She always had a negative side but over time, especially last year, became way more negative about everything. Constantly complaining about everything in life, almost never anything positive to say. And not even necessarily complaining about me or our relationship, but just everything. It was obvious she preferred and wanted me to "emphasize" with her by wallowing with her and her pitiful outlook, but I didn't wanna let her bring me down and it pissed her off. This may sound like a stupid reason to break up with someone, but it was constant and ongoing for a long time. I tried everything I could. Pretty sure she has depression or some sh*t, but she had no interest in getting better or changing her outlook. She called my optimistic and high energy outlook on life childish, which is ridiculous. At the end of the day it was just too much of a drain to be around someone who was constantly negative

You made the right decision. Most relationships don’t last anyway just be glad you got out with minimal damage and no real loss. And never contact her again once it’s done it’s done

Smart to bail, good on you. That negative mindset will eat your soul and drain your energy, no way I could stick with a girl like that.

Positive af all the time crew, chit changed my life in soo many ways

Been with the same girl for 9 years and feel the same way as OP.

I thought thee same thing at first, but then I realised quickly that that dude's name is like Ragnarlothbrock or some crap - me and you are totally alike brah.



Dude, you might have out grown her?

Or something else - you might have just been going through a 'growth phase' in life, and she wasn't, so you think she's negative...

Either way, you might find that you're simply a reflection of her.. maybe not when you're feeling positive, but when you're down in the dumps, sure, you think thee same sh*t that she does.

I've hung around people I considered toxic, etc, and cut them off, only to realise that I was the problem 5 years later, when I had actually healed from my childhood traumas, etc, and realised what true positivity was.

BRB hating my friend for being better than me and making fun of me due to PED induced MPB - it's hard to say who is worse... get me?

Also, in my experience people who are spiritually developed and high vibration will bring you up by simply talking to you... it's literally impossible to be negative around somebody like that..

So yeeh, I think you're problem is your own self, and hence why your GF is in your life.

When it will be mine turn to get over ex.

And congrats op you made the right decision. Five years is too long anyway if you weren’t going to marry her.

you didnt really want to be with her you just wanted to spread your seed otherwise you would have fixed the relo

there is nothing wrong with that but lets not beat around the bush brah

We would get over it just as quick as women if we had constant validation and offers of sex from hundreds of beta orbitors

lol who would want to be around that 24 7, a woman is supposed to be girly and cute not giga hiroshima nagasaki vantablackpilled like better unborn

I thought you were the dude who always posts selfies for validation and not being able to get girls

The bald, pretty jacked guy, relatively handsome with tats? Maybe I’m mistaken

Didn’t think you had a gf

This week I've ****ed a new girl or two every day,

Hm.

I bet she was very intelligent (srs).

Am I correct?

She always had a negative side but over time, especially last year, became way more negative about everything. Constantly complaining about everything in life, almost never anything positive to say. And not even necessarily complaining about me or our relationship, but just everything. It was obvious she preferred and wanted me to "emphasize" with her by wallowing with her and her pitiful outlook, but I didn't wanna let her bring me down and it pissed her off. This may sound like a stupid reason to break up with someone, but it was constant and ongoing for a long time. I tried everything I could. Pretty sure she has depression or some sh*t, but she had no interest in getting better or changing her outlook. She called my optimistic and high energy outlook on life childish, which is ridiculous. At the end of the day it was just too much of a drain to be around someone who was constantly negative