanted me in his life, nothing I can do about it now but wait for the death notice.


Cherish your parents if they're good to you.
I'm sorry to hear about your pops cancer, and even sorrier to hear about him not wanting a relationship with you; that must be difficult. Thanks for the condolences man, I am thankful to still have my parents for sure.
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post 1625232363 12-11-2020, 03:31 PM
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Was always close with my pops. The day I got the call that he was diagnosed with Pancreatic cancer was a day I will never forget. I was still working in corp america at that time. i called my employment and told them I was checking out for awhile. I slept in his hospital room until the end (2 months)

Nothing had to be said. No mends had to be made. I told him I was going to marry my (then girlfriend, now wife) and he just kept looking forward and said "thats a good idea"
Who I am as a man today has a lot to do with my dad.

Sorry for your loss OP. Make sure you are there for your family at this time. Burying your father is a tough one.
post 1625237133 12-11-2020, 04:22 PM
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Originally Posted By donblaximus⏩
Was always close with my pops. The day I got the call that he was diagnosed with Pancreatic cancer was a day I will never forget. I was still working in corp america at that time. i called my employment and told them I was checking out for awhile.I slept in his hospital room until the end (2 months)

Nothing had to be said. No mends had to be made. I told him I was going to marry my (then girlfriend, now wife) and he just kept looking forward and said "thats a good idea"
Who I am as a man today has a lot to do with my dad.

Sorry for your loss OP. Make sure you are there for your family at this time. Burying your father is a tough one.
Damn; that is some loyalty and dedication that I'm sure meant more to him than you know in his final days. Thank you bro.
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~Accused of incest by extended family crew~
~It's up to you to fix your life crew~
~deep, sustained sexual eye contact with your own nephew crew~
post 1625237643 12-11-2020, 04:27 PM
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100% agree, OP. My parents are getting older. I'm trying to spend as much time with them as I realistically can, particularly considering that I live far away and the pandemic and all that.

As you age, you also begin to see that your parents are not infallible and not indestructible as you perhaps once perceived them to be. There is also nothing so heartbreaking as seeing your parents break down in front of you, especially your father. My dad's been through a lot lately and it's taken its toll. The once strong, indestructible man I knew my entire life confided in me recently, in tears, telling me he can't take any more. It was truly one of the most heartbreaking experiences, having to console him and tell him it was going to be okay, but being on the phone hundreds of miles away and not being able to touch him.
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post 1625240603 12-11-2020, 05:00 PM
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RIP in peace
He’s in a better place boyo. Life is short but we’ve got to remember that fact as well as the good times. He doesn’t have to deal with the clown world bs anymore.
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Originally Posted By Howiester⏩
Ded. Fkn srs.
Originally Posted By moeenali⏩
Indoor dining is open?
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