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post 1632179643 02-23-2021, 05:34 PM
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22⏩
I don´t hate people that helped me develop in life and I am also a friendly person. I don´t date if I don´t want to dae.

you are the reason why 50% of marriages end up in divorce. that is not a goal

you don´t know how to read my post so i will not bother answering you, where have i stated that i told him to date other women ?

I am only unhappy because I actually wasted my time and I can do and will do much much better.

Flowers are not a problem, I believe that I can move to getting cars.
Oh dear.

Time in a relationship is only wasted if you learnt nothing and derived no happiness while you were together. Very sad if that was the case.
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The solution is simple OP you date me instead
No man has the right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training. It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable.

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Also ain't nobody gonna buy u a car sloot lmfao
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22⏩
you probably are an insecure loser who needs to control his relationship and make it work. I don´t want to make it work loser, I want someone who is compatible with me and we improve ourselves together or I´ll stay in my lane. Stop talking about how I am so naive when you are a divorced loser with some sour baby momma
Sadly for you, I am in a happy, successful LTR and my girl has some cool male friends who I like, and she likes most of my female friends and gets along with all of them. Because we made sure we had a mutual affection and respect for one another and similar goals and ideas of what our long-term relationship would look like, it's been easy. Relationships are supposed to be easy - if it isn't, you're doing it wrong. We've broken up zero times in the seven years we've been together, cheated zero times, and argue rarely despite being quarantined together in Commiefornia. You'd do well to listen but your pride is too strong. Your delusional thinking will keep you from achieving what you seek. God forbid you find love and happiness with a man who desires and respects you and turns you on.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah I get it. As to the surgeon I would like to say that this is unacceptable and that women should never accept it. In my old bluepill life I would have said that 100% certainty.

However in my new redpill life I worry that maybe that is just how life is for women. Maybe we all have to choose between marrying a rich alpha good provider who cheats on the side OR just an average beta middle class guy who is loyal (because no better options). Sounds awful I know but I wonder if this is the ultimate reality pill for women.
Female Hypergamy 101

You will see men as a resource and not a companion.
You will constantly be seeking the next best thing.
You will cheat on your SO and continue the charade until the truth comes out.
You will assume the victim status through enabling sloot friends.
You will assume cat lady status by age 40 when you are alone through your own actions and slooting.


Being an Alpha 101

You will treat these whores with the respect they deserve and no more.
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post 1632180243 02-23-2021, 05:42 PM
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Originally Posted By legbroke⏩
Rationalizing of peace from OP. "Why did he think I would look for someone better? I love him, I just want him to become a completely different person. "
losing 20 lbs does not equal you are another person. are you dense ? wanting more for your career does not mean you are another man.
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Life is too short, a wise man once said only a fool looks back. So focus on moving forward. Good luck.
<3 thank you
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Congrats...its on the way in the mail. Good luck on slooting in 2021.
stick it into your azz
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Well. Don't be too hard on yourself.
I'm sure you deserved it.

You live and learn.
Next time don't be a batchit crazy stank ho.
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
No my dear, people do not generally improve in life. Maybe that's true for the first 30 years or so. It's all downhill from there. Your life is not a process of continual improvement. There will come a time when you will genuinely feel proud of not pissing yourself and remembering the street you live on.

It's a cold, rough world. You do what you can to survive. You try to make life better for yourself and your loved ones. If you're doing that, that is good enough. That should be good enough. That goes for both you and him. Your dreams of continual improvement fail in reality. Nature imposes hard limits on people. You must love a man for who he is. You can push him to improve within his limits, but he will resent you for it. And ultimately, he will only budge so far.
this is a mindset that makes me sad in general. people who are happy learn continuously and keep themselves occupied. there is always something to discover, this life offers you a lot of possibilities to be happy. if you do not take any opportunity, you will end up with a similar mindset as yours. i´ll improve even when i will be in my 90s. probably i will improve my sewing skills, but still, i will improve. going forward is a purpose itself in life
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah I get it. As to the surgeon I would like to say that this is unacceptable and that women should never accept it. In my old bluepill life I would have said that 100% certainty.

However in my new redpill life I worry that maybe that is just how life is for women. Maybe we all have to choose between marrying a rich alpha good provider who cheats on the side OR just an average beta middle class guy who is loyal (because no better options). Sounds awful I know but I wonder if this is the ultimate reality pill for women.
there are a lot of men who i can marry, i just need to make up my mind. also i don´t think i´ll be wanting kids before my 30s, i still want to enjoy life. also i am not an obedient person oof
Originally Posted By wincel⏩
That is not how life is for women. There are plenty of high quality men who don't cheat. But most of them will be snatched up asap. No guy wants to be evaluated as beta by women. If you think a dude is a beta, don't waste his time.
why aren´t you married if you are sssssooooo good at dating ?
Originally Posted By Caldef⏩
Oh dear.

Time in a relationship is only wasted if you learnt nothing and derived no happiness while you were together. Very sad if that was the case.
we were happy and we actually changed for the better. for a reason or another he gave me massive confidence like no other man, made me a lot more mature and less trusting/ overly polite in general. he has a lot of qualities, ngl
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post 1632180813 02-23-2021, 05:48 PM
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Originally Posted By PassiveLearner⏩
Sadly for you, I am in a happy, successful LTR and my girl has some cool male friends who I like, and she likes most of my female friends and gets along with all of them. Because we made sure we had a mutual affection and respect for one another and similar goals and ideas of what our long-term relationship would look like, it's been easy. Relationships are supposed to be easy - if it isn't, you're doing it wrong. We've broken up zero times in the seven years we've been together, cheated zero times, and argue rarely despite being quarantined together in Commiefornia. You'd do well to listen but your pride is too strong. Your delusional thinking will keep you from achieving what you seek. God forbid you find love and happiness with a man who desires and respects you and turns you on.
statistically, if you do not feel the need to marry her within the first 3 years, she prolly isn´t the right 1. you might be an outlier, but you also may be lieing. math for sure isn´t lieing. also, as much as you believe that you have an amazing relationship and you are a great deal in general, there are higher chances of me never looking in your direction twice.

also, people who tell others about how amazing their relationship is are a massive red flag
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The solution is simple OP you date me instead
you can be my gay friend <3 i love gay guys
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post 1632180893 02-23-2021, 05:50 PM
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post 1632181133 02-23-2021, 05:53 PM
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22⏩
losing 20 lbs does not equal you are another person. are you dense ? wanting more for your career does not mean you are another man.
I think this is where you struggle to grasp the truth a bit. People who get fit and stay fit, it definitely is a lifestyle change and those people are honestly different people than those that won't. Same with the career. There are people who are just more driven and more hungry. Others are happy living on cruise control.

I know couples that are 100% happy living life in the country side, doing nothing but watching TV, putting puzzles together, and raising a family. While others want to travel and explore the world.

You say you always want to learn more, there are people that are content knowing what they know and are happy. You in fact did want to change him and you two weren't compatible because of that fact. You have drive and passion to learn and that makes you happy but that is not true for everyone. So you just need to find someone you're more compatible with. Simple as that. But just to drive the point home....you asking someone to improve themselves always instead of them not making the change on their own because its within their own nature, is trying to change a person.
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22⏩
blah
Roxy, I always try to learn more and certainly have learned far more than you ever will in your lifetime. No offense. But, there is a limit. One day, I will grow old and start to forget. The point is that life is fleeting. Nothing is permanent. It is senseless to define your identity by some sort of ranked abilities. We all wither and die. The goal is to find someone you feel comfortable withering and dying with and to hopefully chit out a kid before ur gone. Your mindset about life is that of a child. Have you ever met any successful older people? I suggest you learn from them. They will tell you the truth about life, but you may not want to hear it.

I'm not married because I have not met the right person. I am not attractive, and I also can't take most people seriously. Couple that with being a "loser", and that is why I am where I am. But that is irrelevant. It doesn't change the truth of anything I have said, and you know it.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Are there really plenty of high quality men who don't cheat though?? Idk

Again in my old bluepill life I would have agreed with you 100%. But now I’m not so sure. Maybe that is just reality.
this is why women should have sky high standards

the best marketing strategy for ´nice guys´ and poorcells, that they will not cheat and they will act nice. completely wrong. date handsome, rich and well put together, if he cheats at least you still own a house, a car, you can still masturbate with his nudes and in general, you don´t get annoyed at wtf was in your head

my plan for now, will see how it goes
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Are there really plenty of high quality men who don't cheat though?? Idk

Again in my old bluepill life I would have agreed with you 100%. But now I’m not so sure. Maybe that is just reality.
The majority of people do not cheat.
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Originally Posted By Contribution05⏩
I think this is where you struggle to grasp the truth a bit. People who get fit and stay fit, it definitely is a lifestyle change and those people are honestly different people than those that won't. Same with the career. There are people who are just more driven and more hungry. Others are happy living on cruise control.

I know couples that are 100% happy living life in the country side, doing nothing but watching TV, putting puzzles together, and raising a family. While others want to travel and explore the world.

You say you always want to learn more, there are people that are content knowing what they know and are happy. You in fact did want to change him and you two weren't compatible because of that fact. You have drive and passion to learn and that makes you happy but that is not true for everyone. So you just need to find someone you're more compatible with. Simple as that. But just to drive the point home....you asking someone to improve themselves always instead of them not making the change on their own because its within their own nature, is trying to change a person.
Correct. I believe I have to find someone who wants to retire asap and live on an island, just like I do. :-)
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22⏩
Correct. I believe I have to find someone who wants to retire asap and live on an island, just like I do. :-)
lmfao

why don't you just go become one of dan bilzerian's whores then
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
The majority of people do not cheat.
women who listen to what you say and take you seriously are the proof that you can still be a failure even with a vagina

you should not be trusted in anything, literally a guy with a stem degree born in a 1st world country who is an incel and a loser without reason

you make me vomit with your beta level

srs
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22⏩
women who listen to what you say and take you seriously are the proof that you can still be a failure even with a vagina

you should not be trusted in anything, literally a guy with a stem degree born in a 1st world country who is an incel and a loser without reason

you make me vomit with your beta level

srs
You aren't "getting" to me, sloot lol. I don't care what your opinion is of my advice. Take it or leave it. You've been told the truth. It is up to you to see it.
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
You aren't "getting" to me, sloot lol. I don't care what your opinion is of my advice. Take it or leave it. You've been told the truth. It is up to you to see it.
what I told you is the truth, also, 20 years from now on you will still not find someone to look in your direction because you are a loser

you should have been attractive by now. go and make money with your degree *******, invest in plastic surgery. idc, do something

you just sit all day like a lame azz ****g and give dating advice when you are 50 and a virgin

fuk off smelly hobbit
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I see Tikka Masala was posted. I can say with certainty someone made the thread about themselves and an ex.

Thanks Based Tikka

As for OP, yeah things suck right now. Fix whatever this is that had you attracted to a person you shouldn't have been with in the first place.

Next, you have a vagina. You'll be fine.
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22⏩
this is why women should have sky high standards

the best marketing strategy for ´nice guys´ and poorcells, that they will not cheat and they will act nice. completely wrong. date handsome, rich and well put together, if he cheats at least you still own a house, a car, you can still masturbate with his nudes and in general, you don´t get annoyed at wtf was in your head

my plan for now, will see how it goes
Your plan is to get pumped and dumped by a string of chads. This is the natural way for slutty women after they exit a relationship. Just be careful you don't get pregnant or catch any venereal diseases.
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He was the best man

Ded fukin serious
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Right that’s why I was saying maybe it’s not such a bad idea to marry a rich guy who cheats like the surgeon. At least you’ll have money and a family and be provided for. Maybe that’s all women can really hope for. Idk
tour´s over soon if I don´t start looking for someone that has a similar life with mine and someone who would actually be interested in the same things, without fights and breaks.

5 more years and tour´s over or at least, my chances will decrease
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Originally Posted By poolshark472⏩
Your plan is to get pumped and dumped by a string of chads. This is the natural way for slutty women after they exit a relationship. Just be careful you don't get pregnant or catch any venereal diseases.
if I was able to sleep with losers without caring or any kind of commitment, I would have done it for very large amounts of money crew

but because I still am disgusted with 90% of men, Never having ons crew and no tinder crew

also, chances are you are already having hpv like most hoes which by the way, are males
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Damn, I love Tikka Masala, but that recipe looks like a real pain in the ass.
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22⏩
what I told you is the truth, also, 20 years from now on you will still not find someone to look in your direction because you are a loser

you should have been attractive by now. go and make money with your degree *******, invest in plastic surgery. idc, do something

you just sit all day like a lame azz ****g and give dating advice when you are 50 and a virgin

fuk off smelly hobbit
Business major lmfao.
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
Business major lmfao.
try something that starts with the second letter of STEM, not engineering tho
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