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post 1625601113 12-15-2020, 09:20 AM
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Originally Posted By TBO1313
My best guess would be it's a type of impostor syndrome. Sometimes I doubt that the way I see myself is based in reality and its really all just a figment of my imagination that my brain has concocted so I won't have to face the truth and if I let people see weakness or ****** in the armor then the whole facade will come crumbling down and they'll see it too.
I suffer from this too; have been for years. Makes it worse with my current declining situation.
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post 1625854073 12-17-2020, 04:11 PM
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post 1625867643 12-17-2020, 06:48 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Yeah I guess I could see that. It does take both parents.

If kids could have saved my marriage or changed my ex then I do regret not having them. But if things had been the same then I’m glad I didn’t have them because it would have completely messed up the kids.
Kids would not have saved your marriage.
post 1625867683 12-17-2020, 06:49 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Op still MIA
Just in this thread, not his Van Halen one.
I'm back, bitches!
post 1625868113 12-17-2020, 06:55 PM
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post 1625869053 12-17-2020, 07:06 PM
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post 1625869103 12-17-2020, 07:07 PM
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post 1625914473 12-18-2020, 08:03 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Oh really

Did anyone call him out on this thread?
I did and a couple other people did too and he promptly ghosted that thread as well
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post 1625915753 12-18-2020, 08:18 AM
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So can we host our misc intervention thread here, or do we need a new one for that? Hate myself for spending more than 20 seconds considering whether this is a job for Candy Finnigan or Jeff VonVonderen.
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post 1625916313 12-18-2020, 08:23 AM
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Originally Posted By redraider86
So can we host our misc intervention thread here, or do we need a new one for that? Hate myself for spending more than 20 seconds considering whether this is a job for Candy Finnigan or Jeff VonVonderen.
Is Jeff the old bald guy on the TV show? If so, he's the one we need
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post 1625922683 12-18-2020, 09:40 AM
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post 1625947003 12-18-2020, 01:57 PM
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Originally Posted By TBO1313
Is Jeff the old bald guy on the TV show? If so, he's the one we need
Yes!

"I see a bunch of people that love you like crazy, and they feel like they are losing you."

To codependent self:

"You need to get well whether they get well or not."

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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Idk who they are but intervention sounds interesting.

Would actually be interested in any anecdotes about intervention. With my ex I never tried because once I figured out the extent of his addictions we were already breaking up and I was afraid of him and did not want to confront him.

I did ask his “friend” if we should stage an intervention but he said no because my ex had no interest in stopping. But that guy was one of his enablers making money off my ex so he was biased and acting in his own interest.

Idk if interventions work. Also irl I would not really care to try unless it’s immediate family. Anyone else with addictions I’d honestly rather just drop from my life because I don’t want to deal with it.
I don't really think they work either. They might force someone temporarily into treatment, but that's about it (makes for great TV, though!)
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post 1625953523 12-18-2020, 03:08 PM
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Originally Posted By redraider86
Yes!

"I see a bunch of people that love you like crazy, and they feel like they are losing you."

To codependent self:

"You need to get well whether they get well or not."

Okay.jpg
Intervention is one of the few reality shows that I enjoy so me and my wife watch it together sometimes. I like the bald guy the best. He is compassionate but has a slightly tougher approach
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post 1626203343 12-21-2020, 12:10 PM
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Originally Posted By redraider86
Yes!

"I see a bunch of people that love you like crazy, and they feel like they are losing you."

To codependent self:

"You need to get well whether they get well or not."

Okay.jpg
Merry Christmas, Ms. raider. Tried to PM, but fail

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post 1626204043 12-21-2020, 12:17 PM
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Originally Posted By Mark1T
Merry Christmas, Ms. raider. Tried to PM, but fail

Hehe, Merry Christmas! Yes, sorry about that - I got some crazytown inappropriate messages in a 24 hour time period that made me question even being here. Miscers are losing their minds, figured it was safer to just turn them off for a bit.
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post 1626205343 12-21-2020, 12:30 PM
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Originally Posted By redraider86
Hehe, Merry Christmas! Yes, sorry about that - I got some crazytown inappropriate messages in a 24 hour time period that made me question even being here. Miscers are losing their minds, figured it was safer to just turn them off for a bit.
I understandi got two unwelcome PMs from a misc troll last night and this morning. Agreed minds are lost<3
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post 1626206263 12-21-2020, 12:41 PM
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post 1626206343 12-21-2020, 12:42 PM
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Yes, I did this like 3 times. tbh, the second time I did it where I left everyone behind even my friends I made from my first move was probably the best. I was literally all alone and all I did was surf and hit the gym. Maybe because I was single.
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Originally Posted By redraider86
Hehe, Merry Christmas! Yes, sorry about that - I got some crazytown inappropriate messages in a 24 hour time period that made me question even being here. Miscers are losing their minds, figured it was safer to just turn them off for a bit.
A couple weeks ago I posted a physique pic on reddit which was a terrible fukn idea. It was a smaller, seemingly normal subreddit where most threads get like 5 to 10 comments and it's always just basic lifting stuff. Within a day I had like 6 DMs from dudes complimenting me and didn't think much about it just replied "thanks bro" to all of them. Another guy wrote me back something like "I was very serious..." seemed weird so I clicked on history and the things that were seen. Every single one of the dudes wrote me all post in these weird gay, literally gay, subreddits. I feel like the world's biggest jackass lol
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Sometimes I'm happy with how my life turned out and all is well. But sometimes I just want to like drop everything, start over in some city across the country, and try again. Most of the time it's a mix of being bored with family and friends all of the time, and also for a new challenge for myself.

I had a job offer to move to a different country, but I was simping with my girlfriend at the time so I declined it. Then when we broke up I was kicking myself for not taking it.
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Originally Posted By TBO1313
A couple weeks ago I posted a physique pic on reddit which was a terrible fukn idea. It was a smaller, seemingly normal subreddit where most threads get like 5 to 10 comments and it's always just basic lifting stuff. Within a day I had like 6 DMs from dudes complimenting me and didn't think much about it just replied "thanks bro" to all of them. Another guy wrote me back something like "I was very serious..." seemed weird so I clicked on history and the things that were seen. Every single one of the dudes wrote me all post in these weird gay, literally gay, subreddits. I feel like the world's biggest jackass lol
lmfao. This is why your nudies should just stay on the misc. I haven't created an account on there. I was tempted to a couple times since there is so much content but decided I just absolutely hate the lay out and reading their format.
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Originally Posted By latverian41
Anyone here ever reached a point in their life where they just said phuck all. Took off and started a new life some where?


I am 46 i just had a son who i love more than anything and i want to see him raised right.with principles and ethics. As fathers we never want our son to repeat our mistakes but the mother and i seem to be on diffeent wave lengths.maybe thata my fault.cUse im 46 amd she is 26.i dont kniw.


All i do know is i dont agree with all that goes arlund this place . i am not perfect. But i was raised to love and treat others based on how they acted. To believe in the word of jesus.

I have a home here but i reallt dont have a home cause nothing i believe in or was taught is in thia dwelling.

No im not drunk. Just. A father trying to figure out what ia best to do for my son.cause if i left. She has blue hair flies rainbows, a liberal. I dont hate those people i just dont want tjat for my son.

I named him micah from the rifleman. Micah torrence.thats his middle name..

This is hard guys and i brougbt it on my self being 46 dating at the time a 25 yr old


At thia point i have to ask id there is a jesus where is he at?
You have to stick around and be there for your son. Divorce will mess him up big time. That plus being raised alone by her, he won't have a chance. Wait till he's 18. Stay, influence him. Take him to church, and along for all the other things you like to do. He'll turn out just like you despite her. It would wreck his life if you left, but you can turn out a great man if you stay. Just do your own thing and have your own hobbies. You'll get through it. Time goes by fast.
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Originally Posted By littlemissy
lmfao. This is why your nudies should just stay on the misc. I haven't created an account on there. I was tempted to a couple times since there is so much content but decided I just absolutely hate the lay out and reading their format.
I tend to use reddit on the weekends since they have a mobile app and miscing from my phone is a nightmare. It's extremely anonymous which is both good and bad. The only things I ever go to on there are college football, nba, college basketball, guns and guitar subs and I'm sure I've had the same conversation with the same people more than once but I never look at their username so I don't know. It was honestly fine until I branched out into the fitness subs. I'm sure some red troll has beat it to my bodyspace before but at least they didn't PM me about it
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